i've had a gf before, i like having one, and i'm also ready to start the phase of my life where i have a committed relationship and want to start a family in the next few years. I know i'm giving up my single guy freedom but I am fine with that, I wouldn't mind having more responsibilities and a partner to make plans and have a future with.
there's no such thing as true freedom, flesh prison and all that. relative to having a relationship, being single is more free, i don't have anyone entitled to my time when i'm not at work.
There is no such thing. Romantic love is a blue pilled cope men came up with to deal with the harsh reality of female nature that also benefits women creating retarded simps and keeping the vast majority of men in the dark about how to properly behave towards women. The truth is only men are capable of romantic love the way most people think of it, women are biologically incapable of it.
Women are incapable of romantic love because of evolutionary pressures placed on them since the dawn of humanity. Women have to carry a child for 9 months and are super vulnerable to predation and the elements in a state of nature during the time she is pregnant. For the vast majority of human history the odds of women dying in childbirth were high. Then there is after, she is going to be responsible for rearing children. A woman is hardwired to make sure if she is going to spread her legs for you, you better be worth it because of all of the things I have stated. You better be high status, able to provide resources and protection and good looking, and tall. They are much more pragmatic in mate selection than men because they have to be. They are also more able to get over relationships and go onto new ones because of tribal warfare and rape. Look up warbride theory if you really want to blackpill yourself on women.
Mens sexual strategy is to spread his seed far and wide. We dont have to carry a child for nine months and for most of history we didnt raise them either. Our lives were short and brutish ended through hunting accidents or tribal warfare. We have the luxury of being able to love romantically because if you feel strongly for a girl romantically, your gonna want to fuck her, youre gonna breed.
>Inb4 : but anon we have the pill and modern medicine Stacy should get over her pickiness and fuck me.
Good luck try overruling millions of years of hardwired evolutionary behavior with what a century of technological advancement. Just dont be attracted to young, healthy weighted women, with a nice hip to bust ratio, and clean disease free skin. Humans did not evolve to live in modernity, our behavior and fundamental drives are still the same as they were 600k years ago.
>Why are you all so obssesed?
It's the only thing that feels truly fulfilling in life. The few years I had a gf was the only time in my life where I felt genuinely happy. Like, sex is pretty good but god, just being able to wrap your arms around someone and feeling them wrap their arms around you, feeling their warmth, looking into their eyes and them looking into yours, hearing them tell you that they love you, seeing them smile when you say it back. Even just fucking being able to go home and having someone happy to see you. Like, what fucking more do people want in life??? Money? Drugs? Status? None of that shit remotely compares to love. Fucking tell me what I should want instead
>nagger a gf isn't going to satisfy you
It literally did. I was genuinely happy when I had a gf. What should I want instead? >you're still bitter.
The fuck do you mean? I was fine when I had a girlfriend.
Someone fucking respond to my post. What should I want instead? homosexuals always say that having a gf isn't everything but never say what's better
>nagger a gf isn't going to satisfy you
It literally did. I was genuinely happy when I had a gf. What should I want instead? >you're still bitter.
The fuck do you mean? I was fine when I had a girlfriend.
If that means anything to you , I agree 100%.
My guess is that people who make threads with retarded claims such as these are either:
a) KHHV but they think they are different from non-enlightened KHHVs who "foolishly" think that women are not worth it (source: chart on LULZ).
I mean I believe women are in general shit, but everyone can find a good one for them.
They obviously never experienced how good it is to feel loved by a woman. I wouldn't step on their toes for being unlucky, but if they are retarded enough to act informed and spread misinformation, fuck them.
b) people who had some bad experiences with women and thought >that's it, this is what love is.
Same as the meme where a female gets pumped and dumped and concludes that love is hollow
It's the same situation. Maybe they were with a slut that they felt no connection with, or they just base their opinions on a very small sample.
So they never got to experience any of the positives that women bring.
c) They are very well aware of how good it is to have a loving girlfriend and are simply implying that if anons are disgusting slobs in every aspect, have 0 qualities, 0 character, just want to kill themselves - girlfriend is not enough to bring light into their life
This argument is the only one that makes some sense. If your life is the equivalent of a nuclear crater, you gotta fix your shit. Once you do, THEN you can try to find love. And if you manage, it will be the best thing ever.
If you continue to dwell on your misery and never improve, just self pity, act like shit, make others around you feel like shit, then you are just not in a stage of life where you can properly experience the joys of love. Not that love is not great.
All in all, you gotta experience a good dose of love with kisses, hugging, cuddles, caressing etc. with the RIGHT person to understand just how good it feels and how much it's worth. But it's not easy. Still, no need for retarded copes like OP
Yeah that's the biggest thing. Hooking up a few times is amazing, not because the sex is that great (it sometimes is) but because you get this feeling of >I might be a piece of shit but atleast I tricked a couple of hot girls into having sex with me
It's like a validation thing.
Look, when I was young and broke, I fantasized about having a job and making money someday. Now that I do, it's nothing like my fantasies, and I hate it, but I feel I have fulfilled that aspiration, and there are benefits.
I'm certain that having a gf is no picnic, but whatever the downsides are, it probably doesn't make you feel deeply unfulfilled the way being an incel does.
yes, i'll be happy when i get a girlfriend. why? i won't be happy simply because of getting a girlfriend, no. that's not how it'll work for me.
when i personally imagine what my ideal girlfriend is, i also need to imagine what my ideal girlfriend's ideal boyfriend would be...and that is the type of person i will need to strive to become in order to be someone who my ideal girlfriend would be interested in.
and, one of those traits is that i will need to be either happy or content with life, and most notably happy with whatever processes are required to maintain that life.
so, if i'm able to become that, then i'll be closer to finding a girlfriend.
in short, i will be happy first and then get a girlfriend. so, yes, i will be happy after getting a girlfriend.
That pornstar has one of the most elastic assholes I have ever seen. Would love to bury my cock in her poop chute
Where is she now? Do any of you know her social media
Nah I think she quit porn because of the mileage that asshole was putting on.
I don't really care about le gf tbh I am only here because I am mentally retarded and lonely
It's a lot more like having a dog than the anons realize.
Can you explain please!?? 68768
i've had a gf before, i like having one, and i'm also ready to start the phase of my life where i have a committed relationship and want to start a family in the next few years. I know i'm giving up my single guy freedom but I am fine with that, I wouldn't mind having more responsibilities and a partner to make plans and have a future with.
THERES NO FREEDOM IN THE SINGLE LIFE. youre enslaved to something unless you go off the grid completely.
there's no such thing as true freedom, flesh prison and all that. relative to having a relationship, being single is more free, i don't have anyone entitled to my time when i'm not at work.
>when you get a girlfriend
I don't even want one and I'm 30 year old khhv. sex should only be accessible to healthy people only, I'm not healthy
I don't just want any gf, I don't just want sex, I want genuine love.
There is no such thing. Romantic love is a blue pilled cope men came up with to deal with the harsh reality of female nature that also benefits women creating retarded simps and keeping the vast majority of men in the dark about how to properly behave towards women. The truth is only men are capable of romantic love the way most people think of it, women are biologically incapable of it.
Based as fucked
Fee men can accept the fact that women do not love, it's literally been breed out of them
can u tell us more?
Women are incapable of romantic love because of evolutionary pressures placed on them since the dawn of humanity. Women have to carry a child for 9 months and are super vulnerable to predation and the elements in a state of nature during the time she is pregnant. For the vast majority of human history the odds of women dying in childbirth were high. Then there is after, she is going to be responsible for rearing children. A woman is hardwired to make sure if she is going to spread her legs for you, you better be worth it because of all of the things I have stated. You better be high status, able to provide resources and protection and good looking, and tall. They are much more pragmatic in mate selection than men because they have to be. They are also more able to get over relationships and go onto new ones because of tribal warfare and rape. Look up warbride theory if you really want to blackpill yourself on women.
Mens sexual strategy is to spread his seed far and wide. We dont have to carry a child for nine months and for most of history we didnt raise them either. Our lives were short and brutish ended through hunting accidents or tribal warfare. We have the luxury of being able to love romantically because if you feel strongly for a girl romantically, your gonna want to fuck her, youre gonna breed.
>Inb4 : but anon we have the pill and modern medicine Stacy should get over her pickiness and fuck me.
Good luck try overruling millions of years of hardwired evolutionary behavior with what a century of technological advancement. Just dont be attracted to young, healthy weighted women, with a nice hip to bust ratio, and clean disease free skin. Humans did not evolve to live in modernity, our behavior and fundamental drives are still the same as they were 600k years ago.
Do u recommend any book about the theme?
I don't care, I choose to believe in love, and I will not settle for anything less.
If you only know women
>Why are you all so obssesed?
It's the only thing that feels truly fulfilling in life. The few years I had a gf was the only time in my life where I felt genuinely happy. Like, sex is pretty good but god, just being able to wrap your arms around someone and feeling them wrap their arms around you, feeling their warmth, looking into their eyes and them looking into yours, hearing them tell you that they love you, seeing them smile when you say it back. Even just fucking being able to go home and having someone happy to see you. Like, what fucking more do people want in life??? Money? Drugs? Status? None of that shit remotely compares to love. Fucking tell me what I should want instead
Someone fucking respond to my post. What should I want instead? homosexuals always say that having a gf isn't everything but never say what's better
depends on who you are
Look at the monks for example
>Look at the monks for example
Monks all fuck prostitutes, anon.
nagger a gf isn't going to satisfy you. It kept you placated and look at what that "love" got you, you're still bitter.
>nagger a gf isn't going to satisfy you
It literally did. I was genuinely happy when I had a gf. What should I want instead?
>you're still bitter.
The fuck do you mean? I was fine when I had a girlfriend.
This is literally the most self reflected pace on the net rn.
>It literally did. I was genuinely happy when I had a gf.
Me too man, then i broke up with her thought I was missing out on smth
If that means anything to you , I agree 100%.
My guess is that people who make threads with retarded claims such as these are either:
a) KHHV but they think they are different from non-enlightened KHHVs who "foolishly" think that women are not worth it (source: chart on LULZ).
I mean I believe women are in general shit, but everyone can find a good one for them.
They obviously never experienced how good it is to feel loved by a woman. I wouldn't step on their toes for being unlucky, but if they are retarded enough to act informed and spread misinformation, fuck them.
b) people who had some bad experiences with women and thought
>that's it, this is what love is.
Same as the meme where a female gets pumped and dumped and concludes that love is hollow
It's the same situation. Maybe they were with a slut that they felt no connection with, or they just base their opinions on a very small sample.
So they never got to experience any of the positives that women bring.
c) They are very well aware of how good it is to have a loving girlfriend and are simply implying that if anons are disgusting slobs in every aspect, have 0 qualities, 0 character, just want to kill themselves - girlfriend is not enough to bring light into their life
This argument is the only one that makes some sense. If your life is the equivalent of a nuclear crater, you gotta fix your shit. Once you do, THEN you can try to find love. And if you manage, it will be the best thing ever.
If you continue to dwell on your misery and never improve, just self pity, act like shit, make others around you feel like shit, then you are just not in a stage of life where you can properly experience the joys of love. Not that love is not great.
All in all, you gotta experience a good dose of love with kisses, hugging, cuddles, caressing etc. with the RIGHT person to understand just how good it feels and how much it's worth. But it's not easy. Still, no need for retarded copes like OP
Because I have a sexual drive and receive no female validation.
Yeah that's the biggest thing. Hooking up a few times is amazing, not because the sex is that great (it sometimes is) but because you get this feeling of
>I might be a piece of shit but atleast I tricked a couple of hot girls into having sex with me
It's like a validation thing.
Look, when I was young and broke, I fantasized about having a job and making money someday. Now that I do, it's nothing like my fantasies, and I hate it, but I feel I have fulfilled that aspiration, and there are benefits.
I'm certain that having a gf is no picnic, but whatever the downsides are, it probably doesn't make you feel deeply unfulfilled the way being an incel does.
yes, i'll be happy when i get a girlfriend. why? i won't be happy simply because of getting a girlfriend, no. that's not how it'll work for me.
when i personally imagine what my ideal girlfriend is, i also need to imagine what my ideal girlfriend's ideal boyfriend would be...and that is the type of person i will need to strive to become in order to be someone who my ideal girlfriend would be interested in.
and, one of those traits is that i will need to be either happy or content with life, and most notably happy with whatever processes are required to maintain that life.
so, if i'm able to become that, then i'll be closer to finding a girlfriend.
in short, i will be happy first and then get a girlfriend. so, yes, i will be happy after getting a girlfriend.
i feel like i got so much love inside my chest and i have nobody to give it to, so yes, i think i would
Nah. My sex drive died long ago. Sounds like a waste of money and don't want to upend my comfort.
Im happy already and i dont have a gf
>why are you guys so obsessed with the thing you're programmed to want because it's the literal point of life?
Because Im extremely lonely and Id like to not be lonely all the time
>Will you be happy when you get a girlfriend?
Yes
Being embraced in a warm hug by person that desires you is a better antidepressant than any medicine
probably not, but i'll be gradually happier if she's the right one for me (and me the right one for her)
Will I get drown if I slit my throat or it just like cutting
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