I just realized all the older adults I've met in my life are perfectly normal, socially competent and fearless. That's when I realized that people like me, socially incompetent, riddled with anxiety, afraid of the world, will meet an early death. I don't see myself making it past 30. Even if I held a job for the next 9 years (I'm 21), there will come a point where low skill manual labour will no longer be able to sustain me. You need connections in this world. You need luck. You need friends. Popularity in school mattered. How people view you matter. You can't make it in this world alone. I can self-improve all I want but.. I just don't see a way out. Suicide is justified.
Same, i've never met a 30yo socially inept in my entire life. I'm just guessing they all die early. Guess it's going to be my fate, not that i'm planning on living a long life anyway.
I'm here. You don't meet them because they don't go outside
Bro im 32 and i have never seen a vagina in real life. I started my first job ever at 27 and I just made enough social intelligence to not get fired and im almost acceptable now.
> i've never met a 30yo socially inept in my entire life. I'm just guessing they all die early.
They're all shut-ins, of course you wouldn't meet them.
This isn't necessarily the case. You just get better at hiding it as you grow older. The facade of normality requires a bit of practice. At a glance, I imagine I look like some normal dude, but if you really got to know me, you'd realize just how autistic I am.
yeah, it is depressing to know that you are so far behind everyone in almost every aspect.
It's called giving up and accepting your lot. All old people have done this regardless of how depressed they were in youth.
If thats all people like me have to look forward too then fuck it we ball
Ya nah you have bias perspective a shit ton of people 30-60 are all kinds of fucked up. As you get older you go numb and survive how you can. The only way you're going to die is suicide or an accident.
God how do you not get by now that its mostly a difference in effort. Things get substantially easier when you practice them. Of course luck plays a big part in life, but most people look their anxiety in the eye and tell themselves they WILL beat it by means of willpower. People who dont have friends look at strangers they see frequently and force their legs to walk up to them and make the words come out of their mouths, knowing that the worst case scenario is not that bad.
The mark of a true man or woman is willpower. It is the opposite of sitting around wondering why things never go your way. Self improvement is looking at it the wrong way. Do not look at yourself and spend your time THINKING about what to be better about. Just go start DOING things outside your comfort zone. Just go buy something at the store and talk to the cashier for thirty seconds. Doesnt matter if they are young, old, male, female, ugly, beautiful, just make words come out of your mouth. Then go do it again in the evening or the next day.
If youre not getting busy living, then youre getting busy dying. We all know it sucks to have a miserable life and die alone. Take it one step at a time and always look at the long term goal on the horizon while CONTINUOUSLY doing little things everyday to help you get there.
My absolute best recommendation to meet people is to become a regular at a climbing gym. The biggest downside is that they are expensive, but the people are amazing, so helpful, funny, and chatty.
Remember, a courageous man and a coward are both equally as afraid. What sets them apart is their will, aka their ability to make their legs walk forward into danger against every instinct in their body. Wagmi. I swear to god I believe in you anon
Nice wall of blather. Once you fall back in the race it's hard to get back up again, especially if it's like 10 years of experience you missed out on
Ah ok keep making excuses for your failures retard
I get it. You won so you feel entitled to rub shit in our faces since you got lucky. There's nothing we can do anyways. Good for you, coming onto a place like this to fuck with people. Good for you.
Fucktard I crawled outta the gutters to get to bring normal, I havent won much, I battle with anxiety daily, I just dont spend my time whining all day long anymore. I did the advice that I gave you utter fucking moron. I was a sad piece of shit and then I started trying and actually fucking suffering through the awfulness of stepping outside of my comfort zone and it works. Its a daily battle, not a daily pity party. Grow the fuck up you pathetic sack of puke
idk how its so hard for people to realize that complaining on LULZ does not lead to positive change in their life
I made an effort to crawl out of the dungeon and talk to people, get a decent haircut, dress like a human, find hobbies (consuming media all day long does not count) and now I am a normie. You are projecting that I do not have perspective because it makes it easier for you to remain in your comfort zone. You all know what to do but lack the balls to make it happen. Keep telling me how good I have it and how I am lucky all you want so that you can continue to change nothing and die alone. You are so wrong its beyond comedic, just sad really, and its hard to conceptualize that a robot could find success because you cannot, but its possible. You are just a loser like I was, only you havent found the will to make something of your lives. I hope you will get there because I have been where you are
lol wait until you give advice on the finer points of normal social interaction, like controlling yourself. Absolute chernobyl tier meltdowns from /LULZ/ spergs.
I'm sure you're just a normalfag who has no perspective and had some problems with talking to people.
Its funny how normies always make it sound like they did a huge effort lmao. You just good lucky bud.
Want a challenge? Try not having physical touch for 15 years without kysing.
oh wait normies literally have a mental breakdown and cry about muh depression after their roastie hole didnt get filled for 1 week.
So far off the mark its comedic. You are letting social media and popular shitbags tell you the way the world works. People who were born attractive and wealthy. That is no where near the normal person experience. You are just a sad slug who made no effort in the past and are coming up with reasons that fuel your anger and spite about why you are never gonna make it
this. just think of how many people will lose their shit once the world actually bonkers
you have no reason to talk to socially inept older people
ITT: robots find out that bee urself only works when urself isn't a massive homosexual
people always call me and others who are SLIGHTLY afraid to face the entire world and throw ourselves into 1000 social situations a day a "homosexual" here and i don't know why
>he can't take being called a homosexual
Fucking pussy homosexual
what does it mean retard? homosexual is a slur against gay people
Retard is a slur against homosexual naggers like (You). You #cancelled yourself gg no re
nagger homosexual retard
what you are not accounting for is that you will gain confidence throughout your working life. once you have talked to 100 strangers it's not scary any more. once you have dated 50 girls then a first date will make you excited not nervous.
>You can't make it in this world alone.
Why don't you think so?