56 thoughts on “How can I wear 'feminine' clothing without people thinking I'm gay?

  1. Anonymous says:

    How feminine are you thinking? If it’s something minor like earrings or a women’s cut clothing piece then just wear it. If it’s something like a skirt then everyone will think you’re LGBT or a coomer.

    • Anonymous says:

      >How feminine are you thinking?
      My OP pic was qn example. Not skirts or dresses, but gender neutral clothing with cuts that are more in the tradition of what women would wear instead of men. (At least in modern fashion history)

      • Anonymous says:

        depends on your build really. without the scarf… hood… thing I don’t think that an outfit like in the OP would look that odd on a guy because they would still fit in a similar way to male clothes due to male anatomy. However if you have a very thin or androgynous build you might still be assumed to be gay. I’ve been trying to do a more androgynous style and it definitely makes people assume I’m gay a lot more, even though it’s just women’s cuts of some clothes.

  2. Anonymous says:

    People will think your gay, but if you’re secure in your sexuality, you won’t care. The average person is stupid and it doesn’t even cross their minds that plenty of butch wood choppers types are gay and plenty of feminine men are straight

    • OP says:

      Yeah people assume I’m gay when I wear jeans and a t–shirt, so this would only amplify peoples attitudes towards me. I’m also stupid thin and somewhat ‘pretty’.

      >but if you’re secure in your sexuality,
      I’m not

      If you just want to look feminine instead of gay, then looking feminine naturally is like half the deal. Other than that, be skinny and maintain perfect skin and hairline.

      But keep in mind normaltons will just assume you’re gay no matter what. They don’t understand shit. They have no sense of nuance

      >perfect skin and hairline.
      I try my best :^)

      • Anonymous says:

        >people assume I’m gay when I wear jeans and a t–shirt
        So it literally doesn’t matter what you do. Stop caring what other people think and wear what makes you feel good.

  3. Anonymous says:

    If you just want to look feminine instead of gay, then looking feminine naturally is like half the deal. Other than that, be skinny and maintain perfect skin and hairline.

    But keep in mind normaltons will just assume you’re gay no matter what. They don’t understand shit. They have no sense of nuance

  4. Anonymous says:

    You can’t. People will assume that you dress like a girl because you want the D and there’s not a lot you can do about it. The solution is not to give a heck what randos think.

  5. Anonymous says:

    >how can overly dress like a homosexual bottom without people assuming I’m a homosexual bottom
    By not dressing like it, anon. That is the only way. You can’t have the cake and eat it too. Not that I know why you’d want to dress like something you absolutely aren’t.

  6. Anonymous says:

    No clothes can radically change what we project. Our projection is a part of our true self, which is composed of 10 bodies, both astral and physical. In order for people to perceive our true essence, we need our 10 bodies to be in balance. Whenever we are projecting our true essence, there’s no judgement from others since it’s so clear what we are that no concepts are needed to describe it. We become pleasant to look at, touch, smell and listen to.

  7. Anonymous says:

    Just be really masculine and you will be able to be really feminine and nobody will question it. Stop being a gay and start being an alpha gigachad sigma and such meme words.

      • Anonymous says:

        Well, people have been playing with "couture" shapes for men in lots of ways lately. You could just outright wear women’s clothes, but a lot of designers have been focusing on silhouette, fabrication, and proportion in ways that might be interesting to you.

        Rick Owens, Balenciaga, Dries Van Noten, and Maison Margiela almost always have something with those A-line shapes, wider/shorter sleeves that might work for you.

        Danish fashion has long made space for what they consider avant-garde menswear, but which also borrows from that language. Henrik Vibskov has been doing androgynous/unisex capes and coats for two decades.

        Not quite as on target, but Lemaire has been dropping waists and shoulders in his menswear almost since day one, though it’s a slightly smaller part of his design vocabulary.

        In many ways, a lot of streetwear is where you might be at in terms of proportion, though the execution and fabrication is obviously more masculine and sporty than what you might be after. But an oversized hoodie with a slightly tilted hem is only a hop and a skip away from a cocoon coat.

  8. Anonymous says:

    i have the same question, i’d like to wear something not-at-the-first-glance feminine, kind of stuff that it’s not obviously masculine but you know, it’s a bit more feminine
    too bad i know nothing about fashion and I don’t know where are the borders
    for example, would like to wear slightly heeled combat boots but not to be afraid that its too high
    i’d also need some keywords in clothing parts, especially since english is not my first language
    it’s difficult to find good amount of info in any other language

    • Anonymous says:

      you can wear any sort of combat boots no matter your gender my dude. no one will judge your sexuality based off of it

    • Anonymous says:

      Wearing what you like is the ultimate chad move my dude.
      I wear women pants all the time (the cut is inverted ‘cuz historically women get dressed by other wahmen), boots i found in the women section of a shop or even paint my nails. I however have the confidence to do so while still advertising that i eat vaj subconsciously. It’s all in the confidence. Be a chad OP. This is /fashion/, not /LULZ/.

  9. Anonymous says:

    >How can I wear ‘feminine’ clothing without people thinking I’m gay?
    The most zoomer phrase anyone ever said.

      • Anonymous says:

        Poland is legit one of the gayest countries in Europe and are one of the few countries that has had legalized gays for almost 100 years. I still don’t know why stupids started thinking poland was based when it is just another globalist shithole

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