Why don't people like being objectified exactly?


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Why don't people like being objectified exactly? I've been on HRT for a little while now, I don't want to go into too much detail but it has been long enough to be attractive to men in some ways, and perved at and objectified is honestly one of the best feelings to me. It makes me feel like I'm wanted and I have worth. I don't know why this would make anyone who's insecure angry. I feel like trans girls who didn't grow up being validated by men only pretend they don't like this because cis women are spoiled and they do it. It's a huge compliment.

  1. 3 months ago
    Tits baby

    Show me your tits

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      I already did in the other thread

  2. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    it's bcuz it's either from unwanted attention or they want to dress like whores and only receive attention from hot guys. The rest of us appreciate knowing that we're making a guys day brighter while enjoying the praises.

  3. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    when cis women go long enough without getting random catcalls or attention, they start to long for it too. uglier women and older women feel similarly to you. it's just that most average girls have been getting harassed since they were young teenagers and it becomes scary and annoying. tbh both sides should have empathy on this

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      >have empathy for foids who look hot
      they live a separate life and are privileged. do not care at all.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      it’s weird I was complaining to some cis friends about a catcalling and got all the responses we tell ourselves in trans communities are “harmful” or “sexist” and not what “real women” think
      turns out we’re all equally fucked and like male attention even when we shouldn’t

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        i guess it depends on the group of girls and comfortable they are admitting that

        the other day i saw a tiktok about some girl being happy that a homeless guy catcalled her, and almost all the comments were other cis girls agreeing and saying they secretly enjoy it

        like it's a common thing, but depending on who you talk to they will say it's more or less of a thing based on their own view of the world

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          it's one thing to personally enjoy it, to make the best out of a fucked situation, its another thing to actively encourage your objectification by objectifying your self

  4. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    1) most cis women are harassed and sexualized from a young age
    2) most women have sexual trauma and unwanted advances don't really help heal those wounds
    3) you are AGP and retarded

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm not agp, the gratification I get from this is 100% emotional. I feel validated finally. It's literally like a dream

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        it will get old eventually. especially if you get spooked real good by a persistent pervert that stalks you or you get sexually assaulted or something, then you won't feel so positively about it

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          that's different from what OP is describing retard. most people don't want to be stalked

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            i am hiding in your kitchen pantry idiot

            • 3 months ago
              Anonymous

              ok well just so ur aware I'm approaching my pantry with a knife and whipped cream uwu.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        >being treated like a sexual object makes me feel like a woman
        >it isn't sexual lol
        either you are lying or it won't last.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          I don't like it because it makes me feel "like a woman", I like it because it makes me feel desired and like I have value.

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            I pray you find value beyond being any wayword man's play thing, inshallah

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            thats sad as fuck :/

            • 3 months ago
              Anonymous

              >it's sad that people find you attractive and want to have sex with you

              foids are so silly

  5. 3 months ago
    abominationhon

    >grow up being ignored and treated like dirt
    >people still treat you like dirt, but fuckable dirt
    >feel happier
    vs
    >grow up being treated like fuckable dirt
    >never know what it's like to be treated like unfuckable dirt
    >feel only irritation and fear
    It's that simple anon
    Wish I could relate tbh. Being completely and utterly expendable and inconsequential gets rather tiring.

  6. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I was thinking the same thing but holy shit, seeing a 14 yo or so girl getting harassed by a hobo in the subway, I felt horrible for her.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      I understand that but there are a lot of things added to that scenario which make it scary. It's an enclosed space. Homeless people are scary looking and ugly mentally ill criminals and drug addicts sometimes. It's in public. There's a physical threat, etc.

      If you're online and people are objectifying you there's no downside if you don't dox yourself too hard. Even irl if someone candidly and calmly asked me for a handjob in a non-scary way or something I'd give it to them. It's flattering.

  7. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    being objectified gives a power over men, and that can feel good. for sure. but once you get into a few scary situations in the real world, getting harassed or almost assaulted or actually assaulted, you quickly realize that maybe the power you felt over men is not really an innocuous compliment
    you can do whatever you want, post nudes for chasers or whatever, objectify yourself. it feels really nice. but after the first few times, personally it's hard for me to do it in good conscious, knowing that it my liberating self-objectification is part of a pattern of behaviour in the entire trans community (and community of women) which encourages the oppressive objectification from men. its just not something i personally feel comfortable doing
    anyway, i know my worth. lacking self-esteem and relying on male validation decreases your worth. men like a chase, they don't really want some onlyfans slut. i don't believe it's good for your personal worth in the longterm either, not just the worth of your prople

  8. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Why don't people like being objectified exactly?
    it's creepy and dangerous
    >I feel like trans girls who didn't grow up being validated by men only pretend they don't like this because cis women are spoiled and they do it.
    maybe the first couple of times it's validating if you feel ugly and unpassing, but it gets old REALLY fast
    >It's a huge compliment
    I pass and wear fem stuff with open legs often, most men interpret that is an invitation - it's not a compliment, it's an uninvited invasion

  9. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    ay gee pee

  10. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I wouldn't mind being sexually objectified, but I am instead objectified as on demand labor/protection because I am a man. That's something that women don't understand. What THEY do is normal and not worth introspective analysis, but what men do is always a problem. I hate women.

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