How do I get gpod at life? It feels like a giant game that I absolutely suck at. I have no skills, no friends, no social life, no intelligence. Nothing.
How do I get gpod at life? It feels like a giant game that I absolutely suck at.
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Being good at any game requires an understanding of the rules and goals.
What are your goals? What does being "good at life" mean to you?
>What are your goals? What does being "good at life" mean to you?
Achieving things that I want to achieve in general snd not being stuck in the same level/rank.
What do you want to achieve?
Well I was hoping there's some general guide that I could use for various situations. I mostly want to become socially good, get a good job, get a house, and move out.
Yeah but I don't know how I can do that irl.
What have you done with your life until now?
I have a part time job, go to uni, and am better at social skills than I was years ago but I still suck at all of these.
>go to uni
What do you study?
>Well I was hoping there's some general guide that I could use for various situations.
There is. It's "just fucking do it". But before you can do "it" you need to specify exactly what "it" is.
>become socially good, etc
Be more specific. Do you want a big support network, do you want a few close friends, do you want a strong professional network, do you want to get married, etc, etc. The trick to achieving things is being very specific about what you want to achieve. Same deal for the other things you listed.
>Do you want a big support network, do you want a few close friends, do you want a strong professional network, do you want to get married, etc, etc
I don't really know
STEM degree.
I want to become rich and wealthy with my anime-style artworks
You know AI is in the process of replacing artists, right?
Onky the bad artists will suffer
Do you know what "grinding" means?
took too long to realize "gpod" is a misspelled good
read the bible 101 times
i recommend kjv 1611
Unironically study NDEs and realize that there actually is an afterlife and that we are eternal and will go to heaven unconditionally when we die. This will help you get your spiritual outlook on life in order so that you know what matters and can work on that. And NDErs talk about how the meaning of life is to learn to love and be kind and thrive here despite how hard it is in this world. So how is it going anon? <3
Here is a very persuasive argument for why NDEs are real:
It emphasizes that NDErs are representative of the population as a whole, and when people go deep into the NDE, they all become convinced. As this article points out:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mysteries-consciousness/202204/does-afterlife-obviously-exist
>"Among those with the deepest experiences 100 percent came away agreeing with the statement, "An afterlife definitely exists"."
Since NDErs are representative of the population as a whole, and they are all convinced, then 100% of the population become convinced that there is an afterlife when they have a sufficiently deep NDE themselves. When you dream and wake up, you instantly realize that life is more real than your dreams. When you have an NDE you immediately realize that life is the deep dream and the NDE world is the undeniably real world by comparison.
Or as one person quoted in pic related summarized their NDE:
>"As my soul left my body, I found myself floating in a swirling ocean of multi-colored light. At the end, I could see and feel an even brighter light pulling me toward it, and as it shined on me, I felt indescribable happiness. I remembered everything about eternity - knowing, that we had always existed, and that all of us are family. Then old friends and loved ones surrounded me, and I knew without a doubt I was home, and that I was so loved."
Needless to say, even ultraskeptical neuroscientists are convinced by really deep NDEs.
So read NDE accounts and basically all you can about NDEs. Books, YouTube-videos, articles, everything. They will make you realize that there is an afterlife, that there is meaning to life, and that NDErs say that the primary purpose here is to learn to love everyone and everything, no matter what. That it does not matter so much what kind of things we do, but whether we do them with no strings attached, and summon that kindness, love, and compassion on the inside of our own minds as we do it. So the meaning of life then, according to NDErs, is the small things. Whether it is helping someone with their homework, cooking dinner for our family, cleaning the bathroom, or picking up trash from the ground. Whatever it is, if we do it with love, then that is so huge on the other side, it is amazingly huge. So life is like a game where the goal is to summon as much kindness, love, compassion, and generosity as we possibly can squeeze out of our intentions. Which admittedly is definitely easier said than done!
You are playing life on a higher difficulty anon. We are here to learn to shine with love and kindness _in a world where it is undeniably hard to do so_! So are you up for the challenge? You can do it anon. Show us you can do it.
So sure, suicide shoots you directly to heaven and infinite bliss. But at the same time, you were there when choosing to come here. Suicide is therefore like turning off the Silent Hill video game and going out in the sun and playing with your friends. Which is totally fine! But it's not beating and 100%-ing the game, which is to live until death takes you, and being kind and loving all the time along the way.
All that other stuff you mentioned does not matter anon. Master spirituality and everything else will come naturally to you.