Why is the dating market a joke? Is there any way to fix this problem?
Why is the dating market a joke? Is there any way to fix this problem?
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>Why is the dating market a joke?
Unironically because of unrestricted capitalism and inherent female behavior.
>Is there any way to fix this problem?
No. We just have to live with the fallout.
>blaming capitalism
cope commie
What's your reasoning. Seems like capitalism and hypergamy go together
Yep Liberalism led to this stratified and atomized world
idk about that, hasn't society always been stratified? as for atomized, probably, I can see an individualistic worldview doing that.
>Unironically because of unrestricted capitalism and inherent female behavior.
>No. We just have to live with the fallout.
What about nationalising Dating apps and making them more fair aka showing Women their actuall value
Were repeating the dating market of the Soviet Union. Things got really damn bad in the Soviet Union they put in a bachelor's tax to try and fix it until they released women were the problem.
Yes date whales and ugly women
>Is there any way to fix this problem?
take away women's rights and ban dating apps
women are takers. takers never know when to stop taking. it takes violence to let takers know they can no longer take
the answer is to stop prosecuting violence against women
Yes. Steal a woman that is already taken You have to compete with every man when going after a single woman but if they're in a relationship then you only have to complete with one man that they likely have complaints about.
The days of monogamy, of every boy gets a girl are over. A bygone era. Online dating and female empowerment murdered monogamy. Hypergamy is proven statistically.
Depending on the sudy, women reject 80-95% of the men they see on Tinder. 62% of young men are single, a number so haunting even mainstream media ran headlines. 30% of young men report ZERO sexual partners in their WHOLE LIFE.
The sexual market for young people in the United States can be described as a class hierarchy, eerily similar to real economic classes:
>upper class (Chads)
Constitute the top 10%. The sole real winners of hypergamy, concentrating around 50% of the wealth (access to relationships or sex). Gigachads (top 1%) may cuck Chadlites, just as corporations may crush small business owners. Nonetheless, Chads are content, as they enjoy five to ten times what the average male gets.
>true middle class (high-tier normies)
Shrunk from formerly 60-70% of the young male population to meagre 40%. Men in somewhat loving sexual relationships. "Their" woman might monkeybranch to Chad at any possibility, yet they have a chance of finding another one through enormous effort, keeping them in a permanent cycle of joy and grief.
>wannabe middle class (Reddit-tier normies and basedboys)
Around 20%, just above incels. Live paycheck to paycheck (crumbs of attention and sex from low value women), incapable of building wealth (loving relationship). Defend the system to please Chad and women. Happy to hook up once a year with someone Chad pumped and dumped, ultimate class of useful idiots.
>Lower class (Incels)
No longer a fringe phenomenon, constituting a shocking 30% of young males reporting ZERO sex. Forget loving girlfriends, they dont even get casual crumbs. Disenfranchised or enraged by having their basic needs denied, but too ashamed to ever voice true resistance. Propaganda aimed at the shrinking middle classes demnizes the lower class as source their problems, even as the system is broken to the core.
>Depending on the sudy, women reject 80-95% of the men they see on Tinder
>muh tinder
didn't read the rest
keep coping, loser
>Why is the dating market a joke?
Too many men vs demand for men
>Is there any way to fix this problem?
Yeah, kill off enough men so they become scarce
this
1. Expand the LGBTQ+++
20% of boys should be turned into trannies and femboys
another 20% should be gay
2. Max trench warfare against Mexico
Only give men old guns
Many will die and the objective of the war is to kidnap their young women and bring them back to America.
3. IVF - almost all new births is female, only 10% percent will be boys.
stop whining and fuck more girls
Compile a harem of autistic fembots. Why doesn't everyone do it?
>Compile a harem of autistic fembots. Why doesn't everyone do it?
I can't compile anything unless I can find a tarball or a git repo
Foids refuse to admit they only want Chad so men try to get dates only to be ghosted because they arent Chad, the men who realize this become volcels.
i had a girl tell me i would be her boyfriend. she visited one time and we sucked each other.
she then pivoted later and said she just wants to have fun, not be in a relationship.
dating is a joke because women don't want to date.
they want this new 2020 version of sex service. it's not dating, it's more like just window shopping for Chad, that's the only way to describe it.
they just choose Chad and he comes over and lays pipe. there's no need for anything in between, no need for dating, no need for communicating with anyone, no need to leave the house, etc, etc.
women have it on God mode right now.
oh well, karma will come for them, this i know. it always does.
You've noticed this too?
Something drastic has changed, I guess it could be thing. I get really good matches, and I've been trying to chat with them like I used to in 2020 (I had a decent time then) but this 2023 is killing me. Apps are retarded because women are. I don't know what they want. The "hey, how's it going?" Opener doesn't work anymore.
Dating apps are horrible for self esteem. I quit them for good.
>match with girl
>chat then I give her my number
>hey T, it's E!
>hey, <reference from early> then ask her about her schedule to hang out some time
>she sends me a 🙂
It's as if she know how hard it is for guys to get women, and that 🙂 is rubbing the doo doo in my face for some sick and sadistic reason.
In my experience, many girls experience some kind of mental illness or abnormalities (i.e. daddy issues). Of course, from what I hear from women, there is plenty of boys like this.
Many, not all, but many women I have pursued, fucked, dated, or even just be friends with, they will just stop communicating out of no where, play retarded games for no rational reason, and push you away when they're done with you (sex) or if you get too close. Many young women self-sabotage relationships, or don't know what they want. This past year, I was attempting to date a girl, and she essentially led me on, she seemed pretty into me, but now takes days to respond. We used to joke around, and have fun in person to not even giving the time of day. I did nothing.
>tl;dr
People are mentally ill recluses, who self-sabotage any attempt at forming platonic, and romantic relationships.
They live off emotional highs (and lows) until they reach their 30's and realize time is running out.
All is a thought.
The thought/souls that exist in a world with a good dating market. . . must be grown and spread and empowered and loved
Utopia only exists via utopian thoughts.
You can only be in heaven via heavenly thoughts. Etc
Stop being a 3/10 male and try to date 8/10 women. Know your place.
speaking from experiencce?
Your place is beaten and tied up in my basement, whore
i'm coming around on the idea of "dating market" being a terrible conceptual model for the group of single people looking for mates. Like, a marriage isn't really a trade deal, so much as it is a mutual sacrifice, and the concept of a sacrifice doesn't fit into a market.
people calling it a market are pure retards. i reject all that PUA-esque garbage.
calling it a market and then complaining is zero self awareness.
the problem is you think of everything in terms of capitalism. we get it, capitalism exists, but people's whole fucking personality is capitalism now. it's anti human.
Ever heard of a contract?
Marriage is a contract before a figure of authority. The Church before secularism, the state afterwards. You agree to the terms and conditions in front of the priest, remember?
As all other markets, the dating market has some own characteristics. It is closest to the job market in my opinion. You have unemployed people (single people) who then agree with another person or entity, For comparison with the dating market, I'll assume all employment is permanent for now. You agree to give up your time and reject any better jobs (partner fidelity/exclusivity) in exchange for the employer paying you. The dating market is a lot like two people employing each other.
But then they made it easier to go separate ways (divorce), decreased penalties for infidelity, allowed short-term and part-time contracts...
It is a trade deal. Always has been.
I pity your lack of imagination and inability to understand high concepts through comparison and analogy.
Marriage is a spiritual union before God. You agree to enter into it, but you promise to share your whole life. It is not an exchange between two individuals, it is a union of them into a new thing. The problem of seeing it as a market trade is that after a trade, two individuals go their separate ways with their goods.
Did you read a single thing? Contracts, anon. Contracts. Trade deals are not just $$$ vs pizza - you have contracts for long term continuous trade deals. That's a trade deal too.
>Marriage is a contract before a figure of authority.
In your case, a contract before God. You makes vows right there in front of the priest, you read the terms and conditions. And for the contract to even occur you needed a connection before, which happened when your supply and demand met her supply and demand.
Let it rot.
Why do people always act as though they aren't active participants in the world? It is the way it is because o people freely making there own choices, why would it be fixed if its the result of people doing what they want?
If I had to actively participate in this world that would mean repentance for all the bad things ive ever done over the years and that would probably kill me instantly so I try not to think about it
Because incels are not a part of the world, we are actively pushed away. We want the dating market to be fairer so it gives us a chance, we want people to be more considerate and respectful, also sleeping around is bad for pair bonding, so it leaves those who want to get married with fewer prospects.
You don't want a dating market thats fairer, you just want it to be easier for you, theres a difference. There is no structure that is working against you, if men want it more, then obviously the less interested party is going to have the advantage. Why would women actively work against their own interest for you? Unless men stop trying so hard this will always be the case. You are also desperate so you are contributing to this.
How exactly am I contributing to this? Womens interests change with age and depending on what the culture tells them they should want. If all women flock to the rich 6 4 chad, ofc more women will want that kind of guy.
>dating market
What does that even mean
It's just people interacting
damn what a cutie
would make her say "fuck my rice pussy" while i pounded
An EMP that destroys the electronics of the world. Also WW3.
Anything to destroy this evil globalist hegemony that is turning us into sexless wage slaves, similar to Orwell's '1984'.
dating market is fine, just don't go for women out of your league, know your place
>women out of your league
There is no such thing.
you are here, 90% of women are out of your league
Oh yeah, is that so? No door is closed for me. I am the one deciding what type of woman to date. If you truly think some of them are out of your league then this is the only reason why they are.
This
The dating market is so absolutely gonked female attractiveness doesn't impact your chances.
A 50 year old morbidly obese woman still has a practically endless selection of cock in 2023 so shes going to be just as picky as a hot thin 20 something.
The trick is "lowering your standards" should only ever add women to your dating pool not subtract, yeah go for ugly women but don't psyche yourself out of the more attractive ones.