>Feels incredible on first entry and for about 15 thrusts
>Feels like basically nothing for a while
>Feels incredible on last 10 thrusts before orgasm and during orgasm
And then for getting head
>Feels great for first minute or so when all the spots have yet to feel any touch or tongue and it's brand new sensations
>Boring as shit almost no feeling for a while
>Feels incredible right before and during orgasm and after if she knows what to do post-cum without torturing you
I don't get it. Porn and ugly Redditors try to make you think it's supposed to be some absurdly ridiculously good feeling thing the whole time and every thrust or lick or stroke should be damn near enough to make you cum and feel incredible and in reality it's really fucking dumb. I have had a handful of partners of varying skill levels, attractiveness levels (subjectively), age and tightness and there's still just not much point to it all.
As far as I can recall my best sex is still from when I was like 15 banging a 14 year old Freshman chick (I'm 32 now) and I THINK it might've felt better then but idk she was also mega hot to me at the time an now having been with a lot of other women it's just dull. I'm not low-t, I am sitting at 3400ng/dl as of last blood work since I'm on gear and I DESIRE sex constantly but the act itself just feels like a waste of time to the point where anymore I just try to power fuck my way to an orgasm in 2 minutes or so because at least then it reduces the pointless period of time between the beginning and end.
Idk. Thoughts? Is this just how sex really is? Did Porn and smelly retards online just fuckin lie to everyone about how it's supposed to be?
>Feels like basically nothing for a while
Only true if the girl is a starfish...
Nope. Moving their body does not influence how things feel.
Virgin detected or at best some guy who fucked a drunk fat chick who didn't move once. How they move absolutely influences how it feels after a while.
This is the ugly redditor type response I'm talking about.
>fucked a drunk fat chick who didn't move once
preposterous. Drunk fat chicks move the most and illicit the biggest cooms you can produce.
Fat chicks like food and don't like to move as a general rule that is why they are fat.
fat chicks save all their moving for fucking. I'm not saying she'll do gymnastics but they arent dead fish.
Sex when you don't like and care about the other person is just masturbating using another person's body
I mean, I think I love my wife. If there's a stronger feeling than what I feel for her right now then IDK what it would be. I admit I have fucked some women I did not love and it was equally pointless activities.
Unfortunately. If only we had a My Body, My Choice movement 30+ years ago so people wouldn't mutilate our dicks at birth without cOnSeNt. I sure as shit do not approve of having my dick snipped.
>I mean, I think I love my wife. If there's a stronger feeling than what I feel for her right now then IDK what it would be. I admit I have fucked some women I did not love and it was equally pointless activities.
Do you not feel like (pardon me) fucking your wife is something more substantial than that?
I understand the question but I don't understand my answer to it. I kinda view it as
>Obligatory thing I need to do
>Only way to make babies
I am curious if it is something I just did too much of in my younger years and I just 'fucked myself out' or something. Idk. I wasn't part of the group that got blasted as badly with propaganda growing up but it's still something I just kinda see as a necessity and almost a chore/job aside from the kids part which we do want so I keep hammering away for that purpose.
God, this is going to sound so gay. Doesn't it turn something on inside you to like...you have to actually like her
>grab her from behind in a hug and press your face into her neck
>do something stupid that makes her laugh
>observe her when she's stressed out and want to calm her down by touching her
Like, like her and feel warm towards as a person, yeah you get bored of the direct physical "I want to fuck you because you're hot" after a while but then it's more just like, triggering that other cocktail of hormones having to do with love and affection which flow to sex
I do those things. I'm definitely not bored of her as a person at all, all the romantic stuff in life is in high gear and has been for our whole relationship. The sex itself is just meh. I feel like we're ending up on the same position here actually unless I'm misreading; My issue is simply the physical stimulation of it all. I do feel a rush of emotion while we're doing it, before and after, do all the cuddling and foreplay shit, all the sweet talking and such, it's just the actual act itself of dick in pussy is meh. The emotional side of it I do acknowledge is there though.
I'm just trying to figure out why people talk up the physical bit itself as being so great, it makes me wonder if I've got a broken dick or something that doesn't feel like it should and considering circumcision effects that might be the actual case.
Wait what. I had no idea this was a thing (cloth material issue), now I'm wondering if my wardrobe needs a change to help things a bit.
My guess is that you are in your 30s yes? Approaching some menopause where sex is tedious and doing fun activities with wife is way better or more preferable. I’m pretty sure what you’re describing is how every old man starts losing their libido. It just naturally happens where you’ve had enough sex and it gets boring and routine that you become hyper aware of the process instead of the present moment. Imo I wouldn’t worry about it, everyone saying it’s so gr8 or whatever are prob early teens 20s who haven’t had as much sex. In time they will be the same as you or “burn out” as quickly from too much stimulation. Just enjoy what you can with your wife and have a good time.
Hm. Do you feel bored when pounding her?
>now I'm wondering if my wardrobe needs a change to help things a bit.
Yeah sure. Your dick glands are getting rubbed with light abrasives all day every day for your whole life.
are you circumcised?
because hyper socialised people cannot find value in things which are not social at their core and the ultimate social interaction is sex. Everything they do is about maximizing their sex appeal. Not liking the wrong things, affirming women whenever called to, pretending to be above anything and everything while doing nothing.
I have a frequent sex life with my wife and yeah I kinda get what OP's saying. You first get going, then there's a plateau, then you climax. Due to life circumstances we've only been able to have sex in our living room on the couch. The added difficulty makes this "plateau" period more difficult and I have to fuck really hard and really fast to get over it. Sometimes I get tired and flag out. I am circumcised and yeah there's a point where the sensation really drops off in between initial stimulation and that point where I know the train's pulling into cum town and there's no stopping it.
I have to fuck really hard and really fast to get over it.
This shit I fuckin hate. I genuinely dislike doing jackhammer pounding shit, it feels so stupid 99% of the time unless I am in a very specific mood (usually after gym PRs high on adrenaline) or running a bunch of fuckin Tren. I would love to just go slow and get the gradual sensation till I cum but nope dick won't work unless I go hyperspeed and it sucks. With the blood pressure being high from gear I feel like I'm gonna have heart attacks sometimes from this bullshit.
>This shit I fuckin hate. I genuinely dislike doing jackhammer pounding shit
>I would love to just go slow and get the gradual sensation till I cum
Yeah no shit retard, welcome to having a normal emotional response
>but nope dick won't work unless I go hyperspeed and it sucks
Why, do you think?
probably answers this.
Buuuuut I have no way how to adjust my view on this and steer it back toward a more traditional idea of sex. I took the NoPorn route years ago and I don't watch Tiktok, social media shit besides bodybuilder and powerlifter dudes or music stuff, I avoid movies with any explicit sexual content because it makes the wife uncomfortable, so I feel like anything I could be doing I already am :/
I have not tried this but there are prosthetic forskins one can wear which are supposed to help. Your glands arent supposed to be rubbing on cotton under wear of jean zippers your whole life. It's supposed to be safely snuggled in a puffy 80's jacket. All the constant stimulation numbs it. Ever have a beard for a long time and after you shaved it off the skin underneath felt super sensitive? that's all it takes. Just a little vacation from being constantly touched.
It is VERY silly, and I am mortified of ever being somehow caught with it on like at a urinal or w/e.
I find I'm at my highest sexual energy when my wife spends a lot of time jinning me up. Like if she can get me into that plateau with just her efforts out of intercourse then there's no stopping me anyways. Trivial shit like having to stop to spend a couple minutes finding that special pillow or the lube or closing the blinds ruins it, but usually not totally.
Sex is more about set and setting than physical deed. Without it it is just mutual masturbation.
Some people though like to jack off 10 times a day so you will find jocks who love to pump and dump as much as they can. But this do not differ from masturbation.
A nice sensual sex is nice. But takes time and you have to have good set and setting and good partner. Without it it is just masturbation with different toy. Which can be fun. But gets boring after a while.
I'd rather have my wife play a game with me or go hiking, spend some good time together and then have sex than just have sex out of nowhere. It was fun when I was 15, hormones worked nice and kept boner out of nothing. But now it is really tiresome to just have sex for the sake of having sex.
This is almost my exact feeling. I want to explore life and do shit together, not just fuck all the time. I have more fun seeing new places and doing gay couples shit together than fucking.
Women are for fucking, domestic service and raising children, they can be friendly and amiable sometimes too but not dependably so. If you want a loyal amiable companion get a job.
>I have more fun seeing new places and doing gay couples shit together than fucking.
OK, this shit links into / informs the other thing
>I'd rather have my wife play a game with me or go hiking, spend some good time together and then have sex than just have sex out of nowhere.
All our couch fucking sure did make sex a chore and I find myself just sitting with her while we watch TV and then going "oh shit it's late and we were supposed to fuck"
The big difference is fucking where it's uncomfortable is all about finding a position that works mechanically. In bed we snuggle and play. We have our suite of positions we like and it's low effort. Absolutely none of this "oh we're at the boring part of sex now time to run a 100m dash to try and jizz so I can stop".
Sex is overrated. It's often boring. Like it's ok but there are other things to do for fun and pursuing it is a major drag. There are other things you can do for fun that have lower costs and guaranteed returns.
An escort every now and then is enough for me. Once or twice a year.
Your whole blog post is about pp stimulus. You mention nothing about role playing and power dynamics with mind games. That's where the real fun for me is. I've had many partners too. It gets boring unless you basically act like a theater fag in bed.
It's because your cock is mutilated, you can't experiment natural sex. Now thank your parents.