Ghosted a guy I was with for five years

I am such a coward. I cheated on my ex and then rather than facing up to what I did, I ghosted him. I have fallen for a new guy and keep remembering how I ended the last one, and it makes me feel guilty. I looked him up and saw that he is still signal, and going through depression. Should I reach out to him to apologize and tell him the true reason I did what I did?

  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You should kill yourself instead

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Unironically this.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Cringe. Cheating is never an evil act. It is a cause for celebration.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It depends on what the true reason is.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yep it does. Usually a new guy just gives you the courage to leave a dead relationship.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You ghosted a 5 year relationship?!

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Don't guilt trip yourself queen. He probably deserved it.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Kys femfag

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    At the very least confess your sins before God and Christ, and repent.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    nice bait

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    nice b8

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Ew. Disgusting.
    Apologise, and don't expect forgiveness. You owe it to him to tell him what the fuck happened, at least.
    Knew a girl who sorta did the same, except the cheating. 5+ years relationship, she was hating it, but in hindsight it was 70% due to her having no balls and not telling him when she wasn't liking something. The dude was well-intentioned, but not the best at guessing what she wanted. He was convinced everything was going great, cause she told him so. Then one day she kind of just stopped talking to him and showing up. Told us all she had left him. The poor guy had no idea what the fuck was going on. It's been several years, but he's still scarred by the experience.
    Do the world a favour and grow the teeny tiny ounce of balls needed to straight up tell him what happened. Then you can disappear again and be a coward for someone else. If you don't do it, you'll never grow out of it.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I've seen worse

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Separatism is the answer

    Y'all see anons why the hatred against this gender is booming.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i agree
      we really need to speed up the development of sex robots to fully replace the femoids

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        We will just make it illegal the moment sexbots are a threat to women.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No, men often get sadistic and vindictive when they know they've been cheated on and you don't know how he's going to react. For your own safety: keep it a secret and take it to the grave.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Ignore this fearmongering bullshit. If you dated this guy for 5 years, you know his character. If you genuinely suspect he's a violent individual, that's one thing. But if he were a violent individual, don't you think he would've already been super aggressive about you ghosting him?

      This posters attitude is a very common cope for ultimately wanting to avoid confrontation and responsibility, and is very common among peoplepleasers. The right thing, and the thing youll feel better about afterwards, is to just be honest. He probably desperately craves closure so he can move on and try to improve his life, his heads been massively fucked with. You owe it to him, and if I were him, I'd respect you more for doing the courageous thing. Doing difficult shit to maintain your integrity is what makes you a strong woman

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Ignore this candyass moralhomosexualry because closure does not come from anybody but oneself and it's up to to your ex-bf to come to terms with the past. Telling him will do him more harm than good and especially more harm to you.

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Should I reach out to him to apologize and tell him the true reason I did what I did?
    No. Accept that you are a whore and let him move on with his life.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Should I reach out to him to apologize and tell him the true reason I did what I did?
    And say what?
    >hey, sorry I ghosted you years ago after being together for five years, it's just that I meant someone else, cheated on you and didn't think you were worth the effort to even break up with so I cast you aside.
    You are the LAST person he needs to hear from.
    The only one who can benefit from this interaction is you and your guilty conscience, and he's more likely to relapse from whatever bullshit you've put him through.
    So no, he doesn't need to hear from you and you don't deserve to un-burden yourself from this guilt, frankly you're not just a coward, you're also a bitch if you're willing to hurt a person this much to protect your own feelings.

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    there is no need for you to feel guilty. As a woman, you are inherently evil, and thus have acted true to nature.

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Should I reach out to him to apologize and tell him the true reason I did what I did?
    Yes. I mean, did you not have any feelings at all for him as another human being, even a friend? Just tell him what happened, exactly as you said in OP, say you were afraid and needed to just go and be free but hate how you did it, and are sorry. Being afraid of conflict to this point is going to bring your life to its knees.

    Do it tonight. The longer you put this off, the worse is gets. You only owe one text, and that's it. you dont gotta respond past that

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Based, never settle. Your only mistake is feeling bad. Look up FDS for tips.

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