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i've gotten interested in fashion somewhat recently and even tho it's normally such a fun hobby to have it also makes me rly self conscious …
i’ve gotten interested in fashion somewhat recently and even tho it’s normally such a fun hobby to have it also makes me rly self conscious at times because my body is far from perfect. can you tell me what is your thought proccess when you see an ugly person in nice clothes? is it more along the lines of, "oh wow this person might look average but they have a sick style" or more like "lmfao who do they think they are dressing like this"?"
might as well be ugly and dripped out rather than ugly and dressed like ahecking stupid
im genetically blessed so i can’t really relate but here’s my thoughts from that perspective:
>"oh wow this person might look average but they have a sick style"
yes, if your fit actually suits you as a person without being performative/larpy, and also suits your build physique and appearance.
>"lmfao who do they think they are dressing like this"?"
yes if you look out of place in your own clothes.
this.
Unless your mother drank whilst you were in the womb, or you have some genetic defect like a weak jaw, it would be very difficult to be ugly if you were thin, in shape and groom regularly
my face is ugly, my body short and stocky and i have a skin tag on my side. it is over.
anon go see a doctor they’ll get rid of your skin tag in 5mins
you haven’t seen much of the world, my friend
most people in the world are not thin, in shape and dont groom regularly
Has nothing to do with bone structure or genetics. There’s a reason attractive people stand out and movies and television are considered unrealistic when everyone’s portrayed as looking great.
>or you have some genetic defect like a weak jaw
its already over
it cant be that bad
it can be
it’s really not something worth being insecure about, you look fine. Get your confidence up and remember you must be 18 or older to post on this board lil nigga
i’m nearly 21
and im already stuck with a norwood 2 if not 3
looks fine from the side, even if you have some features that you think are unattractive, you have to own them because they are yours. You won’t do yourself any favors by telling yourself you’re a gay alien when you look normal. You can be average with no confidence (unattractive) or average with confidence (attractive to some). Get over this shit now because you’re going to feel like a stupid when you’re older.
t. knower
>looks fine from the side
no i hecking don’t are you blind
>you have to own them because they are yours.
i don’t hecking want them and i will never accept them
oh yeah i’m sure everyone will see it and understand I’m "owning" the fact that i look like i’m on the shallow end of the gene pool like an epic chad so hecking cool
jk nobody will hecking think that, everybody will just look at me and think i’m an ugly weirdo and will be able to tell that i’m just wearing whatever i’m wearing to cope with that fact
i’m tired of coping
i’m tired of trying to "accept" the way things are as if it makes it anything better
and i’m even tired of hoping things will ever change
lol ur literally in a prison of ur own making
>wahhh nooo i dont wanna feel better about myself!!! i wanna sit here and feel horrible forever wahhh please feel bad for me!!!
If that’s the way you wanna treat me then hecking fine. Sometimes you’re just a hecking loser and there’s nothing you can do to change it, you can either be a whiny loser (contemptible) or a delusional loser (pitiable). I choose the former. I’d rather be hated at this point than pitied, like some autistic stupid who will break down crying if he’s not constantly treated with kid gloves. At least there’s some dignity in being hated.
i want to feel better about myself. I just know that i can’t. I can’t just "feel better" about something that is objectively bad. Sometimes people will go to therapy to try and figure out why they feel so shit, and the truth is really just that their life is dogshit for reasons totally out of their control and if its a good therapist they’ll be honest with them and tell them this is the case.
Sure, maybe I can try and feel better, and live with it, and maybe I’ll even for a moment be happy with how i look, but it won’t last, i know it never does, eventually I’ll be right back here falling apart completely. It doesn’t feel worth it. I don’t want to push this rock up the hill.
I thought I could at least feel some vindication by posting it in the one place i thought wouldn’t flinch at making fun of my appearance and let me at least be right about it, but apparently I don’t even get that. I’m actually pissed you aren’t making fun of me.
maybe, but there’s nothing outside the bars.
I had a vision of who I wanted to be and now I realize I’m never going to be that, and that was really all I wanted to be, all i cared to work towards, and when that falls apart i’m left wondering why i do anything. Theres nobody I do it for, not even me. What do you do when you’ve already categorically failed at the only thing you’ve ever wanted to do?
Ignore that troll, that’s not how the Devious man posts.
It’s just some weirdo who gets off on making people talk shit about him.
yeah it’s not optimal but i have seen far worse cases of chins. you’ll be alright, and in the worst case if you decide so you can get a surgery.
We’re all far from perfect, but times are geim so the least you can do is look sharp.
I think it’s often not really a case of "ugly guy in hot clothing" but more like the guy is wearing something that does not match his natural appearance. If you have a genuinely ugly face you shouldn’t be dressing like the hot chad from Instagram, but this doesn’t mean you should be careless either.
At the end of the day it just has to match your natural appearance (face, hair and body) as well as your character. If you’re ugly but know how to dress you’re infinitely more attractive than the ugly lazy bum. Sure you won’t be a model but just the effort, the smell and the general know-how coupled with a charismatic personality can leave a huge impression on women.
most designers use runway models with ugly/weird faces and the trend’s been ubiquitous over 20yrs now. in certain cases it can be even more of a flex to be kind of ugly but have your fit go super hard than to be conventionally attractive where everything looks good on you. mediocrity is what you want to avoid. and inauthenticity.
I got interested in fashion recently because women are why patrick bateman was the way he was.
power/status/respect, grooming/hygiene/clothes IN GOOD REPAIR, money
Clearly, something is lacking and I’m pretty sure hygiene and appearance it is.