why do people hate bisexuals so much?
why do people hate bisexuals so much?
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Cuz you guy's are not oppressed or made fun of, you can act like you and live your day. More of sexual preference rather than anything
>you guy's are not oppressed or made fun of
you know that's not true
I don't? Change my view please.
If a bisexual person is in a homosexual relationship they will experience homophobia you dumb fuck. It’s also a great way to get dumped by a monosexual partner of any kind if they find out (with the exception of a bi woman coming out to straight male partner)
It has been shown that straight men do discriminate against bisexual women when it comes to dating as well. Fetishization == girlfriend material. Bisexuals of both genders are much more likely to abused as well.
>It has been shown that straight men do discriminate against bisexual women when it comes to dating as well
I'll get you a link when I get back to my PC, I'm phone posting right now
Bisexual people get the same treatment under the same conditions that homosexual gold stars do. That is, if they are showing affection to a same-sex partner, or exhibiting gender nonconformity.
Untrue actually, bisexual women do not show this dating gap at all
It was that paper a schizo linked in a bi thread a while ago (I have to go find it again), showing dating preferences of straight, gay, and bi people.
Straight and bi women showed a relatively high amount of discrimination against dating bi men. Straight and bi men showed a much lower discrimination against dating bi women.
I mean keep in mind this is one study from one cohort of respondents. I'd be much more interested in the reasons why people chose those answers.
I think we sort of expect foids to be "bi", regardless if they say it or not.
They can wander into homosexual situations to just "try it out", but if two straight hetero males wake up naked together in a room means it's time for sex or combat. Lots of grey "tee-hee, I wouldn't kind kissing a gurl" area for foids.
Eh this is another situation entirely, related to how our western euro/american culture perceives permissive sexual acts related with sexuality. Quantifying what determines you as "truly bisexual" is also a matter of culture and seems to vary widely even within different spaces in the same culture.
Picrel. Note that straight men accept sex with bisexual women, but are more discriminating when it comes to dating (in fact are more hesitant to date bisexual women than lesbian women are). Gay men show a similar pattern to a lesser degree (they are still more willing to date a bisexual man than a straight woman is at any rate). Lesbian women are somewhat discriminatory across the board. Straight women are very discriminatory across the board. Bisexuals show little discrimination, with >4.0+ rating for dating/sex regardless of gender.
And no, bisexual women are more likely to date a bisexual man than bisexual men or gay men (or straight women natch)
It shows that men are more accepting of bi women than viceversa...
Sure. Bisexual men are more open to sex/dating bisexual women than vice versa, though they are all in the 4.0+ range.
Bisexual men's best bet for sex is a fellow bisexual man (4.70) followed by a gay man (4.37), followed by a bisexual woman (4.32), followed by a straight woman (2.49).
However, a bisexual man's bet for a RELATIONSHIP is a bisexual woman (4.26), followed by a fellow bisexual man (4.21), followed by a gay man (3.90), followed by a straight woman (2.41).
Bisexual women's best bet for sex is a bisexual man (4.79), followed by a bisexual woman (4.73), followed by a straight man (4.13), followed by a lesbian (3.94).
Her best bet for a RELATIONSHIP is a bisexual man (4.73), followed by a bisexual woman (4.63), followed by a lesbian (3.65), followed by a straight man (3.58).
Both bisexual men and bisexual women favor bisexual women over bisexual men, but both bisexual men and bisexual women do better in bi-acceptance than monosexuals do, and a bisexual woman will be more likely to start a relationship with a bisexual guy than even a fellow bisexual guy.
nta you were responding to but always remember this is a measure of the sample that they used.
from a cursory glance at the literature this is something that isn't studied enough. There seems to be more published work on dating violence, and how gays and straights perceive bisexuals (mostly bi men) but not a whole lot in bisexuals preferences themselves or how they differ.
>Both bisexual men and bisexual women favor bisexual women over bisexual men
Bruh this is so hard to read because of how close everything is on the left side, this is some newbie shit to mess up on
Yes, but not nearly to the degree that straight women (and bi women) discriminate against bi men.
My question is rather why tf you have a cispartner and look for another relationship with others, obviously you would get bashed for that retard. That tells how cuck you guys are in general.
This post makes no sense
Yes, if they are.
Look at a mirror
Go back to Mexico
Nobody wants you, kys
Ok 5 foot 1 concrete mixer
Idk why you would even think I'm a Mexican, it's really funny. No wonder bi is so retarded
>No wonder bi is so retarded
your fat brown slob of a wife forgot to wipe the upstairs windows
Keep getting triggered to your imaginary illegal Mexican, retard
Are you ESL or just retarded
> If a bisexual person is in a homosexual relationship
Every trans “woman” on this board who claims to have a “straight male” boyfriend is dating a bisexual retard
gay men date other gay men
news at 11
>bisexuals experience discrimination if they date other men
>begins talking about guys who date trans women
bipedos should be hanged btw
that's a big reason around here.
less common reason.
On what planet are bisexual people not oppressed?
Do you guys get laughed at, pointed fingers, talked in back just by walking in general public without stating you're bi?? Your oppression is nothing compared to people who express themselves as Gay or Trans
that doesn’t happen to gays either unless you’re a flaming homosexual
even if this was true, why is being “oppressed” the goal? why would you hate someone just because you perceive them to struggle less than you? that’s so retarded
>be bisexual male
>go to sex party without having your tops use protection
>top other fags
>give them HIV
>get a gf
>give her HIV
>break up with her because of bi cycle
gee i wonder why
Makes them think the bishit is dating them for having features that are basically androgynous.
Which would be seen as insulting and gross to a cis whatever.
I’m bi and I don’t even like androgyny, only masc men and fem women
Me too. Do you also become more feminine around men and more masculine around women?
I get more dom around women and act more naturally around men idk how it’s seen
because it sucks to have gay men pretend to be attracted to women to fit in and then throw other gay men under the bus
Omg does gincel not believe in Bi people
Bisexual just means heteroflexible for 99% of people who identify with it. Very few are truly bi in that they can have sex with and happily be married to either feminine looking women or masculine looking men with little preference in between.
This is true. And as a bisexual cis woman I pretty much stay closeted and only date men because it is so hard to find a girlfriend willing to stay with you if you’re not gold star.
>inb4 date a trans “woman”
A lot of this really is cultural pressure.
As a man or woman it's just easier to date the opposite sex and you won't be outwardly discriminated against. Path of least resistance when life is already hard enough.
>A lot of this really is cultural pressure.
Yes and no. I’ve known a vast sea of cis men in my life who are “bisexual” but won’t touch anything more masculine than a barely legal femboy.
It's funny how this is ok when it's a gay man preferring twink bottoms but suddenly not ok when the man is bi.
>t's funny how this is ok when it's a gay man preferring twink bottoms
Really depends. Is the gay man under 35 and young looking himself? If not, he’s seen as a creepy Grindr boomer
In general an age gap that big is seen as problematic.
Hell that's why Leo Decaprio's dating life is such a huge meme now.
> Hell that's why Leo Decaprio's dating life is such a huge meme now.
It’s not his fault women expire at 25
Regardless, he's seen as a creepy boomer just as he would be if he was dating twinks.
There’s a huge difference between what has been traditionally considered a twink bottom and what this board classifies as a twink bottom.
There's a huge difference between reality and this board in general
Here Twink bottoms are femboys, almost trannies it's nuts.
“Twink bottoms” as described/posted here are mostly just boys under 16. Picrel is what most normie gays would consider a twink but the fat retards on LULZ would call him old, wall-gotten, masculine
What if you like twinks, femboys, transgirls, and women?
Why does it have to be masculine men? I don't like masculinity, in men, women, or trans-people. I find it very unattractive.
according to here you're straight
according to the general public you're gay
these categories have moving boundaries
I hate them because grossest chasers are bisexuals and bipedos.
>I hate them because grossest chasers are bisexuals and bipedos.
Only bisexuals don't get disgusted by trannies eventually.
The only "chasers" ARE bipedo/bishit, sweetie.
And some can't wait to steal your estrogen!
One reason is just a lack of understanding in general. I know multiple bi people who are constantly told they must be poly or into orgies or promiscuous in general (which is funny because they were all relatively boring people and very vanilla about sex). This in general leads to people having more prior convictions about them that curiously don't apply to any other sexual identity. For instance bi people aren't allowed to have preferences for the men and women they're attracted to, but straight and gay people can.
Like gay tops can be attracted to twinks and that's fine, but if bi men are then they aren't really bi or something.
>they were all relatively boring people and very vanilla about sex
wow literally me
>tell gf that I'm bisexual
And you retards wonder why we believe we're misunderstood.
Bisexuals have no reason to be transphobic they don't internalize the same insecurities of cis monosexuals. They just decide every day they will be transphobic, that's why I dislike bisexuals. They have it easy to not be transphobic and still are.
Trannies are gross no matter what you're sexuality is lol
Because "bi" is just a cope for not having a girlfriend and they will leave a guy as soon as a female looks in their direction
No actually dealing with women is what makes going out with guys so nice 🙂
I like both, I usually try to maintain two female fwbs and one male fwb
is sexual attraction enough to have a sexuality, or is it required that you're not a virgin/celibate?
I think it is enough to have a sexuality, though a sexuality that never goes past fantasy is unlikely to be very meaningful outside of yourself and MAYBE your immediate family/lovers.
Sexual and romantic behavior is where society as a whole starts getting involved.
Women in general will often have sexual fantasies involving other women (#1 pornography genre for women is lesbian porn). Does that mean that all women who watch lesbian porn or have fantasies involving other women are meaningfully bisexual, even if they never act on it? On a personal level, yes. On a larger, societal level, much less so.
Same goes for celibate gay men or whatever else.
they make you feel like they don't like you
being attracted to the same gender as the person you're dating feels weird (i know this is a straggot take but its true)
the men don't act masculine and the women don't act feminine
once again i should reiterate that they WILL cheat
being with a guy who you know has taken it up the ass before feels weird
they have pedo taste
they are more mentally ill than straight ppl
I thought we were open to non-conforming gender-roles on this board anon
yeah but i'm a straight person and i don't want to date someone who acts like a homosexual and i think most straight people would agree.
Give me one good reason not to just lie and say you're straight if you're bi.
Straight people including trannies will always be homophobic as shown here
And gay people are always happier about having "converted" someone or attracting a straight partner than finding out that you also like the opposite sex.
Why not lie?
lying is the way to go, every bi person does it
I'm in a committed relationship with someone of the same sex and I have a child from a previous committed relationship with someone of the opposite sex. If I lie I look worse than if I don't imho. Because it makes me look like I flaked on my ex-girlfriend.
That said, I will sometimes lie and say I am gay in casual conversation.
How bisexuals choose to identify varies from situation to situation depending on what is relevant.
anyone can cheat
>they make you feel like they don't like you
that's your problem not mine. if having the potential to be attracted to any gender makes you feel unloved that's your issue.
>being attracted to the same gender as the person you're dating feels weird
again, your issue
>the men don't act masculine and the women don't act feminine
boo fucking hoo
>being with a guy who you know has taken it up the ass before feels weird
again, your issue
>they have pedo taste
only bipedos who are most likely exclusively gynephilic
>they are more mentally ill than straight ppl
and trannies are more mentally ill than cis people
yeah it's my issue but wasn't that what op was asking? besides i'm sure most people like me feel the same way.
Yup I totally feel the same with you. What you said is totally correct.
They just wanna act like a victim
low IQ naggers who believe stereotypes are innate and immutable characteristics
lol you're stereotyping people on a board full of people who don't like being stereotyped
take your meds
most men have pedo taste
most LGBT people are more mentally ill
feeling weird is being a retard
what's your problem with masculine women and feminine men? i think they're hot.
anyway i can't cheat because no one will fuck me. anyway, i mostly want emotional intimacy and cuddles. being bi doesn't mean having no standards, being a slut, and loving casual sex, retard. that's just a stereotype that we're so undiscerning we can't differentiate between men and women.
I’m bi and this is hurtful and untrue
cry about it bitch i don't care
I know you are saying that because you’ve been hurt by a bisexual person, but I am just a person like you. I didn’t choose my orientation. I have always tried to be honest and kind to my partners.
i don't think you are a bad person, i just wouldn't date you even if i thought you were attractive, sorry
>being with a guy who you know has taken it up the ass before feels weird
>woman is homophobic
But really, it feels weird because your concept of masculinity is more basic and retrograde than that of a 15 yr old straight boy.
dating someone who is attracted to something you aren't feels bad. being a woman dating a guy who craves penis feels bad even of he also craves pussy.
You probably crave features he doesn’t possess but you stick around because of his bank account and your low self worth. Funny how that works.
I personally avoid bi people in general because too many of you disguise your homophobia in woke language. But I'm not opposed to dating bi women (already am) or being friends with them. Just cautious.
I'm bi male and I get why people would steer clear
Am moody bipolar whore who needs both or I literally can't be happy
cool well not everyone is like you, homosexual
You can't hate something that isn't real
Sexuality is always dictated by culture so this is true. Our modern culture does not allow for bisexuality. Just like how ancient greeks fucked men and women but that was just seen as normal male behavior and not some kind of sexuality.
Greeks fucked animals too
So do scottish farmers today
Animals fucking other animals isn't bestiality
i don’t want to date someone that could cheat on me with either gender
So you would be cheated on regardless? Like it's inevitable for you?
>why are bisexuals hated?
>because they aren't!
Because monosexuals are weak.
The only form of true love is between two bisexual men
No people hate bisexual men for obvious reasons, bisexual women are pretty much the most desired type of women.
Wrong, bisexual women are stereotyped as being slutty and flakey and not desired for serious relationships either outside of their fellow bisexuals. See
or picrel, from https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00224499.2018.1437116
It actually seems that on these measures, lesbian women rate most highly, though I am sure there are other measures on which they'd rate worse.
They're usually narcissistic.
Why the fuck don't bisexuals just date each other? They already claim to be a majority of LGBT yet they still can't find one to date?
bi women for some reason don’t like bi men
You rarely see same sex bisexuals together either
I wonder why.
I got no idea actually
I am bi4bi, I am a bi man, I prefer dating bi women, and when I'm in the mood to fuck guys I find it easier to deal with other bi guys more often than not.
Bi male bottoms are the most oppressed group in history. It’s literally not fair.
Straight male bottoms have it worse still.
>tfw bi male bottom
I literally just want to be loved
>”bi people aren’t oppressed”
>proceeds to list a million negative stereotypes and generalizations to justify the hatred of bisexuals
I just want to get dominated by a guy and a girl at the same time. Why is that too much to ask?
I just can't stand their "master race" superiority complex. I feel like they're the second pushiest group behind trannies.
The bi-cycle is a meme right?
You know it isn't.
It clearly is otherwise they would have told us about it during health class in college.
it's shite being bisexual, we're the lowest of the low, the scum of the fucking earth
idk but I stick to dating trans people since they’re cool with me being bi/I try to look for other bi ppl
I never hated a bisexual person until my cousin dated a tranny.