What would you do if your girlfriend is reluctant to perform a specific sex act with you, which you find pleasurable?Talking about a more non-traditional act.
What would you do if your girlfriend is reluctant to perform a specific sex act with you, which you find pleasurable?Talking about a more non-traditio...
i wanna do an ffm threesome. gf doesnt want a threesome ever. I'll just cope until I die guess because she's great otherwise
2 questions reading your situation :
Is your sex good?
How would you cope your whole life with not being satisfied
Just go pay two hookers.
I did that, two girls that I paid from a stripclub that was basically a brothel. It had a “hotel” attached to it.
Anyways, it’s not as exciting as you think it might be. Too much work to give attention to two girls at the same time.
Porn makes it seen more exciting than it actually is, but irl, it just looks like sex.
Honestly I want a threesome just to cross it off the list. My gf says she might be willing to give me what I want and have a threesome someday, but I don't know if I'd go through with it. Imagine trying to explain why you nutted inside the third chick in less than a second cause she made the mistake of finding someone hotter than her.
What if your gf wants a threesome with another guy?
You accept you're never gonna get that from her. Then you evaluate whether you'd rather stay with her and not have that specific thing for the rest of your life, or leave her, deal with everything else that comes with it and hope you find someone else who's into that thing.
What's your kink, op?
The thing that people would call you gay for
Pegging? Eating your own cum? Cuckold?
Depending on how bigoted they are, people might call you gay even for eating pussy...
Hahaha, pegging
Could she maybe enjoy/be in board with lighter forms of ass play? Like fingering you? Maybe while she gives you a bj or something like that. Could you maybe compromise on that?
I guess yeah man, yeah.
See thats the thing,
She has a bit of a strange agenda against gay people, even though she has gay friends.
Also, she herself is reluctant to try anal, at least for now.
Meaning, she is not okay with the ass thing as far as Ive seen, and also I have my thoughts she would consider that gay, even the part with the fingers, meaning in her head might be = bad
What the fuck is wrong with this woman? Personally I couldn't be with someone so weirdly homophones and judge about "gay" stuff. Fuck that.
>Also, she herself is reluctant to try anal, at least for now.
Usually when a girl is "reluctant to try anal" it's because she's worried about shitting all over you. Maybe this has happened to her in the past, maybe not, either way, that's usually what the issue is
>What the fuck is wrong with this woman?
And as far as her being reluctant to stick things in your ass? She's prolly worried about you shitting all over her.. lol
Depends if I can understand why she doesn't want to do said act I guess
>Pegging? Eating your own cum? Cuckold?
Like with pegging and eating your own cum, I don't understand why she wouldn't be down to try that. But with cuckolding I do understand why she wouldn't be down, because that would be introducing a whole new person into the mix, you know?
I also can understand if she doesn't like having the shit beat out of her, or getting choked, slapped, face shoved in the toilet, shit like that
But harmless shit? Yeah she's gotta be down or I'm out, fuck that shit. Pegging and anal in general (both ways) are a must for me, I dunno what to tell the bitch. Why would she not be down for that? How am I supposed to go the rest of my life with a bitch and not fuck her in the ass? I don't get it, it's not even possible
Yeah, ok, but what if hypothetically she has some trauma from the past,in regards to ass?
Trauma? What do you mean?
Like her ex boyfriend stuck it in dry without warning, then claimed it was an accident? Or what?
If it's that, then I'm not her ex, I won't do that to her, now let's get this show on the road
Yes, for example.
Sounds like ass trauma
First Rule Of Sex:
Never do anything unless both parties are equally enthusiastic.
Talking someone into doing something ALWAYS backfires
previous partner felt they needed to explore more sexually with such aspects i was incapable of providing them thus it hurt to be understanding and offer the appropriate space required to try at their own discretion however they attempted to keep me closely on a back burner and simmer in resentment most uncomfortably for somebody still desiring of them it was excruciating to be neglected so as a means to an end i hit up a friend to ask a favor unfortunately they freaked out on me as i offered the opportunity so i stopped bothering even tho I still really miss them and would do anything to please them but they don't want me or my help apparently but is it their loss or mine?
>previous partner felt they needed to explore more sexually with such aspects i was incapable of providing them
And what aspects were those?
they want whatever they don't already have/had typically
obviously they do not even know what they want ultimately
reevaluate your life choices you homosexual
We know you are taking about gay butt sex. homosexual.
>Wanted to try an open relationship
>"No I don't like that, I only want one person"
>She cheats anyway
Why are women like this?
>Why are women like this?
Probably because they don't know what they fucking want. God should have given them some of our brain instead of one of our ribs
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Though sometimes I suspect they do the cheating thing because the whole idea of cheating is exciting to them. Like, noo, it's not hot if you are aware of me fucking other dudes, it has to be some evil vicious betrayal that could quite possibly end with one or more people being killed, THEN IT'S HOT!
Find out why she cheated first, This could be your segue into an open relationship. Most people aren't going to admit they want to fuck someone else, especially if they dont know the option of having an open relationship is still available.
Otherwise, she likely doesn't know what she wants.
she wants to fuck not cuck probably
>Most people aren't going to admit they want to fuck someone else, especially if they dont know the option of having an open relationship is still available.
Wait what? Why would they not admit they want to fuck someone else when the fucking opportunity is straight up presented to them? Or at least say "hmm, yeah maybe, we'll see?"
Is it because they don't have someone right that second that they'd want to fuck? They ought to still be aware that they might want to do that shit somewhere down the line though, right?
The only three reasons I can think of that make sense to me are
1.) They don't know what they want (like you said)
or
2.) They get off on the idea of cheating
or
3.) They don't want you fucking someone else, even if they are out fucking other people
humans are hardwired to be (semi) monogamous. Not all of us are lizardpeople, reptilianon
nailed it anon
Well, simply put. Open relationships, poly relationships, whatever you wanna call it, are far from the norm, no matter what the internet nerds say.
Most people want a monogamous relationship that lasts forever, even if they know or don't know deep down, they straight up arent able to stick with it in the long run. You tell anybody that you may want to fuck someone else down the line, or at any point, and they will hear ," you are not satisfied with me and this relationship will not work." and they will drop you.
Also usually when people get into relationships, they don't always have anybody else in mind they want to fuck either, so its safe to assume they're monogamous until they meet another person that just so happens also press all their buttons at too. You don't really plan to cheat, you just kind of find someone and the opportunity gets presented to you.
You're a few years too early to be able to freely say, you want to to fuck other people and make this an open relationship to the average person. You probably have to find someone else who is also explicitly looking for an open relationship. You could probably try looking in some swinger circles or something I dont know.
Think of it like going into a job interview and admitting you dont give a damn about the job, you just want money. You may as well just told them you aren't going to do anything else more than whats asked and you WILL leave the first chance you get at a better opportunity.
did the whole lgbt board moved to adv??
go back to your own board, disgusting homosexuals
stop tainting ours
>Implying that /adv is a REPUBLICAN only thread 😀 ?
>Talking about hetero sex
>You are probably a deeply closeted ,,homosexual" yourself
Male/Female?
would you fulfill your partner's fetishes if you didn't have them? How far would you go?
I'll start, Male. I'd do anything short of the hardcore shit. If I can't satisfy a woman in bed I have failed as a male and deserve castration. I'd be kinda grossed out with pee and the like but that's part of the appeal so it works out
Male.
I'll try just about anything provided you can talk me into it. But I will not go further than scat.
Male. I have a thing for assertive women, so if she sounded convincing enough, I'd do lots of stuff, or at least I'd try. Real limits are probably findom shit and stuff that involves blood. Also I'd have an hard time doing something that requires acting (any sort of roleplay, or extreme bdsm stuff where I have to act super dominant). Unless I'm ACTUALLY into it, acting convincingly would be very difficult for me.
wanna practice?
Practice what?
goddammit anon you dense motherfucker. she's talking about sex stuff. You could've had LULZ tranny neet pussy but you blew it
But I already get pussy, I'm a taken man. Why would I want it from LULZ anons?
well, your sweetheart is probably special to you and you don't really know how hard you can give it to her without practice... it logically follows that you should take out the first few times where you're just gorillafucking with the raw primal force on one of us who can take all you've got to give and also hone you into a gentle, assertive lover your cisfem will enjoy =)
>hone you into a gentle, assertive lover
Kek do you think I need you for that?
For real though, I don't appreciate this. I answered to a question regarding what I'd do with my partner. I didn't specify I was thinking about my actual partner, but now you know. I am indeed in a relationship and no, I am not interested in sex with you or any LULZ girls. If you wanna masturbate about the idea of having sex with me whatever, go nuts. I'm sure in your fantasies we have lots of wild practice sex. Just don't hornypost to me about it.
OP here, I would go as far as I am comfortable with tbh, and the more trust I gain in her, the more she is ok with my fetishes, the more I will be prone to do hers?
Thats how trust worked, right
I didn't know trust was a factor, I sort of imagined sex as judgement free. Like at worst she teases you about it but still gives you a compensation blowjob
You should get a boyfriend that catches. homosexual
Stop being interested in that sex act.
Depends how much do I want that specific sex act and if I can cope with it.
could I cope with my gf never wanting to try femdom, bdsm, or some milking table arrangement? Sure. But could I cope with someone who only wants to do it missionary, no BJs, no anal, will never ever want to get on top and ride? well I'd be a little miffed and I don't know if I'd be able to cope. I'd honestly prefer not to be in the situation to begin with.
It's important to realize, that you are ideally supposed to be with this person forever, so if your other doesn't want to do a thing you want and will absolutely not budge on the topic, you will have to accept that. Sexual compatibility is no joke.
I would give her an ultimatum: either you satisfy me or the relationship ends.
You fool yourself if you believe she would still reject you, were you a Chad. If she truly liked you, she would be thrilled and more than happy to please you and give you everything you desire.
Just imagining a woman who tells me "I'm not like that" or "I don't really like that", but who then goes and does it with another man, feels me with rage. I would rather stay alone or look for another woman than suffer that.
>Wants a loyal trad girl
>But she also has to satisfy all your degeneracy
Thankfully you will never reproduce.
>But she also has to satisfy all your degeneracy
What's the problem with that?
>Thankfully you will never reproduce.
Of course. Only retards incapable of self-control reproduce. The higher the IQ and education, the less children are born.
I dont care about this because I can undersrand why she wouldnt like that act at first then lead her to the right way to enjoy it, i will make her aquire the right taste for it.
I just like the OP image
I'd prefer doing whatever really turns her on.
footjobs?
69ing with girls makes me shoot projectile ropes like nothing else but for some reason they get tired of me asking to do it. 3/4 of their excuses is that it’s “overstimulating” (tf?) and 1/4 are insecure that they’re too heavy, which, they aren’t BBWs just a little thicc
sucks man
>3/4 of their excuses is that it’s “overstimulating”
I know that clits are super sensitive and you should go easy on them just through porn exposure. You are being told directly and you still suck at sex
I would get the overstimulating aspect.Still in the process of learning self control while doing it, cause MAAN