Seriously, I have no problems at all with the LGBT group at all, people are free to live however they want, no harm done, estrogen should be free for everyone, yada yada, I know.
But hoooooooly shit so many communities I like are filled with the type of trans person who just lives 24/7 online to talk about gender and pronouns and flags and they NEED to make their parasocial daddy streamers say "trans rights" and they need to make wacky uwu jokes about "did you know trans people can double jump!" that are not even close to funny. It's the most obnoxious hugbox I ever saw, I once saw a picture of the most average guy with a wig posted on a discord and get dozens of compliments the likes of which I've never seen someone receive outside of random thots on instsagram posting their ass (which I hate too).
Why? Why is it like this? All a byproduct of autistic loneliness and not getting validation from your dad?
I get that things in the USA are kinda bad now for LGBT people due to politics and all that... but holy shit, gays and lesbians and bisexuals are not anywhere near as obnoxious and loud despite the fact that they are way more numerous than trans folk.
Hell, last week even, I got shit tested on a random discord server for saying something that sounded weird and to make sure I wasn't a bigot I was told to say "trans rights", of course I did too, because I have no issue with trans rights, but it's still so fucking annoying that I see this shit EVERYWHERE now. WHY?
And it fucks with me too, because I have a trans girl friend that I really like, she's REALLY a friend, but sometimes I see some byproducts of this in her, some of those annoying traits... and I just recoil inside my head, I just find it too annoying...
Don't worry anon theres a good chance she might grow out of this. I used to be quite like this back in my baby trans era but some years later a.k.a now I'm just a passoid that deeply loves her boyfriend and I cringe immensely hard at people like these too.
The thing is, anon, that they are the loud ones, but do remember that the internet is not the real life and these loud minorities are, well, loud, on discord servers and shit while normal people like you and me hang out on those servers without even being noticed...
Hell one discord server I'm in they were talking about "trans breakcore" and "transcore" or something like that and I commented on how I accepted trans people but found it a bit weird/immature to be pushing the trans thing onto every single little thing and this random trans girl on the server told me that they could do what they want yada yada and to "stay in my lane"; Neither that trans girl telling me that nor anyone else on the server knew or know that I am also a trans girl. I have no proof but I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one. Discern the internet from real life anon, and you'll be free.
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Shit I left the OP name from my own thread oops lol ignore that I am not OP
That's what happens when you don't have any hobbies or friends.
>But hoooooooly shit so many communities I like are filled with the type of trans person who just lives 24/7 online to talk about gender and pronouns and flags
It's not trans people who do this.
It's cis-guys "considering transition" and other extremely baby trans types.
I know someone like that from a reddit community. One of the most vocal trans people on there. Frequently flirting with guys, etc.
After like 6 months I reached out to them as they seemed like a cool trans girl.
Turns out they presented completely as a cis-guy irl. They were not boymoding as they had no plans to go on hrt. It was more like an online persona for them.
If you want further proof it's guys and pre-hrt babytrans doing this go on any dating website with a trans section. It'll look like:
>30% cis-guys saying they're trans. No change in presentation.
>30% cis-guys saying they're trans but putting some minor amount of effort in. Perhaps bad makeup or a wig.
>30% girlmoding pre-hrt. Just girlmoding in their online pics, not irl. Some of the pics may actually look good due to anglemaxing.
>5% babytrans on hrt
>3% twinkhons
>2% passoids
So yea the reality is that cis-men dwarf trans-women in numbers so most trans-spaces will be dominated by cis-men "toying with the idea of transitioning" rather than transitioned trans-women.
it’s terminally online narcissists that have been given an excuse to make everything about themselves all the time. people will say it’s bpd but i have bpd and it would fucking kill me to ever putsomeone through that kind of shit test
That's because they're babytrans and probably don't pass yet. Once you start to pass, being trans rarely comes up to you in your day to day. For me, being trans starts and stopss at this board and the maybe three things I do that require my ID and legal name, otherwise I might as well be cis.
You don't need to cater to every trans person's whims to be an ally. Some people will pretend to be in a minority group and really lean into it before admitting that they're not, but some will find out that they actually are and then still be embarrassed about their behaviour later. If you make a genuine mistake, a quick apology is normal, but actually making you say 'trans rights' sounds so awful and awkward. Mods on a power trip? I'd leave that discord group, sounds toxic.
Not that saying trans rights is bad, trans rights are human rights alright, but context matters; saying it in place of an apology like some sort of task you need to do for someone to atone for whatever holy server rule you broke is just weird and not what I'd want that phrase to be associated with.
This just reminded me too much of the discord groups with people who fake mental illness (many of which turn out to have an actually different mentall illness, or thought they were pretending when they weren't), but idk how much this applies to trans ppl.
>Why are trans people so fucking annoying
I dont get it
There's a certain type you want to avoid.
online trans spaces are toxic as fuck and typically controlled by a clique of mean girls who are more interested in drama than socializing or whatever people do on discord. also, a lot of babytrans and questioning people are super obnoxious about things. partly bc they think it's expected of them from the community, partly bc when they say second puberty, they aren't kidding. i don't blame you for finding groups of us online annoying. i avoid online trans spaces now except for here (god, don't you love that for me?) i'd much rather hang out with cis girls who occasionally say well meaning, but dumb shit than i do with baby trans and fake internet leftists. i used to think i was the only left wing trans girl who hated left wing trans girl spaces, but im glad i've made some friends who aren't twitter weirdos.
>i used to think i was the only left wing trans girl who hated left wing trans girl spaces, but im glad i've made some friends who aren't twitter weirdos.
I'm not OP, actually I am
but just wanted to say thank you, for letting me know I'm not the only one, giving me this slight glimmer of hope
NP! part of it was that i was involved with actual real life local politics and activism, so i pretty aware of optics and how to win people over in general. i'm @afabfemboy on discord, btw. im also neither of those things, just a regular trans woman
I don't know what to tell you. Literally everyone in this society is fucked up, lonely, crazy and angry in some way or another. We all know on some level the earth is dying and our time is short before every modern comfort we have vanishes, and it's making everyone nuts, from chuds to trannies.
Life is a cruel joke. Who wouldn't want a hugbox under these circumstances.
From having some trans friends the simple answer is that yes they ARE fucking annoying
But it's pretty obvious why, they're going through a second puberty. You are dealing with a stupid fucking teenager but in an adult's body who suddenly now has to relearn their entire way of existence.
I understand but fuck if I don't want to be near a cringy teenager while they sort that shit out.
Bonus points if they don't go outside to make friends and so just get stuck in the attitude without growth for the rest of their lives.
yeah i also hate internet trannies so much. the goal should be stealth even online, the only place people should talk about trans stuff is trans specific spaces imo, i literally only talk about it in trans threads on this board, and nowhere else.
>Wah wah my internet commoonities!!!!
You’re just as annoying, fag