Why don't any women want me?


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I'm intellectual, inquisitive, friendly, attentive. I'm above-average height, work out regularly, peak hygiene and good fashion sense. I accept that women have a luxury of choice and a biological imperative to choose the best physical specimen or provider available to them. However, this comes under scrutiny when you witness many women choosing men who are overweight, shabby and/or of low socioeconomic status.
I honestly don't get it. What is so wrong with me that women won't give me a chance?

  1. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    you're not chad, you're an autist that slef inserts into Eren Cuckger

  2. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    In my experience, people who self-fellate how amazing and good they are in respect to the average person are twats or autistic.

    So in response to why women don't want you. I'd put money on either you're an asshole or a sperg.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I am simply making objective observations. There are men who are physically overweight and physically unattractive/unhygienic or of low status who are able to attract women, whereas I am not. I never once said that I'm "amazing" or a "Chad". I know my limitations.

      It's not that they don't want you, it's that you're always going to be fighting an uphill battle and it's wearing on you. There is a woman that will find you attractive for their own reasons, but the odds are never going to be in your favor in the numbers game. You can increase your odds of being "the one" but can never really remove someone else's chances at being a better choice or replace her idea of what she wants.

      Compromise, either you lower your expectations or she lowers hers... that isn't to say it isn't "unfair" that you get overlooked, you just can't beat out someone's idea of what they're attracted to and it's pointless to try... you either fit the bill or you don't.

      If people ultimately can't help who or what they're attracted to, that introduces a fatalistic element into the equation. How is one meant to overcome that?

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        i look very good too and im facing the same struggles, idk why. guess its just luck

        the other guys are probably just average or even ugly and felt offended at your thread

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >Everything you said
        I see now. You're a sperg with no social skills and you are self-sabotaging whatever odds you have. Also it is impossible to be "objective" of your personal qualities except for things like height and weight.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          And how have you arrived at that conclusion? I fail to see anything I've said thus far that could be construed as indicative of autism.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >Robotic, mood-neutral speech
            >Overly analytic
            >Unnecessary big-words
            >Admission that women avoid you

            Just a feeling I have, anon.

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              You want me to talk like you, zoomer?

              >Fatalistic element into the equation
              Not really though, I said compromise didn't I? There are plenty of people in this world capable of looking past someone's perceived flaws to find something worth loving and cherishing, you just have to be willing to be one of those people that "shoots your shot" and not act like it's the only shot you'll ever be able to muster the effort to take like all the other school shooters in training.
              You will be able to find happiness, but like everyone else in the world it will come with pet peeves, frustrations and other things you need to be willing to deal with. Happily ever afters are for people that don't see love as an obligation but a gift.

              Then how come no woman is willing to look past my flaws? Why am I completely invisible to women, whereas all these other men aren't? And they're not all "Chads" or "Brads" or whatever. Like I said, some of them are slovenly and overweight. Take no pride in their appearance. But they still attract girlfriends. If it's not fatalism, then it's purely down to chance? I don't understand it. Honestly.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Zoomer
                I don't think you know how zoomers speak, and secondly I don't think I want anything from some random ass channer incel.

                You have poor social skills. Your post reeks of it, and if you can't even type in a sociable way then obviously your IRL game is garbage too.

                Stay in your lane and find some woman in a DnD or MTG or Warhammer group, they're spergs too generally.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                You just came here to shitpost and make wild, baseless assumptions. You shouldn't be on an advice board.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Hey LULZ, why can't I find a woman?
                It's probably because you're anti-social and give off bad vibes that drive women away
                >No that can't possibly be it, beep-boop, you are a troll.

                Hey man, I told you that your behavior is what puts women off, and that you will have much better luck finding someone in a nerd-group because they're more likely to be spergs as well. That's solid advice.

                Hilarious that incels can't seem to wrap their head around the idea "maybe you're actually the problem here."

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >How come no woman is willing to look past my flaws
                Your OP made you sound like a catch for any woman that gives you a shot, this isn't the case and never will be. You acknowledge that women can have the pick of the litter but still find yourself upset that you aren't getting picked... that isn't her problem it's yours my friend.
                These are not attractive traits and I'm willing to bet you project this arrogance as "pride in yourself" or something along those lines. How many women have you actually spoken with that aren't related to you or are obligated to speak with you professionally? Not trying to kick a guy when he's down but like

                Probably you don't approach or socialize with women, you should socialize more with women and with guys who get women, that would improve your chances

                said it sounds like you're literally starting off with the wrong idea of what women want from you (good looks, status, etc.) and you can't seem to see that your putting forward your idea of what women want from a man's perspective, which always ends badly. Ask her what she wants and if you don't fit the bill you either compromise or move on.
                >I don't understand it. Honestly.
                Stop trying to logic your way through matters of the heart, there's a reason why it's been said throughout the ages that love is blind.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Then what is the answer then?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >What is the answer then?
                Keep trying. Keep getting back up and never stop growing as a person. It's okay to get upset every now and then but it doesn't help you get what you're after so learn how to roll with the punches like all the rest or perish the thought of having a relationship you'll ever truly be happy with. Only answer there ever has been or will be. Fight or die.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                How can one find the strength to keep trying when attraction is entirely fatalistic and women cannot bring themselves to want to be with you?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                By changing the way you think and relate to attraction. Why is it the woman's job to "bring herself to want to be with you"? Why do you relate to attraction as an all or nothing thing when people regularly state their attraction, get shot down and rekindle that flame of attraction elsewhere?
                Why can old men accept the reality that they'll never have sex again and continue to enjoy other aspects of life? Fuck anon why can some people go their whole lives happy and celibate? Reflect on yourself and stop pointing your finger at everyone else. If you want it you can have it, but it's nobody's job or obligation to give it to you.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Why is it the woman's job to "bring herself to want to be with you"?
                Never said it was? I was simply making the point that people cannot change who they're attracted to.
                >when people regularly state their attraction, get shot down and rekindle that flame of attraction elsewhere?
                Because these people are still attractive to certain people, whereas experience has taught me that I'm not attractive to women full stop.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Never said it was?
                Nigga what do the words "women cannot bring themselves to want to be with you" mean? That's pretty much absolving yourself of any responsibility to show up and put forth effort. You're completely ignoring my earlier point about how people can look past perceived flaws and find something worth pursuing.
                >Experience has taught me that I'm not attractive
                Now you're just bitching and moaning, you put yourself forward in the OP as something worth pursuing but this conversation only paints you as a manchild not getting his way and refusing to acknowledge any proper way out... just jump on the bandwagon with all the other woe is me homosexualry for validation and fuck putting in the work because everything in this world worth having can just be had right? You sound more and more like a frogposter with each post.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Now you're just bitching and moaning, you put yourself forward in the OP as something worth pursuing but this conversation only paints you as a manchild not getting his way and refusing to acknowledge any proper way out...
                Because I'm beginning to realize that attraction is fatalistic and there's nothing any of us can do about it. There are all sorts of goobers out there getting dates, but not a single woman will give me a chance. You keep talking about "putting in the work" but work have these guys put in? I've worked my butt off despite all my disadvantages and I have nothing to show for it. It's not fair. And yes I know life isn't fucking fair. That doesn't deny me the right to complain about it.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                It's not chance. How smoothly can you converse with random women you're attracted to? If that doesn't happen easily then you're lacking social skills. If I approach some woman at bar and she flakes after a
                short awkward convo and I see her later talking comfortably with some other guy I can clearly see that I'm lacking talking and social skills because there's nothing other special in that other guy.

                It's probably because women don't feel comfortable around you since you don't have enough social life, women don't like loners and men who don't socialize enough. When less social guys approach them they get bad vibes even tho intentions were same than with some more social guy with whom they'd feel more comfortable and attracted

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                That brings us to the classic job experience paradox. You can't attract women because of lack of social skills, but you can't become more sociable because you lack social skills. It sounds as if it's pretty much over for me as the odds are unfairly stacked against me.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                You just have to grind those social skills better. There's no easy way out if you've become a loner that women despise

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Life is unfair.
                Life IS unfair. That isn't news.

                Go join a local gaming group, it's socializing on easy-mode.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            you can be tall and fit but if you're autistic it's over they will go for the funny fatty over the LULZcel

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >Fatalistic element into the equation
        Not really though, I said compromise didn't I? There are plenty of people in this world capable of looking past someone's perceived flaws to find something worth loving and cherishing, you just have to be willing to be one of those people that "shoots your shot" and not act like it's the only shot you'll ever be able to muster the effort to take like all the other school shooters in training.
        You will be able to find happiness, but like everyone else in the world it will come with pet peeves, frustrations and other things you need to be willing to deal with. Happily ever afters are for people that don't see love as an obligation but a gift.

  3. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    It's not that they don't want you, it's that you're always going to be fighting an uphill battle and it's wearing on you. There is a woman that will find you attractive for their own reasons, but the odds are never going to be in your favor in the numbers game. You can increase your odds of being "the one" but can never really remove someone else's chances at being a better choice or replace her idea of what she wants.

    Compromise, either you lower your expectations or she lowers hers... that isn't to say it isn't "unfair" that you get overlooked, you just can't beat out someone's idea of what they're attracted to and it's pointless to try... you either fit the bill or you don't.

  4. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    women want chad

  5. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Probably you don't approach or socialize with women, you should socialize more with women and with guys who get women, that would improve your chances

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      This
      O.P., it's a numbers game, young adult women don't know what they want, or don't express it, thus dating young is more difficult. I'm sure you would be an amazing partner for girls you had previously tried to court, but the reality is, maybe it wasn't a good time for them or they didn't find you appealing (I'm not saying something is wrong with you).

      Sometimes, you could 'click' very well with a girl, have great chemistry/vibes, and she still rejects you, this happened to me last fall/early winter. I really got along with this girl, we flirted, teased, and had great conversations, but she rejected me, and I found out she had some drama with her family, supporting her bestfriend, on top of school, she wasn't gonna date. Plus, on a separate time later, she said she didn't know what she wanted emotionally in a bf.

      >tl;dr
      Sometimes there is nothing wrong with you, and the girl has shit going on or she, at the time, doesn't want you, because young women don't know what they want, nor how to communicate it.

      Keep trying, and good luck, O.P.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        same happened to me bro, we should be frens and together hit on girls, would be way less demoralizing than doing it by yourself

  6. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >sensible
    >women want chad
    >sensible
    Get off the computer for a fucking moment of your life, would you?

  7. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    I'm average with a good body. Women never make moves on me. I thought I was ugly as sin. Then I started making moves on women and after a couple of months of trying I was inside a 8/10 who told me how hot I was, how great my dick was and who took sneaky nude pics of me when I wasn't watching. From then on I was slowly but stady meeting women. So yeah, that girl you think is really cute but never looks at you? Talk to her, then ask for her number.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I've done moves on women for past 2 years and I've managed to get only one date with a fatty. Life's just so fucking unfair and frustrating

  8. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    you're a gymcel

  9. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    You don't do anything. There are normies offering them, at the very minimum, some laughs with other normies, normie dates etc

  10. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Asking on this board is a fools errand. Nobody here knows you bro.

    They can't tailor advice to you specifically because they don't know your mannerisms, how you treat women or any quirks that might be turnoffs.

    You could look nice on paper, just like a job interview but be absolute trash once you start the job (start dating)

    Some actual advice would be to stop focusing on what others have that you do not. Other than that all you can do is approach and refine until eventually some woman you have interest in is receptive. There won't be a magical point in your self improvement journey where all women will be, so don't wait. Start today.

  11. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    You are short, ugly, fat and don’t have money so of course nobody is gonna want you.

  12. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Read Chateau Heartiste. Thank me later

  13. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    post annual income and i'll decide whether you're worth a chance or not.
    >men who are overweight, shabby and/or of low socioeconomic status
    are lower than worms to me and i'd never choose them don't worry.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I wfh making 150k/yr and it's set to go up to 200k if I bust my ass a little.

      What coffee shop do you want to meet at femanon?

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        based
        & yes you're worthy of female attention
        any place that has lattes anywhere in western europe

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          >shes actually in london meme

          sometimes I wish I wasn't from the west

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            nah i'm not from london. or a native english speaker. i'm just slightly bored and horny rn.

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