Why do people treat premarital sex as acceptable?

It still blows my mind how many people just treat premarital sex as normal and natural. Like, okay, I understand maybe having one or two sex partners out of marriage when you are young and stupid; these things happen, and no one is perfect. But casual sex and 10 (or higher) number of sex partners? Why would you marry someone like that? Why would that ever be considered socially acceptable?
I am a virgin, in my mid 20s (guy), and I am really only looking for a girl who is also a virgin waiting until marriage. I really will not compromise on that unless she is otherwise exceptional AND repentant (I know one woman like that, but she is about ten years older than me, and we both agreed a relationship is a bad idea).

  1. 1 week ago
    The original Amyfag

    Bumping, I need an honest answer here

  2. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Why is it even bad to you? The reason why premarital sex is normalized is because people stopped rejecting themselves. Sex's made up meaning was given to it by thousands of years of different cultures all brewing different ways of explaining the importance of the act that brought life to the world but in this modern day and age, sex is just sex. It doesn't hold importance, at least not as much as you seem to value it for.

    • 1 week ago
      The original Amyfag

      I could link probably an untold number of scientific articles and data as to why sex is obviously more than just some masturbatory act of pleasure. But really, I do not even have to do that. Quite simply, if pretty much every civilization on the planet (especially the dominant ones) arrived to the same conclusion that virginity until marriage is the ideal, then certainly that says something about the utility of the practice. Also, this point about rejecting yourself is just stupid. Are you rejecting yourself when you do not gorge on pack of pizza rolls?

      me and my husband had sex before we got married but I think it was fine bc if he didn't marry me I would just have murdered him
      although if he wasn't a virgin I wouldn't have dated him tbh

      Honestly more sane than current social views towards sex

      becuase culturally this is no longer a considertaion
      maybe if the catholic church, or the state, or some other entity enforced thier rules more people would care but that is not the case

      Abstinence until marriage is basically the human social norm throughout history. It is not uniquely Christian at all.

      • 1 week ago
        yuno

        lots of ppl think its crazy to want ur partner to be a virgin it just confuses me tbh like why would I let my husband put his pp in me if he had it in other women that would make me so sick

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          why say that but completely cuck him by having your porno pics on the internet? seems incredibly fucked up.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            That sounds awful if it's true

        • 1 week ago
          The original Amyfag

          I feel the exact same way. I would physically disgusted and repulsed by someone who did not see any problem with sleeping around before marriage. I do not care how physically attractive they are.

          • 1 week ago
            yuno

            based amyfag anon tbh I hope someday you will have a wife like amy

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            tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh n-word

            racism

            • 1 week ago
              Anonymous

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              DESU

              I have to keep it random to appease the algorithm. Not actually racist but it's LULZ sop n-word it is.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

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          tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh n-word

  3. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    becuase culturally this is no longer a considertaion
    maybe if the catholic church, or the state, or some other entity enforced thier rules more people would care but that is not the case

  4. 1 week ago
    yuno

    me and my husband had sex before we got married but I think it was fine bc if he didn't marry me I would just have murdered him
    although if he wasn't a virgin I wouldn't have dated him tbh

  5. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    premarital sex isnt the same as hypersexuality we're seeing now.
    >Why would that ever be considered socially acceptable?
    china and feminism pushed hard for it to not only be acceptable, but for women who do not engage in extreme hedonism to be shamed. and it worked out exactly how they wanted it to work out.

  6. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    People are dumb pleasure monkeys who happen to spew a lot of rationalizations, primarily to the figures that represent the older, harsher ways.
    Cartels are big business for a reason, and it's not because people make sensible decisions.
    It's best to let the proles have their orgy porgy so that they don't fuck up anything important.

  7. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Why does the amount of people you have sex with matter?

    • 1 week ago
      The original Amyfag

      Basically, if you do not love your future spouse enough to save yourself sexually only for them, then I cannot see why I would date you, especially since I did wait (again, exceptions can be made for exceptional, repentant women).

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        You didn't actually answer me though.
        Why does it actually matter? Seems like a spook.

        • 1 week ago
          The original Amyfag

          Sex before marriage affects everything from marriage stability to relationship and sexual satisfaction. The data is all out there if you are even remotely curious. But also, I want a cute, innocent, childlike romance you see between people who really grow up loving each other (like Sonic and Amy). I do not want what is considered normal nowadays.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >Want's an autistic romance that exists only in his mind

            Grow up fag.

            Also no it doesn't and all of your data is lies.

            • 1 week ago
              The original Amyfag

              Eat shit, you data illiterate peasant.

              based amyfag anon tbh I hope someday you will have a wife like amy
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              racism

              Thank you, and I hope you have a very happy relationship, too, Yuno Gasai.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

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                Your data is cherry picked and you lack a global perveiw.

                Cope.

              • 1 week ago
                The original Amyfag

                >global perview
                Abstinence until marriage, especially for women, has been the norm everywhere for all of recorded human history.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

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                This "Norm" has been carefully crafted by the powers that be for the better part of human history. Since the agricultural revolution monogamy was required to sustain society, but, we are moving beyond this for the first time in 250mill years

              • 1 week ago
                The original Amyfag

                The idea that human nature is at all malleable beyond straight up genetic engineering or eugenics is probably the greatest folly of the 20th and 21st centuries.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                Human nature doesn't really exist. Most "human nature" can be over come through sheer rationality alone. The only nature we have as humans is to eat and fuck and infact monogamy flies in the face of this nature,

                Prove me wrong.

              • 1 week ago
                The original Amyfag

                Pretty much the entirety of psychology and biology would vehemently disagree with you.

                I would say monogamy was pretty uncommon in any state throughout history where the male population was significantly lower due to war

                I went out of my way to not say that monogamy was the norm (although, for most of recorded history and for most men, it basically was unless you were really rich and high status).

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                >Psychology

                Literal pseudo-science created by a pedophile

                >biology

                Explain

                Again, monogamy as an ideology flies in the face of the human desire to fuck.

                Prove me wrong. Monogamy is beta cuck slave morality.

              • 1 week ago
                The original Amyfag

                Monogamy is the only way to build sustainable human civilization.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                Why? I'm not trolling I am genuinely curious to hear your reasoning for this.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                I would say monogamy was pretty uncommon in any state throughout history where the male population was significantly lower due to war

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