Why do people treat me like something to be beaten down? It's like everything they tell me and what they do is for the purpose of one upping me, getting one over on me, or trying to prove something. The tone of voice they use, their demeanors, I notice this particularly among men but women can do it too.
As though whenever they accomplish something and they share it it's for the intention of face rubbing or some weird dominance hierarchy game. It makes me not want to celebrate when something good happens to other people, but instead be disappointed. I'm not sure how to explain this but it's weird.
you're soft and it shows. stop caring about other people and they'll go bother someone else
Maybe you're right. Even if they didn't stop bothering me at least I wouldn't care. But that makes me feel alone because it means there's not too many people you can actually connect with that isn't like that.
>it's for the intention of face rubbing or some weird dominance hierarchy game
this, google primate hierarchy and socio sexual hierarchy.
You are a man, and they view you as competition for sexual access to females, as well as resources, theretofore, they hate you, and want you dead.
Females crave and want to be dominated and impregnated by a powerful man, as well as hating and wanting the death of the weak men.
These people are sadistic trash really.
In your situation, I got better people as acquaintances and friends.
¿ Is there anything relevant in dispute? Like money, or a position in a formal hierarchy, like in a big corporation or governmental agency or charity?
This is quite tiring. And yes, all of that is involved, and then some. But I even get the same crap from my family. I'm constantly being sabotaged as well. They treat me like the weird one for questioning it and finding it unnecessary.. I'm getting tired of people.
>This is quite tiring. And yes, all of that is involved, and then some. But I even get the same crap from my family. I'm constantly being sabotaged as well.
They are the same. ¿How are you moving in difficult situations?
I am afraid I do not know what are you asking.
>I am afraid I do not know what are you asking.
How old are you? have you been in limit situations?
28 Y.O. argie here, many times could have been killed btw, including by family
>as well as hating and wanting the death of the weak men.
don't you think this is a bit much?
>don't you think this is a bit much?
Oh kiddo, test it, and tell me, ¿ how old are you?
Stand your ground. I'm not telling you to start being an asshole, but know how to assert yourself and show people you're not a doormat.
It's unfortunate, people like to prey on those who seem more vulnerable. You can't change them, but you can start valuing yourself and find folks who genuinely care.
>you can start valuing yourself and find folks who genuinely care.
How do you do either of those things
Valuing yourself is a tricky thing. You must have the courage to say "I deserve better" and step back whenever you are being mistreated. Do nice things for yourself. Treat yourself like you'd want your lover to treat you.
How do you come to believe that when everything you is saying the opposite?
People can say you're a pterodactyl, but that won't make it true. You'll always be unworthy before someone's eyes no matter how well you're doing - so why not live by your own script?
This.
Learn to set boundaries and politely push back. Do t be rude, don't get pissy just learn to say no and tell them what you are and aren't willing to take.
The majority of people are competitive. The ones that aren't are called women. Are you a woman? What do you want out of people?
>Are you a woman?
No.
>What do you want out of people?
I want an escape from the constant reminders of how inferior and flawed I am. I just want to relax.
>I want an escape from the constant reminders of how inferior and flawed I am. I just want to relax.
it sounds like you want to be alone. do you have roommates? live at home? dealing with people can be unbearable day after day if you don't have a private sanctuary to retreat to.
Yeah, I'd say you hit the nail right on the head. Even still, I feel I still would be bothered by it even if I lived alone. I'd just be seething alone.
>weird dominance hierarchy games
>weird
There's nothing weird about it, you autist, this is basic nature. No, you won't get to change it from the comfort of your basement.
I'm going to hurt you
Get buffed, do martial arts. People step all over you coz they see you as weak.
Adopt an angry resting face.
Dominance hierarchies are older than trees, you aren't going to get out of it. You can be certain that you have evolved and your ancestors were selected to operate inside of one, so you have the tools you need to do so as well
If you can't, you will be killed or will not reproduce.
So, let's go over a few things
>Dominance hierarchy positions are inheritable
This means the offspring of high status organisms on social environments are regarded as high status. This makes sense because they have access to the same resources and the same genetic capacities
You're typing on LULZ, in fluent English. I can bet for certain you're not poor, so why are you low in confidence and be treated as with low ability? I can make more assumptions to answer this question, but correct me if I'm wrong
>You're retarded as low on the hierarchy
>You have low serotonin as a result
Why could this happen if you are from a relatively high status family
>Your father tyrannical and saw you as a challenge to his authority
>Your siblings were tyrannical and saw you as a challenge to authority, access of parental resources and attention
It's one of these, maybe both.
Ive gotta run real quick, but if you reply to me I'll respond with potential solutions when I get the chance.
You should probably stay away from LULZ. Most people here want nothing more than to say shitty things to other human beings.