What do you consider "wife material"?

How do i make my boyfriend be smitten with me? Basically any traits,gestures or just green flags that a person is the kind you see having a long lasting relationship with

  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Were you a virgin before him?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      yes, though im not sure if toys count

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Why would they?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Appreciate him.
        Show genuine affection.
        Let him comfortable to be his true self around you.

        >not sure if toys count
        No, but this could dessensitize your pussy to normal sexual stimulation. The female version of the "death grip" guys get from too much/too violent masturbation.

        im more fit and whiter than you, no cap

        >im more fit
        And yet you're a 4/10? ok

        Okay I'll give you some actual advice. You said he's your only sexual partner, that's a huge plus in a wife.

        >You said he's your only sexual partner, that's a huge plus in a wife.
        This. It's obviously not the only important thing, but it helps a lot.

        i assume losing virginity to one another must create some strong emotional bond but surely there must be more to it than sex

        >i assume losing virginity to one another must create some strong emotional bond
        Correct.

        Not that anon, but losing your virginity to him isn't a physical matter, it's a symbolic matter. It symbolizes your commitment to giving yourself to him, being his.

        Playing with a guy's feelings is pretty simple. I need you, I want you, I belong to you, you rock my world, you are a king, just do stuff that communicates those 5 messages

        > losing your virginity to him isn't a physical matter, it's a symbolic matter
        But also a psychological matter. Despite modern day propaganda, sex isn't "just sex", it's something that pretty much shapes our approach to romantic relationships, and therefore impacts our success on those.

        Otherwise, it isn't that hard to keep a good relationship, Anon. People fail miserably because they often fail to do basic stuff, and have emotional baggage (usually due to a high body count) that ruins the relationship before it even starts.

        T. happily married.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        They don't. In fact, it probably made you better the first. My wife was a virgin too but used a dilator, which is basically a toy in my opinion.

        https://i.imgur.com/eITuFH1.png

        How do i make my boyfriend be smitten with me? Basically any traits,gestures or just green flags that a person is the kind you see having a long lasting relationship with

        Be awesome in bed. Also, appreciate what he brings to the relationship and make sure he knows you do.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >My husband was a virgin too but used a dilator in his neovagina
          FTFY, progressive fella.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Natural holes use dilators too, dude. Have you ever even been inside a vagina before?

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >Natural holes use dilators too, dude.
              If they have vaginismus, I guess?
              >Have you ever even been inside a vagina before?
              You mean, today? No. Yesterday I mate pressed my wife on our couch. She was a virgin when we met and she never used a dilator.
              But yeah, my bad, I forgot some (bio) women have vagina issues.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    being a woman would help

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The idea of a cis female frogposter is insane to me. Rather than answering your question, I just want a snapshot of your life since puberty and how the fuck you ended up like this

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I just think hes neat... also being a solid 4/10 has helped

      being a woman would help

      Boys aren’t good wife material, anon
      And lying on anonymous forums isn’t attractive

      why are you guys so gay?
      I dont think ill be getting the top secret insider information i was hoping to get out of this thread

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >why are you guys so gay?
        you post frogs on LULZ

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      lot of fat ethnic females who are invisible to men on here ngl

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        im more fit and whiter than you, no cap

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Okay I'll give you some actual advice. You said he's your only sexual partner, that's a huge plus in a wife.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i assume losing virginity to one another must create some strong emotional bond but surely there must be more to it than sex

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Yeah, also just that he gets the security of knowing he's the only one who you've hd that experience with. Did he lose your virginity to him? Other things you can do to be a better potential wife aren't crazy, just be responsible, take care of yourself physically, be good in communication with him. Honestly just standard stuff for a good relationship.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Did he lose your virginity to him
                yes
                also those are bare minimum "healthy" relationship stuff ,how do i keep him happy?

                Not that anon, but losing your virginity to him isn't a physical matter, it's a symbolic matter. It symbolizes your commitment to giving yourself to him, being his.

                Playing with a guy's feelings is pretty simple. I need you, I want you, I belong to you, you rock my world, you are a king, just do stuff that communicates those 5 messages

                >I need you, I want you, I belong to you, you rock my world, you are a king, just do stuff that communicates those 5 messages
                explain 'stuff', what would your hypothetical gf do to make you feel special and make you think shes a keeper

                cook, clean, suck a mean dick, and don't talk so much. shit aint hard.

                i see
                >suck a mean dick
                my biggest insecurity,he says he just doesnt like it because hes circumsticed but i know its because im secretly bad at it

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >my biggest insecurity,he says he just doesnt like it because hes circumsticed but i know its because im secretly bad at it
                It's because he's cut

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >my biggest insecurity,he says he just doesnt like it because hes circumsticed but i know its because im secretly bad at it
                I would get literally nothing from someone sucking my cut dick. Literally feel nothing, or irritating not pleasurable.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Not that anon, but losing your virginity to him isn't a physical matter, it's a symbolic matter. It symbolizes your commitment to giving yourself to him, being his.

              Playing with a guy's feelings is pretty simple. I need you, I want you, I belong to you, you rock my world, you are a king, just do stuff that communicates those 5 messages

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        L o n d o n

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Boys aren’t good wife material, anon
    And lying on anonymous forums isn’t attractive

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    cook, clean, suck a mean dick, and don't talk so much. shit aint hard.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    #1 being a biological woman

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    are you living with him? if so:
    1. clean for him and do the little tasks. don't ever bring anything to his attention and nag him to pick up his socks you spot on the livingroom floor. just pick it up yourself. see a full trash can? don't ask him to do it, just do it yourself. be his invisible little house elf.
    2. take care of all the cooking yourself. make sure that he doesn't help out unless he insists. make sure there is a warm meal for him for dinner and tasty leftover lunches for him to take with to work/school.
    3. bake his favourite sweets whenever he wants or better yet surprise him when he gets home
    4. make sure you're always keeping his belly full with good food and his balls empty. BJ him if you don't have enough time for sex or HJ with lotion if you suck at BJs
    5. say i love you everyday, before he goes to work and before he goes to sleep
    6. cuddle him in bed in the mornings for gentle wake-up (it's better than a blaring alarm)

    if not living with him:
    1. take up his interests to show you are willing to invest time and energy into him and get closer to him
    2. listen to him talk about whatever autistic thing he is into. look up his niche interests online so you can follow along and participate in conversations
    3. show that you are willing to get close to his loved ones to understand his upbringing better (do this if he is close to his family, if not, ignore)
    4. buy thoughtful gifts for birthdays and christmases and anniversaries. cater it to your special connection and personality
    5. try to have fun and develop a bond between you two. kiss, make out, do sexy intimate things, but don't forget mental stimulation too like banter, creating inside jokes, talking about shared interests
    6. always bake him something at least once a month and bring it over to show that you are thinking of him and love the idea of taking care of him and that you are nurturing and loving
    7. take care of your body & don't let yourself go
    (1/2)

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      (2/2)
      8. depending on personality, try to do fun outings to show that you are willing to spend money on him to create experiences and memories together
      9. if a shut-in homebody, try to create fun date ideas restricted within the home like a sushi night date, movie night, boardgames, and other at home activities
      10. always smile whenever you catch eyes, run up to him immediately and hug him whenever he enters the room. if he is a normal guy, he will find this cute. if he is skittish type, he may find it creepy
      11. send messages to him but match his pacing and length of text message. if he writes a paragraph, write a paragraph back. don't be ambiguous. try to sound happy and cheerful and cute through text with emoticons
      12. remind him how happy you are with him

      these are the things i did to get my boyfriend to be completely smitten by me. i got engaged within a year of meeting him and moved in this year. never been so happy in my life that i get to be with him.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      (2/2)
      8. depending on personality, try to do fun outings to show that you are willing to spend money on him to create experiences and memories together
      9. if a shut-in homebody, try to create fun date ideas restricted within the home like a sushi night date, movie night, boardgames, and other at home activities
      10. always smile whenever you catch eyes, run up to him immediately and hug him whenever he enters the room. if he is a normal guy, he will find this cute. if he is skittish type, he may find it creepy
      11. send messages to him but match his pacing and length of text message. if he writes a paragraph, write a paragraph back. don't be ambiguous. try to sound happy and cheerful and cute through text with emoticons
      12. remind him how happy you are with him

      these are the things i did to get my boyfriend to be completely smitten by me. i got engaged within a year of meeting him and moved in this year. never been so happy in my life that i get to be with him.

      Appreciate him.
      Show genuine affection.
      Let him comfortable to be his true self around you.

      >not sure if toys count
      No, but this could dessensitize your pussy to normal sexual stimulation. The female version of the "death grip" guys get from too much/too violent masturbation.
      [...]
      >im more fit
      And yet you're a 4/10? ok
      [...]
      >You said he's your only sexual partner, that's a huge plus in a wife.
      This. It's obviously not the only important thing, but it helps a lot.
      [...]
      >i assume losing virginity to one another must create some strong emotional bond
      Correct.
      [...]
      > losing your virginity to him isn't a physical matter, it's a symbolic matter
      But also a psychological matter. Despite modern day propaganda, sex isn't "just sex", it's something that pretty much shapes our approach to romantic relationships, and therefore impacts our success on those.

      Otherwise, it isn't that hard to keep a good relationship, Anon. People fail miserably because they often fail to do basic stuff, and have emotional baggage (usually due to a high body count) that ruins the relationship before it even starts.

      T. happily married.

      based married anons, thanks friends

      >And yet you're a 4/10? ok
      i used "fit" in the very loose and unambitious "not fat" sense

      >my biggest insecurity,he says he just doesnt like it because hes circumsticed but i know its because im secretly bad at it
      It's because he's cut

      >my biggest insecurity,he says he just doesnt like it because hes circumsticed but i know its because im secretly bad at it
      I would get literally nothing from someone sucking my cut dick. Literally feel nothing, or irritating not pleasurable.

      actually a relief to hear that and also sorry about that

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Wife material? First you’re not and never will be, but here you go anyway

    1.) get your fake quirky dumb ass off this website and never come back. You are not special or unique you’re just like any dumb bitch competing for male penis

    2.) realize you are his property, he can do what he wants with you or he will replace your ugly ass with someone else

    3.) shut the fuck up and tone down your gay zoomer personality. You’re not the main character just another annoying warm hole

    4.) stop talking about sex and shit on the internet with random men.

    I hope your boyfriend fucks you, ruins your life, then breaks up with you for an actual wife material woman. That will probably happen tbh

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      uhmmm i find your tone a bit agitated if you dont mind (though i agree it got a bit weird with the sex stuff i was expecting more wholesome answers seeing how most people talk about how they crave human connection here)

      I'm not a man, but one major difference I noticed between my parents' relationship (unhealthy) and my sister's relationship (healthy) was the difference in how they handled conflict, and how often they simply... played together.

      Handling conflict in a healthy way, giving constructive criticism, being supportive, and taking constructive criticism on board, are all SUPER important skills to have in any relationship. They're crucial to long-term relationship health.

      I'd argue that playing together is almost as important.

      When my parents were in the mood to play with one another (teasing, joking, singing, watching funny TV shows together, etc...), they were at their best. And their relationship seemed stronger in the hours or days following. But they rarely played together, and over the years, they stopped enjoying one another's company. Eventually, they fell into the habit of NEVER being in the same room together, except to eat or sleep.

      My sister and her partner play a lot. They roast the shit out of each other, they make silly in-jokes, they drink together and laugh together. They tease each other and purposefully annoy each other for fun. It's really lovely to see. My sister makes a point of trying to cheer up her partner when he's in a shitty mood by playing with him. My mum never did that for my dad.

      Idk I didn't mean to go on a rant about playing, but it's really important.
      Even my own last relationship was ultimately super fucking unhealthy, but I loved him to bits because we played so well together. You'd be surprised how strong that glue is.

      thats kind of sad anon but i know what you mean, i think it mightve been a result of most boomers seeing relationships only as a commodity or a status thing back then so they eventually get bored of each other once they get past the excitment of the first time things (actually now that i think about it its not only a boomer thing).I guess it only makes sense that your life partner has to be a bit of your best friend as well

      Just be yourself.

      'preciate it

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Reading through this thread I’m left wondering, how does a young female end up on this website posting frogs

        Then it hit me

        You’re ugly, with no tits and no ass. You basically look like a man with a femboy face. This forced you out of the normie sphere because you can’t compete with females who actually look like females. You resent normal women and the men that give them attention. So you developed this edgy LULZ personality to cope with the fact that you are an A cup with a bony ass. By some stroke of luck you found a boyfriend who had to settle for you. Now you wanna lock him down by fake being wife material. Maybe it’ll work, maybe it won’t, but one thing is certain. He will be in public looking at girls with nice tits and a nice ass wishing he didn’t settle for a boy with a pussy

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          frogposters truly are the most oppressed group on this site

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm not a man, but one major difference I noticed between my parents' relationship (unhealthy) and my sister's relationship (healthy) was the difference in how they handled conflict, and how often they simply... played together.

    Handling conflict in a healthy way, giving constructive criticism, being supportive, and taking constructive criticism on board, are all SUPER important skills to have in any relationship. They're crucial to long-term relationship health.

    I'd argue that playing together is almost as important.

    When my parents were in the mood to play with one another (teasing, joking, singing, watching funny TV shows together, etc...), they were at their best. And their relationship seemed stronger in the hours or days following. But they rarely played together, and over the years, they stopped enjoying one another's company. Eventually, they fell into the habit of NEVER being in the same room together, except to eat or sleep.

    My sister and her partner play a lot. They roast the shit out of each other, they make silly in-jokes, they drink together and laugh together. They tease each other and purposefully annoy each other for fun. It's really lovely to see. My sister makes a point of trying to cheer up her partner when he's in a shitty mood by playing with him. My mum never did that for my dad.

    Idk I didn't mean to go on a rant about playing, but it's really important.
    Even my own last relationship was ultimately super fucking unhealthy, but I loved him to bits because we played so well together. You'd be surprised how strong that glue is.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >but I loved him to bits because we played so well together.

      Fucking homosexual

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You break into my thread, suck my dick, and call ME gay?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I'd argue that playing together is almost as important.
      Very based and can confirm.
      I'm not sure if playfulness is a cause or a termometer of a good relationship. Well, it's probably both. But yeah, I always feel good and more connected to my wife for hours after we play, tease each other, she roasts me and I chase her around the house to spank her ass (non-sexually), etc. It's truly bonding.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        what i noticed in my bf is that whenever i might be upset over trivial things is he will never entertain those thoughts or try to reason at all and rather use lightness and humor as a distraction until were back on playful mode or im at ease. Eventually i started using it on him as well on occassion, works wonders

        >Sex before marriage
        You will never be wife material.

        >needing someone elses opinion besides your partners before bonding
        kinda weird ngl

        It's year 2022. Wife material is either a delusion or scarcity.

        i want to believe

        Keep his balls empty and his stomach full. Don’t nag him and don’t force him to “open up” if he isn’t the type to do so. Be loyal and classy. Don’t be fat or get fat. Take care of your body and look good for him. Encourage him in private and celebrate him in public. Be submissive, but not a doormat. Learn to cook, clean, and be good with children.

        The list above would describe my wife quite well which is why we’ve been together for 14 years. Nothing’s perfect and we’ve had our ups and downs, but our family is healthy and happy. He obviously had responsibilities, as well, but you asked about only your role so that’s all I will discuss.

        >The list above would describe my wife quite well which is why we’ve been together for 14 years
        cute, thanks boomer anon. Question: during those 14 years do you guys engage in each others interests and hobbies?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          > cute, thanks boomer anon. Question: during those 14 years do you guys engage in each others interests and hobbies?
          Not really. I think it’s important to give each other adequate space to pursue individual interests. The only hobbies we share are interests in certain shows, boating, and sex.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just be yourself.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Sex before marriage
    You will never be wife material.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >It's the institution/cerimony that matters, not the monogamous commitment
      Yeah sorry mate, you're wrong.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It's the "for life" thing that matters retard.

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Basically any traits,gestures or just green flags that a person is the kind you see having a long-lasting relationship with
    >loyalty
    >loving
    >good sexual chemistry
    >feminine
    >pleasant disposition
    >really strong desire to be with me

    There are a lot of things but those are very high up on my list of needs.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's year 2022. Wife material is either a delusion or scarcity.

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Keep his balls empty and his stomach full. Don’t nag him and don’t force him to “open up” if he isn’t the type to do so. Be loyal and classy. Don’t be fat or get fat. Take care of your body and look good for him. Encourage him in private and celebrate him in public. Be submissive, but not a doormat. Learn to cook, clean, and be good with children.

    The list above would describe my wife quite well which is why we’ve been together for 14 years. Nothing’s perfect and we’ve had our ups and downs, but our family is healthy and happy. He obviously had responsibilities, as well, but you asked about only your role so that’s all I will discuss.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What’s the equivalent of husband material for the wife material you just described? Not OP just a woman with a broken ticker.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I can only speak to what I aspire to be and I’d imagine this differs for some women. As a man you should be gentle but strong, both physically and intellectually. You should lead in all matters involving the direction of the household. You should be reliable, loyal, and provide at all costs. You should be disciplined and abstain from frivolity and excess vice. You should be present and loving, but also firm and decisive doling out discipline and encouragement in appropriate measure. You should keep your body aesthetic and your mind sharp. Worship your woman sexually and endeavor to always leave her satisfied. You should be prepared for conflict and misery, and proud to die to protect your wife and children. Be courageous and able to compromise, but still never willing to sell out.

        I have done my best to adhere to these standards and have often fallen short. Even still, my wife worships the ground I walk on and my children treat me with reverence and respect. We are going through some difficult times right now, but they will never see me despair or capitulate. They deserve better and the success of our family depends on my strength of character.

        Hope this answers your question

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    OP I try to touch on every love language periodically. Some more frequently than others because they mean more to him.
    I think a big one is also to just be happy to see him. Be enthusiastic and excited. Cultivate that in yourself. Hype yourself up. Don't hold back. Me and our dog have the same energy when my husband gets home.

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    1. Virgin. No sexual experience in the strictest sense. Not just important for the man to invest, but also women's ability to pair bond declines with every man she emotionally invests in or has sexual experience with.
    2. At least a 6 in looks. I'm not being a prick here. Wife must have a face and body that makes you feel happy. Life would necessarily be miserable otherwise. (Not even to mention the pride in having a good looking wife).
    3. Not fat. You can't handle taking care of one person. Of course could never manage more.
    4. Young and fertile. There is a reason why all men remain attracted to young women their entire lives. Meanwhile women to those around their age perhaps plus some.

    Beyond the direct matter of fertility, older women lack the energy to take care of children. Unspoken problem of the modern era is widespread and increasing childhood neglect as motherhood is increasingly delayed.

    All men understand these things even if they can't explain why. All of the above elicit an instinctive disgust or attraction response in a healthy man. (For example when men express middle ground expectations like low body count, that's the product of over-socialization or a personal coping measure). Every man feels instinctively more comfortable investing in a pure, fit woman.

    My personal addition: Intelligent. I notice more often than not exceptionally intelligent men settle for women far inferior to them.(This is natural due to the different distribution of intelligence between the genders). This combination creates disgusting dysgenic offspring which should be avoided, anyway.

    For one example, met a family where the father was a several times patented inventor, had beyond successful STEM career, but he married a lame fat bitch, and their son is a dipshit studying Art.
    No, I don't mean dipshit as in "lol at non-STEM"
    I mean dipshit.

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