so this girl keeps following me around like a damn poodle. and the thing is I noticed she's a bit autistic. she's also chubby. I'm nonchalant about her presence. however, people laugh whenever they see me with that girl. what could that be? (btw this is happening in college)
ok guys I have a question
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thing is some people have asked if we're fucking. which I denied. however now some classmates keep pressuring me to fuck her and dump her. which I don't see any point in doing.
she is not going to leave unless you specifically tell her to in a rude way. if you're not religious, fuck her and dump her. simple, really.
>however now some classmates keep pressuring me to fuck her and dump her. which I don't see any point in doing.
>which I don't see any point in doing.
The point is to bully her. They're telling you to do that because they're fucking bullies, and they want you to bully her.. because they're bullies..
>I want to know why people are laughing god damnit. are you retarded?
Because THEY'RE BULLIES. Are you retarded?
why the fuck there are overwhelmingly more evil people around me than good ones then? I mean fuck I can't even put it like that. it's more like there are just a few naive people around me I guess. I'm more neutral. so I guess I'll just keep being friends with this girl. she seems to be naive so I'll try to help her. it's good sport and it's not like I'm doing anything with my life besides slowly killing myself right now. I've reached a conclusion.
I sure hope you just don't think too much about your relationship with the girl anon. She might not be the hottest girl around but if you enjoy being with her, so what with other people? Like, if these other people cares about you or are respectable human beings in general they aren't going to bully you or someone they didn't know much (the girl).
Sorry if I say anything that would hurt you man.
But I just hope people cares less about what others think and mind their own business and I am referring this to the bullying "friends"
This is me, sorry if I call you names man.
nah it's alright. I think conflict is good. especially when thinking up solutions to problems. I've come up with a good one.
>why the fuck there are overwhelmingly more evil people around me than good ones then? I mean fuck I can't even put it like that
Maybe not overwhelmingly more, but there's a ton of fucking evil people, yes, and no one ever fucking speaks up or anything. This is how Columbine and shit happen, and I can't even fuckin blame em
There are kids that I specifically remember being bullied in school, and I felt COMPELLED to at least be friendly with them, and talk to them when they had no one to talk to, or at least SOMETHING, when I was around them. And I fucking remember thinking at the time, or even telling the fucking asshole kids, "hey, this fucking kid is either going to bring a gun to school and fucking start killing people, or he's going to kill himself one day, and it's going to be YOUR FAULT." And you know the worst part? How many of them have fucking actually killed themselves now. It's fucking sick, and I will never forget the fucking cocksucking homosexuals that treated people that way, I don't care how long ago it was. Some people really did change, and some of them even apologize for the shit they did, but most stay the same the rest of their homosexual lives, and I wish the worst for them
>so I guess I'll just keep being friends with this girl. she seems to be naive so I'll try to help her. it's good sport and it's not like I'm doing anything with my life besides slowly killing myself right now. I've reached a conclusion.
This is how you end up falling in love with a fat chick, btw
I get the feeling that he kinda does want to hang out with her, but the cocksucking people around him are making him uncomfortable with that idea? Like, he cares too much what people think, eh? I could be wrong though
But yeah, he really should put his respect for the girl and himself above what a bunch of cocksucking homosexuals think
Calling people retarded is against my religion but this guy gets in my nerves: "I don't want to hang out with her, she's ugly, but I don't want to be lonely because I am alone, and I care what people say about ME"
LIKE, DUDE, HAVE SOME RESPECT FOR THE YOURSELF AND THE GIRL.
woah, woah, woah there homosexual. I never called her ugly. I'm just saying personally she's not my type. I'm willing to bet there's plenty of people that she can charm.
give her an ultimatum
she either loses weight or loses you
I don't care about her. I want to know why people are laughing god damnit. are you retarded?
>I don't care about her
then why make the thread, retard?
I am hiding your worthless autism story
kys. you fucking illiterate cunt. I want to know why are people laughing.
They are laughing because she is following you around like a poodle, is autistic, and chubby just like you said in your post. It sounds like she is following you instead you two walking together (since you seem to not have any interest in her).
Didn't know you were gay and retarded
whatever you say namefag
Likewise, social retard
Try and get rid of her then if you don't care and it'd more the laughter that's the issue.
Ultra-Matum,delivered by Ultra-Man himself.
Tell her that you are not interesting in dating her or becoming her friend. Hopefully she leaves you alone
dude I don't know if that's a good idea. we've been talking for a while now. should I just tell her to fuck off? will my reputation be hurt? I already am lonely and don't have any friends.
Be friends with her and love her. You're lucky anybody cares about you in this world
Exactly, tell her to back off and don't worry about your reputation
Dude you are in colluage not in primary school. If you feel uncomfortable becouse she is following you, just tell her. Thats whats normal people do. When it comes to others, are they really gonna care about this whole situation or you are just a little bit too paranoid about it? If they are people that want to make fun of you they will do so as long as you care about them. Becouse they don't care what you are acctually doing they just want to harm you in one way or another.
Tell them especially if they already think you're weird that like you just yk didn't know how to tell her and then they'll think it was social wnxiety preventing you from saying something sooner.
> I already am lonely and don't have any friends.
Yet you want her to leave you alone. What do you want? Is she that ugly? Is she that terrible to be around?
If you think about what people say about you and her, then leave her. I don't think she wangs to hang out with you of she know how you really feel about hanging around with her. Like, this is why it's hard to become friends, people like you wants to keep his or her ego but have no critical thinking - why be friends with her if you think she's an embarrassing person to you? What is wrong with you??!
I'm just thinking homosexual.
have her follow you into the gym
I don't do gym.
I'm pretty sure she just "cares" about me, because she thinks there's a possibility of me fucking her.
if this post went over your head "Hary". let me clarify:
If I wasn't sexually desirable for her she would have never "cared" about me. meaning she doesn't cares about me as individual. she only cares about my physical.
>If I wasn't sexually desirable for her she would have never "cared" about me. meaning she doesn't cares about me as individual. she only cares about my physical.
You sound like a woman.
Perhaps but what he needs to do is make it absolutely clear he hates her. People may hate him for it but at least they won't be laughing which seems to really be his issue.
you're a dumb homosexual if you would fuck someone just because they're attracted to your physical. I tried talking to her and we literally have nothing in common. I would overlook her physicality if we DID have something in common. however, my preferred body type is not fat. and no, I'm not fat myself.
You could be having sex making babies right now
Chubby in a good way or chubby in a bad way?
Wish I could get a chubby autistic girl.
They're laughing because you're being followed around by her. That's it. If you get rid of her they will at very least laugh at you less.
I'm guessing she also doesn't look like said anime charecter whatsoever?
describe the girls physical attributes (hair colour, eyes, lip size, etc)
big (double my waist size)
oh yeah also forgot to mention.. she's way taller than me. I believe she's 6ft tall while I'm just 5'4.
you are larping if you don't hit that
she's just not my type
depends. if youre a virgin you should definitely try to fuck her, just for the experience alone.
if you dont have any options being choosy is retarded.
if you have contact to other girls don't bother with her
>depends. if youre a virgin you should definitely try to fuck her, just for the experience alone.
I don't mean to gaslight you, but other people have been nonchalant about their sexual experiences. both online and offline. it seems like it doesn't matters that much.
Life is more than losing virginity, amigo. I never understood this losing virginity before marriage thing as a trophy. Perhaps it's due to my religious background but I once weren't religious and I hardly think about getting in bed with someone, all I want is to be rich.
i know rich people, it doesnt do shit for them. im not going to bother to explain why love is more valuable than materialism, it should be obvious to anyone
i dont get what youre trying to say. why do others being nonchalant matter in any way? how is it gaslighting? huh?
if you dont have options you dont get to pick, this is simple mathematics. if youre a virgin you need to go for every chance for a mate you can get or you might stand do die alone, its that simple.
>not my type
>bla bla bla
all these things dont matter, no one cares. what matters is not being alone.
I don't care about being alone though. I cope with pets and art.
Is she your friend? Did she have friends? Why is she following you is the question? Did she like you?
If you don't like her just try to politely leave her, don't waste your mental health. Be direct, tell her I have to hang out with someone, tell her I have to go to the library alone. I did that when someone I don't feel like spending time with keeps following me. I don't pretend to be polite and deep down I didn't like him or her. I just sorta show that I don't need them around, I am busy with my own work.
Please don't do anything sexual to the girl. It will be bad for her and you. You don't wanna look back at you sexually involved with a girl just because you don't like her.
OP take the opportunity presented to you and fuck the shit out of her. Clingy women are amazing if you know how to handle them. I have a clingy BPD wife and I wouldn't trade her for anything. If you give them the love and attention they need (it's a lot) you will live like a king. I have sex whenever I want even if she's sleeping or busy. I have all my needs met at any point in time. Yes it's a lot of work but the level of reward is very high.
look buddy the girl I'm concerned about is not BPD, she's just autistic. The fuck away from me with BPD bitches.
She's prolly neither, dude. Prolly just a fat nice girl who likes you, and you won't give her the time of day because the cool kids might laugh at you if you do
Shame on you, btw