Freshman year of college probably, finally got some pity sex at the end and it was ok, after that I just kind of gave up on women and figured as long as I'm not a virgin there's no need to put up with the ever increasing demands of resources and attention needed for a few minutes of access to a wet hole.
I went on a date with a girl from one of my classes my first year of uni, I was talking too her for a couple months before asking her on a date
She ghosted me after the date
Still khhv
This nurse I met on a dating app. >talked back and forth a few days >bought wine and snacks >showed up to her place late at night >sex >did it again for a few weeks
Stopped talking because... well one reason was because I asked her if she had any friends that might want to go on a date lol.
That was after we stopped talking for a while, and I texted her out of the blue asking if she had any hot friends that would want to date.
Never have. During university I ended up in several girls beds and went straight to sleep because I was so full of fear of intimacy. I also convinced myself they didnt actually want sex with me despite inviting me into their bed. Wild how cope works
Thats why I get annoyed when the 'incels' of LULZ say if they were attractive all their problems would go away. Maybe theyd be like me and realise theyre so scared of intimacy they wouldnt be able to have sex with girls anyway and thats even worse
I actually don't think I'd be able to not at least try and have sex with a girl in her bed.
Just laying there doing nothing and actually falling asleep seems not only impossible but the cringe factor would be unbearable.
My body would revolt from the cringe and uncomfortable feeling that would be stemming from the sheer awkwardness being fueled by doing NOTHING.
Holy shit anon, you are truly mythical. That's fucking awesome!
I could manage. There were a bunch of times in college where a girl followed me out of a classroom and stopped talking and then after a bit of silence I'd just walk faster than her in a different direction.
You're a plain normalfag lol. If you were an incel you would've killed yourself by now.
>You can't just wait for girls to approach you
Yea I know but I'm too anxious to approach people for any reason, I was lucky she did all the heavy lifting by forcing me into friendship >What else have you tried?
That's it..
So you've basically not tried and you had some success. Sounds like it's entirely your fault.
>irl
At least a decade. >online
About two years ago.
I've pretty much given up.
Were any girls ever interested in you romantically/physically?
Never got as far as the bed, I just self sabotage the moment a girl showed any interest. The saddest part is >fear intimacy >want intimacy >think sex is less intimate if it's not virgin-virgin >now at age where virgins don't exist so the fully intimate ideal in my head isn't even an option >use girls assumed non-virginity as reason to not bother
I will never understand casual sex or how people can be comfortable with relationships without knowing for 100% they will last a lifetime.
I also don't get why I prefer being alone for my life to not just finding someone like some people do just so they avoid being alone.
I think what you listed here are defining features of a robot. It's what separates robots from normies. It is the desire for intimacy instead of desire for mere pleasure and a need for honest, long term relationship. The thing is, you can be pretty, tall, fit and have high status, but if you hate modern dating, finding a girlfriend is much harder for you regardless.
First year of highschool, I tried hitting up on someone I assumed liked me. She actually seemed to tbh and I'd say she's one of my best friends in class I hung out everyday. I hinted I had a crush on her or sumn and she said "Ew!", I'm a MAN so I didn't give up cause I knew she liked me but I gave up the moment I saw her eyeing someone else saying "Idc if his personality sucks, if he's hot then I'd let him". Well, I lost interest in her by then anyways. In relationships in general too, not because of that but I literally just lost interest in a lot of people anyway as I grew.
probably 4 years ago, but it wasn't pursuing since we were dating.
ever since, i have gone out on dates but i pretty much lose interest immediately. the last one was three years ago.
i matched with a girl on bumble, and she invited me to her place. when i arrived, she showed me around her house and then showed me her room. this is where i lost all interest.
she, a 27 year old woman, owned a twin sized bed and had a neon pink disney princess sheets set that looked like it was from the 90s. holes in it, pictures fading. it looks like she had been using that bed and those sheets for her entire life.
on top of the bed, was a pile of stuffed animals from various disney cartoons that took up roughly half of the bedspace.
she had a vanity desk (one of those desks with built in mirror) and the mirror had tons of post cards from disney world, photographs of her at disney world, and 10 pairs of minnie mouse ears scattered around it. some of the photos were selfies of her, sitting at her desk, wearing the minnie mouse ears.
then the posters...oh god, the posters. these weren't posters you'd buy at a store. they were crude, childish drawings that she made of various disney characters....all drawn on lined notebook paper that still had the little frilly things on them while hanging from the wall.
it was so weird because up until then she seemed normal, she was smart, had a good job, and was a solid 8/10 in looks, cute 5'4" spinner with a thicc ass and small but nice tits. her home was decorated like a mid-20s girls place would look. but her bedroom? sheesh. i got insane serial killer vibes from that.
so yeah, i'm done with dating, wanting to date, wanting to have sex, and all of that because of that girl.
The last one I genuinely loved and honestly wished we were together was exactly when the corona started.
Going out with one was 2 to 2 and a half years ago.
Asking one out (my best friend of almost 10 years by then(adios)) was a little after than ended. Maybe a year and a half ago.
All pursuits of females during my life were a mistake, so I missed out on the last cute girl that seemed to find me interesting. I just didn't even bother.
Can't believe anime nagger replied to my post by just "normies hurr durr". As af anime monogolids get to decide who is a normie.
Tr/a/nny naggers are almost always the worst posters. Are they just fishing for (you)s is what I want to know?
2016 when I was in university. If I couldn't get a woman then, it's obvious I can't get one now either. University is where even the ugliest, fattest nerds get their girlfriend or even their future wife. I was never good enough.
Real. I see the quietest and smelliest weirdo in class with a cute gf waiting the moment I see him leave. I'm probably the doing something wrong or I just hate people too much, probably both
yeah it's over, I hate people more every year and now I'm 26 and still a virgin. girls don't like jaded men, they like loud mouthy guys who have a passion for talking to people. negative reinforcement has made me look at the world as a cold and cruel place, and as a result I became cold and cruel just to cope. when a random old lady in public tells you to stop having such an angry, gloomy face you know you're giving off "resting bitch face" which repels women like nothing else.
Spent all of high school to first semester of college trying and failing to get with my ex-oneitis. Then spent the rest of college doing damage control so I would graduate and not get expelled.
I should also mention that this was over a decade ago. Back then if I dropped out people would have shat on me for dropping out because of a girl and being poor and uneducated. Nowadays they shit on me for not dropping out and making m'lady """uncomfortable""" enough to form connections with her classmates by turning them all against me[/spoiler, but if I dropped out they'd probably still shit on me for dropping out because of a girl and being poor and uneducated as well as the former.
why would you bother?
you put effort into pursing them, then they overwhelmingly turn out to be terrible people. even the woman you meet once in a decade or every few decades who are not terrible in 99% of the normal ways inevitably are selfish enough to be okay with hurting you or ruining your life just so they can do whatever they've changed their mind and decided to do.
i'd put effort in plenty were woman actually good people regularly enough for it to be worth it
The only girlfriend I have had just happened. I will never play that stupid game again. I won't jump through their hoops so they can grant me the privilege of touching their bodies. That is the most pathetic shit a man can do.
A little over a decade ago and since it was my first time doing something like that, it was kind of awkward and I did not really know what I was doing. It worked out for me and I had a gf for 3 years but after that ended I didn't really feel the need to ever do that again. God willing, I never will. Nice as it was, I don't want that kind of stress in my life.
My long term gf dumped me when I was about to turn 30. Dating in your thirties fucking sucks and I don't have the energy to start over with someone else. It takes years of effort to get to know someone well but apparently women are fine with pissing it all away whenever things aren't working out perfectly for them.
>put effort in
Every single da- >irl
Oh, like seven years. I live on a shitty small island, I've almost fucked enough secret cousins that I just can't risk dating locals anymore.
Freshman year of high school when I met my current gf. Been together for almost six years. Im gonna propose to her after uni :*~~
Holy shit go away you homosexuals aren't wanted here.
I never really knew how to. When I wanted to and had the opportunity to (long ago, mind) I'd think long and hard about what I should do and not be able to figure out what I should do or say to her. There's a bunch of normalfags who say "It's instinct, you'll just intuitively know!". Well, I didn't, I hadn't the foggiest idea. Which is why they're normies and I'm not, I guess.
never. i refuse to put in any effort into pursuing women. yeah ik i'm lazy and deserve to be single a bloo bloo bloo... but it comes down to the simple fact that the risk / reward ratio is too unbalanced to ever be worth it. just like you wouldn't max out your credit cards to buy lottery tickets with because that'd be fucking retarded.
I never really knew how to. When I wanted to and had the opportunity to (long ago, mind) I'd think long and hard about what I should do and not be able to figure out what I should do or say to her. There's a bunch of normalfags who say "It's instinct, you'll just intuitively know!". Well, I didn't, I hadn't the foggiest idea. Which is why they're normies and I'm not, I guess.
Nobody has to teach you that when a woman shows interest in what you are saying or laugh a lot with you and things like that, that maybe she likes you. Yeah sometimes you can be wrong and the woman just want to be your friend or she likes you or finds you funny, that happened to me but for a good reason, she was too close to be a friend.
What I mean is that it's obvious most of the times but the difficult part is to make the first move and sound confident. And not be afraid of rejection, the shame of going trying to kiss a woman in a party and she moves her head away or things like that. Or being rejected and then having to see her in class daily. Losing that fear of rejection is the key. My problem is that you have to start training that at like 12 even if it's the silly girlfriend to only holds hands. But I never did any of that continually until I was already at university so most men there had had many girlfriends before and most of them were not virgins so they had all that training already made. That was the difference. Who is to blame for that? Mainly your parents because they have to ensure you are developing all your skills, specially the social skills to make friends and to flirt with women. Mine didn't do any of that so I was a retard in that subject until I reached university and even then I didn't do shit. Never asked a woman to go on a date or anynthing. I got lucky and I met my only girlfriend at a party and it just happened, instant attraction. I had to tell her to go out together but with messages and we already knew we both were attracted to each other so it was just like protocol because she wanted me to do all the first steps.
>Oh nooo what happened?, my son is a loser with no friends or girlfriends!
Yeah maybe you should have encourage him to do some social activities and sports instead of just buying him video games, computers and just don't caring about how is his life.
>Nobody has to teach you that when a woman shows interest in what you are saying or laugh a lot with you and things like that, that maybe she likes you.
anon, when I was a sophomore in college I had a girl sit on my lap and put her arm around me and I didn't realize what she was trying to do unto two (2) full days later. When I saw her a few days after that, knowing what she had been trying to convey (and that it might possibly be far too late, indeed might have been too late after like thirty seconds, let alone two days) I still had no idea what to do. It was terrifying. I knew that there was *something* that I was supposed to do or say, some manner in which I was supposed to respond. But I didn't know what it was. I imagine it's a bit like an actor standing alone on stage, realizing he's completely forgotten his lines. It is not at all, not in the slightest, instinctual, or something that "doesn't have to be taught". It is exactly the opposite, or at least for my retarded ass it was.
for what it's worth I don't at all blame my parents for my incompetence, if anything they tried to encourage me to have a more normal social life in grade school, and I turned everything into smoking craters with intercontinental ballistic autism.
never. i refuse to put in any effort into pursuing women. yeah ik i'm lazy and deserve to be single a bloo bloo bloo... but it comes down to the simple fact that the risk / reward ratio is too unbalanced to ever be worth it. just like you wouldn't max out your credit cards to buy lottery tickets with because that'd be fucking retarded.
2019 I was talking to a girl from my country on discord. I don't know if she was genuine but she seemed keen to meet up. I came to my senses and ghosted her.
never have
never had a woman express interest in my by extension
why would I bother pursuing women if they never even offered a hint of interest? I expected to meet one by chance. I've lived long enough (am a wizard). I've met enough people. For most people things developed naturally. I witnessed most my former friends and peers get married. I've never even held a woman's hand by comparison. Not many of them had to resort to pursuing women ruthlessly. They seemingly met the women by chance and things clicked for them. No women showed such interest toward me. I believe that is indicative enough that I have nothing to offer. I have always held a negative view of myself, but I try not to bias myself to my own subjectivity. I try to approach objectivity, and the lack of interest from women in my life serves as evidence of my own inadequacy and worthlessness. I'm not wasting their time or mine if I have nothing to offer them. No amount of introspection has revealed to me what is fundamentally wrong with me to be undeserving of any interest. It's not really an attractiveness thing, as by comparison I am no worse for wear than most others that had success of my peers. I am more fit than most. Nor do I believe it's a personality thing. The only thing I can conclude is I am far more self-conscious and introspective than my peers, and that serves as a feedback loop for my own isolation and loneliness. That's not something that I can fix, and it has only grown worse with age.
I've offered hints to women. They don't even consider me a dating prospect. They seemingly mention how they can't find any "good" men when complaining about dating, while ignoring the fact that I am within earshot. I've always been invisible, and no one gives a shit about my general existence to bother with.
i kind of just gave up a few years ago. its not that i can't get girls, it's just that i've become too much of a pot head over the last few years that i have no clue how to talk to girls or how to flirt with them.
at work and even sometimes at the store, girls will sometimes flirt with me but i just fumble if i try to flirt back, so i don't try anymore. i guess if i stopped with the weed maybe i'd want to date again or something, but whatever.
and its weird, because even though i smoke a lot of weed and eat a ton of edibles daily, if i'm talking about random stuff, i'm fine. i work as a programmer, and i actually end up being more productive on days that i eat edibles at work (but thats probably because im so paranoid that i work a ton so people dont know im high). even if i have to do something like talk to a mechanic about something with my car, it's easy. even right now, at this moment, i'm able to clearly present how functional i am while high, even though i ate 70mg of edibles earlier.
but if i'm trying to flirt, it's just dumb, im a complete moron. like all the air got sucked out of the room. so, i don't. oh well. i used to have a girlfriend too, then over covid i started smoking weed a lot and she broke up with me shortly after. she said i smoke too much and i told her she just needs to find the right strain that'll work for her, then there can't be a "too much" because i found, y'know, my strain. so basically i can smoke all i want of it and i'm fine.
the only women i've been with have come onto me first. i have no idea how to pursue women and i fear rejection enough that i never will attempt to do it.
Maybe try getting a gf, normalhomosexual. All of you retards I responded to can do that easily based on what you said. Your life's story is irrelevant and so are random details.
>normalfags lol. Incels are
what point are you trying to make schizo? OP made a topic about the last time someone put in effort to get with a girl, implying this is a topic directed at volcels.
most people here are volcels. do you know why?
as soon as it's laid out to you WHY you're an incel, and as soon as you are provided any semblance of advice or a pointed in the right direction, and you are voluntarily denying that advice, then that makes you a volcel.
im not talking of "just be yourself, bro" but i have seen time and time again people make complaints, then someone will hand hold them into the sweet bosom of sex, but then the complainer will complain more! that the advice was not solid, or that no advice matters because it is over.
sadly, the complainer has not realized that he only sees life through his complaining perspective. so of course he will scoff at advice. but, if he had taken that advice earnestly, it will change his perception, and see that he can improve to the point of something, even sex.
so, with that, as soon as you complain once, and as soon as you are given any advice on stopping being an incel, or look into any advice on stopping being an incel...you are automatically a volcel, whether you take the advice or not.
im sorry to say, but for many of you.....INCEL PASS....REVOKE!!
>then that makes you a volcel
No it really doesn't. Let's say you know you're socially incompetent and hideous. Knowing you have to looksmaxx and practice socializing means that at best you can get a gf in maybe a few years of self-improvement. You will involuntarily be lonely until then at best.
Also, if you're fine admitting you're a plain normalfag, then good, I don't really care about your blog/low IQ unfunny rant or whatever.
[...] >Normalfag non-virgin with a gf calling me, a khhv, a normalfag
Ok
Maybe try getting a gf, lol. All of you guys can easily that I responded to there. Being a volcel still means you're a normalfag.
Neither of us have. If we went to parties we wouldnt be posting here
This board is 99% regular normalfags like yourself. Being a super-duper normalfag doesn't mean you're not an /LULZ/ regular lol.
[...]
[...]
Yeah the polarity is comical >Incel >Manwhore/Normalfag
The fuck are you?
I genuinely have no idea what you're trying to communicate.
Which poster were you? If you've gotten attention from girls before you can definitely get a gf. I'm curious how you disagree.
>. Knowing you have to looksmaxx and practice socializing means that at best you can get a gf in maybe a few years of self-improvement. You will involuntarily be lonely until then at best
no because in this scenario you know that improving can get you a gf in a few years of improvement, so you are voluntarily being lonely until then.
after the fact, there can be a short period of them being an incel because they are still being voluntarily lonely but maybe they are continually trying with a girl who is not interested. this changes back to them being a volcel when they give up. because at a point, they were working to becoming a noncel, but gave up and are no longer an incel because they had to give up. so they are a volcel. if they keep trying then it is volcel, after their trying is proven after years to not work.
i used to be an incel, but then i gave up at trying and now i am a volcel. you, on the other hand, post anime girls so you're probably a tranny and have no room to talk about men's issues. go bitch about bathrooms or something and stop mucking up our threads with your tranime avatarposting.
So you can't get a gf but you somehow are choosing to not have a gf? Are you the weed guy because that's a very obvious contradiction. >i used to be an incel
You said you could get girls interested, so you're by definition by not an incel.
i'm not that guy schizo tranny. you ask the other poster "who are you?" but then when responding to me you automatically know who i am?
and you claim that i'm an obvious contradiction? look in the mirror, or will that cause dysphoria?
I am a cis man, lol. You're not a contradiction, but saying that you can't get a gf but also are choosing not to have a gf is an obvious contradiction.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
uhh what? no fucking shit? did you not read my post or did your reading comprehension take this long to catch up?
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
>so you are voluntarily being lonely until then
Did you mistype or what did you mean here? You're pretending I'm the dumb one here but that really is how low IQ people operate lol.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
and you're passively trying to imply that i'm the idiot. if you are improving with the idea that, if you continue to improve for a few years, that in some time you may get a girlfriend, then your loneliness in the meantime is voluntarily because you are actively working towards something that may end your loneliness.
but yeah, i'm done. most of you people would rather be facetious than see anything past your nose.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
>then your loneliness in the meantime is voluntarily because you are actively working towards something that may end your loneliness.
That's like saying that slaves who are free after 30 years of serving are voluntarily enslaved because they are working towards something.
This one [...]
This girl initiated the relationship, I just invited her to a cafe.. and then I fucked it all up because I'm too inept to date
No other girls have ever shown interest in me (she was a pudgy below average asian girl too)
If girls have ever shown interest in you then you have to be decent-looking. What else have you tried? You can't just wait for girls to approach you to get a relationship fast unless you're a chad(lite).
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
>You can't just wait for girls to approach you
Yea I know but I'm too anxious to approach people for any reason, I was lucky she did all the heavy lifting by forcing me into friendship >What else have you tried?
That's it..
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
>is an obvious contradiction
Nta, but it's not.
I can't afford and Xbox, but I also don't want one.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
How can you voluntarily be lonely but also you can't get a gf?
I went on a date with a girl from one of my classes my first year of uni, I was talking too her for a couple months before asking her on a date
She ghosted me after the date
Still khhv
This girl initiated the relationship, I just invited her to a cafe.. and then I fucked it all up because I'm too inept to date
No other girls have ever shown interest in me (she was a pudgy below average asian girl too)
>. Knowing you have to looksmaxx and practice socializing means that at best you can get a gf in maybe a few years of self-improvement. You will involuntarily be lonely until then at best
no because in this scenario you know that improving can get you a gf in a few years of improvement, so you are voluntarily being lonely until then.
after the fact, there can be a short period of them being an incel because they are still being voluntarily lonely but maybe they are continually trying with a girl who is not interested. this changes back to them being a volcel when they give up. because at a point, they were working to becoming a noncel, but gave up and are no longer an incel because they had to give up. so they are a volcel. if they keep trying then it is volcel, after their trying is proven after years to not work.
i used to be an incel, but then i gave up at trying and now i am a volcel. you, on the other hand, post anime girls so you're probably a tranny and have no room to talk about men's issues. go bitch about bathrooms or something and stop mucking up our threads with your tranime avatarposting.
[...] >normalfags lol. Incels are
what point are you trying to make schizo? OP made a topic about the last time someone put in effort to get with a girl, implying this is a topic directed at volcels.
most people here are volcels. do you know why?
as soon as it's laid out to you WHY you're an incel, and as soon as you are provided any semblance of advice or a pointed in the right direction, and you are voluntarily denying that advice, then that makes you a volcel.
im not talking of "just be yourself, bro" but i have seen time and time again people make complaints, then someone will hand hold them into the sweet bosom of sex, but then the complainer will complain more! that the advice was not solid, or that no advice matters because it is over.
sadly, the complainer has not realized that he only sees life through his complaining perspective. so of course he will scoff at advice. but, if he had taken that advice earnestly, it will change his perception, and see that he can improve to the point of something, even sex.
so, with that, as soon as you complain once, and as soon as you are given any advice on stopping being an incel, or look into any advice on stopping being an incel...you are automatically a volcel, whether you take the advice or not.
im sorry to say, but for many of you.....INCEL PASS....REVOKE!!
Yeah the polarity is comical >Incel >Manwhore/Normalfag
The fuck are you?
after i got married 🙂 and cheated on her 5 times 🙂 then had a bit of a testosterone drop after that so happy with the ole ball and chain 🙂 don't worry guys it gets better 🙂
4th or 5th grade. It was assembly and I saw a guy resting his head in the lap of a girl behind him. I looked behind myself and saw a girl from my 3rd grade class that I thought was cute. I tried leaning back and she immediately punched me in the side of the head and threatened to tell the teachers. I apologized profusely and told her that I had been awake for 72 hours after multiple Starcraft all-nighters, and she accepted that.
>Sounds like it's entirely your fault.
It's not my fault I'm mentally ill
Mental illness isn't like a total blockage on your ability to do things. It just makes them much harder. You can use dating apps, sites, meet them on /LULZ/ and very slowly get more comfy around them. Dating is ezmode if you have decent facial genes even if you're very socially anxious.
>I'm a chaser so that's ideal, lole.
as if that actually means anything. you act like a beloved sage but you're a degenerate pedophile homosexual who is hated even here.
I'm hated by normalfags primarily, which I'm happy about.
probably a flilipin ladyboy last year or so. I followed her to a restaurant she was at then followed her to japan. had a nice little prude romance thing going on until her sister beat her up
Another normalfag.
>if you have decent facial genes
I'm not attractive or tall enough for women to be forgiving of my ineptness
Women on this board will tolerate anxious guys if they have decent facial genes. Also, face >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> height.
Literally never, I'm a 30 year old virgin
Have you ever had a girl into you? Why did you just never try?
You know they don't drink caffeine right? That's like asking a Muslim girl out to get bacon sandwiches.
They do drink caffeine, they don't drink coffee because D&C prohibits "hot drinks that are bad for the belly" which was interpreted as "coffee and tea"
Plenty of them drink soda
>Have you ever had a girl into you? Why did you just never try?
Yes, multiple times. I just have social anxiety to an extreme degree and literally ignored them. I was scared. Paralyzed by fear that I can't control. Nowadays it's much better but haven't been approached in some time now but I also barely go out since I do school online. I'm finishing my last class now. Don't know what the hell I'm going to do next.
As always, wizards are often just turbo normalfags lol. I guess if you make it to 30 as a robot you'd often just kill yourself, but it's pretty easy as a total normalfag lol.
E-dating isn't real dating, I don't want to waste time on some e-thot with 100 orbiters and never even get to fuck her
I'm not normal. I spend all my time inside, isolating myself. The majority of my life is in my parents house. In fact, I still am. I lived in the same room from 1998 to 2022. I've never had sex, never been on a date, and I don't do well on dating apps. But somehow four women approached me during my lifetime, 2 were disgusting, 1 was acceptable but I was so mentally ill I ignored her till she went away, same with the last one that happened 2 years ago.
>Yknow you can visit her, right?
I don't have the money and can't drive.. and I don't think my mom would let me leave her like that
And even if I could, we get to fuck once a year? That isn't a relationship, she'd probably cheat on me or leave me when she finds someone irl
2013 when I was 22
College classmates, worked on projects together, I asked her for coffee and she ran away like I was some rapist
Fucking Mormons, she could've just said she doesn't date except for marriage and only Mormons, I'd have converted, even
probably a flilipin ladyboy last year or so. I followed her to a restaurant she was at then followed her to japan. had a nice little prude romance thing going on until her sister beat her up
(You)'ing normalfags, manwhore normalfags, and other people who need to be talked down to. If I arrived early in the thread I would've tried to derail it earlier.
You know they don't drink caffeine right? That's like asking a Muslim girl out to get bacon sandwiches.
Doesn't seem to be true according to google but I'm no expert.
>Also, face >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> height.
kek and lmao
It's very much obviously true. Ugly tall guys never will ever have a girl approach him, but a 5'8 guy with a 7/10 face will get tons of action off apps and IRL.
>Doesn't seem to be true according to google but I'm no expert.
I went to a heavily Mormon school, they don't drink caffeine >It's very much obviously true. Ugly tall guys never will ever have a girl approach him, but a 5'8 guy with a 7/10 face will get tons of action off apps and IRL.
5'8" is only a little below average, and all that action will be from 5'3" and below girls, with substantial racial elements.
>5'8" is only a little below average
Still, 5'4-5'6 who's a 6-8/10 will easily find a gf. It won't be as easy but certainly it's not a killer. Being a 4/10 facially will mean you'll almost never get matches off apps and no girl would be caught dead approaching you.
I'm not normal. I spend all my time inside, isolating myself. The majority of my life is in my parents house. In fact, I still am. I lived in the same room from 1998 to 2022. I've never had sex, never been on a date, and I don't do well on dating apps. But somehow four women approached me during my lifetime, 2 were disgusting, 1 was acceptable but I was so mentally ill I ignored her till she went away, same with the last one that happened 2 years ago.
If you've ever had an option for a gf, then you're a normalfag. Idc about your life's story.
>Yknow you can visit her, right?
I don't have the money and can't drive.. and I don't think my mom would let me leave her like that
And even if I could, we get to fuck once a year? That isn't a relationship, she'd probably cheat on me or leave me when she finds someone irl
>That isn't a relationship
It's closer to being one than what any lonely guy has. Sorry that you have to settle, normalhomosexual. How far are they from you, even?
why do people voluntarily post on this site these captchas are the most retarded shit I've ever seen
They're really easy if you know how to use the slider.
>t's closer to being one than what any lonely guy has. Sorry that you have to settle, normalhomosexual.
You're assuming I'd even find one >How far are they from you, even?
I don't know, I've never spoken to girls on here
I only had one "girlfriend" since then and "she" was a tranny because after I got friendzoned by the only woman I ever loved I tried to make myself gay
"cyborg" has always just meant "normalfag but also quirky and knows LULZ memes xd!" That aptly describes you.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
I am not quirky, I am straight up weird. No normal people find my weirdness endearing.
I just know how to shut my mouth
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
Well you've dated so you're a normalfag.
[...] >Clearly she was way out of your league. That's not a reason to give up.
I literally didn't have enough bandwidth to date since it was mostly spent on school and cleaning up the first huge mess. Also she's ugly as shit now IMO. Outside now matches the inside's ugliness. lol, lmao even.
Not a reason to give up in general with girls I mean.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
Do you understand the concept of "bandwidth"? Like I didn't have the time/energy to look for other girls that could be attractive.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
I mean now. I'm not trying to blame you for your past.
Maybe 9 years ago. A half white, half Japanese girl who turned out to already have a boyfriend who started sending passive-aggressive messages when I tried flirting. A couple years before that a Japanese exchange student I used to be good friends with and eat and share lunches with every day. But I made a dumb mistake. She was called Nana and she said she was addicted to bananas (the fruit you pervs), and I told her if she ate too many she might get irradiated (because they're a tiny bit radioactive apparently)... which is sorta dumb to say to a Japanese person for obvious reasons. So I stopped being friends with her after that and word spread because every full Japanese person at college avoided me.
>Clearly she was way out of your league. That's not a reason to give up.
I literally didn't have enough bandwidth to date since it was mostly spent on school and cleaning up the first huge mess. Also she's ugly as shit now IMO. Outside now matches the inside's ugliness. lol, lmao even.
Freshman year of college probably, finally got some pity sex at the end and it was ok, after that I just kind of gave up on women and figured as long as I'm not a virgin there's no need to put up with the ever increasing demands of resources and attention needed for a few minutes of access to a wet hole.
I went on a date with a girl from one of my classes my first year of uni, I was talking too her for a couple months before asking her on a date
She ghosted me after the date
Still khhv
5 years ago.
I don't have much interest in real life any more.
This nurse I met on a dating app.
>talked back and forth a few days
>bought wine and snacks
>showed up to her place late at night
>sex
>did it again for a few weeks
Stopped talking because... well one reason was because I asked her if she had any friends that might want to go on a date lol.
That was after we stopped talking for a while, and I texted her out of the blue asking if she had any hot friends that would want to date.
bout tree fiddy
About 18 months ago
Well were there?
Never have. During university I ended up in several girls beds and went straight to sleep because I was so full of fear of intimacy. I also convinced myself they didnt actually want sex with me despite inviting me into their bed. Wild how cope works
That sounds fucking radical and hilarious
I applaud you sir
If this is true that is legendary
Thats why I get annoyed when the 'incels' of LULZ say if they were attractive all their problems would go away. Maybe theyd be like me and realise theyre so scared of intimacy they wouldnt be able to have sex with girls anyway and thats even worse
I actually don't think I'd be able to not at least try and have sex with a girl in her bed.
Just laying there doing nothing and actually falling asleep seems not only impossible but the cringe factor would be unbearable.
My body would revolt from the cringe and uncomfortable feeling that would be stemming from the sheer awkwardness being fueled by doing NOTHING.
Holy shit anon, you are truly mythical. That's fucking awesome!
yeah to me it was either I can try have sex with them which Im scared of doing or just close my eyes and fall asleep. I picked the latter
I could manage. There were a bunch of times in college where a girl followed me out of a classroom and stopped talking and then after a bit of silence I'd just walk faster than her in a different direction.
You need to smoke some weed man
You're a plain normalfag lol. If you were an incel you would've killed yourself by now.
So you've basically not tried and you had some success. Sounds like it's entirely your fault.
Were any girls ever interested in you romantically/physically?
>Sounds like it's entirely your fault.
It's not my fault I'm mentally ill
Never got as far as the bed, I just self sabotage the moment a girl showed any interest. The saddest part is
>fear intimacy
>want intimacy
>think sex is less intimate if it's not virgin-virgin
>now at age where virgins don't exist so the fully intimate ideal in my head isn't even an option
>use girls assumed non-virginity as reason to not bother
I will never understand casual sex or how people can be comfortable with relationships without knowing for 100% they will last a lifetime.
I also don't get why I prefer being alone for my life to not just finding someone like some people do just so they avoid being alone.
I think what you listed here are defining features of a robot. It's what separates robots from normies. It is the desire for intimacy instead of desire for mere pleasure and a need for honest, long term relationship. The thing is, you can be pretty, tall, fit and have high status, but if you hate modern dating, finding a girlfriend is much harder for you regardless.
I dont put any effort to date non virgins, its actually over for me
Get me a virgin and I will put the effort
First year of highschool, I tried hitting up on someone I assumed liked me. She actually seemed to tbh and I'd say she's one of my best friends in class I hung out everyday. I hinted I had a crush on her or sumn and she said "Ew!", I'm a MAN so I didn't give up cause I knew she liked me but I gave up the moment I saw her eyeing someone else saying "Idc if his personality sucks, if he's hot then I'd let him". Well, I lost interest in her by then anyways. In relationships in general too, not because of that but I literally just lost interest in a lot of people anyway as I grew.
15 years ago. She called the police and said I was stalking her.
never. I just never cared about love or sex
probably 4 years ago, but it wasn't pursuing since we were dating.
ever since, i have gone out on dates but i pretty much lose interest immediately. the last one was three years ago.
i matched with a girl on bumble, and she invited me to her place. when i arrived, she showed me around her house and then showed me her room. this is where i lost all interest.
she, a 27 year old woman, owned a twin sized bed and had a neon pink disney princess sheets set that looked like it was from the 90s. holes in it, pictures fading. it looks like she had been using that bed and those sheets for her entire life.
on top of the bed, was a pile of stuffed animals from various disney cartoons that took up roughly half of the bedspace.
she had a vanity desk (one of those desks with built in mirror) and the mirror had tons of post cards from disney world, photographs of her at disney world, and 10 pairs of minnie mouse ears scattered around it. some of the photos were selfies of her, sitting at her desk, wearing the minnie mouse ears.
then the posters...oh god, the posters. these weren't posters you'd buy at a store. they were crude, childish drawings that she made of various disney characters....all drawn on lined notebook paper that still had the little frilly things on them while hanging from the wall.
it was so weird because up until then she seemed normal, she was smart, had a good job, and was a solid 8/10 in looks, cute 5'4" spinner with a thicc ass and small but nice tits. her home was decorated like a mid-20s girls place would look. but her bedroom? sheesh. i got insane serial killer vibes from that.
so yeah, i'm done with dating, wanting to date, wanting to have sex, and all of that because of that girl.
The last one I genuinely loved and honestly wished we were together was exactly when the corona started.
Going out with one was 2 to 2 and a half years ago.
Asking one out (my best friend of almost 10 years by then(adios)) was a little after than ended. Maybe a year and a half ago.
All pursuits of females during my life were a mistake, so I missed out on the last cute girl that seemed to find me interesting. I just didn't even bother.
Can't believe anime nagger replied to my post by just "normies hurr durr". As af anime monogolids get to decide who is a normie.
Tr/a/nny naggers are almost always the worst posters. Are they just fishing for (you)s is what I want to know?
2016 when I was in university. If I couldn't get a woman then, it's obvious I can't get one now either. University is where even the ugliest, fattest nerds get their girlfriend or even their future wife. I was never good enough.
Real. I see the quietest and smelliest weirdo in class with a cute gf waiting the moment I see him leave. I'm probably the doing something wrong or I just hate people too much, probably both
yeah it's over, I hate people more every year and now I'm 26 and still a virgin. girls don't like jaded men, they like loud mouthy guys who have a passion for talking to people. negative reinforcement has made me look at the world as a cold and cruel place, and as a result I became cold and cruel just to cope. when a random old lady in public tells you to stop having such an angry, gloomy face you know you're giving off "resting bitch face" which repels women like nothing else.
I never have. I am terrified of women.
It never even began.
All the time tbh
Ex a few months ago
Chick I messed with
Chick I messed with
Chick I messed with
And Chick I'm currently trying to wife up
Spent all of high school to first semester of college trying and failing to get with my ex-oneitis. Then spent the rest of college doing damage control so I would graduate and not get expelled.
I should also mention that this was over a decade ago. Back then if I dropped out people would have shat on me for dropping out because of a girl and being poor and uneducated. Nowadays they shit on me for not dropping out and making m'lady """uncomfortable""" enough to form connections with her classmates by turning them all against me[/spoiler, but if I dropped out they'd probably still shit on me for dropping out because of a girl and being poor and uneducated as well as the former.
why would you bother?
you put effort into pursing them, then they overwhelmingly turn out to be terrible people. even the woman you meet once in a decade or every few decades who are not terrible in 99% of the normal ways inevitably are selfish enough to be okay with hurting you or ruining your life just so they can do whatever they've changed their mind and decided to do.
i'd put effort in plenty were woman actually good people regularly enough for it to be worth it
Never. I will try when I stop being poor
>pursuing a woman
HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHA never.
The only girlfriend I have had just happened. I will never play that stupid game again. I won't jump through their hoops so they can grant me the privilege of touching their bodies. That is the most pathetic shit a man can do.
What do you mean by just happened?
A little over a decade ago and since it was my first time doing something like that, it was kind of awkward and I did not really know what I was doing. It worked out for me and I had a gf for 3 years but after that ended I didn't really feel the need to ever do that again. God willing, I never will. Nice as it was, I don't want that kind of stress in my life.
My long term gf dumped me when I was about to turn 30. Dating in your thirties fucking sucks and I don't have the energy to start over with someone else. It takes years of effort to get to know someone well but apparently women are fine with pissing it all away whenever things aren't working out perfectly for them.
>put effort in
Every single da-
>irl
Oh, like seven years. I live on a shitty small island, I've almost fucked enough secret cousins that I just can't risk dating locals anymore.
I am married lol, i dont believe anyone who thinks its hard to date girls
Holy shit go away you homosexuals aren't wanted here.
This is our board culture.
Freshman year of high school when I met my current gf. Been together for almost six years. Im gonna propose to her after uni :*~~
>uni
LMAOOOOO holy shit!!!! hope she never went to any parties, king
Neither of us have. If we went to parties we wouldnt be posting here
I never really knew how to. When I wanted to and had the opportunity to (long ago, mind) I'd think long and hard about what I should do and not be able to figure out what I should do or say to her. There's a bunch of normalfags who say "It's instinct, you'll just intuitively know!". Well, I didn't, I hadn't the foggiest idea. Which is why they're normies and I'm not, I guess.
Nobody has to teach you that when a woman shows interest in what you are saying or laugh a lot with you and things like that, that maybe she likes you. Yeah sometimes you can be wrong and the woman just want to be your friend or she likes you or finds you funny, that happened to me but for a good reason, she was too close to be a friend.
What I mean is that it's obvious most of the times but the difficult part is to make the first move and sound confident. And not be afraid of rejection, the shame of going trying to kiss a woman in a party and she moves her head away or things like that. Or being rejected and then having to see her in class daily. Losing that fear of rejection is the key. My problem is that you have to start training that at like 12 even if it's the silly girlfriend to only holds hands. But I never did any of that continually until I was already at university so most men there had had many girlfriends before and most of them were not virgins so they had all that training already made. That was the difference. Who is to blame for that? Mainly your parents because they have to ensure you are developing all your skills, specially the social skills to make friends and to flirt with women. Mine didn't do any of that so I was a retard in that subject until I reached university and even then I didn't do shit. Never asked a woman to go on a date or anynthing. I got lucky and I met my only girlfriend at a party and it just happened, instant attraction. I had to tell her to go out together but with messages and we already knew we both were attracted to each other so it was just like protocol because she wanted me to do all the first steps.
>Oh nooo what happened?, my son is a loser with no friends or girlfriends!
Yeah maybe you should have encourage him to do some social activities and sports instead of just buying him video games, computers and just don't caring about how is his life.
>Nobody has to teach you that when a woman shows interest in what you are saying or laugh a lot with you and things like that, that maybe she likes you.
anon, when I was a sophomore in college I had a girl sit on my lap and put her arm around me and I didn't realize what she was trying to do unto two (2) full days later. When I saw her a few days after that, knowing what she had been trying to convey (and that it might possibly be far too late, indeed might have been too late after like thirty seconds, let alone two days) I still had no idea what to do. It was terrifying. I knew that there was *something* that I was supposed to do or say, some manner in which I was supposed to respond. But I didn't know what it was. I imagine it's a bit like an actor standing alone on stage, realizing he's completely forgotten his lines. It is not at all, not in the slightest, instinctual, or something that "doesn't have to be taught". It is exactly the opposite, or at least for my retarded ass it was.
for what it's worth I don't at all blame my parents for my incompetence, if anything they tried to encourage me to have a more normal social life in grade school, and I turned everything into smoking craters with intercontinental ballistic autism.
never. i refuse to put in any effort into pursuing women. yeah ik i'm lazy and deserve to be single a bloo bloo bloo... but it comes down to the simple fact that the risk / reward ratio is too unbalanced to ever be worth it. just like you wouldn't max out your credit cards to buy lottery tickets with because that'd be fucking retarded.
I know firsthand how fucking grotesque women can be towards undesirable men
2019 I was talking to a girl from my country on discord. I don't know if she was genuine but she seemed keen to meet up. I came to my senses and ghosted her.
never have
never had a woman express interest in my by extension
why would I bother pursuing women if they never even offered a hint of interest? I expected to meet one by chance. I've lived long enough (am a wizard). I've met enough people. For most people things developed naturally. I witnessed most my former friends and peers get married. I've never even held a woman's hand by comparison. Not many of them had to resort to pursuing women ruthlessly. They seemingly met the women by chance and things clicked for them. No women showed such interest toward me. I believe that is indicative enough that I have nothing to offer. I have always held a negative view of myself, but I try not to bias myself to my own subjectivity. I try to approach objectivity, and the lack of interest from women in my life serves as evidence of my own inadequacy and worthlessness. I'm not wasting their time or mine if I have nothing to offer them. No amount of introspection has revealed to me what is fundamentally wrong with me to be undeserving of any interest. It's not really an attractiveness thing, as by comparison I am no worse for wear than most others that had success of my peers. I am more fit than most. Nor do I believe it's a personality thing. The only thing I can conclude is I am far more self-conscious and introspective than my peers, and that serves as a feedback loop for my own isolation and loneliness. That's not something that I can fix, and it has only grown worse with age.
I've offered hints to women. They don't even consider me a dating prospect. They seemingly mention how they can't find any "good" men when complaining about dating, while ignoring the fact that I am within earshot. I've always been invisible, and no one gives a shit about my general existence to bother with.
I never have and I never will. Fuck em
i kind of just gave up a few years ago. its not that i can't get girls, it's just that i've become too much of a pot head over the last few years that i have no clue how to talk to girls or how to flirt with them.
at work and even sometimes at the store, girls will sometimes flirt with me but i just fumble if i try to flirt back, so i don't try anymore. i guess if i stopped with the weed maybe i'd want to date again or something, but whatever.
and its weird, because even though i smoke a lot of weed and eat a ton of edibles daily, if i'm talking about random stuff, i'm fine. i work as a programmer, and i actually end up being more productive on days that i eat edibles at work (but thats probably because im so paranoid that i work a ton so people dont know im high). even if i have to do something like talk to a mechanic about something with my car, it's easy. even right now, at this moment, i'm able to clearly present how functional i am while high, even though i ate 70mg of edibles earlier.
but if i'm trying to flirt, it's just dumb, im a complete moron. like all the air got sucked out of the room. so, i don't. oh well. i used to have a girlfriend too, then over covid i started smoking weed a lot and she broke up with me shortly after. she said i smoke too much and i told her she just needs to find the right strain that'll work for her, then there can't be a "too much" because i found, y'know, my strain. so basically i can smoke all i want of it and i'm fine.
You are a retard if you think you can smoke marihuanna every day and that will not affect your brain negatively.
the only women i've been with have come onto me first. i have no idea how to pursue women and i fear rejection enough that i never will attempt to do it.
i havent spoken to a girl in 5 years and you call me a normalfag. kys homosexual.
Maybe try getting a gf, normalhomosexual. All of you retards I responded to can do that easily based on what you said. Your life's story is irrelevant and so are random details.
>normalfags lol. Incels are
what point are you trying to make schizo? OP made a topic about the last time someone put in effort to get with a girl, implying this is a topic directed at volcels.
most people here are volcels. do you know why?
as soon as it's laid out to you WHY you're an incel, and as soon as you are provided any semblance of advice or a pointed in the right direction, and you are voluntarily denying that advice, then that makes you a volcel.
im not talking of "just be yourself, bro" but i have seen time and time again people make complaints, then someone will hand hold them into the sweet bosom of sex, but then the complainer will complain more! that the advice was not solid, or that no advice matters because it is over.
sadly, the complainer has not realized that he only sees life through his complaining perspective. so of course he will scoff at advice. but, if he had taken that advice earnestly, it will change his perception, and see that he can improve to the point of something, even sex.
so, with that, as soon as you complain once, and as soon as you are given any advice on stopping being an incel, or look into any advice on stopping being an incel...you are automatically a volcel, whether you take the advice or not.
im sorry to say, but for many of you.....INCEL PASS....REVOKE!!
>then that makes you a volcel
No it really doesn't. Let's say you know you're socially incompetent and hideous. Knowing you have to looksmaxx and practice socializing means that at best you can get a gf in maybe a few years of self-improvement. You will involuntarily be lonely until then at best.
Also, if you're fine admitting you're a plain normalfag, then good, I don't really care about your blog/low IQ unfunny rant or whatever.
Maybe try getting a gf, lol. All of you guys can easily that I responded to there. Being a volcel still means you're a normalfag.
This board is 99% regular normalfags like yourself. Being a super-duper normalfag doesn't mean you're not an /LULZ/ regular lol.
I genuinely have no idea what you're trying to communicate.
That seems apparent.. how often do women play dumb when presented with ideas they don't like?
>Rhetorical
I am a cis man. What do you mean what am I? Or did you mean the other anon?
>All of you guys can easily that I responded to there
If I could I would have done so already
Which poster were you? If you've gotten attention from girls before you can definitely get a gf. I'm curious how you disagree.
So you can't get a gf but you somehow are choosing to not have a gf? Are you the weed guy because that's a very obvious contradiction.
>i used to be an incel
You said you could get girls interested, so you're by definition by not an incel.
i'm not that guy schizo tranny. you ask the other poster "who are you?" but then when responding to me you automatically know who i am?
and you claim that i'm an obvious contradiction? look in the mirror, or will that cause dysphoria?
I am a cis man, lol. You're not a contradiction, but saying that you can't get a gf but also are choosing not to have a gf is an obvious contradiction.
uhh what? no fucking shit? did you not read my post or did your reading comprehension take this long to catch up?
>so you are voluntarily being lonely until then
Did you mistype or what did you mean here? You're pretending I'm the dumb one here but that really is how low IQ people operate lol.
and you're passively trying to imply that i'm the idiot. if you are improving with the idea that, if you continue to improve for a few years, that in some time you may get a girlfriend, then your loneliness in the meantime is voluntarily because you are actively working towards something that may end your loneliness.
but yeah, i'm done. most of you people would rather be facetious than see anything past your nose.
>then your loneliness in the meantime is voluntarily because you are actively working towards something that may end your loneliness.
That's like saying that slaves who are free after 30 years of serving are voluntarily enslaved because they are working towards something.
If girls have ever shown interest in you then you have to be decent-looking. What else have you tried? You can't just wait for girls to approach you to get a relationship fast unless you're a chad(lite).
>You can't just wait for girls to approach you
Yea I know but I'm too anxious to approach people for any reason, I was lucky she did all the heavy lifting by forcing me into friendship
>What else have you tried?
That's it..
>is an obvious contradiction
Nta, but it's not.
I can't afford and Xbox, but I also don't want one.
How can you voluntarily be lonely but also you can't get a gf?
This one
This girl initiated the relationship, I just invited her to a cafe.. and then I fucked it all up because I'm too inept to date
No other girls have ever shown interest in me (she was a pudgy below average asian girl too)
>. Knowing you have to looksmaxx and practice socializing means that at best you can get a gf in maybe a few years of self-improvement. You will involuntarily be lonely until then at best
no because in this scenario you know that improving can get you a gf in a few years of improvement, so you are voluntarily being lonely until then.
after the fact, there can be a short period of them being an incel because they are still being voluntarily lonely but maybe they are continually trying with a girl who is not interested. this changes back to them being a volcel when they give up. because at a point, they were working to becoming a noncel, but gave up and are no longer an incel because they had to give up. so they are a volcel. if they keep trying then it is volcel, after their trying is proven after years to not work.
i used to be an incel, but then i gave up at trying and now i am a volcel. you, on the other hand, post anime girls so you're probably a tranny and have no room to talk about men's issues. go bitch about bathrooms or something and stop mucking up our threads with your tranime avatarposting.
why do people voluntarily post on this site these captchas are the most retarded shit I've ever seen
Never.
It scares me to death.
>Normalfag non-virgin with a gf calling me, a khhv, a normalfag
Ok
Yeah the polarity is comical
>Incel
>Manwhore/Normalfag
The fuck are you?
Realized my mistake right after the post
>There are no women on here
>Just men pretending to be women
after i got married 🙂 and cheated on her 5 times 🙂 then had a bit of a testosterone drop after that so happy with the ole ball and chain 🙂 don't worry guys it gets better 🙂
I'm putting effort in now, and I hope it'll pay off. Everyday I'll do my best to make use of the opportunities presented to me.
4th or 5th grade. It was assembly and I saw a guy resting his head in the lap of a girl behind him. I looked behind myself and saw a girl from my 3rd grade class that I thought was cute. I tried leaning back and she immediately punched me in the side of the head and threatened to tell the teachers. I apologized profusely and told her that I had been awake for 72 hours after multiple Starcraft all-nighters, and she accepted that.
>irl
At least a decade.
>online
About two years ago.
I've pretty much given up.
I'm a chaser so that's ideal, lole.
Mental illness isn't like a total blockage on your ability to do things. It just makes them much harder. You can use dating apps, sites, meet them on /LULZ/ and very slowly get more comfy around them. Dating is ezmode if you have decent facial genes even if you're very socially anxious.
>I'm a chaser so that's ideal, lole.
as if that actually means anything. you act like a beloved sage but you're a degenerate pedophile homosexual who is hated even here.
I'm hated by normalfags primarily, which I'm happy about.
Another normalfag.
Women on this board will tolerate anxious guys if they have decent facial genes. Also, face >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> height.
Have you ever had a girl into you? Why did you just never try?
>Also, face >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> height.
kek and lmao
But I don't want to e-date
They do drink caffeine, they don't drink coffee because D&C prohibits "hot drinks that are bad for the belly" which was interpreted as "coffee and tea"
Plenty of them drink soda
Then you're obviously alone by choice, so you're fine. If you ever feel lonely, just go with that, normalhomosexual.
E-dating isn't real dating, I don't want to waste time on some e-thot with 100 orbiters and never even get to fuck her
>Have you ever had a girl into you? Why did you just never try?
Yes, multiple times. I just have social anxiety to an extreme degree and literally ignored them. I was scared. Paralyzed by fear that I can't control. Nowadays it's much better but haven't been approached in some time now but I also barely go out since I do school online. I'm finishing my last class now. Don't know what the hell I'm going to do next.
As always, wizards are often just turbo normalfags lol. I guess if you make it to 30 as a robot you'd often just kill yourself, but it's pretty easy as a total normalfag lol.
Yknow you can visit her, right?
I'm not normal. I spend all my time inside, isolating myself. The majority of my life is in my parents house. In fact, I still am. I lived in the same room from 1998 to 2022. I've never had sex, never been on a date, and I don't do well on dating apps. But somehow four women approached me during my lifetime, 2 were disgusting, 1 was acceptable but I was so mentally ill I ignored her till she went away, same with the last one that happened 2 years ago.
>Yknow you can visit her, right?
I don't have the money and can't drive.. and I don't think my mom would let me leave her like that
And even if I could, we get to fuck once a year? That isn't a relationship, she'd probably cheat on me or leave me when she finds someone irl
>if you have decent facial genes
I'm not attractive or tall enough for women to be forgiving of my ineptness
2013 when I was 22
College classmates, worked on projects together, I asked her for coffee and she ran away like I was some rapist
Fucking Mormons, she could've just said she doesn't date except for marriage and only Mormons, I'd have converted, even
You know they don't drink caffeine right? That's like asking a Muslim girl out to get bacon sandwiches.
probably a flilipin ladyboy last year or so. I followed her to a restaurant she was at then followed her to japan. had a nice little prude romance thing going on until her sister beat her up
Literally never, I'm a 30 year old virgin
>attempt at gatekeeping by (You)'ing everyone
>anime avatarfag
nagger-tier post
(You)'ing normalfags, manwhore normalfags, and other people who need to be talked down to. If I arrived early in the thread I would've tried to derail it earlier.
Doesn't seem to be true according to google but I'm no expert.
It's very much obviously true. Ugly tall guys never will ever have a girl approach him, but a 5'8 guy with a 7/10 face will get tons of action off apps and IRL.
>Doesn't seem to be true according to google but I'm no expert.
I went to a heavily Mormon school, they don't drink caffeine
>It's very much obviously true. Ugly tall guys never will ever have a girl approach him, but a 5'8 guy with a 7/10 face will get tons of action off apps and IRL.
5'8" is only a little below average, and all that action will be from 5'3" and below girls, with substantial racial elements.
>5'8" is only a little below average
Still, 5'4-5'6 who's a 6-8/10 will easily find a gf. It won't be as easy but certainly it's not a killer. Being a 4/10 facially will mean you'll almost never get matches off apps and no girl would be caught dead approaching you.
If you've ever had an option for a gf, then you're a normalfag. Idc about your life's story.
>That isn't a relationship
It's closer to being one than what any lonely guy has. Sorry that you have to settle, normalhomosexual. How far are they from you, even?
They're really easy if you know how to use the slider.
>t's closer to being one than what any lonely guy has. Sorry that you have to settle, normalhomosexual.
You're assuming I'd even find one
>How far are they from you, even?
I don't know, I've never spoken to girls on here
I mixed you up with another anon. If you have decent facial genes then you can find this sort of situation, though.
not since college (2011)
had a potential prospect months ago but fucked it up well before the point of putting effort into it
Probably like 2012
Then she friendzoned me
I got more success at sex when I stopped trying, oddly enough
But I hate all the women I have sex with
Most suffering manwhore.
I only had one "girlfriend" since then and "she" was a tranny because after I got friendzoned by the only woman I ever loved I tried to make myself gay
It didn't work
Most suffering normalfag, then, I guess, lol.
I'm a cyborg, you nagger
"cyborg" has always just meant "normalfag but also quirky and knows LULZ memes xd!" That aptly describes you.
I am not quirky, I am straight up weird. No normal people find my weirdness endearing.
I just know how to shut my mouth
Well you've dated so you're a normalfag.
Not a reason to give up in general with girls I mean.
Do you understand the concept of "bandwidth"? Like I didn't have the time/energy to look for other girls that could be attractive.
I mean now. I'm not trying to blame you for your past.
I'm too old to be resetting my career AGAIN.
Maybe 9 years ago. A half white, half Japanese girl who turned out to already have a boyfriend who started sending passive-aggressive messages when I tried flirting. A couple years before that a Japanese exchange student I used to be good friends with and eat and share lunches with every day. But I made a dumb mistake. She was called Nana and she said she was addicted to bananas (the fruit you pervs), and I told her if she ate too many she might get irradiated (because they're a tiny bit radioactive apparently)... which is sorta dumb to say to a Japanese person for obvious reasons. So I stopped being friends with her after that and word spread because every full Japanese person at college avoided me.
>Clearly she was way out of your league. That's not a reason to give up.
I literally didn't have enough bandwidth to date since it was mostly spent on school and cleaning up the first huge mess. Also she's ugly as shit now IMO. Outside now matches the inside's ugliness. lol, lmao even.
I've never pursued women even once in my life. I always hated them