Where do I find an older possible gf and make her fall in love with me

As backed by Decision Theory, extensive logical analysis has led me to conclude that acquiring a gf older than me makes the most sense

First of all, I'm sapiosexual, and her age should necessarily lead to higher intelligence
Second of all, her higher experience would translate into teaching me stuff
Third of all, she's more likely to be wealthy, etc

That is, of course, a shorthand. It suffices to say that I'm 19 and 1.9m, and will not settle for anyone younger than me. Indeed, my age suggests that my brain is still malleable, and thus procurement of one as soon as possible is necessary to maximize the already diminishing marginal utility

The more primitive men might look for younger women for their appearance, and thus the standard is established. However, the reverse is not the case. Thus having stated my purpose, I ask for your help

  1. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >As backed by Decision Theory
    if you studied game theory you'd know that dating older women is zero-sum, tsk!

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      I bet you say the same thing about finance. It's about providing liquidity, m8

  2. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    bumping. Would genuinely appreciate the advice. It isn't some kind of kink, I honestly think being in a relationship with an older person would make more sense

  3. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    literally go on any dating app and set your age range to 25+. are you retarded?

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Dating apps aren't for long-term relationships. I'm not interested in casual sex

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        dating apps definitely can be for long term relationships given that im in one right now that started on a dating app. your problem is that most sane older women aren't interested in long term relationships with 19 year old boys. their priorities for long term relationships are children if they want them, being with a man that they can respect, relate to and rely on and getting married. how does a 28-30 year old woman rely on a 19 year old that still asks his mom to refill his food card at college? she doesn't - she fucks him instead if she's a maneater.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          I'd rather it develop from friendship, anyhow, which dating apps (that do little but encourage vapid conversations to participate in a lottery) preclude. Ultimately, my reasoning is correct, and the only question, whatever the probability, is how. Showing the falseness of
          >still asks his mom to refill his food card at college
          is obvious

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            why would an older woman want to be friends with a 19 year old?

            • 1 week ago
              Anonymous

              For the same reason, she might want to be in a relationship with one. Besides, the term "friend" is broad enough to mean anything above acquaintance. As such, it could start with me working for her, and such

              They are all over the place anon buy i'd advise against it. Simply being you'll be chewed up since its sounds like you lack basic skills and understanding of women and how to handle them go on a few dates and learn and date an older woman or 2 they are interesting to say the least.
              I've dated my fair bit and can get them fairly easily but you have to know what your are doing. Mind you I said dated never made them to gf, much to their disappointment and I only had sex with one of them because we drank together, and i was still living with my mom at that time 21.
              If you want to learn some basics their is a course called Beyond ages do it and learn it wont do you much good unless you applyit and learn what works for you. Best of Luck.

              Could I contact you?

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                >Could I contact you?

                Sure drop a burner discord and I'll reach out.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah, would recommend

  4. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >In all your Amours you should prefer old Women to young ones. You call this a Paradox, and demand my Reasons. They are these:
    >1. Because as they have more Knowledge of the World and their Minds are better stor’d with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and more lastingly agreeable.
    >2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a 1000 Services small and great, and are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an old Woman who is not a good Woman.
    >3. Because there is no hazard of Children, which irregularly produc’d may be attended with much Inconvenience.
    >4. Because thro’ more Experience, they are more prudent and discreet in conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is therefore safer with regard to your Reputation. And with regard to theirs, if the Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclin’d to excuse an old Woman who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his Manners by her good Counsels, and prevent his ruining his Health and Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >5. Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement.
      >6. Because the Sin is less. The debauching a Virgin may be her Ruin, and make her for Life unhappy.
      >7. Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable may give you frequent bitter Reflections; none of which can attend the making an old Woman happy.
      >8thly and Lastly They are so grateful!!

      • 6 days ago
        Anonymous

        >Because the Sin is less. The debauching a Virgin may be her Ruin, and make her for Life unhappy.
        This is so interesting. Ever dealt with virgin women? I have, and any slight against them especially sexual in nature is bound to be forever remembered. Ideally a man should deflower a woman as soon as possible when dealing with her. If she can't and won't be deflowered by you (is not your wife) then you really shouldn't deal with women.

  5. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    They are all over the place anon buy i'd advise against it. Simply being you'll be chewed up since its sounds like you lack basic skills and understanding of women and how to handle them go on a few dates and learn and date an older woman or 2 they are interesting to say the least.
    I've dated my fair bit and can get them fairly easily but you have to know what your are doing. Mind you I said dated never made them to gf, much to their disappointment and I only had sex with one of them because we drank together, and i was still living with my mom at that time 21.
    If you want to learn some basics their is a course called Beyond ages do it and learn it wont do you much good unless you applyit and learn what works for you. Best of Luck.

  6. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    I'm an older, married woman, so I wouldn't want to be your gf, but I do want to adopt young men and edify them by providing them the space and materials to develop into the kind of men I think the world needs. I'm a good cook, and I'll give you tendies. The rules are: No TV, No unsupervised internet, assigned work in the mornings, and from lunch until dinner you are free to choose from pre-approved activities, hobbies, and sports. You will receive more freedom in accordance with your learning and action, if you prove that you are capable of spending your time without supervision in a useful and edifying manner, not just for yourself, but for the benefit of others. What do you think, OP? Would you be interested?

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Odd, but sure

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >Could I contact you?

      Sure drop a burner discord and I'll reach out.

      OP here. The Discord is Skyne#2601, any1 feel free to add me

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Got it I'll reach out in a bit

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          me too pls
          shamash#8821

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Not OP here. Hey married woman why do want to do this is it like a sexual thing or do you really beleive you can develop a man?
      And who runs your marriage your husband or you?

  7. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Setting aside the issue of how to spark an interest or seducing someone when there is a significant age difference (the significance is higher because you are literally a teenager but your youth is also your biggest strength).
    You should set out a plan of action on how to regularly be around women in your desired age range.
    Cold approaching can be very difficult unless you have an innate or practiced disarming charisma.
    So a good idea would be finding group activities where these women frequent. Book clubs for example could have a lot of potential, you would get practice interacting with different women as well as have a chance to gauge their intelligence.
    You will simply have to look into whatever groups/gatherings are in the city you live in.
    Best of luck anon, wish I could chime in with more advice but this is all I can come up with off the top of my head.

    • 6 days ago
      Anonymous

      Sure, but almost all spaces that I visit are ridiculously male-dominated. The STEM servers, the Philosophy servers, etc., are almost all exclusively male, but yeah, meet-ups in my city definitely

      Brain fully develops at like 25. (You're fucking retarded) Cognition peaks at 35 and declines at 45. Are you just gonna break up with your partner when they hit the decline? Sapiofucktard. Your real concern should be making yourself attractive to older women, ime they never wanna date children who's brain haven't fully developed. Unless they're retarded too

      It's about the potential to acquire knowledge, have it shape your worldview, etc. The older you are, the more you are stuck with some beliefs of yours, interests, and such. Your brain starts to become less malleable after 16. Yes, almost no famous mathematical discoveries have been made by people >30, but this kind of cognitive decline is irrelevant since I'd say that the best definition of intelligence is "the ability to implement the most optimal decisions", meaning that it increases with age

      • 6 days ago
        Anonymous

        >Your brain starts to become less malleable after 16.
        lol
        >Yes, almost no famous mathematical discoveries have been made by people >30
        lol
        >I'd say that the best definition of intelligence is "the ability to implement the most optimal decisions"
        lol

        • 6 days ago
          Anonymous

          I don't know what's your issue. Sapiosexuality necessarily leads to a preference for older people. You graduate high school at 19 here, and I'm going to take a gap year to work and earn $$$ (meaning that I can migrate wherever I want + I'm in the EU) for a better uni (my parents can't support me), so

          I'm an older, married woman, so I wouldn't want to be your gf, but I do want to adopt young men and edify them by providing them the space and materials to develop into the kind of men I think the world needs. I'm a good cook, and I'll give you tendies. The rules are: No TV, No unsupervised internet, assigned work in the mornings, and from lunch until dinner you are free to choose from pre-approved activities, hobbies, and sports. You will receive more freedom in accordance with your learning and action, if you prove that you are capable of spending your time without supervision in a useful and edifying manner, not just for yourself, but for the benefit of others. What do you think, OP? Would you be interested?

          combines the two. I mostly consider relationships in terms of self-improvement than anything else; it isn't some kind of fetish

  8. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Brain fully develops at like 25. (You're fucking retarded) Cognition peaks at 35 and declines at 45. Are you just gonna break up with your partner when they hit the decline? Sapiofucktard. Your real concern should be making yourself attractive to older women, ime they never wanna date children who's brain haven't fully developed. Unless they're retarded too

  9. 6 days ago
    Anonymous

    brainlet spiel
    lol

  10. 6 days ago
    Anonymous

    My god you sound pretentious. The moment you talk to her like that she's going to run away. We love intelligent guys, we don't like pedantic assholes. You'll learn in time, you'll remember this and cringe. Stop reading shit and get a life. You'll see.

    • 6 days ago
      Anonymous

      being serious about finding an older gf still lets me liken it to arbitrage on a basket weaving forum while claiming to have used Decision Theory next to the picture of a smart-looking Freud (associated with the fetish) with "ifunny" right under him, and then continuing to speak formally for the sake of clarity and to maintain that I'm the OP
      it's in the deleted scenes, so dw

      , another best song also didn't make the cut

      : non sequitur (pretentious)!

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