Why do men change their personality when they flirt to get a gf? It will catch up with you eventually and most likely ruin your relationship.
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Why do men change their personality when they flirt to get a gf? It will catch up with you eventually and most likely ruin your relationship.
no and i have never been in a relationship
do they? It just seems like they act like themselves but flirting. its weird when people say a guy has a 'different personality' just because he's flirting with a woman.
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Saying romantic stuff when they aren't a romantic person. Acting more outgoing. Being somewhat clingy when they don't really want to be close with their girlfriend.
Must be exhausting and miserable.
You don't need to date someone to have sex with them.
I used to want to be close with my gf but I felt detached from her after a while cause we had a communication barrier and maybe I was too immature to be a decent partner to her
then she saw I wasn't attentive either and now she has fun with others instead
we're still together but I miss those days a lot and now I ask her for some of her time sometimes and leave her alone otherwise, like to watch a movie while she plays with her friends, or friends with benefits, or does work
I'm pretty romantic but I don't really try anymore because I don't think its very welcome, so I just became a coomer again
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If you had acknowledged those issues, you should have done something about it. You can always learn how to be a good partner. The other person should help you.
>I'm pretty romantic but I don't really try anymore because I don't think its very welcome
Some girls love it, that's why it's important to find someone compatible.
>we're still together
>friends with benefits
???
Sounds like you're going for the wrong type of people. Many such cases.
As long as you're fine with it.
>You will never be 2D!
Very observant of you.
I was talking about a relationship.
What do you think is wrong with your personality?
>What do you think is wrong with your personality?
I do not know what is wrong with my personality. I see myself as a normal person, or more of, I see myself as nothing, just casual. But, other people see it otherwise, I'd guess.
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All women are the same. You are not special. You want the top 1% of guys like the rest of them. Cunt.
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I am saving this pictures because they are cute and attractive. Unlike you.
>You don't need to date someone to have sex with them.
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i'd assume if they did do this it would be because they feel they have no chance if they do otherwise, and
>It will catch up with you eventually and most likely ruin your relationship.
is better than nothing to them. atleast they got a chance
or ofc, the first answer that came to mind is they wanna fuck
>You don't need to date someone to have sex with them.
unless the woman wants to date before sex.
or if the guy wants consistent sex
ive faked my personality with almost every new person ive met to make them like me more and i dont even know what my real personality is anymore
Fug. This is way too relatable
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its because they want the girl to let him fuck her
women don't like it when you act crude like swearing and stuff so that's one thing
Because you cunts require us to do a mating dance to be worthy to date you. Fuck you are retarded.
I dont even talk to women so how could I flirt with them?
OP is a whore and mad that after she has given it up the men no longer show interest
No I became that personality and I am living a better life
Fuck you
#witnessed
I never change my personality, I can't. That is exactly why (if you ignore looks/height) I have never been in a relationship.
>It will catch up with you eventually
Yeah but at least we got to fuck her a few times before that. Fucking a pussy is very important to men. Important enough that they will change their personality.
Men have much fewer options and much fewer chances than women to get in a relationship. Many act that way because they're trying to adapt to take what they can get. The other option isn't "finding someone who is more compatible," because that person likely either doesn't exist or they'll never meet them. The other option is being alone forever.
because women hate my guts when I am myself yet they're trivial when I'm a drunken asshole
they get what they ask for
real me is not interesting enough to girls.
Nice quads n-word
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it's strange to more, but it seems more like a general normie thing. my bf switches to his 'cool' personality when he's talking to other people, and he also acted like that when we weren't in a relationship yet. now around me he's changed and acts much more.. childish I guess. but he's also more open with me. It's just weird to me since I basically act the same around anyone, I'm always my "true self" if it makes sense, instead of trying to switch to a more charming personality around others.
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Am going to level with you OP, I'm not speaking for every guy so take what am saying with a grain of salt, but when you "show" your true personality to people and act yourself you get rejected for being to weird. I don't have friends so I don't know if guys really "change" their personality or if its just toned-down
Also everyone does this to a certain extent, including you. You don't show 100% of yourself in fear of rejection so you put out only a small sample to see how they would react
>t. Guy who never flirted