>Wife has been a completely useless burden on me my entire marriage. After years of feeling unhappy and lonely I start cheating.
>Girl I am cheating on her with gets hired by the same company, we all become best friends.
>Girl gets upset when I explain that I cannot leave my wife for her. My wife needs my medical coverage to live and she does not work so if we get a divorce noone can take care of her or my stepson.
>girl gets upset and blocks me, deletes me on facebook,
What do I do? How do I make sure she dosent tell my wife? how do I stop her from telling my boss and getting me fired or telling my wife and getting me divorced.
I just wanted to be happy and have a friend.
Fuck around, find out
Cheaters can burn
Kek
The purpose of a wife is to serve her husband. If she cannot do that, she is living in sin.
The purpose of an adult is to use their big boy words to communicate and change their circumstances if it's not to their liking instead of being a spineless weasel and trying to get the best of both worlds by being a deceitful scumbag
If you're not satisfied in your marriage, speak up.
If that doesn't help things, break up.
You're a fucking worm and you deserve everything that's coming to you
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Can not fucking agree with this post more. Fucking adult children hiding behind religion because thinking like an adult is too scary and painful.
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You probably got cheated on because you're more of a cunt than you care to admit. There's nothing wrong with infidelity anyway.
No, but I posess this crazy ability called empathy so I can imagine what it's like to be cheated on and I can imagine what it's like to be in a unsatisfying marriage.
And by using my crazy ability I can tell that cheating is the easy way out that will hurt your partner a lot.
>The purpose of a wife is to serve her husband.
>My wife needs my medical coverage to live and she does not work so if we get a divorce noone can take care of her or my stepson.
Retard cheat take. You have no empathy and don't want to raise your stepson.
this isnt me btw, and i dont agree with this.
Iv spent years trying to get her work and trying to get her to stay sober and she has never done anything but make excuses or quit.
Its difficult because on the path she is on she probably wont live much longer but if she got sober or a job I wouldnt have a problem anymore, but If I leave her now my stepson has no future.
I just wanted to be happy, and have a friend,
Because I will probably be fired, and then ill also be the one jobless, alone, and without anything after years and years of trying.
How long am I supposed to go without touch or appreciation or respect or help?
And I was honest from the beginning, the girl and I had an agreement before we ever met, and she gave me hope that I could actually be something and not be a sucker my whole life.
But if she does tell my wife or boss and I am cut from all of my past issues do I really want to be with another person who did this to me?
I dont understand what you mean, I am the one taking care of him, if she leaves me then she takes him and lives with her elderly mother for as long as she has left. he wont have a future unless someone can help him.
he didnt do anything to deserve this though.
Holy shit we have Captain save a ho over here
WORRY ABOUT YOUR OWN SELF YOU DIPSHIT. WE ARENT FUCKIN SUPER HEROES. Get a divorce and shack up with a woman who actuallycares about YOU. This is my first post ITT and my last,stop simping. Past this point no matter what your excuses pathetic and this shit sounds like a LARP anyway
Adultery is also a sin you stupid homosexual
nagger
I wanted a divorce several times but she always guilt-tripped me into staying because she is an alcoholic and she just kept drinking herself into the ER. I just wanted her to stop drinking all my money away and get a job and raise our son but she couldn't be bothered. If I divorce her she will just drink herself to death anyway and then my son will have noone left. I even explained this to her multiple times. That I cant keep living like this. and I tried to tell her its over or that I need us to make a change we went to counseling a couple of times and everything.
Stepson I wouldn't get custody, not that he cares about me anyway. she wouldnt be covered anymore and I would probably have to pay alimony.
I told her everything from the beginning. We truly love each other and are great friends, its just i feel im damned if I do and I am damned if I dont.
What good do you think your deadbeat alcoholic wife is to your son atm?
Best for a parent to be completely out of their kid's life if the best they can do is show how to drink themselves to death
Why are you even afraid of your wife finding out? She sounds desperate.
Maybe it would be better if she found out anyway. Could be a wake up call for her.
Yeah you should tell her like
>you're a pile of shit
>I have gf now
>I'm keeping you alive
>if you don't like it you can fuck off and die (literally)
Also with the whole step son thing (you're saying it's your wife's son and not yours, correct?) you're being a total literal cuck. Ironic since you still have the balls to get another woman on the side. You have no obligation to him.
Dude, your post is so full of red flags I'm half convinced it's bait. You cannot save someone who does not want to save themselves. At this point you are just enabling your wife by staying with her. Document everything, talk to a divorce lawyer, and divorce her useless ass yesterday. It might even be the shock she needs to get her shit together.
>Stepson I wouldn't get custody
>I would probably have to pay alimony
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we have been together since 2015, she hasnt worked since 2017, so I have been the provider for both of them.
Why not simply just divorce the wife, take the son, and be with the new girl?
Are you not able to continue supporting your wife's medical expenses if you care to keep her alive?
Seems to me you had much to gain, and not much to lose.
You probably led the girl on. Complained about your "useless" wife, talked about leaving her for new girl. I'm sure you led her on. She wouldn't react the way she did unless it was a sudden and complete reversal from what she'd been told. You're a pussy, for starters. Painting yourself as a victim, just an all-around nice guy. It's pathetic.
Truth
Get a lawyer to get custody of the stepson lole
If anything I think the grandmother will end up getting it from me before her since if my wife divorces me my boss will find out and fire me.
I dont think its very easy for a stepfather to get custody of his teenage stepson anyway.
besides he might not even want to live with me since I want him to have discipline and do well in school and have a future and succeed in life and she is the one who lets him do whatever he wants.
Well, if you don't get a good lawyer you will never know what your real legal possibilities are, regardless of what you tell yourself.
Like seriously, i cant be happy,
I cant not be alone,
I cant have friends,
Ill be fired from the only job iv ever had,
12 years of working, gone
8 years of marriage, gone
Cant provide for others I cant have any hope in a better future.
At what point do I just call it quits and an hero?
Seriously. what was the point of any of my 20s and early 30s?
What was the point of half my life?
Lol i hope she reports you. You are an amoral human being. If hell is real you will get a taste of it.
>my stepson
Only a makeshift spear, huh?
>>What do I do? How do I make sure she doesn't tell my wife?
Double murder suicide pal
alright, well, calm down and try to handle this problem at a reasonable pace.
I think you should start by getting your ducks in a row by getting a divorce attorney on retainer and work on your resume and start applying for other jobs. It might seem insurmountably hopeless right now and you probably feel awful about yourself for it but you'll probably survive and you're not a bad person for having an affair.
She might or *might not* tell your boss. Don't worry about crossing that bridge until you get to it. She might not because she either thinks you don't deserve to have your life ruined (maybe she thinks you're nice) or she might be counting on you to expose her as a honewrecker. Cheaters do tend to have a sense of honor among thieves.
That's kinda funny, in a 90's day-time sitcom way OP, sorry. As for advice? Come forward when you're ready to admit to the appropriate fallout and bounce-back. Look, you didn't get married unless you saw a benefit in it all, right?