I see a lot of stupid and misinformed trannies saying that if you have a good personality, cis males will date you. LMAO. That is so fucking stupid. You can be rude or you can be nice, it makes no difference. Once a cis man knows you are trans, he will reject you. Don’t gaslight trancels who complain about being lonely. Don’t tell them it’s their personality. It’s the fact that they are trans. It’s not their personality the issue. Chasers who want dick don’t count especially because chasers will always choose cis women for long-term relationships.
As for myself, I CANNOT be attracted to a man who knows I am trans. It just turns me off. It kills the vibe. It nullifies my transition. Nobody is able to articulate why I feel this way. I would rather slit both of my wrists and drink cyanide than interact with a man who knows I am trans. I want to be wined and dined like those nasty bitches of women, and I get everything I want if I do not disclose. But it’s deeper than that at this juncture. I CANNOT interact with a man who knows I am trans. It kills the attraction. It just turns me off
what about chasers who don't care if you have a dick. I'll take you to a nice restaurant and we'll get an order of fresh wine, none of that old stuff
just make it clear from the start that you are trans. i would never think of dating a guy before i tell him i have a dick. nor go on a date without telling him.
No, no. No. That is the whole point. I do not have a dick. I had SRS. I no longer have to disclose
>I want to be wined and dined like those nasty bitches of women
Why is every single post from you people just taken directly from radfem tumblr a decade ago but where you swap "woman" with "trans woman" and "man" with "chaser". At this point, I think it's a bunch ugly ass transbians who are tired of chasers taking the cute ones, just like old ass butch women.
Your message makes no sense
What happens when he wants kids anon?
Wait, what? Why is his desire to have kids more important than my desire not to have kids. This is seriously a stupid excuse because cis women who are sterile for whatever reason are all in a committed relationship. The kids thing is an excuse. I tell them right off the bat that I hate kids and I don’t want kids nor I want to adopt kids. Plain and simple. Also, why should I care about what he wants? I will enjoy it until it lasts
most guys who want kids take that as a negotiable. "I don't want kids" = "I have a certain point of view at this time based on experiences up to now". that's a far cry from "pregnancy is out of the question due to medical reasons" which is the truth
I don’t care. I only have myself into this world. People are ruthless towards trannies. So they can think whatever they want. It doesn’t matter. What truly matters is my pleasure and my satisfaction. Period.
>they can think whatever they want.
then why bother telling them that you don't want kids at all? why not just.... not have kids? obviously you do care, otherwise you wouldn't be making this thread again every 12 hours
Postie roastie getting 0 dates after swiping through 600 of these. Constant rejection after showing off my personality a bit before disclosing when they talk about going on a date.
And this is even from "heteroflexible," "bi-curious," and even fully "bisexual" men
You better hope they dont look at your pussy for too long because neovags look uncanny.
Bullfucking shit. Stop spreading these lies. I have had SRS years ago with Meltzer and never had an issue. It all boils down to whether you pass or not. If you do not pass, no matter how perfect your vagina is, they will see it as a mutilated dick. But if you pass, you can trick them. Vaginas are multi form. Also, if he were to say anything about my vagina, I would make a scene and cut him off forever. trannies who pass get in trouble because they stupidly admit
I met a wonderful straight guy when I was just two months HRT. I still don't pass and I'm ten months in now, but we're really happy together. I'm smooth and smell good, I have soft lips and skin, he treats me like the woman am I am even though I manmode whenever we're in public together. He doesn't care, he holds my hand and takes me out to nice restaurants or the beach. Not all men are the same OP. Yeah it took a few weeks of being around this guy to make sure he was safe and actually interested in me, we had kind of a Mulan thing where he couldn't understand why he was attracted to this "boy" and was so relieved when I explained I'm on hormones.
I'm happy you're able to go stealth, but there's literally nothing wrong with being trans and having a partner who understands and appreciates you just the way you are. If I somehow pass after ffs and more electrolysis someday, I don't think I would choose going stealth eve if I had the option. I don't want to hide my entire past life from a partner, that sounds horrible.
Sure, I'm cuter than the average manmoder maybe, but personality does play a big part! I don't just sit in my room dooming over my looks all day, I go out there and socialize with confidence because I do not give a fuck, I have a life to enjoy. I'm a great cook, my bf and I bonded over our love of food because he used to be a pro chef. We both speak multiple languages and have lived in different countries around the world. I have value far above and beyond my looks ory ability to pass.
I can’t believe you are this stupid and naive. He is just a scrambled gay guy. Wait until you remove the dick, and he’ll vanish. You truly believe he is straight?
i’ve been with my bf for two years :<