Why do women become more interested in me when I ignore their advances and flirting?

Why do women become more interested in me when I ignore their advances and flirting?

Do women just want what they can't have?

  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Give us a rundown of the specific scenario that happened, OP.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I like to think I’m a pretty friendly and funny guy, and I’m usually just being myself and not trying to pick up women or anything.
      So I have two women friends, and I’m just my regular self with them and not trying to get in their pants, and I think this annoys them because they keep flirting with me in more explicit ways and keep trying to get some reaction from me but I just stonewall them.

      I was talking about a Halloween costume with one of them and she told me to come over wearing the outfit.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I’m also pretty hard to read, so I think it bothers them even more to not know what I’m thinking.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Also, one of the women is in a relationship, not the Halloween costume one. Idfk why she’s tryna flirt with me when she’s dating someone. But the more I stonewall her the more she tries to get my attention

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Also, one of the women is in a relationship, not the Halloween costume one. Idfk why she’s tryna flirt with me when she’s dating someone. But the more I stonewall her the more she tries to get my attention

        I’m also pretty hard to read, so I think it bothers them even more to not know what I’m thinking.

        You see man, how would you call those girls? Your girl friends right? You put in the space, and they will always be trying to breach it. They wanna be with you cause you are their friend and they do stuff with their friends constantly. But you know that if you would just grant their wishes and spend your time with them, you would feel like they owe you sex. Male and female relationship mechanics are fucked up like that.
        If you have an iron will and full schlong control, you can tease them back, see what happens, and deny them when its getting into real stuff. But thats evil.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Friends that happen to be girls, I guess. I don't have expectations of sex from spending time with them, so I think I have pretty good dong control.
          I think subconsciously I already tease them back, like, I know what they're trying to do and I know the response they want from me, so I give them just the smallest taste back, but coy enough that they can't tell if I'm flirting or not.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Friends that happen to be girls is a mouthful and I bet you would say the entire thing just to avoid saying girl friends. But anyway, idk man. From my experience, girls that perceive you as a friend do that kind of stuff, they play flirt. Personally Im too frail for it. So I end up straying away from having too much female friends (see, better than what you said). And the ones I have are either not the type of girl to care about not seeing each other for 5 years, or constantly nag me for being out of touch too long. I have a girlfriend tho, 4 years of relationship, and sadly my conclusion was that which I said; If I would spend too much of my time with any of those friends, I feel like I would end up falling for them (not necessarily wanting to fuck em).

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              I don't mind play flirting, I hope it's just that and they're not catching any real feels.

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Read Models by Mark Manson is a very good book. It's not PUA shit. It's general advice of very very high quality.

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The only time women have ever shown interest in me is when I brick wall them I get what you mean man it fucks with me too because it makes me want to talk to them even less than I may already

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah, same happens with men too. When I start ignoring a guy and being more mean, he instantly starts acting like a complete simp. But I'm kind of guilty of this behavior too since my crushes have always been guys who are really chill around me and don't act desperate.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Stealing your pic LULZman

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Because they think and act completely differently from men. They're too wrapped up in liberal politics and fearfulness of men that it can affect things. My truthful answer to you is to not let this game get to you. Women just want to be included in everything. If the most popular guy shovels shit for a living then a girl would want to bump right in it. Right now it is popular to crap on hopeless romantic dorks and that is why that happens. Another issue is that women have the hardest time taking responsibility. In many ways women place their blame on someone else trying to lecture them on their life. I think women try too hard to be mothers instead of a sister or a classmate or even a friend. Can't have fun around them.

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    They usually want to make sure you won't become a clingy sissy. It's a shit test.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Fuck that test. Girls who do that are gold diggers.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's a weird test, because I never really approach women with any sort of intentions and then that makes them interested in me (?? huh) women are wack

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Women have a biological defense algorithm running in the background of their brains. It’s designed explicitly not just to protect their ovaries from you but to protect their ovaries from themselves. Showing interest triggers this algorithm, even if they find you attractive on a conscious level. You have to trick that fucking thing into thinking you aren’t a threat.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This sounds pretty accurate. Women assume every dude is out there trying to plow her, when some dude comes up and shows zero interest in her like that she's not used to having to not play defense and this immediately makes them want you for some fucked up reason.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        What I’m telling you is that it’s not conscious. Women aren’t even aware of it, it is firmware in their brains from millions of years of evolution and completely disconnected from their thought process.

        Men have these little pieces of firmware too. Good example, if you are fixated on a girl and are getting all anxious about not seeing her or being with her, go talk to another girl in person. Not even flirting, just be next to her an engage in some casual conversation. Her mere feminine presence will activate your own internal firmware and you will feel better and less obsessed. Try it out, it’s fucking wild man.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Unironically explains why women say I lead them on. I'm just nice to them and show no signs of wanting to get in their pants and their heads explode. kek. I've noticed that same thing about getting fixated and just talking with another girl helps out. weird.

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Women like a man that isn't cloyingly desperate. Most men dont know how to not be obviously desperate except when in a relationship or when actually not at all interested in a woman. This is the key incels can never comprehend because being desperate is a core self assigned identity for them that feels unthinkable to change.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Bro you treat a man's emotions like it is Calculus III.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        More like numerical analysis but yeah basically.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm glad I'm not desperate and borederline autismo when I interact with women. The autismo part is me mainly seeing them only as friends and that it would be insane for any girl to be interested in me. Even when women are giving me very clear signals I'm not really that sure.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >This guy is an autismo

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          it's autismo is a good way, just completely oblivious to affection or people making moves

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Because women want attention. Give them some attention, but make sure to keep it minimal. If she doesn't seem to be as interested anymore, reflect that and act the same.

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