Why do girls go out of their way to tell me that they don’t like me? I’ve literally never asked out a girl or even flirted with one.

Why do girls go out of their way to tell me that they don’t like me? I’ve literally never asked out a girl or even flirted with one. Yet they always find a way to do this

  1. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Do you treat people poorly? People you don't know that you're supposed to treat correctly, like your mother or brother or sister or father, por ejemplo? Typically, life hands you what you hand life. Treat people nice and people will more than likely treat you the same in return.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      I try and keep things lighthearted and I always laugh/smile. Girls willrandomly say eww and give me dirty looks.

      If I go to a social event girls keep their distance and guys try to intimidate me

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        It’s possible they like you and it’s a shit test, just make a joke about it l or don’t react at all like it never happened

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          It can’t be that cuz they seem angry when they do it. I don’t think I’m ugly or anything, I’m like a 5/10. I don’t get in their personal space, I don’t try to talk to them either. They just seem angry that I’m there.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            Just treat it like a joke and see it as funny

            • 1 week ago
              Anonymous

              It’s heartbreaking. Ive never had friends. I’ve tried changing my style but people don’t like me.

              Brutal

              Yep. I’m giving up

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                Dude, it seems like it's you and like you're not giving a full picture of your behavior. How can literally nobody like or even care about you? Do you whip out your dick and jerk off subconsciously? Are you a hobgoblin? A spawn from Hell?

                Pardon the insults. I wish to understand who you are to be so contemptible. Are you simply hideous? That gives a lot of people reason to hate. I could believe that. If so, tell me that so that I understand.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Brutal

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Dude, you didn't answer my question. I didn't ask if you treat girls nicely. I asked if you treat EVERYONE nicely. People like those who truly love you? Are you alone in this life? If so, do you treat YOURSELF correctly?

        Get out of your basement and your stupid naive view will just crumble.

        Where do you live? Sounds like Hell. You don't need to be treated well to have a reason to treat others correctly

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          I treat everyone fairly. I try to be inclusive, understanding, accommodating, and helpful. And of course I treat my loved ones nicely. They’re all I have.

          Dude, it seems like it's you and like you're not giving a full picture of your behavior. How can literally nobody like or even care about you? Do you whip out your dick and jerk off subconsciously? Are you a hobgoblin? A spawn from Hell?

          Pardon the insults. I wish to understand who you are to be so contemptible. Are you simply hideous? That gives a lot of people reason to hate. I could believe that. If so, tell me that so that I understand.

          I’m 5’9, scrawny, and black. I keep myself well groomed, I speak softly, and I try to just be an all around good person. Girls give me dirty looks when I first meet them and say hello. People take their phones out and record me when I’m not looking. So maybe I’m just ugly

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >I’m 5’9, scrawny, and black. I keep myself well groomed, I speak softly, and I try to just be an all around good person. Girls give me dirty looks when I first meet them and say hello. People take their phones out and record me when I’m not looking. So maybe I’m just ugly
            If there's nothing visibly wrong with you that you're not disclosing, I would say you're just too soft and people take advantage of it. You could use weightlifting or some martial arts training.

            • 1 week ago
              Anonymous

              have you tried traveling ?

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            Don't seek approval from those that hurt you. Stick to those who love you and remind yourself there are fates worse than lacking social acceptance. I have no friends, nobody messages me, I barely go outside, but my family cares about me and I them. I believe in a God that loves me and I glue myself to those things and appreciate them as much as possible. I recommend doing the same. Honestly, my only real concern is making lots of money to be able to care for my folks in their old age. Once I clear that, I'll be set for life. Find something to live for. People who hurt you aren't people to change for. Live for those who love you.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >5' 9", scrawny, and black
            You're a victim of many mentalities colliding with one another, but it appears to be mainly racism. Your soft spoken demeanor is egging people to take advantage of you, but even if you hardened up, people would just start calling you a thug instead. There's no winning and you should just move areas to one less full of scum.

            • 1 week ago
              Anonymous

              I try not to play the race card but at this point that has to be the reason why. I’m just a target for people who want to take out their frustrations.

              I'm 99% sure it's just the shitty, racist area you're living in.
              Are there other blacks you know locally? How are they treated? Have you gone travelling outside your area before? Holiday? Anything? How were you treated there?

              I’m Kenyan and African-Americans don’t like me. They’re just as bad as white people when it comes to being prejudiced

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                >I try not to play the race card but at this point that has to be the reason why. I’m just a target for people who want to take out their frustrations.
                I get that, but it really seems to be a contributing factor to everyone thinking you're the aggressor. White men like you get ignored, and only called a creep once they make a move. If people default to assuming you're there to make a move on someone, it's because they see you as a threat just for existing. Some deeply misandrist women can be like this even towards white men, but in your situation it really sounds more like racism being the main factor.
                Sorry the world is still so fucked up about this anon.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah it’s all starting to make sense now. I literally don’t even approach women and they treat me like I’m a threat. I was always confused but everything’s clear now.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Get out of your basement and your stupid naive view will just crumble.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      lol. lmao.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      I treat my mom poorly because she borderline raped me as a kid and then left me to rot alone. Yes, this gets me labeled as a misogynist by the average woman, but I don't care. I'm not obligated to forgive her for that and anybody worth the air they breathe would understand my disgust at her whenever she forces her way into my life again.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      You are a huge piece of shit, the biggest piece of shit to land out of your mother

  2. 1 week ago
    Anonymous
  3. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    "I don't like you either."
    Done

  4. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    people dont do this normally to other people. The odds are, it's a you problem. In grade school, a girl told me that cuz i was being an ass. By the end of it I had changed myself enough that she was cool with me.

    Do some self reflection OP. It takes a lot to actually dislike someone, so if everyone dislikes you, either ur imagining it (which is a you problem), or ur dislikable, (which is also a you problem).

    There's also the chance that ur surrounding urself with bad people, to which you should find a different friend group.

  5. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 99% sure it's just the shitty, racist area you're living in.
    Are there other blacks you know locally? How are they treated? Have you gone travelling outside your area before? Holiday? Anything? How were you treated there?

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