Why no Compliments

1. People don’t give compliments (when was the last time you gave a compliment?). People are shy sometimes, even if they notice you.
2. You are unwanted. Your appearance, your attitude, your face, race, height, whatever. Some don’t like you.

45 thoughts on “Why no Compliments

  1. Anonymous says:

    Idk bro I get compliments pretty often, especially when I go out to bars and clubs. I got slightly curly hair and when I style it right everyone loves it. I try to give compliments to people I see on the street if I really like what they have going on.

  2. Anonymous says:

    >give compliment
    >person thinks you’re hitting on them
    >they start acting weird or leave
    ill keep my thoughts to myself

  3. Anonymous says:

    I have never gotten a compliment despite being white and handsome so I think I must just be too handsome and people feel intimidated and don’t want to approach me because I’m out of their league

  4. Anonymous says:

    First client of the morning told me I smelled nice. Wearing Polo Red

    Anon, you don’t own polo red, blue, green, and black? Anon, why not? You need more?

    • Anonymous says:

      You’re an asshole

      I have never gotten a compliment despite being white and handsome so I think I must just be too handsome and people feel intimidated and don’t want to approach me because I’m out of their league

      Could be or could be not

      >give compliment
      >person thinks you’re hitting on them
      >they start acting weird or leave
      ill keep my thoughts to myself

      Exactly, sometimes people don’t give compliments even if they want to

  5. Anonymous says:

    Don’t be that guy. People go through life wishing they had more positive reinforcement from people around them but never being the one to give it to others. When you see someone wearing something different, bettering themselves with a hobbie or working out, compliment them. Tell them their jacket is cool, or they’re looking buffer than normal, or something. When you’re buying groceries, ask the cashier how their day is going and find something nice to say to them. Be the change you want to see in the world

  6. Anonymous says:

    You’ll receive more compliments if you don’t come off as desperate or cringe. I am handsome and have a great smile. I have dated beautiful women my entire life. Women and men have always complimented my women. I only receive compliments from women though. I used to get stopped in the street a lot. People don’t usually approach very good looking people regardless of gender. Being too good looking is offputting and makes you feel unapproachable. I compliment the cashier’s eyes, the bank teller’s nails, the store attendant’s outfit etc. Practice giving so it is easier to receive.

  7. Anonymous says:

    Got complimented for my outfit earlier today. Was wearing a white v-neck t-shirt, not this black one, but had to change it after making dinner. Was complimented for my beard too!

    Have you made an effort to create a pleasant and welcoming social environment around you OP? Maybe the problem is you?

  8. Anonymous says:

    I get compliments pretty often. Does this mean I’m attractive? Just yesterday an older woman in my office(42, pretty attractive with big tits) walked up to me and smelled me and said I smelled nice. She’s also complimented me on my clothing multiple times. I don’t think it means anything cause she’s married, though.

      • Anonymous says:

        >Doesn’t mean anything because she’s married

        2024 and this man genuinely thinks these hoe’s are loyal, the amount engaged and or married women I’ve seen that give absolutely no hecks would ruin you forever

        Huh, that makes sense suddenly. A month ago we were talking about exercising and she made me feel her thigh, which was very awkward and strange I felt.

    • Anonymous says:

      >Doesn’t mean anything because she’s married

      2024 and this man genuinely thinks these hoe’s are loyal, the amount engaged and or married women I’ve seen that give absolutely no hecks would ruin you forever

  9. Anonymous says:

    It’s either 2 things for me: 1. I’m very unapproachable looking. I wear a lot of dark clothes, usually wear black boots that make me look like a skinhead, and and have a pretty masculine face with a beard on top of that. Also I have a resting pissed off face.
    2. I’m just ugly. I don’t doubt this possibility.

  10. Anonymous says:

    I’ve had multiple women piss and shit in public after being in my presence. Full on diarrhea doo doo dookie pee pee runny wunny on their dicky

  11. Anonymous says:

    Last time i gave and received compliments was about 5 minutes ago at the office water cooler
    Maybe you’re just ugly and fat

  12. Anonymous says:

    I used to get a ton at work but I haven’t in like 2 months so I’m wondering what happened and how do I get back the validation

  13. Anonymous says:

    I had a date a few days ago and she complimented that I actually dressed nice and put in real effort, which is a lot more than any other guy she’s dated has one. We’ve got another date next week, so it went pretty well then.

    • Anonymous says:

      “I give it up for free to guys who don’t try at all. I like that you tried though! That makes me feel good about myself!”

      As hopeless as the autistic guy in the thread not realizing the lady at work wants to heck.

  14. Anonymous says:

    I’ve seen guys get this kind of compliment on dating apps:
    >You’re not really my type, but I love that shirt 🙂 All the best.
    lmao

  15. Anonymous says:

    Women have consistently complimented my fragrance choices and hair style. I love it and it makes me feel good. If they only new what a perverted freak I was. 5’7" btw

  16. Anonymous says:

    I know a girl that is extremely overweight and only wears graphic tees and she gets a compliment everywhere she goes. I can’t figure out if it’s pity, customer service or if it’s because her round face is so cheery

    Girls say, oh I love that shirt and the shirt will say something stupid like, I’m a b***h without coffee or just have a shitty picture of a tree

  17. Anonymous says:

    When I was younder I used to get complements and get hit on by random women when I would go to shows and whatnot. Now I am old and grizzled and have a child so I don’t get anymore, so no more complements for me. Enjoy it while you can, kids, because it all comes crashing down and life turns into a living hell and you spend the rest of it wishing you were dead.

    • Anonymous says:

      I had a client call me today and basically say the same thing, implored me not to get married and not to have kids. He said his days of being single, even if all he did was spend all day playing video games, were a lot more enjoyable. kek

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