Why is everyone here so seemingly obsessed with sex? There are many other aspects to life, and I would expect that most of you would be smart enough to realize it.
Why is everyone here so seemingly obsessed with sex?
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Because a lot of people who post here are horny lonely teenagers or 20somestimes who and have entangled their happiness, fulfilment, and self esteem with getting a gf and have nothing else in their life.
Even then it is quite easy to realize that most people who are genuinely happy end up having sex as a side-effect of the successfulness of their lives. As a matter of fact, it seems that most people who live primarily for sex and intimate relationships lead rather bleak lives.
You're seeing a symptom and then think it's the cause.
Sure, there are a few cases that you can pick to support your world view but facts are there are winners and losers.
We're not "all gonna make it" and some people like to focus on the negative (absent) parts of their lives.
That's just how it is and you're right that other things can be a salve and improve life but it can't replace what is lost.
Don't be mad at people for being lost or terminal losers that's just not very sportsmanlike.
Yes. Losers are people who lie down and accept "thats just how it is". The problem with this logic is it is putting the cart before the horse because "that's just how it is" is the anthem of people who are pretending they aren't conscious agents able to affect change. See tgee usual copes of muh genetics et al even though nobody here can name a single human gene or how its expressed.
>a single human gene
Technically, the concept of "a gene" is from an obsolete hypothesis dating back to the 1920s (?) or so.
I don't know what to say to you, fight if you want but why do you need everyone else to prescribe to your world view? Just enjoy your struggle and let those who fight fight and those who don't don't.
You're just so far back on the self improvement cycle that you don't see what can be changed and what cannot because you have yet to live it.
>you don't see what can be changed and what cannot because you have yet to live it.
Oh please. Robots on the board are the people who don't live. By their own definition. Tell me with a straight face kids who piss in bottles and are suffering from mental illness and stunted development know what they can and can't change.
That's not the point, for some that's the end and for others it's a stage.
If you're on LULZ and of significant age then it's already coloured your life and everything you experience beyond it will be from where you have been and what you were.
Life is not fair, obviously, i get that it's hard to look at but you can also choose not to instead of being mad at it.
Do you want to save them? Not everyone wants to be saved even among those who think they do. I would change the world if i could by my will alone.
What are you mad about, causality? In that case just forget about it, my bad, but then again my words weren't really meant for you so decide for yourself if you want to look at them.
>have problem
>will self to solve problem
>no more problem
tfwnogf is not a insurmountable problem that requires youtube tier philosophy to overcome. I notice the reoccurring theme with people who have a 105 IQ like to cope by pretending they don't have any will of their own and are just being puppeted around by some kind of abstract principle like genes or god or something. I know it seems to make perfect sense to you, but it doesn't, you're just lost in your own head. That's it. Go do the work in the physical world.
What's with the double posting? am i chatting with a bot?
Anyway i guess 105 iq is a pretty good thing to be called by your opponent when he could just call you a retard.
Thanks for the attempted demoralization i am stronger for withstanding it but uninterested in further groundless squabbling.
If you have a real problem present it, until you do all you can have is a meaningless dopaminehit of an online argument.
>haha im not interested in debating that means I win
Come on now anon.
If i have no idea what your problem is i can't help you with it.
Take your imagined w which is all you'll get from me.
I guess you made a choice and i need to let go, i guess i want to save them too when i shouldn't.
Yes, obviously some obstacles can be overcome but what do you do when you realize that you yourself are the obstacle and you can't exorcise yourself from your being.
You can overcome yourself with discipline and mindfulness. You cultivate discipline and mindfulness with practice and diligence by doing something physical. You are never, ever, EVER going to "outthink" yourself. You need to engage your physicality to get out of your own way, to get out of your own head, which is why almost every last self help guide has something about either meditation (stop thinking) or lifting weights and exercise in it. You correctly identified the ego as the problem. The solution is realizing the ego isn't you. You realize the ego isn't you by doing things regardless of whether your not your ego tells you it won't work out. You ego does not know whether things will work out or not. Nobody anywhere does. Someone who talks all the time never hears what anyone else has to say. And in the same exact way someone who thinks all the time has nothing to think about except thoughts.
You're just wrong.
We are not all good, the world is good and evil.
What fills us is the desires of the uncomprehensible from this perspective, which part of everything cannot change, everything must always be and you don't get to choose which part you are forever.
Bro i have lifted and meditated, probably more than you which is why i said that you're just not there yet and now i'm spoonfeeding you.
You talk about ego being the enemy but go haywire when i hit you in your pride.
>You're just wrong.
I'm not wrong you're just not addressing anything I say and then making non sequitur pivots to unrelated topics like good and evil. Care to point out where I'm wrong sentence by sentence?
You're a letter of the law kind of guy who wants to argue semantics but i'm a spirit of the law kind of guy.
The rules aren't absolutes, sometimes it's like this, sometimes it's like that.
If you don't want to see nuances then that's your business, i get that it's hard to engage what i'm saying instead of going to your debate rulebook because it requires you to think critically and there's no "winning" to be had from considering it.
That said you're doing good for what you started with except for what you're doing here with me and for holding everyone else to the same standard to which you hold yourself because you don't understand that it's not applicable.
Could you address my post about ego and discipline point by point so I know what's wrong about it?
>you can overcome yourself
>You are never, ever, EVER going to "outthink" yourself.
That's you proving yourself wrong.
Your solution is to not exist. Are you doing that right now?
The answer to this is in the very next sentence.
>You need to engage your physicality to get out of your own way
You are inalianable to yourself.
Do you think we are born with an ego simply to discard it? i mean, sometimes it really do be like that but if you refuse to be yourself you're simply putting the burden somewhere else and think that it's gone because you have no memory of it.
You're asking how to overcome yourself. You do that by engaging with your physicality in discipline and work. You're not alienating your self doing that. You're getting in touch with your self and alienating the ego.
Pull up some Alan Watts if you want to learn more.
"Overcoming yourself" is not possible. You're a human with no choice but to do what you were biologically programmed to do.
You have no choice but to overcome your false conception of what and who you are.
I know what and who I am. I'm a normal person trying to live a normal life, but I can't because nobody will let me live the life I want to live.
Do you understand? I just want to be accepted so that my real life can begin.
We're not coming to terms.
You can accept yourself or reject yourself that is your choice but whichever you choose you still fundamentally remain who you are.
That is why i say there is a limit to what can be lifted and meditated away.
Change is possible and we are active actors capable of actions but you can only do so much by your will alone.
If you truly were to replace yourself to the degree that your destiny is completely changed then you have forced out who you were and are now possessed by something else with another goal and your true self will re-emerge elsewhere if possible at all.
This has not happened to you.
Are you ESL by chance?
If that's what you have to tell yourself to sleep at night bud, yeah, let's say i'm from peru.
GG turns out i lost by engaging and believing in your capacity for change disproving your point and proving mine about limitations.
I don't think someone telling you that your problems can be overcome and you're a conscious actor is demoralization. Why would you think that?
>no i can't do x because I am a loser
>x is impossible for me because i havent done it therefore because i havent done it x is impossible
People using their 115 iq to cope
120% true. Again, most kids who post here are some kind of developmentally disabled or autistic and bitter and don't realize that gf and sex is a consequence of leading a healthy life. As if you're somehow going to get a girl when you have few or no means of relating with another human being or the rest of the world.
Holy shit
A society
true but my libido is dead and im asexual
>my libido is dead and im asexual
Where are you from?
oh let me guess you think youre the alpha male who can somehow rekindle my sex drive with your super chad cock
well no im not meeting up with you so get that dumb shit out your head, thats fucking retarded
see this is why foids here dunk on you when you simp because youre already on it like a rabid dog in heat
I was just curious where you're from. I'm Canadian.
forgive me I have these random bouts of madness
did you know im completely insane?
i love canadians! but not in a sexual way
>i love canadians! but not in a sexual way
Heh! You wish.
And? Take steps to fix your libido if you want or don't. Those are your two options.
well thanks Mr. Apparent
i'll get right on it
>i'll get right on it
Good. Problem solved then. I'm happy for you.
Stupid thread. off urself
What makes you think that, anon? I haven't been here in a long time, and checking the catalog made me realize that it's mainly hornyposting.
You really wanna know? DO U!???
FINE!
>Why is everyone here so seemingly obsessed with sex?
It is like asking why is everyone obsessing over food. It is something we all got innate need for. Most of us do. Very very few people, only Indian Gurus and saints, can survive without food or something. Even then it is debatable. off-topic but you should get the point.
>many other aspects to life
Yes there are. But how many of those are as recreationally interesting as sex? You got drugfeel here, I guess.
>mainly horny postin
Lemme check that. But before I do. You know what I also think? You people been asking this almost every week or day past 5 years or something? There must be an agenda. I would not mind people talking about something else besides... idk what anime character they want to fuck this night or something. But I'd rather see that than fuckers arguing about Jesus like if it was on shortwave radio or something, each repeating points their parents taught them or some pastor. There is nothing I hate more than shallow people that think they are deep. Often, accidentally shallow people end up being deep after they finally realize how burned out they are and open up about it all.
That just was my personal opinion. Very off-topic.
Sex is the most basal instinct and default focus for the inept.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Caloric_theory
>Why is everyone here so seemingly obsessed with sex?
Because if we want to talk about something else, we dont go on /LULZ/. Its like asking why people on porn site do nothing but coom. Do you think that people who visit porn sites do all nothing but coom? This board was supposed to be /b/ but more civilized, but instead it turned into /incel/ over the years as incel websites and subreddits got banned and incelfueges flooded this website the same way that right wing redditors flooded /misc/ once reddit decided to stop being libertarian and became tranny hellhole.
That's like asking someone who is starving why they are obsessed with food or someone who is homeless why they are obsessed with protecting the little property they own.
People who have an abundance of something can't really appreciate its value, and people who lack something they're biologically driven to want can't stop thinking about it.
Why are there single women obsessed with getting pregnant when children are objectively expensive, frustrating, and destructive?
they are total mind broken israeli owned zoomers
Board's average age is 13 and has been so since 2017
If you're an adult visiting here then either your brain is 13yo or you just come in for the pics
>Why is everyone here so seemingly obsessed with sex?
It's one of the only things in my life that I don't have immediate access to, at least not anymore. Of course I'm obsessed with the only fruit in the tree that I can't reach.
It's got nothing to do with intelligence or acquaintance with ideas.
It's just disposition.
>why is everyone here so obsessed with sex
>they never had it
There you go, you can close the thread now
The only thing that still gives me pleasure is masturbating.
I don't get it either. I just chill, play video games, and masturbate. It's fun enough. Maybe they just don't have a passion, or they're mentally damaged.
Having fun doesn't mean shit. The only purpose in life is to pass your genes on to the next generation. That's what we are biologically programmed to do.
If you don't feel that urge, then you're defective. It's a part of how normal humans are programmed. For anyone who isn't defective, love and sex necessities for optimal happiness and health.
Enjoying yourself is all that matters. There is no objective meaning to life. We're on this planet for however many years, and then we die. You might as well enjoy the time that you're here for. Passing on your genes doesn't mean that you don't die.
Sex and love are basic needs, it's completely normal to feel like shit when you don't get it at all
Because if you never had sex you go insane
>There are many other aspects to life
like what?
inb4 collecting anime figurines or something equally gay
Any decision a man makes in life is esily connected to sex.
>why do people in wheelchairs wanna walk so much
>why do starving africans want food so much
>why do drowning people want air so much
>Turn on the radio
>8 out of 10 songs are about love or more rarely sex
It sure sounds like it's nice.
Sex is one of the requirements for optimal health, retard. If you don't have all 7 of these things, then your health won't be perfect.
Sex is the purpose of life its a hard coded biological proto instinct that you CANT ever ignore, no matter how low IQ or high IQ a human is sex is always on their brain one way or another. Its your DNA's way of reminding you why you exist.
Not mine. I think about sex sometimes, sure; but not all the time. I jack off, and get on with my day.
Masturbation cannot replace sex. Sex offers mental and physical health benefits that masturbation does not replicate.
It may offer additional benefits, but I haven't missed them. It may even be bad for you. A lot of people that I've known get married, and then get retarded. Their opinions change, and they do nothing but simp for their bitchy wives.
I guess, but I do mitigate the control it has as much as possible.
>I jack off
Yes you are a slave to your DNA like all of us
I would never in my life volunteer to meet anyone, let alone you. Who the fuck do you think I am?
>Why is everyone here so seemingly obsessed with sex?
Loneliness is the primary characteristic of most robot's lives here on this board. They think if they have sex they won't be so lonely and their life would improve. But at the same time they don't want to do any of the work or introspection to make themselves a normal healthy functioning sex having adult. They want a fireplace to make fire but don't want to throw on logs and demand the fire first.
Being not lonely is a requirement to be healthy in the first place, retard. On top of the damage it does to your mental health, it also physically damages your body the same as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.
Of course loneliness is damaging to your overall health. That doesn't mean your health can't be repaired.
>But at the same time they don't want to do any of the work or introspection to make themselves a normal healthy functioning sex having adult.
Brainlet, "doing the work" doesn't guarantee you anything.
I have put in the work. I've gotten zero results.
Have you tried showering and not being a misogynist transphobe who doesn't get vaccinated, inkwell? Also maybe stop pissing in bottles, killing homeless people, raping women and pushing toxic masculinity maybe? If you showered and still cant get a girl, you are probably literally Hitler
I shower. I have a job. I have a car.
It doesn't matter what I do. Nothing has made more more attractive to women. They still don't approach me or talk to me. No matter where I go, nobody talks to me or lets me join in on any activity.
The world hates me, it always has. There is no place for me in this world.
Women can smell your misogyny and insecurity, maybe don't be such a fucking bitter loser??
Not being accepted by anyone is what made me like this in the first place, retard. Even when I was a nice and kind-hearted person, I still got treated like garbage.
Then find out what you're doing wrong and change what you're doing. It's no more complicated than that. If you're interested in talking with me about your life and we can try going through it with a fine tooth comb, I'm happy to help you do some introspection and give pointers with whatever you're having trouble with.
I'm not doing anything wrong. I'm doing the exact same things normies do.
Not getting results if the definition of doing something wrong. Do you want to overcome your problems or not?
I'm not doing it wrong. I'm doing exactly what the normies do.
>Not getting results if the definition of doing something wrong
You fucking brainlet didn't adress a single point I made in my post, the only reason you're here is to feel better about yourself. Fuck off
I offered to help you by going through the specifics of your situation. And I'd still like to. Would you humor me?
Kill yourself, dishonest brainlet.
>Then find out what you're doing wrong and change what you're doing
You are saying that as if I haven't been doing that for the majority of my adult life. Have you ever considered that maybe some people aren't fit to be normal sex having adults? If it was as simple as you claim I wouldn't be here. Congrats that life has been more fortunate for you, but not everyones life is like that.
I worked towards becoming a normal healthy functioning sex having adult for over half a decade now, I think introspectively a lot and yet I'm still miserable and while my social life improved, I'm still noticeably "different" which makes it hard to socialize. Most people don't need to work towards being normal or think about how they act at all, it just comes to them naturally.
>Most people don't need to work towards being normal or think about how they act at all, it just comes to them naturally.
Everyone grows and matures at different rates. There's nothing wrong with that. Just because someone has a head start over you doesn't mean you're any less a person.
I literally can't grow and mature because being socially isolated prevents me from experiencing life, making mistakes, or learning from them.
I'm almost 30, but being robbed of a social life all my life has caused me to still have the mental and emotional maturity of a small child.
I will never mature, because I will never experience life.
>I literally can't grow and mature because being socially isolated prevents me from experiencing life, making mistakes, or learning from them.
Have you considered that this thought and attitude in of ITSELF is a form of immaturity that is keeping your from growing and advancing? A prerequisite to growing and learning is first believing and accepting that you can. Self recrimination and self sabotage is a hellofa drug. You wouldn't be able to do the most rudimentary task imaginable if you first thought you simply couldn't do it.
Some people aren't built to be normal sex having adults and will never be that no matter how much they try to change themselves
It does. Other people won't accept you because you're behind in life compared to them, but the reason you're behind in life is because nobody accepted you.
And once you fall behind, you can never catch up. You will never be as mature or experienced as other people your age.
Well I certainly accept you. I don't think being a little behind makes you any less of a person. And I certainly hope you don't think that about YOURSELF and put yourself down. Negative self talk will drag you down into the deepest hell imaginable even deeper than bullying and cold unacceptance.
You can catch up and even exceed other people. Having clawed your way out from a pit makes you stronger and wiser than someone who started at the top and never had to claw their way out.
I'm not going to waste my life working hard just to achieve what everyone else was born with.
Hard work is never a waste. Anything worth having is hard work. And again having to achieve what someone is born with gives you a deeper insight into it. You're blessed with the opportunity to know the value and joy of having something everyone else takes for granted.
>Hard work is never a waste. Anything worth having is hard work
Brainlet or female, possibly also cucked autistic male with lack of test
As a sex haver, I have to say. Life can get so shitty but at your lowest of lows, if you're fucking a baddie then it's never too bad. Good Passionate Sex is probably one of the greatest things you could ever feel. It's the height of human euphoria and ecstasy. It's like the main reason we exist, and one of the best reasons to live
OP is a dumbfuck roastia or brainfried tranny
This. The people who claim dumb shit like OP are usually autistic trannies or "men" like pic related
That's the saddest most self-unaware shit I have ever read. Made me hate women even more and I'm not even a virgin
It is a bit strange, but I think it is less about the actual sex and more about the complete lack of human connection that really tears people up, just using the lack of sex as a shorthand and instinctual reduction, I think that many anons would feel a whole or better if they just had friends, even of the same sex
Being an "incel" as it's commonly used isn't just not being able to have sex. You can always just go to a hooker if all you want is sex. No, what incels want is human connection, a bond, romance, a partner, someone who gives a shit about them and doesn't just seem them as a transaction.
But the world is changing ways that make that a rarer thing to have. Your small town lost its jobs and is too expensive to live in so you move to the city. City apartments are non-social places where people quietly enter and exit their rooms without so much as talking to their neighbours. If you want any sort of goods or services, you don't so much as have to leave the building if you don't want to because it can be delivered to you. The part of town you live in probably doesn't even have social clubs or public spaces and few people who live there are expected to stay for long, so you're shuttled away before becoming a figure there, off to rent somewhere else. All trends in fashion or culture are catered directly to you as a singular person surrounded by other singular people, so you're probably even less relatable in your interests than you would have been in the past. And by fuck do you not own anything or have much spending power. And NOTHING is free.
And this has been happening since you were a kid. You were raised more by tv and media than your actual overworked parents. You had lots more time to play alone than with other kids. You were badly socialised and didn't learn those skills as fast as older kids, so now you have some sort of autism.
The world shaped you into someone lonely and dissatisfied so it could make even more money off you. Hell, even going to a hooker would require SOME social skill, but a Fleshlite is 50 bucks and porn is free and you can maybe enjoy cooming for those few minutes.
what are you obsessed with, OP?
i'm only obsessed with having sex as a woman
the other aspects of life are mostly a cope for not being able to attain that
Kys all organisms share one instinct that is to reproduce. Everything else is just a cope
>i am instincts nothing more
100% Certifiable NPC thought
Humans can't do anything beyond their instincts, retard. We're no different from any other species on this planet.
Did your instincts tell you that?
>Everything else is just a cope
https://vocaroo.com/19B0Vcu7NPxl
All this chastity is grossing me out!
Let me tell you something, you can't just remove the nuts and bolts from boy-girl relationships!
In the end she wants EVERY INCH of your pure hard-on and YOU should be LOOKING UP HER SKIRT!
The act of love-making isn't something that's dirty or immoral!
When two people gradually reveal their intimate parts to one another bringing together their most sensitive areas in sweet harmony;
It's their continued acceptance of each other, that forms a bond ... and it's not just a physical thing!
It joins their hearts.
Don't you see? That's why dirty jokes are beautiful! <3
Kys all of life is spent to try to become an person that is able to attract a mate and reproduce to deny that is to deny biology itself
Yes. If nobody alive centuries from now carries your genes, what did you accomplish? Nothing, there's no trace of you left. It's the same as if you never existed at all.
Reproducing is the entire point of life. If you don't do it, then you're considered a failure.
Is your favorite show Rick and Morty by chance?
>a bloo bloo bloo the sun is going to burn out some day and all of this was for nothing and nothing matters
I seriously hope you are still a teenager.
What is the functional difference between existing for no reason and not existing at all? Tell me. You can't, because there isn't one.
You're not interested in existential nihilism you're just using it as a comfortable cope for why you spend all your free time glues to a screen and are lonely and miserable.
Go outside kiddo.
I DO GO OUTSIDE. THERE'S NOBODY OUT THERE.
The parks are empty. The bars are empty. The mall is empty. And the ones who are there already have their own cliques they came there with and don't talk to anyone else. There is nowhere you can meet people anymore.
When there's nowhere to go and nothing to do outside, what do you expect someone to do? I hate staring at screens all the time, but I have no other choice because nobody will let me do anything else.
>There is nowhere you can meet people anymore.
It's always been like that LOL @ you noob.
>What is the functional difference between existing for no reason and not existing at all? Tell me. You can't, because there isn't one.
I can tell you the difference between not existing and existing for a reason! ... uhm ... wait hold on a minute it's coming to me give it a chance ...
Procreation matters but you don't have to reproduce to matter.
What did you accomplish? You lived a life and played a part, you got your unique experience.
The only winning move in life is not to play and that's not afforded to us so you do the second best thing and do the most of what you want with what you have.
Look at what you're doing man, you're using pretending to help people to kick those who are down to feel better about yourself.
My "experiences" mean nothing if I'm the only person who remembers them.
That's a sad perspective and you're entitled to it but it's like that for everyone, the world only exists as it reveals itself to us.
Think about the present instead of the past or future, i know that might not make things better but that's where possibilities reside if you're not content.
I'm sorry you're lonely anon, at least you have us to keep you company for better or worse.
You can't keep me company because I have no idea who you are.
Then nothing will matter eventually. One day, humans won't exist. By your own logic nothing anyone does matters.
>Look at what you're doing man, you're using pretending to help people to kick those who are down to feel better about yourself.
I'm neither trying to help you nor harm you. I'm just telling you the cold hard facts. Man, it has ALWAYS been this way. Don't get tricked into believing this nostalgic bullshit "make america great again". It was never great, it was always a shit hole and it was WORSE than now. Do you have any idea what things were like in 1982? No you fucking don't, otherwise you'd say "you know what? you're right, it was always like this!"
I can tell you what 1982 was like. You were playing your Atari 2600 in a fucking dank ass basement all alone. You didn't have internet. You didn't have anyone to talk to. You'd hear a knock on the door and be surprised someone would actually want to have anything to do with you, only to find A VACUUM SALESMAN OFFERING TO POUR SALT IN YOUR CARPET.
You're right, you're cold hard truth or at least trying to be.
Just keep in mind what is the intention behind your sword of truth, are you cutting away falsehoods that hinder out of love or are you severing hopeful illusions that is someone's only thing to cling on to?
I feel like you apply your truth indiscriminately.
>I feel like you apply your truth indiscriminately.
Absolutely chaotic neutral, triple trips.
Fine, i have no real problem with you i just long for good.
You can never completely know me more so than i can know you, we play a part in each others life and that's nice while it last but you only ever understand us as a reflection of yourself.
Sure there's something special about a relationship developing and deepening over time but that's not all there is to know.
If there's truly no comfort in anonymous strangers then why are you here?
If you still want life to be meaningless and yourself to be lost within it, it totally can be seen that way.
You're the one doubling down on your bullshit, i see this all the time where someone "improves" a little bit and then they spend their time tormenting those that are similar to what they themselves were, kicking down. At least try to sus out who is receptive to "tough love" and who isn't.
Time to enjoy the harvest of what you've sown, not bully people on LULZ in this guise or continue to be evil trying to do good. whatever, happens every day.
That's a lie. America used to have "third places". Places that weren't home (the first place) or work/school (the second place) where people went to hang out and meet new people.
>That's a lie.
It still does, it's just only old geezers like me you'll meet there, pal.
>calling me out on my bullshit and self inflicted problems is kicking me when im down
Then get up. Or people bullying you on a korean basket weaving forum will be the least of your worries when you've wasted your life trying to cope
This board is extremely low IQ and the average user age is probably around 16-17, once you realise this the general discussion quality on the board makes a lot more sense.
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