My stats
6ft, 177lbs like 13% bf with abs
Drive a Tesla.
Making almost 6 figures at 26
Own my own place not rented
Decent face
Worldly (travelled)
Next year I’ll be making almost 97m in my STEM field at 27.
What fucking gives? I just want a brown girl bros. I won’t passport max, I’m not even autistic. Women have described me as “plain” or not memorable. Idk what more I can physically. I used to be 230lbs but even getting lean has netted me nothing
I’ve been told by two women I’m objectively a 7
What am I doing wrong?
I’m in the southwest and it’s fucking crazy out here.
And no I won’t settle for a hook. Just give me some tips on how to fix myself before 30?
You’re not assertive or persistent enough and you’ve got a small pecker
Your face is too deer and prey like to be marked as decent. It makes women who dont share your natural prey vibes feel unnerved and unsafe around you. Brown girls want strong med types with predator eyes
Literally you are Htn/6 with chadlite potential
You are doing something very wrong if you’re not fucking ethnic women with these stats. What’s your Willy size
>materialism and superficial traits
>hurr durr why no women???
have you tried having a personality and not being a homosexual? might help
Personality is cope, Chad slays while being aloof or autist
It’s 6.2 inches. Not small not big
I have no trouble getting Asian women interested in me, usually clubs or online. Even /soc/ but my looksmaxxing quest has to end with my latina/desi/Spanish waifu or I have no reason to live
>What fucking gives?
everything about this screams
B O R I N G
no personality, no charm, nothing, just an empty office drone collecting numbers who loves to do solo shit with no friends like hiking and caoeing.
>Personality is cope
Of course when people severely lack something and it's pointed out, their cope is to call that thing cope.
If literally everything about you is so great, except your personality, then maybe 2+2 = 4? No?
good looking but you come off as a fag
I’ve seen you post on looksmaxx I think kek. Are you the guy who cried in front of your date when your dad threatened to take “your” Tesla?
Go to a foreign country, Southeast Asia or the right parts of Latin America, you’ll clean up and get some experience and confidence to take home with you.
Op here. Any tips on the Latin America areas?
>Latin America areas?
nta, but anywhere in brazil would do. look for countryside of são paulo or santa catatina. non ironically, pretty chill and comfy.
Stay the fuck outta my land
>t. Paulista
Try and work on your personality. Everything else is just to get your foot in the door but your character keeps them around. Unless they’re gold digging. And even then.
There are loads of self help videos online about flirting and escalating and body language.
You’re in a really great place for your age. One that many men envy. Make the most of it.
Also, just practice talking to people and making small talk. You’d be surprised at how much of flirting is actually just that.
Hair is visibly thinning, probably a norwood 2 that you cover up by parting your hair in the middle. You look and demonstrably are smart, but also you look weak and unassertive. It's the face, first of all, and I guarantee you aren't aggressive. Fix your hairline with that close to six figures you're making, and act a little more douchey. Make her want to fix you.
You, your whole post, the carefully crafted and adjusted details you share, phone posting, questions. You don't want to hear my verdict, trust me. I'll just say that you should change course and not post shit like this here.
1. I’m not posting from a phone retard
2. Obviously I’m going to detail a big portion of myself so I get across my flaws and strengths so I don’t confuse other anons and they can point out where I’m going wrong. Wouldn’t work if I was vague as fuck
Use your brain
That's a android phone filename, get an iphone and girls will finally want you. You know what they say, "if the message doesnt turn blue, your balls surely will"
Look man, if you are completely losing out right now, then what you are doing is just wrong. There's literally no need to share anything specific because you can safely deduct your life is shit, or in your specific circumstance it doesn't amount to much for your desired goals. So try something different, that's the only "advice" that's reasonable. This thread is shit cause you can't think and deduct, just hoping for others to drop miracle advice that'll bring you princess cinderella or smth haha
I think you’re projecting, maybe you see me doing well despite being Incel so you pull out all the normie gaslighting advice “muh boostraps, muh just go to bars” yeah Fuck off mate, at least I’m trying. If you’re a NT normie good for you b ur there’s nothing wrong with looksmaxxing, it’s a journey.
Good luck man
>non response.
I won. Fuck off norman
Post pay stub and face or you’re beneath me
desu, I think I’m not charismatic or very smooth. At all
Once I saw a shrink about it, and she said maybe I have autism because I view my life as a checklist. She was a foid, but she said
“Ok anon, it seems you view life like a game. If I drive x, and get promotion x , and reach x weight in the gym then = success with women, but anon it doesn’t just work like that. Life is filled with variables” and it sorta stuck with me because yeah; I thought If I finished these milestones I’d be doing a lot better.
Most of my friends are online. Despite being in a good career and some clubs I don’t fit in. I’m just “there”, never had friends since high school. I’ve only been on 4 dates this year; and two girls said they found me kinda plain, like an NPC, one blocked me and the last one said I came across as too intense.
I’m not trying to be egotistical but I think I look a lot better than some of my friends, but they’re not struggling at all, I truly think maybe just being NT and a people person is just going to fare better than all the lookdmaxxing shit. At least in SoCal, idk man.
The therapist I see is pretty good and she thinks I’m too automic with how I view life
Alright yeah I think this the source of things then.
As a woman, when meeting someone for the first time, I think charisma can be a huge part of it. I meet lots of random people in the course of a normal week completely outside of dating (just general interacting with strangers via job, school, errands, etc) so if I go on a date, I am looking for something that elevates the experience above those random interactions. That so-called "spark" of being interested enough in someone to want to see them again. And that definitely does have way way less to do with where someone's at in life than how the meeting goes in person. Like, I'd say looking for that connection where we can talk to each other for ages comes first, and it's after that point I want to know other details on compatibility like career, life goals, etc. Because if that initial attraction doesn't pan out there's no point to thinking about the rest of the list.
If you struggle with generating that kind of instant connection with someone I think you need to accept it may be a huge numbers game, or focus on other strategies to encourage women being attracted to you.
Numbers game means going on tons of dates and hoping something clicks eventually.
Other strategy would be to instead ditch reliance on the initial connection and instead try to cultivate their interest over time as they get to know you. You are going to have to leave your comfort zone for this and go out and join some sort of club or hobby you have an interest in, and stick with it long term. The times I've been attracted to someone despite not having that initial "spark" have all been because I spent a lot of time with them and grew to appreciate them more as we spend time together. And if you're in the same sort of activity, league, club, whatever that means you share at least one initial interest as a jumping off point. Anything like that you think you'd be into?
Let me expand a bit. I know absolute losers who get laid every week. They don't own a Tesla, they don't looksmaxx like incels, they are just average and get out and talk to women at bars, being non-psychopathic. Maybe try going out and meeting people for real
why do you want a brown girl lmao
Idk man it’s just my appeal, white girls are kinda basic and don’t seem to appeal to me, not hugely into asians
Blacks? No thanks
Just something about a latina, I just remember when I was a fatty DYEL seeing one at the gym and she was nice to me and knew I couldn’t settle for anything less than a desi or latina tbh
Incel meltdown time
Ok well you've listed what you think your pluses are. So what do you think are your weaknesses?
if you answer "none" then the answer is obviously "egotistical" but let's see if we can narrow things down.
When you go on dates does the conversation flow easily and remain engaging? Do you have other hobbies or interests that show you're passionate about something? Do you have friends you hang out with regularly/a steady social life? Where do you go to meet people?
Larp
No u
have you tried not being chronically online and not being a boring vapid piece of shit that thinks arbitrary milestones = reward ? I’ve had countless women want me simply because I’m myself and I don’t conform (badly, I’ve yelled nagger at the top of my lungs outside because of some weeds once)
Increase the energy of your personality. Always b hyped
I mog you (I've gotten laid multiple times)
shave your beard and cut your hair
alternatively let your beard/moustache grow all the way but the hair has to go
You look like you lack confidence and presence. And i am not trying to be insulting but you look like a homosexual, a bottom specifically.
As much as your post makes you look like a tryhard homosexual. You look like the kind of MF who’d be a heartthrob movie star in like 1984. Wtf went wrong.
>Wtf went wrong.
Total lack of charisma,
is spot on.
Whether OP drives a Tesla or a Ferrari will not save him at that point.
Here's a simple truth, OP: people are attracted to people who are fun and interesting to be around, which you clearly aren't. Should've focused on that, eh?
t. doesn't drive a Tesla but has a girlfriend
Stop larping
Post your real picture, I saw you on /soc/
OP if you shave your face clean and wear a wig, you'll be pretty.
get a different car you can't get caught by the hoes driving a Tesla
Unironically true. I had a miata and that attracted girls better than a tesla.
probably a large, but learn to talk to people and read body language. don't spend so much time online, go out and meet people. think less about who is better and try to really listen to what others are saying. it's surprising what you miss when you're listening to respond rather than really paying attention. talk about yourself less and show interest in others more.
*larp
>Drive a Tesla.
>Making almost 6 figures
LMAO
Get a hobby OP. Learn to play Guitar.
You give off serial killer vibes.
> I just want a brown girl bros.
> Flush down peak genetics
This is not a sexual preference, but stems from low self-esteem.
You have it, you are good looking. Plain? Go lift or train MMA and grow balls. Suffer a little.
Teslas are for nerds, bro. Most women don't even know what that is and frankly don't care mauch about your car.