What would you do if your girlfriend is reluctant to perform a specific sex act with you, which you find pleasurable?Talking about a more non-traditio...

What would you do if your girlfriend is reluctant to perform a specific sex act with you, which you find pleasurable?Talking about a more non-traditional act.

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  1. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    i wanna do an ffm threesome. gf doesnt want a threesome ever. I'll just cope until I die guess because she's great otherwise

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      2 questions reading your situation :
      Is your sex good?
      How would you cope your whole life with not being satisfied

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Just go pay two hookers.
      I did that, two girls that I paid from a stripclub that was basically a brothel. It had a “hotel” attached to it.
      Anyways, it’s not as exciting as you think it might be. Too much work to give attention to two girls at the same time.
      Porn makes it seen more exciting than it actually is, but irl, it just looks like sex.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Honestly I want a threesome just to cross it off the list. My gf says she might be willing to give me what I want and have a threesome someday, but I don't know if I'd go through with it. Imagine trying to explain why you nutted inside the third chick in less than a second cause she made the mistake of finding someone hotter than her.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          What if your gf wants a threesome with another guy?

  2. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    You accept you're never gonna get that from her. Then you evaluate whether you'd rather stay with her and not have that specific thing for the rest of your life, or leave her, deal with everything else that comes with it and hope you find someone else who's into that thing.
    What's your kink, op?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      The thing that people would call you gay for

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Pegging? Eating your own cum? Cuckold?
        Depending on how bigoted they are, people might call you gay even for eating pussy...

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Hahaha, pegging

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Could she maybe enjoy/be in board with lighter forms of ass play? Like fingering you? Maybe while she gives you a bj or something like that. Could you maybe compromise on that?

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            I guess yeah man, yeah.
            See thats the thing,
            She has a bit of a strange agenda against gay people, even though she has gay friends.
            Also, she herself is reluctant to try anal, at least for now.
            Meaning, she is not okay with the ass thing as far as Ive seen, and also I have my thoughts she would consider that gay, even the part with the fingers, meaning in her head might be = bad

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            What the frick is wrong with this woman? Personally I couldn't be with someone so weirdly homophones and judge about "gay" stuff. Frick that.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Also, she herself is reluctant to try anal, at least for now.
            Usually when a girl is "reluctant to try anal" it's because she's worried about shitting all over you. Maybe this has happened to her in the past, maybe not, either way, that's usually what the issue is

            What the frick is wrong with this woman? Personally I couldn't be with someone so weirdly homophones and judge about "gay" stuff. Frick that.

            >What the frick is wrong with this woman?
            And as far as her being reluctant to stick things in your ass? She's prolly worried about you shitting all over her.. lol

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Depends if I can understand why she doesn't want to do said act I guess

          >Pegging? Eating your own cum? Cuckold?
          Like with pegging and eating your own cum, I don't understand why she wouldn't be down to try that. But with cuckolding I do understand why she wouldn't be down, because that would be introducing a whole new person into the mix, you know?

          I also can understand if she doesn't like having the shit beat out of her, or getting choked, slapped, face shoved in the toilet, shit like that

          But harmless shit? Yeah she's gotta be down or I'm out, frick that shit. Pegging and anal in general (both ways) are a must for me, I dunno what to tell the b***h. Why would she not be down for that? How am I supposed to go the rest of my life with a b***h and not frick her in the ass? I don't get it, it's not even possible

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah, ok, but what if hypothetically she has some trauma from the past,in regards to ass?

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Trauma? What do you mean?

            Like her ex boyfriend stuck it in dry without warning, then claimed it was an accident? Or what?

            If it's that, then I'm not her ex, I won't do that to her, now let's get this show on the road

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Yes, for example.

  3. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Sounds like ass trauma

  4. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    First Rule Of Sex:

    Never do anything unless both parties are equally enthusiastic.

    Talking someone into doing something ALWAYS backfires

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      previous partner felt they needed to explore more sexually with such aspects i was incapable of providing them thus it hurt to be understanding and offer the appropriate space required to try at their own discretion however they attempted to keep me closely on a back burner and simmer in resentment most uncomfortably for somebody still desiring of them it was excruciating to be neglected so as a means to an end i hit up a friend to ask a favor unfortunately they freaked out on me as i offered the opportunity so i stopped bothering even tho I still really miss them and would do anything to please them but they don't want me or my help apparently but is it their loss or mine?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >previous partner felt they needed to explore more sexually with such aspects i was incapable of providing them
        And what aspects were those?

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          they want whatever they don't already have/had typically
          obviously they do not even know what they want ultimately

  5. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    reevaluate your life choices you homosexual

  6. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    We know you are taking about gay butt sex. homosexual.

  7. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Wanted to try an open relationship
    >"No I don't like that, I only want one person"
    >She cheats anyway
    Why are women like this?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Why are women like this?
      Probably because they don't know what they fricking want. God should have given them some of our brain instead of one of our ribs

      ?t=244

      Though sometimes I suspect they do the cheating thing because the whole idea of cheating is exciting to them. Like, noo, it's not hot if you are aware of me fricking other dudes, it has to be some evil vicious betrayal that could quite possibly end with one or more people being killed, THEN IT'S HOT!

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Find out why she cheated first, This could be your segue into an open relationship. Most people aren't going to admit they want to frick someone else, especially if they dont know the option of having an open relationship is still available.
      Otherwise, she likely doesn't know what she wants.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        she wants to frick not cuck probably

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Most people aren't going to admit they want to frick someone else, especially if they dont know the option of having an open relationship is still available.
        Wait what? Why would they not admit they want to frick someone else when the fricking opportunity is straight up presented to them? Or at least say "hmm, yeah maybe, we'll see?"

        Is it because they don't have someone right that second that they'd want to frick? They ought to still be aware that they might want to do that shit somewhere down the line though, right?

        The only three reasons I can think of that make sense to me are

        1.) They don't know what they want (like you said)
        or
        2.) They get off on the idea of cheating
        or
        3.) They don't want you fricking someone else, even if they are out fricking other people

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          humans are hardwired to be (semi) monogamous. Not all of us are lizardpeople, reptilianon

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          nailed it anon

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Well, simply put. Open relationships, poly relationships, whatever you wanna call it, are far from the norm, no matter what the internet nerds say.
          Most people want a monogamous relationship that lasts forever, even if they know or don't know deep down, they straight up arent able to stick with it in the long run. You tell anybody that you may want to frick someone else down the line, or at any point, and they will hear ," you are not satisfied with me and this relationship will not work." and they will drop you.
          Also usually when people get into relationships, they don't always have anybody else in mind they want to frick either, so its safe to assume they're monogamous until they meet another person that just so happens also press all their buttons at too. You don't really plan to cheat, you just kind of find someone and the opportunity gets presented to you.
          You're a few years too early to be able to freely say, you want to to frick other people and make this an open relationship to the average person. You probably have to find someone else who is also explicitly looking for an open relationship. You could probably try looking in some swinger circles or something I dont know.

          Think of it like going into a job interview and admitting you dont give a damn about the job, you just want money. You may as well just told them you aren't going to do anything else more than whats asked and you WILL leave the first chance you get at a better opportunity.

  8. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    did the whole lgbt board moved to adv??
    go back to your own board, disgusting homosexuals
    stop tainting ours

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Implying that /adv is a REPUBLICAN only thread 😀 ?
      >Talking about hetero sex
      >You are probably a deeply closeted ,,homosexual" yourself

  9. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Male/Female?
    would you fulfill your partner's fetishes if you didn't have them? How far would you go?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'll start, Male. I'd do anything short of the hardcore shit. If I can't satisfy a woman in bed I have failed as a male and deserve castration. I'd be kinda grossed out with pee and the like but that's part of the appeal so it works out

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Male.

      I'll try just about anything provided you can talk me into it. But I will not go further than scat.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Male. I have a thing for assertive women, so if she sounded convincing enough, I'd do lots of stuff, or at least I'd try. Real limits are probably findom shit and stuff that involves blood. Also I'd have an hard time doing something that requires acting (any sort of roleplay, or extreme bdsm stuff where I have to act super dominant). Unless I'm ACTUALLY into it, acting convincingly would be very difficult for me.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        wanna practice?

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Practice what?

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            goddammit anon you dense motherfricker. she's talking about sex stuff. You could've had NSFFW troony neet pussy but you blew it

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            But I already get pussy, I'm a taken man. Why would I want it from NSFFW anons?

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            well, your sweetheart is probably special to you and you don't really know how hard you can give it to her without practice... it logically follows that you should take out the first few times where you're just gorillafricking with the raw primal force on one of us who can take all you've got to give and also hone you into a gentle, assertive lover your cisfem will enjoy =)

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >hone you into a gentle, assertive lover
            Kek do you think I need you for that?
            For real though, I don't appreciate this. I answered to a question regarding what I'd do with my partner. I didn't specify I was thinking about my actual partner, but now you know. I am indeed in a relationship and no, I am not interested in sex with you or any NSFFW girls. If you wanna jerk off about the idea of having sex with me whatever, go nuts. I'm sure in your fantasies we have lots of wild practice sex. Just don't hornypost to me about it.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      OP here, I would go as far as I am comfortable with tbh, and the more trust I gain in her, the more she is ok with my fetishes, the more I will be prone to do hers?
      Thats how trust worked, right

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I didn't know trust was a factor, I sort of imagined sex as judgement free. Like at worst she teases you about it but still gives you a compensation blowjob

  10. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    You should get a boyfriend that catches. homosexual

  11. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Stop being interested in that sex act.

  12. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Depends how much do I want that specific sex act and if I can cope with it.

    could I cope with my gf never wanting to try femdom, bdsm, or some milking table arrangement? Sure. But could I cope with someone who only wants to do it missionary, no BJs, no anal, will never ever want to get on top and ride? well I'd be a little miffed and I don't know if I'd be able to cope. I'd honestly prefer not to be in the situation to begin with.

    It's important to realize, that you are ideally supposed to be with this person forever, so if your other doesn't want to do a thing you want and will absolutely not budge on the topic, you will have to accept that. Sexual compatibility is no joke.

  13. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I would give her an ultimatum: either you satisfy me or the relationship ends.
    You fool yourself if you believe she would still reject you, were you a Chad. If she truly liked you, she would be thrilled and more than happy to please you and give you everything you desire.
    Just imagining a woman who tells me "I'm not like that" or "I don't really like that", but who then goes and does it with another man, feels me with rage. I would rather stay alone or look for another woman than suffer that.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Wants a loyal trad girl
      >But she also has to satisfy all your degeneracy
      Thankfully you will never reproduce.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >But she also has to satisfy all your degeneracy
        What's the problem with that?
        >Thankfully you will never reproduce.
        Of course. Only morons incapable of self-control reproduce. The higher the IQ and education, the less children are born.

  14. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I dont care about this because I can undersrand why she wouldnt like that act at first then lead her to the right way to enjoy it, i will make her aquire the right taste for it.
    I just like the OP image

  15. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'd prefer doing whatever really turns her on.

  16. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    footjobs?

  17. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    69ing with girls makes me shoot projectile ropes like nothing else but for some reason they get tired of me asking to do it. 3/4 of their excuses is that it’s “overstimulating” (tf?) and 1/4 are insecure that they’re too heavy, which, they aren’t BBWs just a little thicc

    sucks man

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >3/4 of their excuses is that it’s “overstimulating”
      I know that clits are super sensitive and you should go easy on them just through porn exposure. You are being told directly and you still suck at sex

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I would get the overstimulating aspect.Still in the process of learning self control while doing it, cause MAAN

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