Why is it impossible to find a girlfriend?

Why is it impossible to find a girlfriend?

  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Most guys have zero trouble getting girls to sleep with them, for a small minority of guys, getting a text from a girl is a once in a lifetime thing, no matter how hard they try

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Most guys have zero trouble getting girls to sleep with them
      citation needed

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's just becuse of how limited contact with women is in modern world, it's limited just to school and your social circle, so if your friends don't happen to know single girls and you're out of school, you have no possibility of contact with women, much less getting a gf

      quit your job, go to school and meet girls there, ask them out and you will find a gf in no time

      this, guys have 0 trouble getting to sleep with girls, you just need to be in school to get them to text to you and then you can sleep with them
      it doesn't matter how hard you try, if you're out of school

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Have you been tested for any mental disorders?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          No, why the fuck would I do that

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Because you spend 24/7 on here spamming this crap.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Society is barely society at all. We have enormous cities of millions of people that never talk to each other.
        Uni guy is very committed to his shtick but he is an obvious symptom of a real problem.
        Lack of actual socialization. We are very introverted nerds that grew up with LULZ as our social interaction. Soon, our life will be the normal standard life for zoomers and the generation after.

        Millions and millions of people, very very alone.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm +30 never had a gf. I think it's mostly because my mom is against male heterosexuality after she was almost raped when she was pretty young. I think that she hasn't got over it and now male heterosexuality is a subconscious threat to her and her body attacks me subconsciously for having heterosexual sex drive which reminds her of rape attempt. She subconsciously weakens my libido and turns my natural sex drive against me so I have very hard time trying to impress women. I think that she should fucking get over it because her trauma has ruined my life. When I fucked prostitutes while living in same house than her, all kinds of misfortunes started to happen combined with big anxiety. She has cursed me.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Get off the computer and get out where the girls are.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      the problem for him and many guys is that school is the only place where they are where they also want a stranger to talk to them

      Society is barely society at all. We have enormous cities of millions of people that never talk to each other.
      Uni guy is very committed to his shtick but he is an obvious symptom of a real problem.
      Lack of actual socialization. We are very introverted nerds that grew up with LULZ as our social interaction. Soon, our life will be the normal standard life for zoomers and the generation after.

      Millions and millions of people, very very alone.

      The solution to that is school, school lets you actually talk to these millions of people or at least fraction of them by putting you in the same room and giving you things to talk about as well as people open to conversations with a stranger. You can be super extroverted and desire social interaction, there's nowhere to do that anymore with women outside of schools because women are the ones who don't ever talk to strangers in cities, they only do that in schools
      You're not a nerd, you had other social interaction, you're extroverted.
      Guess what, if your circle of friends doesn't include single women, you won't get to get a gf because there is nowhere for you to talk to women.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Oh would you just shut the fuck up. Damn dude. We get it SKEWL SKEWWWL!! GODDAMN

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I agree, it's not a helpful answer.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous
        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I love this meme. I can't tell if it's literally just 1 guy, or if this is just common enough incel rhetoric that it could be coming from any number of them.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It's literally one homosexual who can't make friends outside of situations where people are literally forced to talk to him.
            Like bro go to a fucking paintball field or some shit and talk to the regulars. Do something besides expecting to be handed opportunities.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Yes
          You cannot disapprove anything I wrote

          It's literally one homosexual who can't make friends outside of situations where people are literally forced to talk to him.
          Like bro go to a fucking paintball field or some shit and talk to the regulars. Do something besides expecting to be handed opportunities.

          There's no social situation for men to talk to women outside of school and mutual social circle
          n-word go to paintball field, it's just old men. No women, no one to talk to.
          I am doing something, I'm working towards my opportunities, saving my money to quit my job and go to school ASAP.
          n-words like you who just expect everything to be handed to them are the problem. You have never been to a paintball field but suddenly think it's ideal place for picking up women, who aren't even there, how retarded is that? You're not doing shit

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Something about seething uni incel really makes me want to root for him.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Esse cara têm razão estou voltando pra a faculdade por isso.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >n-word go to paintball field, it's just old men. No women, no one to talk to.
            Talk to the old men, retard. They're not social retards like you, and know plenty of women. Make friends with them and go tubing. THEY WILL BRING WOMEN. THIS IS HOW EXPANDING A SOCIAL CIRCLE WORKS. You would know this if you weren't RETARDED.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              No, you retard. They won't know any women, you're the social retard here, do you think a stranger will instantly just invite all single women he knows instantly just because you said hi to him at a paintball range? That's not how social circles work. You would know this if you weren't RETARDED.
              Why the fuck are you so obsess with paintball, there's no women there. Who the fuck thinks the best way to meet women is to go to paintball range hoping that strangers there will instantly set them up with someone, how retarded do you have to be. Have you even go for paintball?

              I took a 12 week woodworking class when I was 28 and it was 70% women. Have you considered being less of a chud?

              I took a 12 week woodworking class when I was 28 and it was 100% men. Have you considered being less of a coping retard?

              All these classes are always nothing but men

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I see, you don't care about reality, you're just here to bitch and make excuses.
                .NOOO YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED TO MEET PEOPLE DOING FUN THINGS
                >YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED TO MAKE NEW FRIENDS
                >NOBODY KNOWS WOMEN AND THEY ARE LITERALLY KEEPING THEM AWAY FROM YOU
                Grow up.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Have you even go for paintball?
                For over a year. Met a ton of fantastic people. Went on to do a ton of other shit that isn't paintball with them.

                >Even if you could meet people this way, you have to do paintball you hate
                First of all, I love this shit, why the fuck are you doing something you hate
                > to spend time with men you hate
                Why in the HELL are you hanging out with people you hate
                > for an off chance they happen to know single women
                The vast majority of people know single women, this isn't even a question.

                The only thing we've established with this conversation is that you absolutely hate being alive and think every other human being is awful.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Not even mentioning that paintball is the worst fucking activity because most people into it are 40+
                even if they know women, it will all be married hags, none of them single, none of them your age

                You have to do activity you hate, with people you hate, who you will have to lie to about not hating them on a random chance they happen to know a single girl for long enough that they will introduce you to them.

                The only thing we've established with this conversation is that you absolutely never went to paintball and are just making shit up.

                How are you doing since going back to uni, anon?

                I'm gonna be doing very well once I get there.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Not even mentioning that paintball is the worst fucking activity because most people into it are 40+
                Are you fucking high, or have you just never been to a paintball field
                I've seen ONE person above 35, ever.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >I'm gonna be doing very well once I get there.

                "There's that guy again. I think he's like 40. Keeps taking freshmen classes and trying to get in group texts with the girls. Ugh!"

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >if you want to meet women you have to do things you hate and hang out with guys you hate in the hopes they introduce you to single females
                >which is exactly what you have to do in university but it's different there because I said so
                This dude is NGMI harder than anyone's ever NGMI before.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I genuinely hope he realizes how dumb his ideas are before shelling out to go back to school for no fucking reason. I mean I suck at making friends too, but Tinder is a thing for a reason.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I think going back to school could be great for him, provided he accepts that he should also do the school part irrespective of finding a gf.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                He never will.
                They never do.
                Honestly I feel like I'm the retarded one here for even spending this long arguing with him.
                I'll do him a favor and spare him a thought when I'm tubing this weekend with my new friends, but that'll be the last time I ever think of him. Need to stop coming to this place, ends up being an emotional relapse just from all the arguing you end up doing here. You can see it in the patterns of his arguments, he's honestly convinced that he will literally hate anything he could possibly do and anyone he could possibly meet doing it. Coming out of that with a positive outcome is literally impossible until he realizes the errors in his way of thinking. When's the last time you saw anyone here actually do that?
                Good night, anon.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Have fun tubing my man.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I will, it's my buddy's birthday this weekend. He's fuckin stoked to have me along.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                These threads must be genuinely so sad for him. He knows we're right but he just has zero hope. As annoying as he is I really feel bad about how terrible it must be in his head when he's on here.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                No, you're completely wrong and I'm right, and you know that I'm right. As long as you keep denying it, there is no hope for you, and just being an annoying troll here won't change that.

                I literally met my girlfriend on Tinder. We've been dating for two years. Got another excuse?

                He's just gonna call you a liar or some other variant. Let it go. There's better things to be doing.

                Yes, because he is a liar

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You'll never see him again if he does go back to school, or you wouldn't recognize him anymore because he'd blend in with every other
                >dating is impossible
                incel. It would take a very unique man to, after months or years of repeating himself, to swallow his pride and come back solely to admit that they were wrong - they could've dated outside of school, but they were always so afraid to try and so unsure of where to start that they never did.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >they could've dated outside of school, but they were always so afraid to try and so unsure of where to start that they never did.
                No they couldn't have
                There's nowhere to start talking to women outside of schools anymore if you're not already friends with the girl, that's problem and university is the solution
                University is "where to start" that so many people don't realize

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I like university and I liked people in university
                I hate paintball and old men there, and I will absolutely make it, it's just a matter of time

                Are you gonna join some clubs? Take on leadership positions? Participate in classes and tutorials? Or are you just planning on finding a party house and fucking around for a year and a half before getting kicked out?

                Yeah I'm gonna do everything, do all extracurricular shit to get to know as many people as possible and focus entirely on socializing

                >I'm gonna be doing very well once I get there.

                "There's that guy again. I think he's like 40. Keeps taking freshmen classes and trying to get in group texts with the girls. Ugh!"

                There's nothing "'ugh" about it, it's a normal social interaction
                You're NGMI with this attitude , you're such an insecure worm

                I genuinely hope he realizes how dumb his ideas are before shelling out to go back to school for no fucking reason. I mean I suck at making friends too, but Tinder is a thing for a reason.

                This is a great idea, what are you talking about
                You have a problem, and you have a solution to the problem. There's nothing dumb about, it would be dumb not to go to school again. There's no reason not to do it and there's a great reason to go to school, everything that's good in life is there
                Talking to girls, going on dates, having sex, having relationships, holding hands, going on walks, getting married, starting a family, having kids, buying a house togther etc.
                The reason to go to school is that everything good that life has got to offer is there waiting in university, there's nothing outside of them. It's retarded not to go back
                >Tinder
                Tinder isn't even a thing. There isn't enough women there to be mathematically possible for guys to have partners, and women only ever swipe on models. Tinder might as well not exist.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I literally met my girlfriend on Tinder. We've been dating for two years. Got another excuse?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                He's just gonna call you a liar or some other variant. Let it go. There's better things to be doing.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Talking to girls, going on dates, having sex, having relationships, holding hands, going on walks, getting married, starting a family, having kids, buying a house togther etc.
                >The reason to go to school is that everything good that life has got to offer is there waiting in university, there's nothing outside of them.
                Good fucking lord this is the saddest thing I've ever read.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Idk why but it reminds me of that kevin spacey movie where he tries to fuck his daughter's friend.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I took a 12 week woodworking class when I was 28 and it was 70% women. Have you considered being less of a chud?

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Considered and rejected.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          This. If I was a loner incel back in highschool, how would going to uni make it better?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Because now you will actually bother asking women out. Going to uni will make everything better because you're no longer lying to yourself that there's options to women anymore.

            I see, you don't care about reality, you're just here to bitch and make excuses.
            .NOOO YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED TO MEET PEOPLE DOING FUN THINGS
            >YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED TO MAKE NEW FRIENDS
            >NOBODY KNOWS WOMEN AND THEY ARE LITERALLY KEEPING THEM AWAY FROM YOU
            Grow up.

            Even if you could meet people this way, you have to do paintball you hate, to spend time with men you hate long enough for an off chance they happen to know single women
            Literally wasting a year of your life on something that has no guarantee in resulting in any contact with women.
            Grow the fuck up, you're a seething bitch who has never done anything in his life.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              How are you doing since going back to uni, anon?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I don't think he's gone back yet, he's still saving up. But I believe in him.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Oh, I was gonna make fun of him for whining about how that was also impossible. But best of luck to him then. I hope he does something to hedge his bets against it not solving all of his problems though.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                There's no bets to hedge, being in university will solve all my problems

                >Not even mentioning that paintball is the worst fucking activity because most people into it are 40+
                Are you fucking high, or have you just never been to a paintball field
                I've seen ONE person above 35, ever.

                Are you fucking high, or have you just never been to a paintball field
                I've never seen person below 35, ever.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Are you gonna join some clubs? Take on leadership positions? Participate in classes and tutorials? Or are you just planning on finding a party house and fucking around for a year and a half before getting kicked out?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                40 year olds aren't even physically capable of playing paintball. The vast majority of them are goddamn 19. This has literally been nothing but an unending list of excuses. You literally said in

                Not even mentioning that paintball is the worst fucking activity because most people into it are 40+
                even if they know women, it will all be married hags, none of them single, none of them your age

                You have to do activity you hate, with people you hate, who you will have to lie to about not hating them on a random chance they happen to know a single girl for long enough that they will introduce you to them.

                The only thing we've established with this conversation is that you absolutely never went to paintball and are just making shit up.

                [...]
                I'm gonna be doing very well once I get there.

                that in order to talk to people you literally have to do shit you hate and talk to people you hate in the hopes they introduce you to women. Have you thought about doing something you DON'T hate or are you going to continue to insist that making friends and expanding your social circle is literally impossible

                Also pic fucking related.
                You're retarded.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah, I don't think it'll work either. Probably practicing social skills, they have groups for that. (incidentally I went to one when I was at university it was surprisingly cool) I meet more people now walking my dog than I did when I was in school.
                But, idk he's got that shounen spirit.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I like this image because it shows how not-impossible it can be. Notice how top right corner man is
      >Avoiding eye contact with the party
      >Facial expression looks uncomfortable, like he feels out of place
      >Stance is stiff and awkward - he's unmoving, refusing to dance
      >Water bottle is a prop used for further distraction and excuse to be unparticipatory and self-protective
      He is like a turtle in his shell. He is signalling to everyone present through his physical demeanor "I am no one of consequence and am a bad time, please do not hurt me."

      Compare with the other guy who is
      >In the mix
      >Is physically close to the ladies, and seems to be interacting with them
      >Is extremely dynamically posed, and seems to be part of the party and dancing, or reacting to their dancing
      >Has the confidence to look them square in the eye
      He's signalling to the ladies through his physical demeanor "I am your equal and confidante. We are here to have a good time together. I am not afraid of you". This is attractive and is the kind of presentation that can get women interested and get a guy laid.

      And all this, just from behavioral choices. They don't look substantially better or worse looking than each other - if you made them swap spots and do the other's pose, we'd completely flip who we thought was the attractive and unattractive one.

      Take this as a lesson, /adv/. Confidence is key.

      Also this

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Poor interpretation. The guy is trying to get in, sure, but the girls want to dance with themselves and with chad if he comes along, and they are wanting this creepy guy to fuck off for not being chad and thinking he can exist in their immediate vicinity

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I disagree, and think this indicates a very defeatist attitudes you ought to work on - in real life women aren’t these universal rejector-bots where they’ll be like
          >BEEP BOOP NOT CHAD NOT CHAD REJECT DANCE OPPORTUNITY WITH MOID

          They’ll excuse themselves if they don’t want to chill with you or will explicitly tell you, otherwise, inserting yourself in like that IS getting in, and they’ll happily let you shoot your shot

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Have you tried moving over to the left side of the room, anon? There are no girls on your side.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Social media.

    It has distorted female's minds and expectations towards men.

    Go for more traditional or religious women, not the materialistic trash that pollutes the world today.

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