Title. Why not just hide being trans or gay, etc.? What do I gain from telling other people and letting my family know I wish I was a woman and that I am sexually and romantically attracted to guys? I'd say I gain nothing but lose everything + I'd be a hon if I go on HRT anyways.
Seriously, people hate trans folk so much, it's not worth it to do anything besides just repress. It doesn't really matter that much anways, no one really needs to know about the real me.
you can hide being gay but it’s hard to hide being trans
despite you being a nagger homosexual for using folk in a sentence i do agree with you coming out is a meme and should be avoided by most
t. life ruined by coming out
Not everyone is a pussy like you
You're creating fake scenarios in your head where people hate you.
You're effectively alienating yourself from other people.
You're not even giving them a chance to like you.
I would agree but I'm telling you, I'm really, truly not, I would be a hon if I transition and I would be homeless, lose my job, etc.
Not worth it.
>You're not even giving them a chance to like you
But what if they've made it obvious my entire life that they hate me, the real me, and the person I try to pretend to be, and would never at any point prefer me to be happy over me being a miserable and suicidal skinsuit of a person?
Sounds like an abusive environment no matter what.
You shouldn't have to put up with it.
People who accept you are out there.
there is nothing you can give me that would make it worth cosplaying as a man my whole life
Nobody gives a shit tbh. Instead of repping like a pussy, just live your own life. Doesn’t mean you gotta shove it down other’s throats tho.
thats what im doing essentially, thats what permaboymoding is
but it means you have to live a completely inauthentic and unsatisfying life
also, if you can pass, you kinda need to come out
but yeah i sorta agree on how useless it feels to come out if you don't pass. its like i'm just admitting to taking hrt and nothing else changes
if you can repress with KYSing you are faketrans
i feel the same way. tell people im a fag with gd would make my life worse than it is rn.
Yeah I just let them believe what they see and gaslight
t. pinkpilled ex-repper
i actually do regret not just fucking hiding it. but if you can trust your family it's good not to have to hide from them you unloving psychopath. don't you want to be able to live honestly as your truest self? men and women holding hands is an idea in songs and movies and people will smile at straight couples walking together. i'd love to live in a world where the same was true of gay and trans ppl
>don't you want to be able to live honestly as your truest self?
That doesn't require coming out to their family?
>men and women holding hands is an idea in songs and movies and people will smile at straight couples walking together. i'd love to live in a world where the same was true of gay and trans ppl
I would too but it's not gonna happen in our lifetime, unfortunately. So I have no choice but to repress.
The only thing you're wrong about is that you have to repress. You can just boymode and then cut your family off without a word.
I ain't no pussy. If someone has a problem, they can whine to me directly.