What's attractive in a man?

Question for trans girls:

What are the most attractive about a man? Physically, mentally or otherwise.

What makes your heart flutter?

  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    physically muscular and thick
    mentally someone well read and laid back, i hate impatient or angry guys fucks w my anxiety rly bad :~~*

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I like really nice guys. Someone who is really nice just elevates all their other traits

      Literally me

      dominance, which you don't have b/c you're inquiring trannies on how to make yourself into something appetizing for them which is submissive behavior.

      They want you to be dominant in bed, if you try to apply it to other parts of the relationship it'll quickly become dysfunctional. They work best when you're both equal.

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    nothing, trannies are meta attracted lesbians who hate the male body or otherwise they wouldn't transition. they may only enjoy a "big burly daddy owo" to feel like a feminized princess by contrast but there is nothing about the male body itself they actually enjoy.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      wtf me

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Rocktra_

    I like really nice guys. Someone who is really nice just elevates all their other traits

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    dominance, which you don't have b/c you're inquiring trannies on how to make yourself into something appetizing for them which is submissive behavior.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Being cool, funny and love life.

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    A guy with a friendly face giving me a warm smile. Big, rough textured hands, bodies that look strong, but also cuddly, with a bit of belly

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    how big and tall they are compared to i am! honestly one thing i wish more women have

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >tfw not a man
      damn

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        IM SOWRY i love my short kingsss too ;w;

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Idk my lists feel pretty short but I'm not super picky
    >Physically
    He's big but not fat, he's tall, he has a strong brow and an imperial nose, he can grow a proper beard but doesn't need it, his own smell is good, his voice is low, his eyes are intelligent and pref not brown and idk stuff like those
    >mentally
    He's smart, he can balance my instability with his calmness, he's fun, he has ambition, he's confident, he's not overly political
    >otherwise
    He has a good taste in music etc media, he has some fashion sense, he can switch between the exciting bad boy mode and a gentleman so it's not awkward to go visit my parents

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    when they look like a girl and present fem.

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    - confidence, masculinity, wit, good looks, respectfulness

    repulsive traits would be:
    - "hey" as an opening message
    - not well groomed (this is a big one, can't tell you how many men go on dating apps with pictures taken in front of their bathroom mirror with ugly clothes and bad hair)
    - zero interests
    - being too sketchy/scary (not looking to get beaten up by a steroids junkie)
    - if you look like you have no friends and spend all your time jacking off to anime

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      hey

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    lol don't be sad, you'll get laid one day

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    There careness when they like you(how there voice becomes softer but not really weak. Hard to describe), there voice, how they can make you feel safe, how just being with them(when you love them) can make the world a better place, the chest of a twunk is nice af. Just want to lay on it. How sometimes they are weak and open up to you tho still have the strength to keep strong but are a bit weak with you. The confidence to stand strong when times are hard and to get back up again. How some guys smell. Not that no shower for a week boysmell shit but just a nice clean man and maybe a hint of sweat(every hard to explain). Also i like some cringe loveydovey stuff is nice(Prob why i like virgins ig). How they can stand up for stuff. I should prob stop now... I may cry do to loneliness :

    • 2 weeks ago
      fixmyname

      >ow sometimes they are weak and open up to you tho still have the strength to keep strong but are a bit weak with yo
      thats really cute anon <3

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    lol. women tend to get a lot of messages in dating apps and a single "hey" doesnt exactly give you anything to go by. if you have an amazing profile maybe you can get away with it but its just a bad first message, looks very low effort, and its very likely to get ignored. simply saying "Hello, I liked X about your profile" is going to be a million times more effective, its not exactly a high bar lmao

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Hey
      >Hi, how are you?
      >K, u?
      😐

  14. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The most attractive thing i've found in a man was how safe and protected i could feel next to them and how vulnerable and at his mercy i could be when the time came.

    Also how he compliments my cooking.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Is that really how I make women feel? I often read from women that big men are scary.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        From my experience, and that includes my past experiences. (I'm 6'5)

        Bigger guys are usually the softest and nicest people you can be around, I know that's not a 100% chance but i never met anyone above 6'1 who wasn't a gentleman

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >physical
      tall and skinny typically with cute messy hair. having a cool sense of fashion and looking put together but still aloof is really hot to me
      >personality
      calm, rational, responsible, independent, but still really caring and wanting to be around me. musicians/artists are really hot to me as well

      v cute, youre correct

      >Physically
      I really do like taller men something about them just able to engulf me in a hug is super sweet. Idc about being fit just not really fat or super chuby.
      >mentally
      someone that get me and I can get back. Alot of guys I feel like I get to excited talking to them and it puts them off.
      >otherwise
      tbh just a guy that likes me and we have similar interest. I would love for him to plan surprise dates or get me clothes he will think is cute on me.

      hugs from guys bigger than you are really nice

      Asian men.
      Attentive.
      Super into what ever interest they have - whether it be typical school, or like a vidya they play. If he's not going to talk my ear off about the history of radians vs deg, or why Rakan/ Xayah is the best video game couple ever, or any other stupid niche thing then I don't want that crap. Show me how much you love something.
      Minimal facial hair if any.
      Glasses.
      Can't be a shit driver. No tiny dick BMW/ Audi. Show up in your beater ass Honda Accord but signal every turn and go 10 kph over the speed limit while displaying properly lane discipline.
      Some active rec thing they do. Volleyball, badminton, idgaf. I'm somewhat active because I hate going to the gym so doing rec sports/ activities is how I try to keep in shape.
      No shit food pallet. If you're like picky af and have a list of foods you can't eat longer than your dick then I'm out. There's like 3 foods I won't eat, and if I haven't tried it, then you bet I will - if not for the sake of just saying I tried it.

      god, same, i hate dudes that are just planks of wood that just do 'whatever'

  15. 2 weeks ago
    fixmyname

    >Physically
    I really do like taller men something about them just able to engulf me in a hug is super sweet. Idc about being fit just not really fat or super chuby.
    >mentally
    someone that get me and I can get back. Alot of guys I feel like I get to excited talking to them and it puts them off.
    >otherwise
    tbh just a guy that likes me and we have similar interest. I would love for him to plan surprise dates or get me clothes he will think is cute on me.

  16. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    when he knows how to deal with women, how to flatter, how to seduce

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I feel like this is a huge deal, I got some guy use some seductive stuff with me and he could have asked me for anything whilst I was swooning so hard

  17. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Tranners into FUBs: what's the appeal? Is it a size thing? Does the contrast between a pretty girl (you) and someone undesirable do it for you? Would you be attracted to a huge handsome guy? A skinnyfat guy? Anyone who shows you affection?

  18. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Dating apps exist to make meeting new people as efficient as possible, you need to start with a good opening message otherwise you'll be filtered out, same with how you need to put a good first picture and bio on your profile.

  19. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Honestly, just smart, quiet guys who speak when they know what they're talking about. Someone I can sit in a room with and just read together. Who has ideas, nice, and well read. A fair person above all else is the most important trait i guess.

  20. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Women tend to get hundreds of matches compared to guys so unironically yes, if you don't have an outstanding first message you're out.

  21. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Asian men.
    Attentive.
    Super into what ever interest they have - whether it be typical school, or like a vidya they play. If he's not going to talk my ear off about the history of radians vs deg, or why Rakan/ Xayah is the best video game couple ever, or any other stupid niche thing then I don't want that crap. Show me how much you love something.
    Minimal facial hair if any.
    Glasses.
    Can't be a shit driver. No tiny dick BMW/ Audi. Show up in your beater ass Honda Accord but signal every turn and go 10 kph over the speed limit while displaying properly lane discipline.
    Some active rec thing they do. Volleyball, badminton, idgaf. I'm somewhat active because I hate going to the gym so doing rec sports/ activities is how I try to keep in shape.
    No shit food pallet. If you're like picky af and have a list of foods you can't eat longer than your dick then I'm out. There's like 3 foods I won't eat, and if I haven't tried it, then you bet I will - if not for the sake of just saying I tried it.

  22. 2 weeks ago
    minayari

    mentally. I like someone that's soft spoken but can be respectfully assertive and dominant too. Physically just white and taller than me

  23. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    > physical
    ideally taller than me, muscular but not the over ripped kind, thick torso, even facial hair, stronger than me, averagish length dick

    > personality
    kind, calm, healthy interests of his own, good listener, emotionally mature, trusts me

    > other
    likes moderate camping and hiking, tolerates my annoying career, nice to my friends, eats my cooking

    > t. mtf, realizing she is extremely straight in a very basic way

  24. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    5' 10" or 11". mercifully i have been consistently shorter than men who list 6' on their profiles

  25. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Last page but asking anyways: does any mtf actually like or not mind a balding bf. Every single thread describes how the bfs hair should be, is it over?
    >t. 24 and bald top chaser

  26. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Dick

    Big broad chest to lay your head on

  27. 2 weeks ago
    sotcepilled

    physically average, is kind, well read, good taste in media, 5’9-6’4 range, decent general aesthetic sensibilities. i like people who wait while their friend ties their shoes or is the first to say hello to someone at a party. and has some sort of artistic passion.

    oh and is not a far right political extremist

  28. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    60% personality
    • be generally compatible with me
    • have a sense of humor
    • try be open about your feeling in a relationship; that includes being vulnerable sometimes
    • recognize that relationships require mutual effort: don’t be afraid to call me out when I’m a jerk but also be respectful

    40%
    It’s more diffuse but
    • take basic care of yourself
    • being taller than me gives + points too
    • just look nice? Idk
    • also don’t be younger than me

  29. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    you gotta make yourself stand out and project confidence

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