>22m
>5’8
>loner skater catholic boy
>finally grew out my beard
>having beard makes me look older
>prefer clean shaven
trying to get back into dating, in good shape from muay thai and powerlifting. considering growing my hair out [braids] and going clean shaven. most of clothes are baggy/torn from skating. only other clothes are catholic school uniform sht. what should i do to look better? is showing the girls im attempting to attract rel? any adv is helpful. thanks anon
Get a face tat that says "I'm not gay"
OP here.
what's that supposed to mean?
i weigh about 145lbs but float around 150lbs sometimes.
It means you aren't gay
stop being black
how much do you weigh? your cheekbones look super skinny maybe its just me
I am woman and I find you stunning. Like you have a well-sculpted face.
Your opinion doesn't matter femcel.
Grow out your side beard more, cut your chin beard more, but grow it to cover the chin fully rather than leaving a patch of skin. Your face is very narrow and your upper skull shape is weird, look at that sinking in on the ear insertions where the upper skull starts, you cannot pull off a fade cut or anything similar, you shouldn't have shaved, but black men look better with short hair and a beard as they mature as opposed to asian or white men who can pull off long hair for life, but because of your skull shape I wouldn't recommend anything more than a mid length hair cut but never less than that either or it gets too distracting.
Lose even more weight, 150 might already seem low, but your face has chud buccal fat, it won't work with the cheek bone insertions you have unless you're at low bodyfat.
OP here.
never heard anyone say my skull was "too distracting" so not sure how much that truly matters. also what won't work with my cheekbone insertions?
Not sure what to say there if you don't understand buddy, but your cheekbones are positioned in a very orbital eye fashion, ie closer there than your mouth, this means a consistently smooth good looking face isn't as possible at higher body fat as opposed to others, it at best will get you called baby face, at worst a chud or "maxillary recessed" incel because people confuse this genetic preset with maxillary or dental palette underdevelopment. This is also why you'll look too fat too some, too skinny to others, because light will primarily hit those cheek bones before hitting the rest of the face making it appear prematurely aged but somehow also stuck in a baby fat stage. It's the worst of all worlds, but don't be fooled, the problem is TOO much fat, not lack thereof, ignore the other guy like I said, you actually need to LOSE weight.
I COULD be wrong but perhaps the term is high cheek bones, as opposed to low cheekbones closer to the nose, which help with smoothing out the buccal fat area to a more consistent aesthetic plane.
Now unfortunately this means you and I (as I have them too) are on hard mode face wise, or at least a more difficult preset to live with compared to low cheek bones. You may have heard high cheek bones are a good thing and that's true, but only when you're low body fat as a man. If you aren't it's actually better to be a higher body fat man with low cheekbones.
Or tldr, stop eating.
OP here.
exactly that. appreciate the long winded response and definitely get that old/baby face look thing. iyo what would you say is a good weight to get to?
You're an idiot
Fuck you.
>Weight
Buy a smart scale for $20 and use the body fat calculator on there to hit 10-12% bodyfat, it's not about weight, although I have found the rule of thumb is it will need to get lower in constant with losing body fat. Your brain might pick at you to get a more accurate test, but I'll save you $200 right now, DEXA scans are way more likely to fail equipment wise than what the internet says, and there isn't a point in spending anything more than $20 on consistently checking your body fat level, the 4% potential margin of error on a smart scale and how it checks bodyfat is going to be worth putting up with.
OP here. will certainly do, actually had one before but dropped a dumbbell on it.
any adv on my style of dress or taste in women?
I have no clue which girls you're talking about.
Fashion wise, if you don't have a previous subculture you ascribe to, I can't lie to you, go through the LULZ catalog or any online catalog and pick what you want, if you want to grow up faster, which it comes off as, you'll have to get into business casual or adjacent if it's what you work or major in, otherwise go for more urban casual if you do manual labor so you don't give off the wrong idea.
OP here.
im a working welder and electrician but i am going back to school for psychology. working blue collar my skate clothes don't really matter. do my "csu" clothes matter. i feel like that its still casual. also ill share a photo of my type of girls. i like WEIRD quiet "cute" girls that look like pic rel.
idk whether im alone, i feel like im decently attractive, but because im average height, i feel like my face has to compensate and be on par with models.
>also ill share a photo of my type of girls. i like WEIRD quiet "cute" girls that look like pic rel.
Not judging you but, boring.
Yeah though you don't want to be too big, you want to get a psychology degree, and you want to come off as educated and sophisticated at cocktail parties to talk to these sort of women in a openly datable fashion.
Or just go on /soc/ and bait them.
OP here.
ive always had a soft spot for these kind of girls. and to be fair both, although obviously preferring being a suave intelligent socialite.
It's more of a middle class management thing, at actual socialite level they come back around to being hot again.
OP here.
good point, but im curious where should i look for girls like her, campus, hr departments, etc?
OP here.
thank you anon. with the other stuff I said, does any of it rub you the wrong way?
thanks i think
Not really, I feel like everyone on the internet who surfed through pictures of models on Instagram, blackpill culture gotta have their viewed challenged in some ways. Including me.
>I am woman
Naw bro naw
>having beard makes me look older
it doesn't
Grow out your hair and get better clothes. Find a style that you like and do some online shopping for some cool looking stuff. Other than that maybe use retinol and moisturizer and stuff if you don't already, and maybe consider bulking up and going for a more masculine look, I think it would look good on you.
OP here.
im not sure bulking or more masculine is the look I want to go for, it seems appealing but what comes natural is being toned and more or less posh. nonetheless thank you anon
Stop wearing shitty torn clothing. Don't braid your hair.
the clothing is convenient for work and skating, also if i braided my hair i would normally style it hanging in front of my face but when necessary pin it back or on the side.
>i would normally style it hanging in front of my face
ew kys
Mathew bro you look good already you need to talk to females
how and where do I do this? last gf was in 2021. so more to say im rusty, although i did fare well with girls before.