>you guys tell me to limit texting except to planning dates. >Match with girl online

>you guys tell me to limit texting except to planning dates
>Match with girl online
>Set date and talk with a bit with her. Then dont message her for a day.
>Day of date she hits me with this
Wtf bros, you lied to me

  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sounds like a response from a fucking interview
    Holy shit modern dating is so done

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    she really wasn't that interested then, it's just soft-rejection bullshit.

    Why meet up with someone you're ignoring for a whole day though?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I didnt ignore her the conversation simply ended

      >>Day of date
      So she's already said yes to the date but then she backed out?

      Yes

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Yes
        She's fucking weird then. Makes no sense. If she had this opinion she should have said so when you asked. She could have even dodged and said she wasn't available if she was too insecure to say 'no' directly.
        Her opinion is not uncommon but what's weird is her saying "because you asked at all, I'm dropping you." Women normally say, "I'm not ready yet, let's wait."

        I'd say you dodged a bullet of a woman who expects you to read her mind and just know what her comfort levels are, and blames you instead of communicates.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      If you hadn't done it she would have just gone out with someone else

      Nothing works on tinder, she just wants to see a supermodel and whenever you text more or less doesn't matter

      You should have asked out a girl in university instead, or one you met through friends. Online dating will never work

      why would she have been interested?
      she doesn't know anything about him. whats there to be interested in? nothing, she has no clue who he is. she doesn't know anything about him to be interested in that.
      she doesn't even reject him, there's nothing here
      that's why schools and mutual social circles are important, you learn about a person so she would actually know things about you to be interested in them
      why would you be ever interested in someone you know absolutely nothing about? what is there in a blank name that could make anyone interested? nothing, theres nothing there

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Next year is my last year of college and I haven't met any women yet. How do I make it next year, Mr. Schooler?

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          spend all the time and energy on socializing, walk around camput and just chat with people asking about their majors are a great conversation starter to get to know each other, join clubs and student societies, eat at uni caffeteria
          if you feel like you haven't gotten enough relationship experience, fail the year intentionaly and repeat it, this will give you one more year of uni

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          universities are the easiest place to socialize, you lot will struggle socially after graduating

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Maybe and that is my first instinct too.
      But, remember that you are now creating a situation where you are never wrong. If playing games leads to success, you say it is proof it works. When it leads to failure, as in the OP, you contrive other variables to explain it.
      You need to be open-minded that you could be wrong.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >You need to be open-minded that you could be wrong
        Thats what im trying to get at with my post here. I suck at communicating with woman and im open to criticism here. Yeah you could tell me she was no good but it seems like every girl flips out over dumb shit, the only difference is some woman immediately bitch st you for it, and the others just keep a running tally of everything i did wrong only to unload all their frustrations on me at once the moment the list gets to a breaking point

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      this. She hits you with this, you say
      >okay, thanks for reaching out
      Then never message her again.

      Assuming you're getting other matches, she's just one of many, don't stress losing one fish, there are more fish in the sea.

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >>Day of date
    So she's already said yes to the date but then she backed out?

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It means ur a fugly

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm sorry anon, she never was interested in the first place. Good luck and don't give up.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Thanks not giving up, i have other girls in the wings. Seems girls get tripped up once i talk to them i imagine they immediately think they can do better than me.

      She found someone else who communicated more and found common interests with. Cause that's how you find common interests.

      There's a fine line between writing for the sake of writing and actually communicating things with people. That's what you get for listening to LULZ, homosexual

      Thats what a date is for homosexual. Girl bullshits about feeling unsafe and other nonsense. She is a professionally single woman type and will remain alone

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        There are so many fucking people in the world, do you think anybody who has so many options will waste time and energy going out with someone who might turn out to be a creep? There's an initial filter that is done through photos and communication. Normal people know that.

        This is such incredible cap I can’t believe you wrote it. Women are not your buddy from work. They DGAF what your interests are when you make their pussy tingle.

        Interests or compatibility, there's got to be something that will bond you or keep you together at least for a time. Unless she's just looking for a quick fuck ofc then it doesn't matter. But then nobody goes dating if they just want to meet up one time and fuck. You just meet up and that's that. Dating is when you're at least giving the thought of something more a chance. At least this is from my perspective as a woman but you do you whatever lol

        You're both a bunch of dumbasses anyway

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Why are you prepared to invest in a long term relationship with a chick you don’t even know?

          Sex first

          Then relationship if she’s a well behaved girl

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            How is some basic texting to get the feel of their personality before potentially wasting your time and energy an act of investing long term?

            And how is a girl who sexes you on the first date without bothering to know anything about you even potential gf material?

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She found someone else who communicated more and found common interests with. Cause that's how you find common interests.

    There's a fine line between writing for the sake of writing and actually communicating things with people. That's what you get for listening to LULZ, homosexual

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This is such incredible cap I can’t believe you wrote it. Women are not your buddy from work. They DGAF what your interests are when you make their pussy tingle.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Depends on the person and situation IMO. Lots of guys say they only care about looks, but I sincerely adore that my gf has the same hobbies and interests as me. I would rather date her than a 9/10 who hated my hobbies. I imagine girls vary too.
        Of course, everyone pretends to be virtuous. Certainly in OLD, it is mostly about tingles.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Don't listen to this guy either, he's also from LULZ
      Either way, what a hilarious demented whore. Can't stop laughing over her message. You have dodged one large caliber bullet there.

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Every woman is different.
    Dont play stupid games. If you want to talk, talk. If its less popular, you'll put off more women, but the women you dont put off will be better matches.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I didnt play any game. I worked all day yesterday. She didnt make an effort to text me either.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Then that raises 2 more questions:
        1. Why do you care, then? She sounds like she sucks. Weeding is part of dating, too.
        2. Why are you posing a question in adv as though we told you not to talk to her and thats why you didnt.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Why do you care, then? She sounds like she sucks. Weeding is part of dating, too.
          You are right, but I have not had many dates recently at all. Sunk cost fallacy...
          >Why are you posing a question in adv as though we told you not to talk to her and thats why you didnt.
          I see the advice all the time... And I agree with it to be honest since its a whole lot less wasted effort before the first date anyway. But i wanted to show that not all girls are on board with that

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >not all girls
            Like this is the most basic truth and answer to any question that starts with "do girls/boys like...?" Is "some do some dont".
            Anyone who doesnt get this by now isnt gonna by being told.

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              I dont know bud. All girls seem to act quite fucking stupid

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                So do men. People are generally stupid

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >So do men
                Maybe... I dont date men though luckily. Im sure it would be a lot of other inane bullshit

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Kek, for sure bro.
                Hearing about partners exes, sounds exhausting.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >She didnt make an effort to text me either.
        Yeah, that’s you playing the game, loser. Grow up and take the lead next time.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          How old are you that you think this is the correct response zoomer b8.
          Don't date children op, age or mental wise. She seems hella underdeveloped and the type who brings headache

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    do not reply to it

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Too late...

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I'm talking about un*cel

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >un*cel
          ?

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    same thing here, mark manson also lied to me, here it´s how it works

    If you´re already talking with her in person, the text is useful just for setting up dates

    If you only meet once or barely at all in person, you should express your identity through text, a couple of weeks, then if you did right it, you should ask her on date through text (since you can´t see her on person)

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >express your identity through text, a couple of weeks
      A couple of weeks? Nobody got time for that holy shit i ask them out within 5 messages

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        i live in south america and women here are really conservative, in the U.S works different of course

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sounds like a gigantic cunt. In all honesty it looks like you dodged a bullet here.

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Answer:
    >K
    >Wait 5 mins
    >Sorry, busy. How's your day?
    >Text back and forth
    >come on, let's meet. It'll be fun
    Rejection doesn't exist.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Rejection doesn't exist.
      Believe me bro it does.... Ive had girls threaten me when i kept messaging them lololol

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Cuz u r a creep

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She didn’t find you attractive and wanted to let you down gently

    She even used the “Human Resources” voice women use when denying men

    People give attention to things they care about

    And she didn’t care about you

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Funny enough her job was HR. Or not so funny. Bullet dodged for sure lmao

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    she seems either incredibly uptight and demanding or just not interested
    you dodged a bullet

  14. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >>you guys tell me to limit texting except to planning dates
    >he fell for PUA memes
    AHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAAAAA you dumb sucker lol

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Texting girls outside of logistics makes you look like a clingy bitch with too much freetime. Females want to anguish over you fucking other girls for a week.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        OP literally proved that to be bullshit. The entire point of this thread.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >what do you mean, "when women switch interest to another guy they don't tell the truth" ?

  15. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Whatever reason a girl gives, the reality is she’s not that interested in you. We’ve all been there.

  16. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    this sounds like my schizophrenic ex, think you may have dodged one buddy

  17. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Did it never occur to you to actually TALK to her - using your voice, and words, and like that? The advice was against relying on texting, not on cutting contact.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Uh yeah i planed to talk to her plenty on our date today. We had a date scheduled sunday that she flaked out of. I texted her sunday monday and tuesday. I didnt text her yesterday. And she flips out over that of all things. Ive had this happen before...a girl thinks i lost interest so she messages me to save face like she rejected me.

  18. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >as a female
    I wonder who could be behind that post...

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Gaslighting about how only incels say female will never cease to amaze me.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Biologists also say female, but they follow it up usually by precising what species it is they're talking about e.g. a female sea horse or female donkey. Or they're referring to something like "female chrosmosomes" etc.

        But no one says "female" on a regular casual normal conversation basis other than incels. to them women are so far-removed from them they may as well be an alien species and just be known as le females.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Incels or whatever do seem to use the word more, but you've spent far too much time on Reddit if you think women never, ever say female or that every man who says female is a neckbeard.

  19. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Every woman is different, ig.
    Most I've dealt with wanted so much attention and talked about bs.
    Some weren't very talkative.

  20. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >you guys tell me to limit texting except to planning dates
    Boomer advice

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This. Basic ass TRP stuff from 2010. Texting is how people communicate through the day and get to know each other slowly. You might want to avoid frequent texting as a rule because you want to have time for other girls, but it's an essential activity at times.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This.

      Your response should have been
      >Aight fuck you then bitch

      Nice guy alert. Eww.

  21. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Your response should have been
    >Aight fuck you then bitch

  22. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Ehhhhh if you had responded often then it's likely she would have made up some other excuse to not meet up.

  23. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Female here. Here’s my advice: don’t play games, don’t try to seem cool (uninterested). The advice you previously got about limiting texting doesn’t work on modern women. That’s old man advice. Get with the times and don’t play games. Girls have many options and won’t tolerate that bullshit.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm trans btw

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Dumb and forever alone is what you are, buddy.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I didnt play a game you retarded fuck i was busy

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        the explain that greentext you wrote when you deliberately say it's our fault?

        you are supposed to message her even IF you are busy.

  24. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    not texting for 1 day shouldn't be an issue at all. Not texting between confirmed dates shouldn't be an issue. this gurl is likely extremely high maintenance - some girls will EXPECT you to text her multiple times a day, every day. trust me, that's not the kind of person you want to be around, and is a huge sign of their lack of emotional maturity.

  25. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why are you taking advice from incel pickup artists? Ugh you're an idiot. I'm bio F and would NOT meet up with a guy UNLESS we have built a rapport over text first.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      She agreed to a date, and I was busy for 1 day. Is that enough for you to go cold snd say go away

  26. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Know your worth fren. Send her a payment charge since you already have her phone number. You rearranged your schedule around a day and time to meet, and if she bailed because she couldn't be bothered to check in with you yesterday then you should be compensated for it.

  27. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's a lie. She found a man she is more attracted to and used the first excuse she could, because women don't like to be confrontational.

  28. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Dodged a bullet. That woman is a massive cunt, as are most on dating sites.

  29. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She found someone else anon. Girls make rules for guys they have semi interest in and break rules for guys they truly desire. She’s not worth it fren, on to the next.

  30. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Females who resort to online dating are "broken". Its the easiest thing in the world for females to encourage and go along with a guy flirting with them irl. This bitch is neurotic and/or has cognitive impairment that disables her socially. Many, MANY, like her online.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Ah its over for me then since the women i meet irl want nothing to do with me

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      ive met two virgins (one unvaxxed) online.
      use some creativity and make the intention to find a girl to your standards.
      bio photon science bitch.
      its really not that hard!!

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >hi anon!
        >Yeah! I’m totally a virgin teehee 😉
        Worst part is you’re so desperate that you believe it

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Sorry that you can't read circumstances and infer whether what their saying is truth or not. Maybe you should try to actually get into a relationship if you're ready to move onto a harder life difficultly than being by yourself.

          Also it's hard to be desperate when you only spend 30$ on tinder platinum and never spend time searching the horde for a fuck/relationship weekend after weekend. Grow the fuck up you parrot.
          retard

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I think your rage lowered your iq a bit

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              nice shitpost.
              go get boosted

  31. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    congrats, you just filtered another message collector. this is a W for you brother.

  32. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Hahahhahahah he listened to the internet virgins
    Bro, of course girls you meet online want to chat with you first. All these incels out here got women gun shy of dates with turbo 'tists.

  33. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >>you guys tell me to limit texting except to planning dates
    with girl online
    don't match with girls online retard. meet them in real life, then they can't be afraid of meeting you in real life. meet them in fake internet app world, then you've signed up for all their shit tests

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I dont meet many girls irl

  34. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >normies purposely give bad advice to keep incels and autists out of the gene pool
    Are you honestly surprised?

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