My gf is only 3 years younger than me. Actually 2 years 10 months. We’re not even engaged yet and by the time we get married she’ll probably be almost 30.
Why the fuck does anyone date a woman older than 25
My gf is only 3 years younger than me. Actually 2 years 10 months. We’re not even engaged yet and by the time we get married she’ll probably be almost 30.
I am 29 years old and I never even kissed a girl
I am 29 and I found my first girlfriend 2 years ago.
It's truly life changing and makes everything better, giving you a lot of satisfaction every day.
Don't give up anon, get confident and look for someone equally autistic.
It makes everything worse because you change yourself to accommodate others. You become a fickle man obsessed with pleasures of the flesh.
>r/Incels cope
You only change if you are a weak minded loser.
uggo cope, women is nothing more than a pet you can throw away at any moment
25 here hoping to become as great as you one day. What's funny is I'm uni educated and make about 3 times as much as most of my peers. I'm aiming to become a millionaire before losing my virginity just like the rest of very sane bizcels here
based and same.
I choose not to until I find the right one too. I will not tell her she's my first kiss tho until waaaay later. If ever.
Kek I wonder about this, how do you even go about it? Go the autismo don't talking male mode and never even answer it when asked. Just ignore.
Try casting spells or test your clairvoyance. /x/ told me it gets powerful with time
36 here and I've kissed a girl when I was like 15 but never had a gf.
I'm 19 and I have 4 wives and 15 kids
there's a sweet spot right around 30 where you can see how bad the wall was. it's better to invest into a woman post wall than in between. for example, if you date a woman who is between 23-28, you don't really know how fat they can get. it can be shocking how fast a fit babe can blow up in the mid 20s. whereas women between 28-33 you have a good idea about how big they get
That’s when you look at the mom dude.
Here is another girl I’m dating. I’m 33 she is 24. She has tattoos and I don’t like that… sometimes I get embarres because she looks like a cheap hor . But the sex is amazing. And she is really feminine and caring. A really good girl . Except she fcuked 8 guys already and she is just fcuk buddy material.
She hit on me at a party. She kept calling me handsome.
I’m getting the most attention from girls in my life. I was a late bloomer. There is hope for you young guys . Life gets better as you age.
Don’t give up guys.
She looks cute, even with the tats.
This one? Not so much.
100% look at the mom.
lol anon
that ho has had 80 dicks inside her, not 8
What if you’re a chubby chaser? Same logic applies but you want to marry?
notice how you've framed it, like it's literally impossible that they don't get at least somewhat fat
it's been hilarious watching literally every single woman I know get fat in the span of a couple MONTHS by their mid 20's, by 30 there's not a single one left
like watching popcorn go off jfc
So what ethnicities of women take the longest before getting fat? East Asians? Are there any Euros that age well?
I know plenty of types that get fat by their mid twenties here in the states. Mexicans are the worst.
Russians and Finns don't generally get fat, even when transplanted in America.
Hahaha yes they do t. A finn
>if you date a woman who is between 23-28, you don't really know how fat they can get.
Always be on guard for upper arm fat. If they have chubby upper arms when they're still in their teens / early 20s, they're prime for a whaling.
^this motherfucker has it.
You look at the mom.
You look at the dad.
This is the core of the centralized family unit, you get to see wisps of what your kids will look like, by looking at her parents and your own.
Nature and Nurture are both in play.
Only Nature cannot be changed.
At least assuming you wish to continue the bloodline, and not be a loose strand on the grand thread of history.
Godspeed, OP.
I have literally never dated a girl over the age of 24.
>t. 37 year old boomer
How do you find a 24 yo as a late 30s man?
Money
This.
If you got money, go to events where rich people go like vintage car meetups or suite boxes at sports games.
I guarantee you that hot young women will somehow always show up.
Yes. Hot young when flock to vintage car meetups. We are all gonna fuck virgins!!!!
>Implying gold diggers actually care about what the events rich dudes go to are actually about
One thing I notice as I’m getting older is that any girl that is young is just automatically hot and catches my attention.but if I was young I wouldn’t have looked twice at that girl…
Like pic related she is another 21 year old I’m dating . Kinda cute I met her at a bar. But when I was 21 I probably wouldn’t have been interested in pursuing her. All you young guys need to make sure you keep your body in good shape. And get status. That’s it. None of the girls know how rich I am. So it’s not money.
>None of the girls know how rich I am. So it’s not money.
If they know your job and know what type of car you drive, anyone can guess a basic idea.
It doesn't take a genius to guess that a lawyer driving a Vette for example is probably making good money.
Any general tips with younger women for late bloomers? I am turning 29 in a few weeks, have had only 2 long term GFs in my life (each one for 3 years), who adored me and let me cum raw in them, but I want to get more women for the experience.
To be honest. Take this from me. I lost count on how many women I have been with. Might be 50 and up. It really doesn’t matter in the end how many girls you fcuk. It’s not important bro. If you have the ability to get lots of girls and are attractive then do it.. I’m short . But I’m attractive and confident these are things young women have said that stuck to me. “You walk like you have a purpose” you look better than most guys my age” “I love to go on dates with you because I don’t have to think when im with you.” “ I like that you never tried to impress me like the other guys” “it was love at first sight” you’re so short but so hot that it doesn’t matter” “you’re always so comfortable everywhere we go”
My tip is just get status. (I own a nightclub) and put yourself around girls. All these girls approach me.Like the dentist girl I literally just asked her what she likes to eat how she liked her job. I asked her if she had a Snapchat she said no and then I thought I would never see her again and she texted me out of no where 2 months later . She thought I was handsome.girls have to know that other girls want you. Demonstrate it early. Only once for. Over do it. I can go on for hours about this .
Maybe I should make a course
holy shit he's real
but really you're not going to find fulfillment this way bruv. stick with the one you trust the most. you'll regret it if she moves on.
>girls have to know that other girls want you.
Women are herd animals incapable of forming their own true opinions, I know because this is too fucking real. The moment I get a girlfriend, everytime without fail, other girls suddenly have to have me. Everything you said is true, and it sucks that it's true. I've been with plenty of women and because of it I can't stand them. I could swear, the only men who respect women are the virgins with no women experience.
Anon speaks truths
Women were more interested in me when I was telling them I wanted to cheat on another woman, than when I said I was single looking for an honest relationship
Okay but what should I do if I'm ugly because of bad genetics? I'm fit but women don't care about that since my face is ugly. I can't even get a conversation so I don't have the opportunity to show my personality at all either.
Surgery
maybe my dude, the fact that you own a nightclub weighs more than any other of your pros? those kind of entrepeneurs always are womanizers
>vintage car meetups or suite boxes at sports games
interesting, but I don't believe women are flocking to these
Can any an/o/ns confirm?
At work, on dating sites, concerts
Younger women seek out older men. At least in my experience
This is true, but they don’t seek out men in the same way men seek out women. Women flirt and seek you out simply by being in close proximity to you. They may make a passing comment or bump into you, it’s always something that is socially normal and can be taken back “oh sorry I didn’t mean it like that” if you respond negatively to their “advances”. Women are highly socially sensitive beings.
I’m 36 but same age max on my previous girlfriends
Maybe I’m just not mature, also everyone thinks I look young for my age
Was that 17 years ago?
Most women are simply undateable and that’s a cold hard fact.
This is true so very true. Many have way too much emotional baggage… sigh.
Too much emotional baggage makes them not trust you. They get really insecure. You just have to make ‘em more comfortable they are stupid and will fall in love again
This girl is 22 and already wants to get married to me… i met her when she was 18 and I took her virginity. I trust this girl the most. If I get married it would be to her. But I don’t belivee in marriage. And the sex is not that good. so I’ll have to dump her one of these days.
Shame becusse this girls treats me the best. True what they say to marry a virgin. I’m thankful she let me know how a virgin loves. I’ll be forever greatful to her.
why not train her to get better at sex and to please you exactly how you want it?
Dude. I just lost interest in her. I’ll just take out the other girl. I know. I’m dumb but I’m not going to keep wasting Her time she wants marriage and to buy a house already to have my kids. I don’t want those things now.. I can wait until I’m 40 . My grandpa had a kid at 65 with a 28 year old. So that’s a good sign my dick will still work at that age . Here is another girl I’m dating. Just cheap dates. I don’t only date young. There is a 44 year old mom that I’m really interested in. Ever since I was a kid I always searched up milf porn. Still to this day I find them the hottest. Milfs are so hot to me . Cougars are very fun and I find myself being the most comfortable and confident around them. I don’t know why. It’s just weird that there kids are not that much younger than me. But whatever those cougars need love too.
That's the in n out by LAX
You are scum.
I’m 33 and only 5’5” I have dated only 24 yrs and under girls. It just happens… I don’t look for them. Usually hit on me. They are average. But whatever I never approach women. they hit in me or Ask me out. I look young. This is one of the girl I’m currently dating . Met her when I was 31 she was 18… now she is 20. She is ugly and 5’8” but I don’t care, I’m cumimg in her to make a baby. She was the dental assistant and I had a few appointment with her. She went through my medical records and got my number and started texting me.
nobody hits on a 5'5'' guy
Cope, pajeet. My friend from highschool was 5'3", at best, and he fucked multiple girls. He just had natural confidence.
They were probably ugly girls, though, even if he had a good face to make up for his height.
Good move anon. Don't forget to get married and raise he kids.
I have a cousin who's doing the same thing. Except his girlfriend doesn't want kids. You're fortunate. Jesus bless.
>married
The only thing marriage does is give the woman state power to strip you of everything.
Tax benefits are minimal when she'll just take everything you own anyways
not if you live in monaco
I was 24 when I got married and my wife was 22. Why didn’t you guys just get it over with instead of waiting so long?
I’ve always been scared of commitment and scared that I couldn’t financially provide and I was probably right about the latter
Committing to what though? I’ve never thought about it. I cheated here and there until she got pregnant with my first child. From there it was just obvious that sleeping around would be a retard move so I just enjoyed being a man and doing things I enjoy. We have 3 kids now and she’s still only 100 lbs. I hang out with my kids, work, invest, and play vidya. Sometimes I work on my car. It doesn’t get much better. Take the monogamy pill, anon. Shit works itself out.
Why would I get married at 24? That sounds depressing
>said the whore
So you can be divorced by your 30s and then hopefully never have to worry about it again.
That's why you are supposed to knock her up three times in a row. The consecutive pregnancies and baby raising reprograms the modern woman out of her.
This actually makes so much sense.
I thank Jesus I saw this.
I'm going to have to screencap some of the things in this thread.
99.9% of women throughout history were married before 20. The fact we’re letting them get to 30 let alone their mid 20s without being married with kids is scary.
The west has fallen
it is crazy how in american society if you date a 22 year old people will act like you're predator and a pedo skirting the law. How did we end up here? No one 10-15 years ago thought anything 18 and older was pedophilia
A lot of women don't want to commit in their early 20s, then get pissed when the same guys they rejected aren't interested anymore 10 years later.
This. Lmao
Maybe man. The richest dude I know, billionaire, drives a 2006 Toyota Tacoma.
Yep. The age of consent was invented only because feminists wanted girls to finish school before getting married. The original reason for its implementation had nothing to do with “she’s too young!!!”
interesting
onlyfans
post that on your blog
My gf's 6 years younger than me, 19 v 25. mfw
so what you are going to long them for 50 years anyways, the rsi is not going to matter in 2023 when you are a time in the market chad all you are doing is bowing to spite
This is not /misc/ sage
Didn't even bother to put in financially related in the first post
Jannies clean up for goodness sake
I'm just now ending my milf phase since they are too easy going to start slaying 18-25 yo liberal art whores now
Keep going straight away then?
I guess but my feet are swollen they are burning from the tightness.
>WAAAAAH! LIFE GOES ON AND WE ALL GET OLD. ITS NOT FAIR!
You bitchy whiny manchildren snowflakes are worse than women. Grow up and be men or kys ffs.
Desperation and propaganda, mainly. Personally I do refuse to consider women older than 25, and really it's women who will be older than 25 at time of marriage, so really women over 22 are already rotten by age alone, let alone tattoos, drugs, fornication, debt, etc.
We're living in a crisis of exceptionally rare good women.
>Imagine needing millions of dollars to pull mid roasties
I only fuck women 18-21, any older & they're past their prime.
Why get a relationship? They just cost money.
>1pbtid
>date
>marriage
>wamen
many such threads
I'm turning 35 soon and I have never had a girlfriend, never kissed, never been on a date, never seen boobs or a vagina outside of the internet. never touched a girl or got touched by one, I dont talk to any woman, dont know anything about woman. have never flirted with a woman and no woman has ever shown any interest.
Anon, the best thing you can do is
>get fit by going on keto and counting calories with myfitness pal app
>get a job at a gulf course, marina, or some place where you will have the opportunity to see/slightly interact with people but your job is mostly behind the scenes (this is to just get you used to people/women through limited exposure, not to pick them up)
>go to the library and coffee shop often and bring/pick a book or have something to do for about half an hour when you go
I suggest the library and coffee shops so you can be in the same space as women. Don't go to watch women, but rather, go to be in the same area as them as you do some work or browse the news for 30 minutes. You'll start to realize that they're not so scary as women keep leaving and entering the library or coffee shop. They're just people.
Now with that said.
When you feel ready to start talking to women, just make sure your interactions are normal. You should sort of have a reason to talk to them, if you want to talk to a girl, invent a reason as to why you'd talk to them and go for it.
There also might come a time when there's a girl you like. How do you flirt?
As for flirting, I don't know what flirting really is either.
Women have told me I'm flirty, but I honestly have no idea what they're talking about. When I laugh and tell them I don't know what they're talking about, they saying I'm doing it again.
I think flirting is largely just about playfully teasing a girl, being coy on certain things, and delivery. But there should be some repour first, like a good first interaction.
Yeah, I wouldn't want to make an event about it lol. If she asks, I'm just going to playfully ignore it for a moment, maybe flip the question back on her, and then just say "it was my first kiss with you" after we'll move onto the next thing.
talking to woman? talk about what?
what would I even talk about with them?
>"hey bby I spend the last 30 years as a basement dweller wanna come to my moms house and have sex in the basement while I post on LULZ?"
I dont think this would work or yield any results.
who even goes to Libraries anymore?
its not 1996 anymore. and coffee shops? I dont know man.
and go where? do what? sitting in some coffee shop in a corner doing nothing?
I imagine it would be dissapointing.
>Philippines trip ASAP
and do what? I dont speak the language, have no idea about the culture and I dont find these asian people to be attractive.
You’re either a troll or a useless fat fuck! Sell some shit! Go on a trip to SEA, but a few hookers your first night (fuck the language you retard, tell ‘em sucky and fucky for $40 Bucky). If your fat take that trip as a cleansing process to eat chicken and rice exercising everyday! Only use your phone for tinder and advice forums for pussy slaying. Stop being a defeatist and get your testosterone checked! OH and most importantly… stop being a worthless pussy and go get some pussy. Wtf is wrong with you?
I have never been fat, why you assume I am fat?
>to SEA
why SEA?
I'm also not poor dont know why you assume that.
what hobby?
I just assume that men who have no desire to pound bitches are fat. As someone who’s hobby is gym and kickboxing it’s all I think about besides money! I’m not trying to be mean… but I’ll break it down since I’m doing something similar atm
>step 1: get passport ($200 max)
>step 2: book flight to either SEA or SA (assuming you are white that’s why, trust me)
>step 3: book a luxury condo or apartment in a logistical spot
>step 4: use tinder to find free lancers and sluts (free lancers are sluts who will fuck for money if you offer them money)
>step 5: continue doing this until you feel comfortable with a woman
>step 6: start dating while continuously booking the whores
>step 7: get a young feminine foreign slut to be your wife and have some babies (in that country you’ll be good, daddy needs to go on business trip to America or whatever)!
Screen shot that, make a plan, execute plan! Any questions or concerns?
I’m 33 with no kids. Sometimes I wish I would have just came inside the hottest girls I bang in my life. Growing up I always made sure to wear rubber and pull out…
I wish now I would have made babies in them. But the kids would be bastards. I would not have been in there lives much l.. would they have grown up ok? I’m conflicted. At the end of the day who gives a fcuk I guess. It would have been kinda cool to visit my son rn.
Yeah I feel you brother, there were a few that I never even raw dogged! I used to blast in my ex but I’d give her plan bs. If her and I ever hookup/get back together I’m gonna knock her up (I’m in my late 20s and yes dudes get baby fever too). I always avoided the baby’s because my dad hated kids and drilled it into my head so I wouldn’t have to pay child support or be stuck with some bitch that doesn’t put out. Debating on trying a mail order bride from Russia or Ukraine sometime in the near future if I can’t find a good long term gf. If anyone has experience or knows forums about that kind of info plz link.
>dead srs btw
Take up a hobby that forces you to get out of the house and meet people. It won't get you laid but it will get you away from LULZ for a few hours which will hopefully make you less neurotic.
>I imagine it would be dissapointing
I was like you when I was in my early twenties. You’re just depressed. Nothing seems worth doing, nothing seems like it will help. The cure is simple, but not easy for you. You just have to do it. Something. Just get out of the house/routine and out of your head and go live. An international trip may seem intimidating and simultaneously pointless to you, but that’s your depression talking. It’s trying to stop you. The only cure is to take action. There’s no pill to take, no book to read, no secret or silver bullet.
It doesn’t have to be a trip if that doesn’t appeal to you, but you have to do something. Join a gym and go every day. Get a job that makes you interact with customers and/or coworkers, like something in the service industry. Even just part time.
Taking a three month backpacking trip around Europe in my 20s literally cured my depression and changed my life. You have to force yourself to take action to change your surroundings, your routine, etc. and this will change your mood and your outlook on life.
No one can make you do it. No one can “convince you” or talk you into it. No one can do it for you. But if you take drastic (or seemingly drastic) action to change your life, even temporarily like an overseas trip, it will help you. But the hard truth is that you have to help yourself.
Im 24 yo, 600ng/dl test and did that shit you talked about.
It will give you perspective but thats it.
Im 24yo and 19yo girls give me the eyefuck all of the sudden. And I am supposed to be happy about, I talk with them and there is literally nothing to talk about with them. They are just hormone ridden, and you can exploit them like everyone essentially does. But I dont want that.
When I was 18 I wanted a gf, but all I got was depression for my adolescence.
I texted with a 23 yo girl, things died down, as a man you have to perform, thats your existence, you perform or your nothing
My brain still has a negative connation to this concept of men should be able to perform, when it fact you should be neutral to it
my point is a guy thats in his thirties probably has a hard time to start to perform. given one needs to give up piece of mind for it
True and solid advice.
>An international trip may seem intimidating and simultaneously pointless to you
I wouldnt even know what to do or where to go or how any of that crap works and then use public transport in some high humidity 3rd world shithole to get around places sounds like hell.
walking around with a backpack around 3rd worlders also doesnt sound too appealing to me.
>Any questions or concerns?
seems like a lot of work so I can hang out with woman I dont find attractive and have children that I dont want to raise.
also why South Africa? isnt that an absolute nagger hellhole?
>women aren't some ephemeral beings that you can't talk to
I already know that so no need to become a minimum wage slave. the thing is I just dont have anything to talk about with them. we have nothing in common.
>South America
Come on bro, I listed it out so it’s easy! I was listing out the end stuff in case you wanted a family. Do what you want, if my dating life wouldn’t have taken off in my late teens and early twenties I’d be an expat. Doing whatever job it took, stacked money, sold everything. And fulfilled my destiny as a coomer. Just trying to help my fellow man
>South America
but is it a good place for someone like me? I think not, the locals will see my white ass and try and mug me. I'd be like a walking ATM for them and I have no idea what these people talk about so they could be plotting my murder in front of me and I'd never know.
kinda depressing that the only way to get laid for me is taking advantage of impoverished woman in south asia or south america/africa.
dont wana be a naysayer but i would never do s. america alone at least. u gotta look at LULZ as if they were paid shitcoin shills. ur going to get a lot of hyped up positive experiences and you never see anyone talk about the negative things of their travels, which is a huge red flag making me think its all shills. travelling alone has never worked out well for me. just remember all you are is an atm machine to the locals.
This!! I just came back to this thread and this is the answer… for everyone
I go to libraries lol
As for what to talk about, that's why you would need to have a reason. But before you have conversations with women you should be get more used to them, which is why I suggested the gulf course/marina work so you can ease your social anxiety. Being in a line of work that just has a lot of people around will do the trick.
>window washing
>grocery store cart retriever
As long as you get in proximity of people with out having to actually interface with too many since you should view yourself as building a skill that takes practice.
So that said.
Apply for any position you'd be comfortable with and you'll just keep being around people, all sorts of people. Including women.
That would help you over time to build your endurance to social anxiety and slowly make you realize women aren't some ephemeral beings that you can't talk to.
Try leaving the house / your bedroom.
at that point just pay for sex, anon. assuming you live in a country where it’s legal, and if not maybe you should consider moving to one.
This!! I’m a bartender and slutmaxxer (chose the profession for my coomer lifestyle… it worked) and I’m considering working two gigs this summer so I can go on a whore pilgrimage in a foreign country later this year to fulfill my coomer destiny while I’m still young and look good (6ft, 175 ripped). Just like with women not telling their simp husband about their younger slut fest! I’ll never tell my next gf or future wife (if I ever get married) about my nut busting adventure! They can assume it but I’ll just say I went there for the “culture and architecture”.
>stop being good goys, if you have little to no experience with women work a job with lots of sloots, AND go somewhere with literal whores and pay them to fuck you for fucks sake
What counties are you looking into? You’re lucky your 6ft. That helps. I’m looking into Colombia. But I also currently go to Tijuana a lot. I don’t know if this is only me but I have hired three hookers and they have all ways been disappointing. They just look at the clock. Suck dick really bad with fake moans l. They never seem into it. I don’t even get off. I rather pick up women from their jobs.. idk
I also want to make babies in those foreign girls. But I don’t know if I will miss my kid…
Yes Colombia, perhaps Brazil as well or even Argentina! I study other whore mongers and the trick is to be aesthetically pleasing. Then it’s like a treat for the chicks. And I’m not only gonna pay, I’m gonna use tinder to test my power level in each location before I go (yes paying for gold is cucked but idc). And yes If I meet a young beautiful woman there I’m 100% gonna knock her up and have a secret long distance family. But for now one day at a time
>I'm turning 35 soon and I have never had a girlfriend, never kissed, never been on a date, never seen boobs or a vagina outside of the internet.
This is not ok. Philippines trip ASAP
Ideally just move there for a year or more
I met my girlfriend when she was 27 and I was 33. She was a virgin when we met, she turned 30 this year and we are getting married. So it can happen, I spent 1.5 years swiping and going on dates, talking on 5 different dating apps before I funnel this out.
I dont date i just fuck girls or not. I don't mind having them around while i run my errands and do shit i want to do. They can pay for their own shit though. If they don't like it they can fuck off.
take the groomer pill. for every young girl thats completely legal AOC in most of the world thats groomed into a debtmaxxing pro that's an extra 100k at least by the time she's in her mid 20s and ready to do it again (in new hampshire where SOL is 3 years). no need to worry about wear and tear bc they arent renting out their holes like the old fashioned pimps would have them do. you are just grooming them into manipulating the credit system, which females have the upper advantage because the lending industry knows they do 85% of consooming in the western world. and if they want to jump your nuts for helping them become a debtmaxxing pro then who are you to say no?
Men used to have their shit together and been in a position to make a proposal by the time they were in their early 20s. You aren't as great of a man as your father. You are a failure.
I'm dating this 22 year old and i'm constantly crushing on these 25-29 year old women. She is so inexperienced that her personality might as well be a cardboard
society puts a lot of pressure on guys to use up the roastie supply.
Lots of government issues rejects out there, once they're past 35 or so they'll become the kindest, most wonderful, down-to-earth people you've ever met.
They also like everything you like. Its flattering but its a lie -- they cannot pair bond with you. Abort!
My gf is 17 years older than me.
Fuck jannies