I'm not buying your girl scout cookies. I don't need someone to wain philosophical and esoteric horseshit, I just need recommendations for places to find a women to talk to.
>Engage with me
Are you a man? There's your problem. You do the engaging >but I don't want to I'm shy and afraid of rejection wahh
Me too man. You either overcome it or live afraid.
Here's a tip: women WANT you to approach if they like you. Isn't that encouraging?
Learn to take a rejection gracefully
I am a man and I don't care about rejection. But I feel like I'm fishing in a puddle. Any woman I find is in their late 20's or doesn't even care to speak to me when I try to greet them.
Damn dude I imagine you're mega fucked, at least with regards to women. I live in a town of 30-40,000 in NC full of boomers and I've tried everything mentioned in
Where do I go? I've tried bars, clubs, coffee shops, bookstores, college's. Should I try going to Europe? There are no social gatherings anymore.
. I enrolled in a Community College for some classes while away from Uni and in one of my classes there were some cute girls I chatted with. You can try that, I actually got a profit from taking CC classes because I got both financial aid and this COVID relief fund which anyone can get, and the Financial Aid doesn't take into account this COVID relief fund so you're basically double-dipping. Dunno if it's NC only though, or still active.
But unironically Target. Women love that place, I don't blame them it's weirdly pleasant in there, much unlike Walmart. I'm pretty sure the hirers at Target pay more and only accept clean non-poors. Anyway, a girl I did theater with literally would say shit like "yeah I was so stressed from X that I had to go take a destress walk through Target today." Such is the hellscape of American suburban sprawl. I actually ran into one of those cute college girls there recently but my mother was with me, so I chatted a bit with her but didn't ask for her number.
So yeah get to creeping you magnificent incel. I doubt you will find much luck if you try that hard though.
Are you from Europe? What are some hotspots for women to socialize?
Ironically I was raised by two European immigrants. But I've only ever lived in America. Most European countries have some sort of cafe culture or actually walkable cities leading to a general joi de vivre that Americans just don't have a good substitute for, at least not where I live.
Yeah, that's another problem. It's hard to try an engage with women anymore. Most have masks on and others have earbuds in. Trying to spearhead a conversation with them is like trying to punch a cement wall. Oh well, time to find new watering grounds.
No worries man, don't stress it. You're only 18 and this shit becomes a lot easier when you've figured yourself out more.
Do things to bring you fulfillment and make an effort to leave the house and also socialize. When you start interacting with women on the regular you can focus on the specifics of how to be a good conversationalist. But by that time, you probably won't have to.
Just have some paper slips with your number and just say," You're cute have my number." And immediately move on with your day. Leave their presence.
If they're interested they'll text or call.
The paperslip is quick, non intrusive and they have to text first.
>dress clean cut >6'1 >good genes >built >walk by girl >"Hey, you look cute, take this number. Call me for a good time." >they, in a confused haze, take the number or scoff at you >could get like 1 out of 30 women in a day
Fuck, it's tempting.
Go for it then.
You don't even need to look particularly fancy. I've had some success with notebook paper with the blue lines n shit.
I wouldn't do it too much in the same place though.
Take a picture of yourself and make a physical ad on telephone poles with your info and pull off tabs for phone numbers. It's like Tindr without the phone.
are you retarded? what type of question is this? you're 18. go work at a restaurant, go to school, go to college, go on tinder, literally go anywhere. if you live in a dogshit state save up enough money to move. if there was ever a time to take risks whether they be good or bad it's when you're 18 years old lmao.
imagine you're writing your own biography. >and then anon sat at home after his shift at target, jerked off to hentai until 3:30 am and autistically cried about the lack of women and adventure in his life on an anime based image board.
^^^ this is you.
bro what kind of question is that ?
Where do I go to find happiness?
Read the happiness hypothesis
Learn meditation
https://www.shinzen.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/art_benefits.pdf
For a free online meditation training try unified mindfulness or the brightmind app
I'm not buying your girl scout cookies. I don't need someone to wain philosophical and esoteric horseshit, I just need recommendations for places to find a women to talk to.
There are whole institutions solely made for that purpose
What are they?
If you’re talking about college you’re retarded
Why
Women don't care to engage with me anywhere besides on dating apps.
>Engage with me
Are you a man? There's your problem. You do the engaging
>but I don't want to I'm shy and afraid of rejection wahh
Me too man. You either overcome it or live afraid.
Here's a tip: women WANT you to approach if they like you. Isn't that encouraging?
Learn to take a rejection gracefully
I am a man and I don't care about rejection. But I feel like I'm fishing in a puddle. Any woman I find is in their late 20's or doesn't even care to speak to me when I try to greet them.
Going to college purely to try to get chicks is the most pathetic simp shit you can do
True, but what the fuck else are you going to do? There is no other designated place for 18 years olds to find women.
Where do I go? I've tried bars, clubs, coffee shops, bookstores, college's. Should I try going to Europe? There are no social gatherings anymore.
Stop skipping school.
I left school because I had to work.
Your local Target, if you're American which I suspect you are
I live in Montana, yes.
Damn dude I imagine you're mega fucked, at least with regards to women. I live in a town of 30-40,000 in NC full of boomers and I've tried everything mentioned in
. I enrolled in a Community College for some classes while away from Uni and in one of my classes there were some cute girls I chatted with. You can try that, I actually got a profit from taking CC classes because I got both financial aid and this COVID relief fund which anyone can get, and the Financial Aid doesn't take into account this COVID relief fund so you're basically double-dipping. Dunno if it's NC only though, or still active.
But unironically Target. Women love that place, I don't blame them it's weirdly pleasant in there, much unlike Walmart. I'm pretty sure the hirers at Target pay more and only accept clean non-poors. Anyway, a girl I did theater with literally would say shit like "yeah I was so stressed from X that I had to go take a destress walk through Target today." Such is the hellscape of American suburban sprawl. I actually ran into one of those cute college girls there recently but my mother was with me, so I chatted a bit with her but didn't ask for her number.
So yeah get to creeping you magnificent incel. I doubt you will find much luck if you try that hard though.
Ironically I was raised by two European immigrants. But I've only ever lived in America. Most European countries have some sort of cafe culture or actually walkable cities leading to a general joi de vivre that Americans just don't have a good substitute for, at least not where I live.
Yeah, that's another problem. It's hard to try an engage with women anymore. Most have masks on and others have earbuds in. Trying to spearhead a conversation with them is like trying to punch a cement wall. Oh well, time to find new watering grounds.
No worries man, don't stress it. You're only 18 and this shit becomes a lot easier when you've figured yourself out more.
Do things to bring you fulfillment and make an effort to leave the house and also socialize. When you start interacting with women on the regular you can focus on the specifics of how to be a good conversationalist. But by that time, you probably won't have to.
Are you from Europe? What are some hotspots for women to socialize?
Look under chairs I guess?
Just have some paper slips with your number and just say," You're cute have my number." And immediately move on with your day. Leave their presence.
If they're interested they'll text or call.
The paperslip is quick, non intrusive and they have to text first.
This... This might be so autistic that it might actually work. The business card way.
>dress clean cut
>6'1
>good genes
>built
>walk by girl
>"Hey, you look cute, take this number. Call me for a good time."
>they, in a confused haze, take the number or scoff at you
>could get like 1 out of 30 women in a day
Fuck, it's tempting.
>good genes
>posting on LULZ
Pick one.
Go for it then.
You don't even need to look particularly fancy. I've had some success with notebook paper with the blue lines n shit.
I wouldn't do it too much in the same place though.
Take a picture of yourself and make a physical ad on telephone poles with your info and pull off tabs for phone numbers. It's like Tindr without the phone.
Just get a quick code sticker and it links to a space hey profile
It could work, but it's pussy shit. Better to actually talk to her and put your balls on the chopping block.
Same question but I'm 24?
>inb4 school tranny
are you retarded? what type of question is this? you're 18. go work at a restaurant, go to school, go to college, go on tinder, literally go anywhere. if you live in a dogshit state save up enough money to move. if there was ever a time to take risks whether they be good or bad it's when you're 18 years old lmao.
imagine you're writing your own biography.
>and then anon sat at home after his shift at target, jerked off to hentai until 3:30 am and autistically cried about the lack of women and adventure in his life on an anime based image board.
^^^ this is you.
I've tried all of those things. I think moving is my last option.