Would you date a transwoman. Nobody said yes O_o

Would you date a transwoman. Nobody said yes O_o

  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Reality check.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Bichads stay winning

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The other reality check is that these numbers are not bad
      The people willing to date trannies far outweigh the number of trannies

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Damn, no one wants mtfs

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      turns out gay men and straight women are the only ones who don’t see us as our birth gender lol
      *cries as straight trans woman*

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Lol very true

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          to be honest I’m convinced there’s just too few of us for a general survey like this to pick up any reliable data. they’re telling us whether they’d date whatever they imagine a trans person to be (although admittedly a rather large portion will be unwilling to admit their imagination has failed them)

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            People see the pictures they see when they hear "trans woman" because that's the average expectation. You could make the same excuse for any unpopular demographic in dating.

            If you are far better than the average trans woman, then don't feel concerned. But people expect average when they're given nothing else to go by, and the average trans woman is not very attractive to most people.

            >In the US 15% of zoomers are bisexual
            That number is hyperinflated by cishet girl saying they are bi to feel special (they also do the same with the trans stat by saying they are nb)

            I know I was trying to steelman the argument. Honestly, it's more like 3-4% when you exclude the women.

            "Would you date [insert stereotypically undesirable trait]?" 99 percent of people would say no. But people don't date with checklists most of the time. They spend time together and start to like them and are able to look past any "flaws" (not that being trans is a flaw, but a lot of people would rather be with a cis person than a trans person) and still date the actual person. Some people have being trans as absolutely no way deal breaker, but most people saying no are just saying no to the "idea" of a trans person and not thinking about an actual person. They don't actually know what trans people are like, and may change their mind when confronted by one.

            I agree, but trans is a pretty big deal to most people; it's not something you can just ignore usually, and most of the people who are attracted to trans women like them specifically because they're trans women, not because they're women with an undesirable trait that they still find attractive.

    • 4 weeks ago
      ArabMan

      "Would you date [insert stereotypically undesirable trait]?" 99 percent of people would say no. But people don't date with checklists most of the time. They spend time together and start to like them and are able to look past any "flaws" (not that being trans is a flaw, but a lot of people would rather be with a cis person than a trans person) and still date the actual person. Some people have being trans as absolutely no way deal breaker, but most people saying no are just saying no to the "idea" of a trans person and not thinking about an actual person. They don't actually know what trans people are like, and may change their mind when confronted by one.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >99% of people would say no, but people don't date with checklists.
        you sound just like a cis woman talking to her 5'1" male best friend.
        it's over.

        • 4 weeks ago
          ArabMan

          Idk what you're trying to say

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You're talking to a pooner so they might as well be.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        this checks out with my experiences:

        i live in new england, so ymmv, but some observations as a semi-passing but attractive-regardless trans girl:

        1. that video is from 2019 and awareness of trans people (and trans porn, critically) has exploded drastically since then

        2. the percentage who actually would date a trans girl is MUCH higher than is reported, but it's dragged down massively not just by more local variables (region, friend group, etc) but by the people answering think of a trans woman as being a rupaul-tier drag queen, gamestop hon, etc. if you gave them pictures of the girls who post here, i guarantee you the answers would be much more positive than the ones thinking of caitlyn jenner

        3. we are so rare comparatively that it doesn't even seem to matter, any sociable and remotely cute mtf will have so much attention on her tail it's truly insane

        i don't even stealth, you all would clock me, especially my voice, but i've never had any remote lack of men (and women!) hitting on me, being surprised i'm trans and continuing to pursue me (or pursuing me harder), straight friends suddenly falling in love with me... and i don't even know other trans people or hang out with anyone gay. all of this has also shown me people truly don't know shit about trans women, what we look or sound like, or what transition is. barely anyone even knows what hrt is; the vast majority think hormones are something you take to get kinda moody like a cis girl, and that's it. i've had the "those are real?!" more times than i can count, even from other women.

        i think it's true "most" men wouldn't date us, but 1%? i absolutely unequivocally do not buy it. it's so much higher

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      So we're just made for each other then :>

    • 4 weeks ago
      RealOfficialPunishedMEFmoderVEVO (he/him)

      >straight men are just as willing to fuck buck angel as they are with you

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I can't even tell you the amount of tranny's who lied and told me they were stung by a jellyfish just to get me to piss on them, the answer would be 1

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    nobody dates for sex anymore, so sex is just too easy to come by.

    So when someone asks "will you date x", a person has to think do I really want to be around this person and care for them when I can just bang them through an app. Obviously, trannies offer no resource for men when it comes to dating. None. So people don't date us, unless they truly love us for some weird reason.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      People use "date" all the time as a proxy for being intimate. You can't really politely say: "Would you fuck / have sex with a trans woman?" Date is much more respectful.

      Men absolutely look for sex far and above anything else; trannies are just not appealing to the vast majority of men purely because the mere concept of a man becoming a woman is repulsive to them, not even considering having sex with them and even less being in a relationship with them.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i live in new england, so ymmv, but some observations as a semi-passing but attractive-regardless trans girl:

    1. that video is from 2019 and awareness of trans people (and trans porn, critically) has exploded drastically since then

    2. the percentage who actually would date a trans girl is MUCH higher than is reported, but it's dragged down massively not just by more local variables (region, friend group, etc) but by the people answering think of a trans woman as being a rupaul-tier drag queen, gamestop hon, etc. if you gave them pictures of the girls who post here, i guarantee you the answers would be much more positive than the ones thinking of caitlyn jenner

    3. we are so rare comparatively that it doesn't even seem to matter, any sociable and remotely cute mtf will have so much attention on her tail it's truly insane

    i don't even stealth, you all would clock me, especially my voice, but i've never had any remote lack of men (and women!) hitting on me, being surprised i'm trans and continuing to pursue me (or pursuing me harder), straight friends suddenly falling in love with me... and i don't even know other trans people or hang out with anyone gay. all of this has also shown me people truly don't know shit about trans women, what we look or sound like, or what transition is. barely anyone even knows what hrt is; the vast majority think hormones are something you take to get kinda moody like a cis girl, and that's it. i've had the "those are real?!" more times than i can count, even from other women.

    i think it's true "most" men wouldn't date us, but 1%? i absolutely unequivocally do not buy it. it's so much higher

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's higher than 1% but probably not much higher than 10%, even among young people.
      In the US 15% of zoomers are bisexual. If we take it for granted that half of bisexual men are open to trans women like

      Reality check.

      picrel, that makes 7.5% of zoomzooms who are open to dating trans women. Also, this doesn't consider that women are quite a bit overrepresented among bisexuals.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        *correction*
        Fuck, it's not even half; it's more like a third. I counted the trans man attracted ones by mistake. So it would be 5%, not 7.5%.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >In the US 15% of zoomers are bisexual
        That number is hyperinflated by cishet girl saying they are bi to feel special (they also do the same with the trans stat by saying they are nb)

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    imagine being surprised by this

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I've heard some shit on here
      and some shit accessories

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Would you date a transwoman.
    As a rule, hell no.
    Might be swayed by that woman in the video who gets stood up though.

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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