Why do anons get incredibly hostile and defensive whenever a film touches upon the topic of teen/young romance?
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Why do anons get incredibly hostile and defensive whenever a film touches upon the topic of teen/young romance?
Why do anons get incredibly hostile and defensive whenever a film touches upon the topic of teen/young romance?
Any romance is cringe.
fpwp
because they never had it. What they should do, is have a teen romance now. All they need is money or a gun.
jej
Based Ezra
This. But you don't need a gun just be an older guy.
Where do you even meet 18-19 year old girls as a guy in your mid to late 20’s?
Wouldn’t they be fucked up in the head if they’re willing to get with a guy that age instead of their own?
>Wouldn’t they be fucked up in the head
if they want to have sex with your old ass WHO CARES
Me, sex is 1000x better if there’s an actual connection and it’s not just penis in hole.
Not that you virgins would know this
I've fucked over 60 women and get off on pump and dumping hoes.
Most women are just holes bro
you're obviously a lying retard
I've seen 16-18 year olds have meaningful connections with much older men, so...
those men must be peanut heads to have anything in common with a teen
Women dont get smarter with age, anon. Just angrier and more bitter.
they didnt either apparently if they formed a connection like you say
I don't. I just don't relate to the teenage experience.
I experienced teenage romance and I am not nostalgic for it. I was an idiot at the time and so were all the girls I dated, and the sex was clumsy and bad. You didn't miss out on anything bros.
speak for yourself. It was good times
Then why you do type like a virgin
You know how we can tell you're lying?
Everyone will always remember the first woman to touch their pee pee, and the first boob/vagina they touched - and will remember it fondly.
Butt you keep coping as hard as you fucking can.
>will remember it fondly
My first was a smelly native american chick, so no, I don't.
Only if you got laid with 5 people in your whole life. Had my first time in my teens with a girlfriend and i don't even remember that.
I don't remember my first time fondly tbh. I remember the first cuddle more fondly.
It was good for gaining confidence that carried over into adulthood, made me able to shoot for any girl without thinking rejection would be the end of my life. Also looking back it’s pretty crazy getting to fuck fit highschool girls, femanons will wince but “ripe” really is the best word for it. I started dating a 23yo when I was 17, god what an insane waste.
It’s suppose to be the beginning of a basis for later relationships. You get to experience being fucked over or heartbreak early as a lesson. And also get a base for sexuality. If you never had that then sadly you did miss out and have to learn or experience it later, which is fine as long as it’s before you’re 30
How do you feel when men 30+ date 16-18 year olds? Do you feel like it's cheating?
I don’t see the relevance but a 30 year old dating an 18 year old is kind of weird but whatever I guess. She is young and dumb and will most likely leave him in a short amount of time. At least seeing that in my experience
Sour grapes, and you knew this. You wanted (You)s.
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Sucking face, holding hands and getting their fuck on rarely if ever actually adds any value to the show/movie
Midwit
How old are you you dumb n-word,?
It's unrealistic, because this is happening instead.
>age gap
Which one is supposed to be older?
this, when i was in high school, all the girls where dating dudes 5-10 years older. now those same girls are bitching about dudes who date younger girls, cuz "the women their age know theyre losers" but they are still dating men 5-10 years older. women are dumb
>this, when i was in high school, all the girls where dating dudes 5-10 years older.
No, they weren't. But you'll keep making excuses anyway.
>girls dont date older men
kek ok retard
It's rare for girls to date guys a couple years older, and extremely rare for 10 years older. But you keep coping with your fetish for what you will never experience and favorite porn fantasy.
You are insane.
Cope harder, incel. Now go jerk off like every night, crying tears of shame and rage.
nta but holy projection
back to your lookism thread homosexual
I'm not even the anon you were arguing with. You are insane.
>It's rare for girls to date guys a couple years older
ok retard but my anecdotal evidence says otherwise
>But you keep coping
blackpillers have literally nothing but a series of copes designed to justify their ITS OVER, zero-effort, comfortable downwards spiral into hateful reclusion
In your world view, healing and growth do not exist and every normalfag has an effortless life where things JUST HAPPEN. You're delusional and destroying yourselves, no shit an outlook that denies agency will lead you to an impotent bitter place
obsessive incels who should be doing literally anything else
I'm not an incel, retard. I lost my virginity at 19, and dated and played around and had girfriends in high school.
But you keep ranting about things you know nothing about. It's amusing.
and that's why you're bitterposting in the designated incel circlejerk thread 😀
they have to justify their lifestyle since failure and self pity is comforting and familiar to them, what scares them shitless more than rejection is the possibility that they might be successful since that would mean they wasted their lives on a cope
There's 7 billion and counting people on the planet, it's not that weird that some literally are too ugly and autistic to get laid, and their bitterness at missing out is totally natural
>every normalfag has an effortless life where things JUST HAPPEN.
Well, kind of. I've had nasty interactions with women that destroyed my willpower.
>every normalfag has an effortless life where things JUST HAPPEN
This is literally true tho. I see it happen with my normie friends all the time.
If you remember what they were like during high school you would remember the constant seething about girls, status, opportunities, and crap like that
Normies are constantly jostling for position and while it's true that some people have everything come naturally to them, and I know people like that too, they are not normies.
Like I know a 6'7" volleyball captain who went on to do an advanced biochemistry honors degree while juggling college sports and got married in undergrad, and he was carefree all the time. But, the majority of average people have to struggle to get what they want.
And then there are also those who literally peaked in high school and just coast off the habits they picked up then
better to peak in high school than to literally never peak at all
To never peak at all could imply constant improvement.
t. Didn't peak in High School because he dropped out.
>It's rare for girls to date guys a couple years older
that is LITERALLY the average age difference
holy fuck man
you could not possibly be any more wrong than you are, it's baffling
You're coping so hard you walk funny, lol.
the average age gap is 2.3 years to the man's side
>NOOOO! MUH PURE TEEN LOVE
KWAB
the older guys who get with younger women are the same chads who had success when they were young, the awkward loner 23 year old will just become an awkward loner 40 year old with an even smaller chance of getting a gf. So for the average incel its not an option.
>all that shit i didnt say
i just said women date older men retard. most of the women i know who dated older men, those guys where either in a band, skater junkies, or ex-cons, drug dealers, or criminals of some sort.
it was always geeky dudes or lonely old simps that i observed
>chads who had success when they were young
more like internet cafe sadboys, in other words, your exact demographic
the only thing that's fucking changed is you people withdrew and stopped trying
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that's right, need more age gap kinos
bitch looks good for 60 but that guy is gay
she looks good for 60.
>Retards not noticing the FaceApp watermark
Lmaooo
I have moved on from
>yearning, hopeless desire for romance
to
>yearning, hopeless desire for the slightest ability to interact with others or function in society in any way
>yearning, hopeless desire for the slightest ability to interact with others or function in society in any way
Just go out and talk to people you’ll eventually get good at it
Just flap your arms harder and you'll eventually fly
I was a socially awkward nerd too. I forced myself to go out as much as possible and got a job that requires constantly talking to people and interacting with others. Now I’m a social butterfly. What makes you think you can lot do the same?
me too, did the same shit, forced myself to just go out, usually after a few beers everything is easy. got a job in the service industry where i dealt with coworkers and customers constantly. i was pretty good with the self depreciating humor and making people laugh, but now i dont have to fake confidence anymore and learned how to read people and tell them what they want to hear, pretty much all thanks to a job at a deli counter.
>Just go out and talk to people you’ll eventually get good at it
yeah good job encouraging him to go make an ass out of himself and having everybody he interacts with thing he's some kind of strange weirdo for not knowing how to talk to people correctly at his age
Who cares what other people think? If they’re random people you’ll never see them again if you make a bad impression and if you make a good impression you’ll have some new friends
usually chicks find it attractive if some guy acts like a retard or a moron or embarrasses himself, but only so long as you just act like you dont care what other people think.
>you’ll never see them again
yes you will and they will remember you for being the cringey weirdo you are
I dont want either. I want to be left alone.
Post 5 examples in the archive from non-schizos
this picture enrages me beyond words
leave, incel
dont act like that picture is anything close to your lived experience retarded n-word
They didn’t stay together and he probably got murdered at a party
Why would LULZ have a problem with that picture?
Because most anons were losers in high school.
I wish I was the girl and I wish the guy was a another girl
One of my friends from high school had a gf and played sports and shit. Then in college they broke up and he shaved his head, became a skinhead, and got a swatiska tattoo.
sounds like she was holding him back, good on him
Women, not even once. All those wasted years spent dating when he could have been reading Mein Kampf.
i think its sweet
tards who say teenage romance is overrated because the sex is bad or it was stupid or emotional are missing the point
those experiences develop you, it’s precisely the clumsiness and immaturity that makes it so pure, it’s like a baby taking its first steps
if you missed out and didn’t make it by colllege at least it’s over, you’re botched, you’re stunted, you’re trying to get on your feet while everyone else is winding down and will have no interest in dealing with your beginner problems, add to this that love becomes much more conditional and transactional in adulthood and you’re in for a completely miserable experience because romantically you have nothing to offer, you’re done, it never even began and it’s already over
There is no such thing as conditional love. I can say with absolute certainty that even if my girlfriend, my mom, or my brother did something wrong to you, I would have their back and would kill you to ensure they were okay.
That doesn't mean it's unconditional idiot
and if your gf sucked my cock?
what then homosexual
>it’s like a baby taking its first steps
if you missed out and didn’t make it by colllege at least it’s over, you’re botched, you’re stunted
This is such a cope. I didn’t make it until after college and I’m successful with women. What’s your alternative? Just give up?
>What’s your alternative? Just give up?
That's what does in the volcel, which includes all "incels."
>What’s your alternative? Just give up?
Antisemitism.
being hit by single moms isn't successful bro
>What’s your alternative? Just give up?
Yes.
>You will never be nervous picking a girl up for your first date, and seeing she dressed up just for you.
>You will never know what it's like when you finally cup a tit, and she doesn't move your hand away.
> You will never feel like a fucking god the first time you make a woman cum.
>You will never feel what it's like to have a woman make you cum the first time.
>You will never feel what it's like when she wears her nicest underwear for your birthday. And that you get to see her underwear. And that she got them just for you.
>You will never meet a girl's parents and hear "So you're the one she's always talking about!"
>You'll never know what it feels like to eat lunch with a girl in the sun at achool, when you had your finger inside her the night before, and she keeps blushing and smiling ramdomly, and you know she's thinking about it.
But yeah, being a tota sperg and never talking to any girls in school is SO much better. Yep. You keep believing that, champ.
>You will never feel like a fucking god the first time you make a woman cum.
This is virgin cuck shit
Yes, the virgin who has sex for the first time. That was the point
>t. retard who cant ever find the clitoris or the g spot and has never made a woman orgasm
ngmi
Yeah, cope, incel. COPE. Maybe you can force that shame out of your stunted head. Give it a shot. You've huffed your incel farts so hard you actually hate women. You're winning, son!
>implying this was this anon's experience
If you've never had sex past the age of 18 then it's over. I'm not just talking about sex, it's about life. Relationships are the most natural things there are, they are meant to boost your self-esteem in your adolescence and equip you for functioning in society. Trying to go into adult society as a virgin who has barely said two words to a girl is like trying to compete in a Formula 1 race when you don't even have your learner's license. Everyone will instantly see you for your lack of experience and avoid you, giving you 0 opportunity to develop the essential skills you need for success. Ironically, the older you get, the more impossible it becomes to achieve what you were supposed to as a teenager.
I wouldn't say it's over, you can recover, with a lot of work, but you're going to be at least 6 years behind in social skills by then.
I remember in college there were a lot of "away from home for the first time" girls with no experience, who wanted to change that, fast. The average sperg might just be able to get something done with a girl like that, with a minimum of physical and emotional damage.
Most of the angry incels here? Nah. They're gonna die virgins.
>equip you for functioning in society
you mean cope with the bullshit society throws at you
this anon knows whats up, abandon hope incelbros
Who sits around thinking about this shit
Incels. They're consumed with their failure at manhood.
Obviously people smarter than you.
depression ruins your cognitive abilities
Then why are happy normalhomosexuals all retards?
what is a retard
because rumination, regardless of whether you start off with a positive or negative disposition, is a risk factor for depression
It's not that they're incapable of thinking intelligently, they just don't do it. Meanwhile, thinking intelligently about your own life is a risk factor for becoming a mindbroken NEET.
retarded spamfilter is blocking my post so just look up keywords "metacognition rumination depression"
literally,
literally,
just don't think about it bro
>It's not that they're incapable of thinking intelligently
the blackpill is another flavour of copium you turbovirgin
I'm with this guy
If you say our teen sex was clumsy, emotional, stupid and immature
Imagine having that clumsy emotional immature sex when you have 30yo
>Imagine having that clumsy emotional immature sex when you have 30yo
it's not going to be as clumsy or immature, for very obvious reasons
Anybody who is taking this guys advice is either bitter and jaded that he settled or is using this as a way out. It’s never too late to start changing your habits. Worse case scenario you can fuck a high end escort.
I gained confidence by dating ugly woman and working my up the ladder.
Once you get that out of the way, anything is possible.
Any kinos for this feel? Other than Whatever (1999)
the book is even more brutal
>You haven't felt a woman's touch in how many years??
>Time to up your medication
I raped 10 girls in highschool. So I cant relate.
FUCK YOU MAN, NOBODY GIVES A FUCK
First I heard of it you sure you didnt just make this up for (YOU)'s?
Endless Love is the best teen romance film. Fight me.
It was unironically more pure, women haven’t learned their sexual value yet in the age of social media and just gained emotion through interaction, love felt more real when I was 16 than when I’m 21 now with women having access to unlimited guys/millionaires and will probably cheat just because they’re young
i am a 30 year old kissless virgin. i'm self aware that i'm ugly and retarded so its whatever. some people simply have shitty lives.
same
yeah same, i haven't even been able to make a single friend ever either. I'll just never get along with people
autist
Seems pretty easy for them to make friends nowdays
never diagnosed, so nop
i had one good friend but we drifted apart with age, he has a wife now and kid on the way. so i'm essentially friendless and a shut in.
that sucks, i have friends that i went to school with from 2nd grade through high school, lived in the same neighborhood, all within a few blocks of each other. we're still best friends to this day. have a cousin who is a few months older than me and hes been my best friend for longer than i can actually remember. now we merged our crews and formed a council of bros.
Lost all friends after high school and just doing nothing now
>you a incel LOL
But.. I have sex regularly. Yes, it’s with another man, but it’s wild, acrobatic sex and I love it.
>imagine not having a wife
>imagine not having children
>imagine not having a successful career
>imagine not owning a house outright
>imagine not having a beach house
>imagine not having a racist and loyal dog
Its 2022 incels. Step up.
This thread is about to drastically decline in quality as all the half-way adjusted anons go to bed and the only ones left posting are oblivious doomers with ruined sleep schedules
Eurobros, please take up the torch and bully the sad sacks in our stead
people that had relationships in high school act like that because it reminds them of the one that got away or a bad relationship
people that didn't love it because they can live through it in their imaginative "what if" scenario
>Why do anons get incredibly hostile and defensive whenever a film touches upon the topic of teen/young romance?
Because I just fucking hate teenagers
>I peaked in high school: the thread
a girl i worked with once told me i peaked in high school. never before had a girl pissed me off and turned me on so much. was pretty fun doing coke with her and fucking her brains out after work
I thought I peaked in college, then I became a dad. Being a successful man of the house has changed me into something else entirely. Just getting drunk with friends has nothing on grilling and getting drunk with friends. The same with getting trashed on Friday nights at a frat party. Its weak shit compared to getting sloppy at the country club, then walking nine. I just feel like a more complete man. I will tell you young guys one thing, there are absolute milfs at expensive daycares.
>tfw no rich milf gf
Sad times
So I always went with two pieces of dating advice
>Learn from your mistakes
>Marry a rich girl
It served me well. Each and every girl I dated, I made mistakes and improved myself until I found the one who clicked. The rich girl part is just in line, but damn its nice to have a private safety net if shit goes sideways.
Both bleed into eachother, as success breeds success. You zoomers need to fucking get off your ass and stop playing video games and watching anime like garden gnomeo is going to bust through your window. You need to get out there, fail and keep going. Eventually you will break through and find your perfect match, but donf try those damn online dating. If those worked they wouldnt have customers. Need to go to church
>Need to go to church
this. marrying into a big family with my wife having lots of siblings would be dope, so our kids could have cousins the same age growing up. my mom and aunts did this, all had sons the same year and then three years later. growing up with your cousins is the best shit ever.
Fake and gay.
you dont have to be married and have a kid to get sloppy with the boys and play a round of golf or two dipshit
my dad has never had any friends since he had me. he's 52 and we're each others only friends really.
sounds like a good dad, you should find a dnd group or something together tho.
really sad
If I had it my way, people wouldn't be able to date until after 25 and proof of employment. Kids should not be fucking dating each other, it's the reason why society is so fucked.
people are virgins for longer now iirc
this except for men only, for women it should be the inverse and they should not be allowed to date past 25
>why are incels obsessed with the thing they obsess over
man no idea
I am 35 years old and my girlfriend is 17. Reminder that women want a real man, zoomy!
your carer isn't your gf, grandpa
>missed teenage romance
>decide to try to find it anyway
>meet a 16 year old Australian girl at 22
>move to Australia for a while
>have sex constantly, go to the beach every day, live with her mom and qt half sister
Felt good man.
>things that never happened: the post
Not even memeing. Best time of my life. Huge titties and I was busting in her 2-3 times a day.
god i hope you are black and she is white
When I was 19 I stole some 16 year old's girlfriend from him. You would not believe the utter malding.
haha you're so cool
Did you get cucked as a teen?
I would have to have a gf to get cucked as a teen
Damn almost forgot I did too. Bitch had huge tits and rode horses.
Just remember that everyone ITT is lying. It's over, just kys
Let me tell you coping brothers one thing. You guys have to have this experience or you will be scarred. No, this is real. You have to be healed. Other coping and unaware anons will so innocently tell you to cope otherwise by finding religion? Good luck. You'll quit that in a year. You will never be happy and you'll become jaded, and a vindictive asshole.
Work with your trauma or let it rule you. Oh, you can't? Well, rope yourself and hope there's nothing out there afterwards.
there are loads of healthy ways to deal with any insecurity or pathological FOMO in this department, none of which involve escalating the neurosis
>Work with your trauma
how exactly are you supposed to do that
Have sex.
I don't, I just don't relate to it because I'm a 34-year-old kissless, handholdless, hugless virgin. lol
even if you do relate, the high school setting is tiresome. give us more college shit at least.
I guess they stick to the high school shit because of hormonal teenagers or whatever.
member uncle Rico from Napoleon Dynamite? People like that actually exist and are autistically obsessed with going back to High School and doing it right.
it seems like it doesnt change in college, i think people just romanticize those years too much.
>give us high school 2.0
>been on earth for more than 1800 days
>still doesnt have any admirers
it's been over for a long time anon
>30 year old virgin
>literally have never seen any girl express any interest in me or even extremely vague body language shit PUAs tell you to look for
at first I thought my life was a tragedy, then I realized it was a comedy hahahaahahahahahahaha
you two seem like soullmates, fuck eachother
I'm seeing the problem here. You believe the feminist bullshit about how women can approach men, too.
>You believe the feminist bullshit about how women can approach men, too.
no you retarded fuck, women give men signals to show their interest
>no you retarded fuck, women give men signals to show their interest
And they think that we'll just notice it. That means that it's on you.
>And they think that we'll just notice it. That means that it's on you.
you are so fucking stupid you're responding to me and not even understanding my initial post. Fucking kys ESL n-word
>That means that it's on you
Erm, no? My tism deflects all that shit lmao
>approach a woman
>"my boyfriend..." in the first couple sentences
God I hate being ugly
Been there. The big hypocrisy of women is that they don't want us to take it personally while also wanting us to be open with our emotions... which would mean taking it personally.
>Which state benefits you the most?
They're talking about dumb shit that might not even be noticed like awkward questions or twirling her hair.
It sucks for both parties. If I want to talk to a woman she feels compelled to tell me she has a boyfriend, regardless if I'm trying to fuck her or not.
I seriously doubt that most people are that ugly, although morbid obesity and other shit like that is a problem.
I'm 6'1, 200lbs and deadlift 485 except I have extreme butterface. I get "my boyfriend" constantly.
>I get "my boyfriend" constantly.
That means that it's your personality and the girls you're approaching. Believe it or not, some women don't like gym guys.
True. No one said that this was fair.
Again, worst case scenarioism.
That's much better!
Yeah I'm sure the girl gauged his entire personality within 2 sentences KEK
Girls end up with hot guys that bludgeon the shit out of them and throw them down the stairs but when it comes to YOU their personality radar is on point.
>Yeah I'm sure the girl gauged his entire personality within 2 sentences KEK
We live in a society where two sentences can blow up someone's life. Go figure.
>All women have come to expect highly attractive men in the modern age of social media and dating apps.
Not necessarily. They expect adoration because fuckhead simps give it to them for free.
>We live in a society where two sentences can blow up someone's life
GAS THE garden gnomes! RACE WAR NOW!
Women these days don't really put up with physical violence since slut-hookups are nowhere near as constraining as older modes of relationship
tinder chads don't beat them
I have diagnosed autism and ADHD and I was raped as a child, now have a nice day with your lazy downwards spiral mentality fucking supreme homosexual
>That means that it's your personality
It's really not. I could talk to a woman platonically and I would still get "my boyfriend". I'm just ugly, Chad could say the same platonic thing and she'd not mention her bf. Here's one example
>see a girl at the gym often, she has seen me and I've seen her
>she's wearing a local football team sweater one day
>approach her and say hey nice sweater
>she says oh thank you (literally takes a long pause)
>"my boyfriend got it for me while at training"
>I said uhhh okay and went back to lifting
Have you tried not approaching gym girls?
Was just a recent example.
approaching gym girls is cringe.
they want to finish their workout and go home
>approaching gym girls is cringe.
Pretty much.
Sure it's cringe if you're ugly, and that's the fucking point.
>Just walk up and talk to her bro
>NO NOT THERE WHAT ARE YOU THINKING
the "helpful" normie strikes again
If you're approaching a certain type of girl and they aren't responding to you, you should go somewhere else.
Go where?
I'm fit, make $85k a year, have a car, my own house. if a freaking minimum wage YMCA gym worker won't even give me the time of day, what fucking chance do I have elsewhere? Should I try the soup kitchen?
>if a freaking minimum wage YMCA gym worker
There it is. There's your problem right there.
Yes that is a problem, despite everything I bring to the table I can't impress even broke ass women since I'm ugly.
if she works at a gym, she's probably surrounded by tons of gigachads way more fit than you
Not really. And even so, not really the point. I spoke to her completely platonically and still got "muh boyfriend"
Even if she tells you no several times keep asking. Follow her to her house and do the ol hold the boombox over your head outside of her window trick. You'll get her one day.
>woman weighs 400lbs
>still gets Chad and Chadlites from tinder every night
what signals?
If a girl bends over and twerks, screams like a banshee and begs for you to breed her I think she might want your cock, it's happened to me before but my tism gave me mixed signals.
that doesn't sound like a girl is interested in you at all LOL virgin
he was clearly joking, you autist
>DUDE JUST FOLLOW THESE VAGUE GENERIC UNDERCOVER SIGNALS AND THEN TALK TO HER AND THEN FIND OUT SHE WASNT GIVING YOU A SIGNAL AT ALL AND SHES ACTUALLT WEIRDED OUT AND SHE TAKES A PICTURE OF YOU AND SPREADS IT TO HER GROUP CHAT FOR HER FRIENDS TO LAUGH AT AND SHE TELLS THE MANAGER YOURE MAKING HER UNCOMFORTABLE AND YOU GET BANNED FROM THE GYM PERMANENTLY AND LOSE YOUR GAINS AND BECOME EVEN UGLIER AND MORE MISERABLE
You're assuming the worst case scenario to justify your inaction.
>bro maybe if you put that fork in the outlet one more time it won't almost shock you to death
You would be one of the first people to shit on and laugh at me when it happens. It's always the same with you psychopaths
>dude just so this
>dude why did you do that are you crazy it's your own fault
Women DO NOT LIKE when sub 8 males talk to them they talk about us like cockroaches that brushed up against them while they were just trying to go about their day.
>Women DO NOT LIKE when sub 8 males talk to them
You're talking to the wrong women.
All women have come to expect highly attractive men in the modern age of social media and dating apps. Being rejected by attractive men actually makes women hate unattractive men even more.
Are dating apps even as popular as they were years ago? Every time I check out the bitches on anything but Tinder it's just crackheads or fatties.
this
just be confident bros
is that not a good justification?
girls were always very cold and standoffish around me growing up, i was the weird ugly fat kid they wanted to go away. that continued into early adulthood even after losing the weight, people just acted like me being there was an inconvenience so i kinda just stopped socializing altogether. always figured i was just ugly and not likable or sociable enough, no matter how i interacted with people.
no woman has shown any interest in me in 30 years. sex and intimacy of any sort are such a foreign and alien thing to me on all levels i don't even think i'd be able to fuck a prostitute.
I may have had sex once but at least I'm not a virgin.
I only get hostile over how they did Ally Sheedy at the end of Breakfast Club.
ally sneedy.
you mean her make over? yeah looked awful but the nerd got shafted hard being stuck in detention doing their paper with the other 4 go off and fuck
insecurity
also, for some people these memories are all they have left to cheer for
>tfw us government needs to pay psyhologists to make these threads to help pacifying incels so that they won't shoot people
lmao
I had teen romance and I had a lot of friends. Everyone lives in different states now and nobody kept in touch.
Now I’m sad that the good ol’ days are 100% over and I’ll never experience them again.
There’s always something to be sad about anons, you just have to move past it and create new memories. You can still fall in love. There’s still time. Don’t beat yourself up because it didn’t happen to you when you were 16.
Dating is fucking impossible when you are an autist.
True
Normiesplainers will never understand it. They think love is just something you can go out and get when you missed out on crucial irreplaceable developmental milestones and have basically been rotting your entire adult life.
Even normie guys gfs will get the ICK where he does some minor thing that makes her lose her list for him and it's completely over. Autist guys have no chance.
it's not about not having sex in your teens, it's about NEETing for any extended period of time
that's the real poison but the blackpillers do the opposite of acknowledging it; they aren't clearsighted or helpful to anyone on this issue
one leads to the other
in either case there is a point of no return
the point of no return is on a case-by-case basis and a self-fulfilling prophesy
nobody in their 20s should fear it, for one thing
young love is pretty crucial. when EVERYONE around you as a teenager and young adult is having quick flings, dating girls left and right, getting that experience over and over near effortlessly and you're just stuck. you feel subhuman. you start truly believing something is wrong with you and you are not deserving of love, and time just goes on and on and you end up 30 with less intimacy experience than a 14 year old. it's tough to just be like "well it could always be worse i'll find the girl to pity me one day." the older i get the less likely it seems that day is going to ever come. i am simply too stunted and too much of a broke ugly loser to attract a mate. we can't all be winners, you just don't hear about the failure shut ins who check out eventually like me.
you should just take a shower, shave, get a haircut, pull yourself up by your bootstraps, and just talk to a woman if you want to find a gf bro its not hard at all
Talk to random women about what? How is that supposed to lead to a fucking date unless you are some 10/10 chad the ladies want?
they want incels to dance for them
it's the same as how girls would prank loser guys in high school by telling him that some girl likes him and have him go up to her and get emotionally destroyed
normies are absolute fucking psychopaths
>it's the same as how girls would prank loser guys in high school by telling him that some girl likes him and have him go up to her and get emotionally destroyed
hey that happened to me. i think i near disassociated for the rest of the day.
>girls would prank loser guys in high school by telling him that some girl likes him and have him go up to her and get emotionally destroyed
god i wish i didnt know what this feels like
Blackpill homosexuals like you spooked me out of genuine sex with a popular girl by undermining my own self-image
I am now driven to accelerate all your suicides
>it's your fault I couldn't get laid
hold on who's the incel here again?
I mean, I got laid at a later point.
But according to your type, that would be heckin impossible
Again, rope
so you're a retarded chad who fell for shit that didn't apply to you?..
if you did those things you would have a gf bro its entirely your fault because you don't shower
I do shower and brush my teeth and all that bullshit. No girl has so much as looked my direction because I am not 10/10 material and don't talk much because there isn't much worth talking about. Normie bullshit small talk is fucking painful.
This reminds me of something I saw recently in Seattle. I was on a date with my wife at a nice restaurant. The two people next to us were around 40, on a first date, the woman was 300lbs white woman, the guy was a fit Indian dude and they both worked for Amazon based on the conversation. This dude, despite being a poo, was out of her league in every aspect and she literally told him I'm going home alone after the date was over.
this isn't a switch you failed to flip in your teens, it's a pit you gradually slid into during your 20s, and any representation of it as the former is delusional and frankly evil for what it perpetuates. it's easy, sure
but then it isn't about having sex or NEETing, it's about your crippling autism
this is a mentality built up out of insecurity and if you actually had a woman like that in front of you, you probably wouldn't be able to get it up.
Not saying society doesn't value sex but YOU have fed this monster of insecurity by a grass-is-greener mentality.
The causality that led up to this point doesn't matter. The "how" is an easy cope for you. The "what" is that you are now currently sabotaging yourself on an ontological level, by your very worldview, This is a factual descriptor of the situation and now you have to face it before anything that led to it is addressed
you're making an awful lot of assumptions about people you've never met based solely on shit you've read on LULZ, you're a fucking retard
my first two replies in that comment entirely went off of things the other anons said.
My final reply was to a homosexual thinking that sex-having is like a switch that will fix incels when that's self-evidently wrong and only magical thinking about sex could lead you to that conclusion. It is self-evidently magical thinking and I am not extrapolating at all. In no area of human psychology will just satisfying one's obsession fix one's problems, lmfao dumbass
you aren't going off of what other anons say, you're just saying the same shit to these guys that you've seen posted in other threads. You're obviously a fucking retard
>implying it's a new phenomenon
>implying there haven't been 5+ years of full-on cel relevancy in public consciousness
>implying PUA didn't exist like 10 years ago
>implying I'm out of touch
the advice is good and the main reason it hasn't fixed the majority of you who aren't outright crippled is because you're lazy selfdestructive cunts getting off on misery
>implying
you're dumb, you're pretending you're smart and better than incels here because you're posting in a manner you've seen used against incels. Again you're fucking dumb lol
I took the advice homosexual
watch you no-true-scotsman into how this absolutely doesn't blow a hole in your cancerous ideology despite the fact that I'm the poster with autism and ADHD and a history of abuse as a child
If I was actually doing what you said you should take the example from me, and then have sex
>continues to post the same bullshit he's seen in other threads
>MUH F-F-FALACIES!!!
why can't you just accept you are a fucking dumbass fraud that got called out lmao
How do you know that having sex won't fix incels when they never get sex?
Why would they keep complaining about not getting sex if they got regular sex?
>ohhhh stop complaining about being thirsty if you drank water it wouldn't solve all your problems
>How do you know that having sex won't fix incels when they never get sex?
Because a lot of them are so fucking nuts that they think that women will respond positively to their rants about state-mandated gfs.
That's not really an answer.
If someone resents the fact that they don't get sex and their entire self destructive worldview is centred around this fact then why would giving them sex not help their mindset?
i choose to believe the funny ass stories like state-mandated gf's etc are jokes (i hope) but i like to glean through the shit and try to find common threads with my experiences
i'm ugly as sin and haven't had a girl touch me since I was like 22, and the last time it happened I was at a party with a girl and she drank too much and wanted to fuck my homeless friend who i was letting sit on my couch.
the time before that I was with another different girl and on 2 separate occasions other girls (who I didn't know) came up to ask her if "she was ok" and both times my other girl friends saw this happen to me and could only stare with gigantic, shocked eyes, and after the second one I said "see what I mean?" and just sat down and drank instead of trying to dance or do anything
that kinda shit absolutely destroys you and here I am 10 years later and kinda just gave up and accepted it as my lot. not everyone gets to have a good life with love in it.
Incels who get sex get it by building themselves up and breaking out of the harmful mental patterns. This has happened before.
Because blackpill inceldom is primarily driven by status or at least validation, you wouldn't accept government-provided GF for the same reason you don't currently accept escorts as a solution.
More broadly incels inevitably drive this line of reasoning to a catch-22 extreme where the only kind of sex that would count to fix his problem is some kind that he could never get without already having his problem fixed.
>escortcope
>fattycope
>hookupcope
>....
>uuuh it doesn't count unless you have regular sex with a tradwife who was a trad virgin before she met you
I know because this type of defensive behavior doesn't just apply to sex, it's textbook self-sabotage
most of the virgins here pushing 30 would be ecstatic to have a date with any woman around their age. women don't even look in our direction, it is as if we do not exist.
>women don't even look in our direction, it is as if we do not exist.
We've got guys in this thread who are sperging because a half-broke gym employee has a boyfriend.
>We've got guys in this thread who are sperging because a half-broke gym employee has a boyfriend.
>one person's story is everyone I dont like's story
this kek
the thing is when you're a woman or a Chad you don't need to do any self improvement shit or learn game or get a personality or any of the million little workshops normie advice dispensers recommend, you just inherently have value and people treat you nicely, you are the package, you are worth pursuing and having a good time with
I'm a 32 khv and would love any attention on these cancerous dating apps.
I'm commenting for the benefit of the 20 year old doomers
>no its not dummy lol
we both know it is, you're not even coping anymore you're just having a tantrum
the advice has been posted before because you are not a new phenomenon and the advice is correct
malding, also cultist
jesus christ you're the babysitting janny aren't you
>you're completely wrong and don't actually have an opinion you're just posting the same shit you've seen in other threads
>NUH UH! UR JUST THROWING A TANTRUM
Maybe if I was a janny I could at least delete your gay threads
>i-im not the j-janny h-honest!
>Incels who get sex get it by building themselves up and breaking out of the harmful mental patterns
you don't know this is true at all
>This has happened before.
has it?
> blackpill inceldom is primarily driven by status or at least validation
no its not dummy lol
What a load of bullshit. I've worked for the better part of a decade now yet I've still haven't been able to get a gf because women don't share my interests and its important they do as an autist.
well adjusted people who never had difficulties socially telling legit shut in adult virgin spergs "there's still time" will never not be hilarious to me. its so fucking condescending and shitty. the worst most smug assholes imaginable. fuck you.
The worst part is they won't even let you just vent about it on incel messageboards they all need to be hunted and shut down. Can't even let the societal rejects have their own space. They're fucking psychopaths. You need to be dragged back out into the open so they can laugh at and shit on you.
blame pol for the unwanted attention
that's because you are spreading poison and are basically on par with trannies when it comes to memetic viruses targeting young men; however unlike trannies, you're not so far gone that you can't be countered
dumbest opinion I've seen in awhile
>You are spreading poison
Societal villification of the virgin male while making fixing being a virgin extremely difficult is what is poisoning people.
Women could solve the incel problem literally tomorrow by having sex with them. Instantly vaccinate any incel they want but they simply can't do it. The idea of even touching a societal pariah inspires the same feeling in them as that of touching a giant cockroach.
>Women could solve the incel problem literally tomorrow by having sex with them.
That's the problem that you're having. There's no such thing as a quick fix.
>There's no such thing as a quick fix.
If a woman no matter her level of attractiveness was anxious about being a virgin she could literally hop on any app and get laid within a matter of hours.
>ooh there's no such thing as a quick fix
yeah sure bro
>If a woman no matter her level of attractiveness was anxious about being a virgin she could literally hop on any app and get laid within a matter of hours.
They also get their self-esteem elevated from everywhere else by guys like you.
so I'm supposed to man up pursue women and have sex
but I'm supposed to not validate women by trying to have sex with them because that inflates their self esteem
>but I'm supposed to not validate women by trying to have sex with them because that inflates their self esteem
You don't give them validation for free by subscribing to their OnlyFans, calling them beautiful when they post pictures on social media, and so on.
absolutely nobody here fucking does any of that.
>absolutely nobody here fucking does any of that.
Yeah, you do.
you are projecting huge. i have zero social media accounts and have never paid for porn and never will.
>Yeah, you do.
I've only given money to qt femboys on onlyfans
I don't do either of those things
I don't even use facebook
people just don't want you to give up.
>tfw cucked a 16 yo by taking a girl his age he was interested in
>told him to claim a qt 14 yo freshman instead
absolute degeneracy
I was 19/20 when it happened. Dunno if it makes it better or worse.
I was a kissless virgin til 21. I've fucked like 70 women since and and I still feel like I missed out.
I honestly don't feel like I missed out. I don't mind being an older guy dating teenagers.
What's worse? Not being able to attract girls at all, or being able to easily land pussy or a relationship but being alone since you can't find someone to genuinely love? I'm in the latter situation
I hope you end up blowing your brains out
... the former is much worse.
>Duhh What's worse being an African starvin Marvin or having a million dollars to blow every day
Gee, dunno
the latter, now have a nice day please
normalfags have innate drive to interact with other people and rise in economic and social hierarchies. this is what is meant by "normalfags just float on the river of life and things work out for them"; they have these human urges that push them into making decisions that just happen to be favourable for their long term social development.
the point is, if you dont have the desire to interact with people and they are just obligations and energy thieves to you, you ARE fucked. not being able to navigate social settings as an adult means you will never catch up and reap the rewards everyone else is
You are describing a minority of hardworking extroverts who are a tiny subset of the normalfag population
It's entirely possible to be an extroverted autist, which is fucking suffering, as I should know.
Conversely, not every introvert ends up a NEET, which should be self-evident...
how do you people come up with this shit
>woman
>be over 6'0
>man
>be under 120lbs
>her: REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Young love is important and better than nothing at worst, but does not mean you will also be succesful in the future thanks to it. I haven't been with a woman for more than 10 years.
Funny how this thread turned out to be more unhinged weirdos seething about incels than anything else
why do they hate us bros... we literally did nothing
theres no game women either flock to you or dont
the more you try the dryer they get, and after a few rejections youre gonna be known as THAT and would be avoided
You know she's taking bbc nightly
Game used to matter so much more in online dating, now it's simple "face attractive, swipe right"
It never mattered
I promise it didn't used to be so wild west.
there is no game retards, never was, never will be
its just another made up bullshit that normies pretend to be good at when its just things being fed to them on a silver spoon
People get sour about what they don’t have. Once you have had it and lost it you change your mind
>rich person goes over to a bunch of bums
>YOU KNOW MONEY ISNT EVERYTHING I HAVE PROBLEMS TOO ITS ALL RELATIVE
But seriously, if anyone in this thread is over the age of 25 and has still never touched a woman, you are pathetic and your misery is entirely your fault
I touched a woman once. It's more complicated than being or not being a virgin.
i'm entirely self aware at my own ugliness and inability to attract a mate. do you really want me to pay for loveless sex that badly? why?
yeah it is but I've come to accept it
i'll be the dude who only appears at morning to get the morning mail
Bro imagine a girl actually being nervous about talking to you and getting antsy when you're not there and wondering whether you'll like what she dressed up in. Imagine actually mattering to someone.
the other day I said hi to another grad student I'm kinda friends with coming out of the elevator and she stuttered "hi" back, blushed, then knocked over a hand sanitizer dispenser by accident while giggling
today she sent me a heart reply on a random whatsapp message
feels good to stay winning chadbros
thank you you have pushed my blackpill meter up a little
crazy
i told something like this to my sister (who has a husband from college) when I was early 20s and she basically burst into tears
never asked me if i had a girlfriend after that, though
Just gotta find the right chick and put some effort into how you look and dress. And fake it til you make it confidence wise. Worked for me. Takes time but don’t give up. Also fuck dating apps
>just do all these things to impress some obese pounded out whore, it's what I did
>uuuh it doesn't count unless you have regular sex with a tradwife who was a trad virgin before she met you
.
I'm not a fucking janny and never accuse me of this again
I'd screencap my UI but you'd say it was edited
uhhhh it counts if I can land this 300 body count landwhale look at me I'm so Chad
you're a parody of yourself
No one's praising you for reeling in a land whale hooker
Right, there's the status point and also the self sabotage
It's perfectly logical to work your way up from a hooker or fatty, but in sour-grapes incelworld it's already over, so you would rather seethe endlessly instead of stooping to that, when by anyone else's standards it's more respectable than this gay self-pity
Now you're going to claim victory because you are brain-fried
shut up janny we all know its you
>I’m too lazy to go into the real world and look for a good woman and dress well
Ok
Where, exactly, should people go while dressing well to meet a good woman in the real world?
I also have no idea. It's just meaningless non-advice. Relationships just happen to normies.
Then don't expound bullshit. That shit is for attractive people.
most people in the /soc/, /LULZ/ and reddit face threads (and also lookism from back in the day) aren't actually too ugly to make it and are obviously suffering from severe self-image problems
Sure there's selection bias but those threads aren't exactly inactive
>aren't actually too ugly to make it
The bar has increased. No woman has to settle for average anymore.
average guys have always had to simp to get what chad gets for free, since the dawn of time
Not really, 50 or 60 years ago women weren't very self-sustainable and nobody paid them thousands of dollars for OnlyFans.
And men were only competing with a limited pool of local Chads, meanwhile today they have to compete with a much larger pool of Chads from far away due to the availability of dating apps.
I'm talking about "settling down" i.e. betabux, dude
conversational skills are trainable and even IQ is; study habits and proper socialization are incredibly important during and after schooling; Straight A students have to work hard too
I think I finally get who makes these pics, its people who were never told or trained or tricked themselves into forgetting what self-investment is
>conversational skills are trainable
>train yourself to dance for these fat whores
>image gets btfo
>"um why would the image even matter? c-cope"
put down the anonymous forum skinner box, you're obviously completely poisoned by it
Normie and chad is on a spectrum, like
said the competition has never been this fierce before
Average isn't enough, if you simp then you simp for OF girls. You have to be above average, either in terms of looks, money or status to simp for real women
Literally anywhere but a club or bar or tinder or whatever. A book store. Go hiking. Join a fitness group. Your workplace. A target. Just go out and do shit you like to do and at some point a cool chick will usually pop up EVENTUALLY. Everyone I know met their wives though a mutual activity, friend, or work
Oh bullshit. They're not going to talk to an autist like myself.
I’m pretty autistic and racist and I eventually found someone. Don’t give up bro. I can’t remember the term but if you are in a setting with chicks (at work, Working out, whatever) and you are someone they see often and have a decent acquaintance with at least, it’s way easier to date em just cus your in close vicinity often
>I can’t remember the term but if you are in a setting with chicks
Never happens.
The only girl at my work is already engaged or some bullshit and older than me, idk the whole situation is fucked. I'd really need them to have a common interest to make a connection with them but all women seem to have shit taste.
Been there. Another way is being introduced to people at parties or through friends. If you just start saying fuck it and going to every social gathering you can, you will find either a slut willing to fuck or a good girl eventually. Not clubs tho.
Don't really end up going to social events though. I don't have the irl friends.
I had to join a mens club to get out of my shell years ago as a mega introvert. Now a couple years later I’m actually able to talk publicly a bit and know tons if people. It’s hard a first but just join something, even a jogging group or fantasy football group doesn’t matter. Most things in life depend on who you know
I can't really pretend to be enough of a normalfag to make that work I fear. Besides I want the gf to share some of my autistic interests and don't see a way to get that.
You think I'm not doing this? I have a few social physical activities. Tennis, rock climbing, hiking, power lifting for example. I have a butterface.
Sure. I've quite literally been told I'm ugly since I was very young.
I use to be pretty shitty looking. But I tried over time different hair styles, new clothes, got contacts, shaved. Until I found a combo that made a 5 to a 7. Took years but you can do it
Anon, I promise you, I've tried. I really have. I'm not some weird dude with no game, some sperg. I really have an ugly face and it has crippled my dating game.
Don’t give up my friend. Go after your goals and/or career as hard as you can and own it and sooner or later someone will come along. I use ti say the same
I said earlier I make a lot of money, I still can't land a minimum wage worker
It's basically over for you if you have an ugly face
Ugly face and autism easily explain majority of single men.
It's not even the autism. Ugly face alone will destroy you on dating apps even if you have the most amazing personality and hobbies since they just see your face.
Ugly face destroys your chances on dating apps, autism destroys you IRL.
nice thinly veiled off topic thread
mods seem to approve so I'm upvoting it
>such a retarded newfag he doesn't realize the janny has been in this thread pretending to be a normie Chard and, more importantly, the thread has already reached post limit and is autosaged
Who are you quoting?
Women just want to fuck the prettiest guys, incels don't have a chance to compete. Especially not when they lack experience and are therefore stunted on charisma department.
Do some incels "make" it in their mid/late 20s? Yeah, some do but most won't
http://archive.4plebs.org/tv/thread/62698712/
http://archive.4plebs.org/tv/thread/154079892/
http://archive.4plebs.org/tv/thread/98606672/
http://archive.4plebs.org/tv/thread/89167302/
http://archive.4plebs.org/pol/thread/144326972/
http://archive.4plebs.org/tv/search/text/%22teen%20love%22/type/op/
http://archive.4plebs.org/tv/search/text/%22teenage%20love%22/type/op/
http://archive.4plebs.org/tv/search/text/%22teenage%20romance%22/type/op/
http://archive.4plebs.org/tv/search/text/%22teen%20romance%22/type/op/
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I'm 31 and never experienced romance