77 thoughts on “What should i wear if i want to pass as a man in public?

      • Anonymous says:

        >How feminine is your face
        People told me I have andro/masc face. I have male eyebrow pattern and masculine jaw.
        >How feminine is your body?
        Really femmine. But I can hide it I guess?
        >Chances are you’ll just look like a dyke
        I hope that doesn’t happen.

        Delusions

        There is obviously some "odds" but looks male enough. You cannot look at this person and think "that’s a 100% femmine woman!".
        Anyways this isn’t connected to my op. Let’s not jump from the original question.

        Hecking manly I can’t wait to look like that.

        it’s not just some odds
        men are made to love women and we do
        no amount of clothes will change that unless you cover every inch of your skin
        if you can’t hide your face completely, you’ll never pass

        YWNBAM

    • Anonymous says:

      >How feminine is your face
      People told me I have andro/masc face. I have male eyebrow pattern and masculine jaw.
      >How feminine is your body?
      Really femmine. But I can hide it I guess?
      >Chances are you’ll just look like a dyke
      I hope that doesn’t happen.

      • Anonymous says:

        if pic rel looks like a man to you, you’re the delusional one
        even males have a hard time passing as men nowadays

        • Anonymous says:

          There is obviously some "odds" but looks male enough. You cannot look at this person and think "that’s a 100% femmine woman!".
          Anyways this isn’t connected to my op. Let’s not jump from the original question.

          • Anonymous says:

            it’s not just some odds
            men are made to love women and we do
            no amount of clothes will change that unless you cover every inch of your skin
            if you can’t hide your face completely, you’ll never pass

          • Anonymous says:

            >men are made to love women and we do
            False. No one is made to do anything to satisfy others. That’s what morons do.
            >no amount of clothes will change that unless you cover every inch of your skin
            No amount of clothes will change that men are made to love women? Huh?
            >if you can’t hide your face completely, you’ll never pass
            I already have masc/andro face and people used to think I was a boy before.
            My body is femmine, cannot lie, but I can always cover it with clothes.

          • Anonymous says:

            >If you wouldn’t heck an FTM tranny, that’s an admission that she’s a real man!
            This is a stupid argument, because there are plenty of manly-looking (or otherwise ugly) cis women that I wouldn’t heck either. That obviously doesn’t make them men.

          • Anonymous says:

            >manlet
            MANLET?
            WTF DO MEAN
            you gotta be a closet gay whos tryna justify wanting to tap that

  1. Anonymous says:

    Ear gauges, septum rings, wing eyeliner, shitty tattoos everywhere, dr. martins boots, women’s jeans of course, and fingerless fishnet gloves

  2. Anonymous says:

    due to the proliferation of women wearing workwear, """tomboys""", butch women being butch, and non-passing pooners, you can’t. "dressing like a man" has lost all meaning since all of """men’s""" clothing is now unisex anyways. the spectrum for acceptable styles of dress for women veers so much into the masculine end that your clothing wont be able to make you pass as a man, if you do pass, its due to your own physical traits

    • Anonymous says:

      >clothing is now unisex anyways
      So it’s just me having brainworms again.

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      YWNBAM

      Cry harder lmao

      https://i.imgur.com/unvyEk1.jpeg

      swim shorts and nothing else

      >swim shorts and nothing else
      Basically impossible right now because I didn’t have top surgery yet

      https://i.imgur.com/o57q6fI.jpeg

      Wolf T-shirts, fedoras, cargo shorts, birkenstocks. There will be no mistaking you for a woman at all.

      2016 fit

      Men have longer torsos
      On top of that most men wear pants that go to their hips not their waist
      They also wear well fitting shirts and not whatever lose thing you have going on
      They don’t paint their nails
      Most men I know don’t wear white shoes, try black or brown
      You’re trying too hard with your posture
      The key to passing as a man is to be utilitarian

      >They don’t paint their nails
      Neither do I
      Thanks for tips ig

      OP said pass as a man
      women can never hope to pass as anything but a teenage boy

      >women can never hope to pass as anything but a teenage boy
      I’m not complaining, good enough

      • Anonymous says:

        >top surgery

        Oof and gross.

        Get over your metaphysics misunderstanding and save some money.

        Dissect an apple and find experience. If you don’t get it, you’re too dumb.

      • Anonymous says:

        How do you except me to go only in swim shorts at beach, with obviously female tits? I think that shit is illegal.

        Why does he care what the heck I’m doing with my life?

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        Not the topic of my own thread, so why should I answer it? You can answer my question in op or leave the thread gay. It’s that easy.

        YWNBAM

  3. Anonymous says:

    Men have longer torsos
    On top of that most men wear pants that go to their hips not their waist
    They also wear well fitting shirts and not whatever lose thing you have going on
    They don’t paint their nails
    Most men I know don’t wear white shoes, try black or brown
    You’re trying too hard with your posture
    The key to passing as a man is to be utilitarian

  4. Anonymous says:

    as everyone else has more or less said, it’s going to be difficult if not impossible by clothing alone. hit the gym and hit the test

    • Anonymous says:

      Not the topic of my own thread, so why should I answer it? You can answer my question in op or leave the thread gay. It’s that easy.

      • Anonymous says:

        if you can’t even face the question how can you even face yourself in the mirror with your mental illness tearing your sense of self apart?

  5. Anonymous says:

    Whatever you do, don’t do the baggy shorts and sweaters thing. You don’t want to look like Turtle from Entourage. Embrace being a femboy

    • Anonymous says:

      >Embrace being a femboy
      Femboy? Absolutely no. What’s the point of trying to appear male just to end up effeminate as heck.

      Most lesbian outfit ever.

      That’s a cis man.

      You’re on the right track with the image you posted. You want clothes that will basically fake a V shape in your torso while simultaneously hiding your tits, hips and ass. This will be tricky and honestly nearly impossible if you have an actual feminine body.

      First, bind your tits as much as you can. You want to be as flat as possible. For pants, something loose but not as flowy as OPs pic, that reads feminine or gay. Go on eBay and look up old Ralph Lauren "Andrew" or "Hammond" trousers. They’re high rise, loose in the thigh and calf without being flowly or billowing. For the shirt, get a button up shirt and put darts in or buy a slim fit that has room in the shoulders but tapers at the waist to give your torso that upside down V shape. Heavy fabrics or fabrics with texture are your friend here. Oxford cloth, flannel, corduroy, rough linen, etc. If it looks smooth, silky, etc, ditch it. If you can, find a sport coat with a structured shoulder that basically creates a stronger shoulder for you. Again, have it tailored to come in at the waist and give the V. Get shoes with some hefty and bulk, boots, wingtips, etc.

      If it all works, you’ll have a wider shoulder in a more masculine shape, a torso that tapers to the waist, and then pants that don’t cling to your hips and ass.

      However I have to be realistic: Men’s and women’s bodies are obviously and visibly very different, same with posture and gait. At the very best you may come across as androgynous not manly, think David Bowie. And that illusion may shatter when you start talking to someone, not just due to voice but mannerisms like body movements, how your hands move when you talk, etc. I don’t want you to think there’s a perfect fix.

      Also look up women’s styles from the 1920s and 1930s, especially Chanel. Sounds batshit now but back then there was a push due to sufferage for women’s clothing to be more masculine, they started wearing sport coats, ties, trousers, etc. It may help.

      >This will be tricky and honestly nearly impossible if you have an actual feminine body.
      I know I should hit gym
      >Oxford cloth, flannel, corduroy, rough linen, etc
      Based
      >At the very best you may come across as androgynous not manly, think David Bowie.
      I wouldn’t mind looking like Bowie. He’s legend.
      >And that illusion may shatter when you start talking to someone, not just due to voice but mannerisms like body movements, how your hands move when you talk, etc.
      Oh yeah I already know about this dw
      Thanks for help anon, have a nice day

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      >I was just asking about male "fashion" becuse its more limited than female
      this is…kind of a misconception, but i’m sure you know this. what style do you find yourself gravitating towards in general? there is no specific style that will make you ‘manly’ as has been said
      prep for instance is a fairly unisex style, but you have to be careful you don’t look like every other lesbian in ill fitting chinos and a button down.

      There is obviously more effeminate and masculine style.

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      YWNBAM

      Go cry somewhere else stupid, I don’t have a breathing room here.

      Tits or GTFO

      Kys

      • Anonymous says:

        >asking about fashion on board made for fashion
        >Hurr durrr le attention whore
        What?
        […]
        I don’t want to answer your question because you didn’t answer mine.
        Solidarity!

        Die from cancer

        YWNBAM

      • Anonymous says:

        >I know I should hit gym
        If you’re serious about going to the gym and doing a body recomp, do it in two phases. Everything that accentuates femininity is more or less fat. Tits, thighs, ass, stomach curve, etc. Eat at a caloric deficit, do a shit load of cardio, maybe some body weight exercises. Once you get down to one step above Auschwitz lean and basically nuke the body parts listed above, still eat lean but up the percentage of protein in your diet, and lift weights. Free weights are king for shoulder development but cables and pull down machines work just fine too. Absolutely blast your arms and shoulders. You’re going to have to watch your weight and probably gain slowly because if you go to surplus, your body will naturally store fat again, and women store fat differently from men. You’re going to have to be smart about it.

        • Anonymous says:

          Don’t listen to this. You should always maintain/bulk first. NEVER lose weight without eating lots of protein as you’ll lose muscle before fat. Aim for 2-2.5g protein per kg body weight per day if cutting. 1.5-2g if gaining muscle, whether through recomp/maintaining or bulking

      • Anonymous says:

        >What’s the point of trying to appear male just to end up effeminate as heck
        You’re literally a woman, there’s not much more you can hope for

  6. Anonymous says:

    You’re on the right track with the image you posted. You want clothes that will basically fake a V shape in your torso while simultaneously hiding your tits, hips and ass. This will be tricky and honestly nearly impossible if you have an actual feminine body.

    First, bind your tits as much as you can. You want to be as flat as possible. For pants, something loose but not as flowy as OPs pic, that reads feminine or gay. Go on eBay and look up old Ralph Lauren "Andrew" or "Hammond" trousers. They’re high rise, loose in the thigh and calf without being flowly or billowing. For the shirt, get a button up shirt and put darts in or buy a slim fit that has room in the shoulders but tapers at the waist to give your torso that upside down V shape. Heavy fabrics or fabrics with texture are your friend here. Oxford cloth, flannel, corduroy, rough linen, etc. If it looks smooth, silky, etc, ditch it. If you can, find a sport coat with a structured shoulder that basically creates a stronger shoulder for you. Again, have it tailored to come in at the waist and give the V. Get shoes with some hefty and bulk, boots, wingtips, etc.

    If it all works, you’ll have a wider shoulder in a more masculine shape, a torso that tapers to the waist, and then pants that don’t cling to your hips and ass.

    However I have to be realistic: Men’s and women’s bodies are obviously and visibly very different, same with posture and gait. At the very best you may come across as androgynous not manly, think David Bowie. And that illusion may shatter when you start talking to someone, not just due to voice but mannerisms like body movements, how your hands move when you talk, etc. I don’t want you to think there’s a perfect fix.

    Also look up women’s styles from the 1920s and 1930s, especially Chanel. Sounds batshit now but back then there was a push due to sufferage for women’s clothing to be more masculine, they started wearing sport coats, ties, trousers, etc. It may help.

  7. Anonymous says:

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    >I was just asking about male "fashion" becuse its more limited than female
    this is…kind of a misconception, but i’m sure you know this. what style do you find yourself gravitating towards in general? there is no specific style that will make you ‘manly’ as has been said
    prep for instance is a fairly unisex style, but you have to be careful you don’t look like every other lesbian in ill fitting chinos and a button down.

    • Anonymous says:

      also i just realized you have to change your mentality a little. wanting to appear manly via clothing is what gets a lot of mtf trannies into trouble by dressing up in what they think is ‘most feminine’. ie you don’t want to walk around looking like a greaser or some shit

    • Anonymous says:

      >asking about fashion on board made for fashion
      >Hurr durrr le attention whore
      What?

      if you can’t even face the question how can you even face yourself in the mirror with your mental illness tearing your sense of self apart?

      I don’t want to answer your question because you didn’t answer mine.
      Solidarity!

  8. Anonymous says:

    >Septum piercing
    Basically essential for the modern male
    >wispy Amish-style beard
    don’t worry if it’s patchy, it’s not like you’re trying to looksmax here
    >Short-sleeved button up with loud pattern
    like the sort you’d see on the brass players in a 90s ska band, true masculine icons
    >Tight jeans
    You must have really hit the squat rack for gains like those, show them off! Be sure to tuck the shirt.
    >Combat or work boots
    Don’t worry, the effect won’t be ruined by day-glo color laces.

    Also, be sure to accessorize with a wallet chain, padlock necklace, thick hipster glasses, hair dye, and gaudy tattoos! Have fun dood 😉

  9. Anonymous says:

    loose shirt
    jeans(bootcut, skinny and petite are for gays)
    bald to medium length hair
    sneakers
    any facial hair if you can

  10. Anonymous says:

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    >implying masculine women don’t exist
    the vast majority of masculine women clearly look like women still, and definitely more feminine than the vast majority of femboys
    how much time do you spend outside of the house in an average week?
    >how do I look more masculine
    undergo HRT and lose as much of your fat as possible without incurring in health risks, then dirty bulk to taste while lifting to target your core and shoulder mainly
    the reason for that is fat distribution is sex specific and one of the main reasons females look female, there’s no way other than HRT to change that
    and get a man’s haircut
    >how do I look more masculine with clothes
    wear stuff that’s too wide but the right length, but you’ll still largely look female

    • Anonymous says:

      >and definitely more feminine than the vast majority of femboys
      >masculine women
      >more femmine than femboys
      Wrong.
      Also yes I know I can’t only pass with mens clothes, I was just asking for advice

      Why would you want to look like a man? FtM are very creepy looking, sure pump em full with test and they get muscles and beardgrowth but very creepy looking with soft features and feminine eyes…

      When did I say I have soft features and femmine eyes?

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      YWNBAM

      I don’t care

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      My partner is ftm, he wears a lot of dark grey/black, loose jeans that don’t show his hips/waist, very male haircut (not lesbian style which most ftm’s seem to do for some reason but just normal guy’s cut) etc. I definitely agree with other anons – skip top surgery if you are at all flat. He was thrilled when he got it, now we’re looking at having kids and he’s sad he can’t breast feed them. If you think there’s any chance you’ll regret it and they’re small enough to hide under baggy clothes, consider it.

      Why does he want kids if he’s ftm?
      That’s so weird wtf. I guess mpreg fetish?

  11. Anonymous says:

    Why would you want to look like a man? FtM are very creepy looking, sure pump em full with test and they get muscles and beardgrowth but very creepy looking with soft features and feminine eyes…

  12. Anonymous says:

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    My partner is ftm, he wears a lot of dark grey/black, loose jeans that don’t show his hips/waist, very male haircut (not lesbian style which most ftm’s seem to do for some reason but just normal guy’s cut) etc. I definitely agree with other anons – skip top surgery if you are at all flat. He was thrilled when he got it, now we’re looking at having kids and he’s sad he can’t breast feed them. If you think there’s any chance you’ll regret it and they’re small enough to hide under baggy clothes, consider it.

    • Anonymous says:

      SWNBAM

      >and definitely more feminine than the vast majority of femboys
      >masculine women
      >more femmine than femboys
      Wrong.
      Also yes I know I can’t only pass with mens clothes, I was just asking for advice
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      When did I say I have soft features and femmine eyes?
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      I don’t care
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      Why does he want kids if he’s ftm?
      That’s so weird wtf. I guess mpreg fetish?

      YWNBAM

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