72 thoughts on “what do i wear to attract this phenotype of woman?

  1. Anonymous says:

    Every time I see one of those girls with a non-Asian guy, it’s just some really generic nerd type. Not talking balding bearded fatass soi, but just some 6/10 average clean-shaven or stubble dude with glasses and either a nerdy graphic tee or business casual. I used to be that type of dude myself and got a decent amount of interest (actually one was really into me in high school but I was too much of a sperg to do anything about it) but my style has changed as I’ve gotten older and I rarely attract much notice from them now.

    • Anonymous says:

      yeah, over-the-hill thai hookers or mail order brides end up with white boomers, but young asian students or whatever just end up with clean-cut tallish white guys

      • Anonymous says:

        Not even necessarily tallish, I see a lot where the guy is basically a grown up twink, typically paired with an above-average Asian girl so they’re almost the same height. (Like 5’8" guy + 5’6" girl.)

        As a side note the whole situation is frustrating as heck, I’m pretty much only interested in Asian women these days but I hate the whole aesthetic they’re into and don’t wanna be that guy, even though I pretty easily could. You always hear about the guys who "go for Asians because they can’t get a white girl" but I’ve got the opposite problem, every girl I’ve dated or hecked (except for one very whitewashed Latina) has been a white stacy and I get plenty of attention from them even now but I’m sick of their bullshit, meanwhile I know tons of really cool Asian girls but have never managed to date any.

          • Anonymous says:

            I know everybody’s got some degree of it, but I’ve also known a lot of women and on average the Asian ones seem to be more tolerable. I also just find them attractive in a way that’s pretty rare with white girls.

          • Anonymous says:

            https://i.imgur.com/5RgJ1ve.jpg

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            Depends if they’re FOB or grew up here. If the latter, they’re similar to white girls except with better values like hard work, family, etc.

            If they’re FOB, that’s a bad fit. I say this as an Asian guy born and raised in America. FOBs have completely different values, lifestyles, ways of behaving, social norms, etc. and it’s just uncomfortable, even if you can speak their language.

            There’s a difference between a fetish heck object and someone you can have a meaningful time with after you cum. If it’s a fetish, get that type of hooker and get it out of your system (at least for the next week or so lol). Trying to "date" a fetish object that’s fundamentally incompatible with you is just a waste of your own time and will ultimately lead to disappointment down the road.

            lol it’s all the same shit only Asians have a very intense hatred for you deep down. Particularly Japs but they’re all culturally xenophobic in a way you can’t understand. They’ll heck you and marry you and raise your kids and still talk to their mother about how you stink like a pig and are unbearable to spend any time with. It’s an admirable quality really, unless you’re mixing with them.

            >If the latter, they’re similar to white girls except with better values like hard work, family, etc.
            Yeah this is what I’m really talking about. I grew up on the border of a heavily Asian area and then got into the cosplay scene (looks like your pic is related to that) and was the token white guy in mostly Asian friend groups etc. through school and into my 20s so I’m pretty realistic about things and don’t have the fetishes or misconceptions a lot of people do.

            FOBs are a different story, I’ve known a lot of those too – went to a college with a lot and then ended up working for a Japanese company where I was the only American and spent a bunch of time working over there – and I count some as friends but was never able to click enough with the women to consider a real relationship, the culture really is too different and even as a halfway decent Japanese speaker the language barrier is still an issue.

          • Anonymous says:

            lol it’s all the same shit only Asians have a very intense hatred for you deep down. Particularly Japs but they’re all culturally xenophobic in a way you can’t understand. They’ll heck you and marry you and raise your kids and still talk to their mother about how you stink like a pig and are unbearable to spend any time with. It’s an admirable quality really, unless you’re mixing with them.

        • Anonymous says:

          I know everybody’s got some degree of it, but I’ve also known a lot of women and on average the Asian ones seem to be more tolerable. I also just find them attractive in a way that’s pretty rare with white girls.

          you do you, man. but theyre just as awful if not worse behind closed doors.

          Depends if they’re FOB or grew up here. If the latter, they’re similar to white girls except with better values like hard work, family, etc.

          If they’re FOB, that’s a bad fit. I say this as an Asian guy born and raised in America. FOBs have completely different values, lifestyles, ways of behaving, social norms, etc. and it’s just uncomfortable, even if you can speak their language.

          There’s a difference between a fetish heck object and someone you can have a meaningful time with after you cum. If it’s a fetish, get that type of hooker and get it out of your system (at least for the next week or so lol). Trying to "date" a fetish object that’s fundamentally incompatible with you is just a waste of your own time and will ultimately lead to disappointment down the road.

          • Anonymous says:

            My gf is an international student who has only been in the west for 4 years.
            There is zero cultural difference. Most fobs who socialise outside of their closed off fob circles will completely adapt to and assimilate with western culture within a single year.

          • Anonymous says:

            Also, if they are Chinese being a mainlander vs being from HK or Taiwan (I know that’s not China lmao) makes a huge difference. Mainlanders tend to be more FOBish whilst ppl from Hong Kong are more westernised, have less of a language barrier and are waay more polite. I’ve met plenty of rude mainlanders, theres no please or thank you coming out of their mouths. Though there are exceptions.

            Can’t speak for the Koreans, japanese or South eat Asians.
            Also, be warned you will have to deal with asian parents and many are intolerable to the average westerner, so if you do find one, it’s best if they are willing to move in with you and leave their parents in their home country vs their parent moving in with you.

            yeah, over-the-hill thai hookers or mail order brides end up with white boomers, but young asian students or whatever just end up with clean-cut tallish white guys

            I’ve seen this at least twice.

            Listen op, you need to be clean-shaven and not smelly, have good skin. Don’t dress like a tramp/black. Dont be fat and don’t be a feeder. Many of these women are looking for a leader and someone who is stable. You can try the Korean soft boi look or the professional look. If they are going for a white man then they are sick of asian men so you are allowed to be masculine, just don’t be too hairy. You can have 1 subtle peice of dork memorabilia – ie anime or pokemon key chain but don’t go overboard. Asian woman love sanrio and plushies, so they feel at home with that stuff but they still get creeped out if they are suspicious you only like them because of anime.

          • Anonymous says:

            Most people seem to have it that way, it’s certainly the stereotype as evidenced in

            https://i.imgur.com/zM7ClSI.jpg

            You fetish for Asian woman is not a new trend, however it is an old “last chance” modus operandi for white men who failed to court white woman. Sad to see another one of my white “brothers” fail to meet the current standards, and settle for monkey pussy. You said it yourself; you know what kind of man those woman desire. Those white men are just weak, docile cucks that end up unsatisfied ultimately due to their unwillingness and lack of strength, to meet the current standards for White Woman. A shame, really.
            >your monkey will never be pic related. Don’t substitute your monkey for pic related.

            Maybe it’s a regional thing, I live in SoCal and mostly get real life flirting and dating site likes etc. from white chicks here, but when I go to NorCal or other places I start getting matches with Asian girls, and looking back to when I lived up there I seemed to get more IRL interest from them too. (Had a white GF at the time though so wasn’t able to take advantage of it.)

      • Anonymous says:

        They also tend to be classist. Usually I see them with dorky guys in school spirit wear, nerd graphic tshirts and sneakers. You basically need to look like Chad or beta bux. If you’re a trashy looking lifting guy or skeezy Thrift bro go for latinas with daddy issues.

        • Anonymous says:

          >If you’re a trashy looking lifting guy or skeezy Thrift bro go for latinas with daddy issues.
          ding ding ding

    • Anonymous says:

      https://i.imgur.com/pmdPCKb.jpg

      I’m going to lose it lads.

      https://i.imgur.com/WhogD9o.jpg

      just be white

      >throwing away your bloodline for flat-faced morons

  2. Anonymous says:

    You fetish for Asian woman is not a new trend, however it is an old “last chance” modus operandi for white men who failed to court white woman. Sad to see another one of my white “brothers” fail to meet the current standards, and settle for monkey pussy. You said it yourself; you know what kind of man those woman desire. Those white men are just weak, docile cucks that end up unsatisfied ultimately due to their unwillingness and lack of strength, to meet the current standards for White Woman. A shame, really.
    >your monkey will never be pic related. Don’t substitute your monkey for pic related.

        • Anonymous says:

          I’m an overweight average height blue collar guy who dresses like a rancher and usually has a big beard, and lives in a big expensive city, and I get TONS of interest from and the occasional hookup with white women. The last girl I hecked was a tall skinny ginger who’s an actual model and I get compliments and dating site messages from other white chicks all the time, going on about how I look like Rip from Yellowstone and stuff.

          What I can’t get and really want is the time of day from azn qts despite there being tons around here. All I want in life is a petite dorky Asian girl next door type and I’ve known plenty of them but they’re always either taken or uninterested, other than the one I missed my chance with all those years ago in high school.

          • Anonymous says:

            fwiw both the gut and the beard are pretty recent, and things weren’t too different before them. I am working on the former and I go back and forth on the latter, though I always end up hating how I look without a beard – not that I look bad, I actually always get way more attention from women when I shave my beard off, but it’s not really what I like seeing in the mirror.

          • Anonymous says:

            Well, you will either look how you like to look, or how dorky asian women like men to look.
            Check out the male kpop stars. The more you look like an aristocratic elf, the higher your chances.

          • Anonymous says:

            Yeah I’m way too old for that shit, the only aristocratic elf I could look like is Elrond and I don’t think that’s what they’re into kek

        • Anonymous says:

          >you must be rich, /fit/, strong-willed, socially skilled and most importantly tall
          For what? A western women who complain all the time and slowly suck out my energy force? Don’t be a gay. I rather be rich and skilled with a 19 year old non western wife.

    • Anonymous says:

      It’s 2024 anon
      Universities and metro areas where young people live are full of beautiful Asian women
      Kpop idols are literally THE standard of beauty in the west
      This isn’t 2004 where 60yo divorced boomers are bringing home a thai prostitute they shacked up with for two months in pattaya
      This is 2024 where young white men are choosing to date beautiful young women are who highly educated (traditional education not useless feminist studies) and hold traditional family values, that just happen to be asian

      • Anonymous says:

        >metro areas where young people live are full of beautiful Asian women
        only in the anglosphere
        there are no asian women where I live

    • Anonymous says:

      In 2009 had that skinny white blonde gf, we hecked when we were 15. She eventually just hecked with my head for a year and disappeared. I deleted social media from my life after that. She even tried to contact me through my family. The white girl juice wasnt worth the squeeze then, and it definitely isnt now.

      • Anonymous says:

        White women are only usable as sex objects, they are not suitable or well-tempered as wives and serious life partners.

        Unfortunate, but yall white "people" did this to yourselves.

        t. Chang

  3. Anonymous says:

    These kinds of girls spill their spaghetti around me because i am a tall white lanklet that works out a lot. You dont have to do that but being able to do 10 pullups and run a sub 7 mile helps

  4. Anonymous says:

    Don’t go for the ones that exclusively aim for white men and surround themselves with white men, they’re as bad as white girls. Go for the ones that have a relaxed everyday look, they’re cute but they aren’t obsessing about their appearance 24/7 and have nerdy hobbies (NOT cosplaying and this is assuming you have nerdy hobbies). Ideally she is in STEM and should be on the taller side for an asian girl (5’6”+).
    You want her to put the bare minimum effort into her appearance (look for girls that are casually and modestly dressed but still look like they put in effort) and still be cute because this means there’s a higher chance she has less baggage. Cosplay girls are good for a heck but they are two faced and know how to mess with you while appearing cute and innocent. If she is still cute (but not knockout) without fussing about her looks it means when she dresses up she will be a bombshell. It’s also easier to psyop your tastes onto her if she mostly just wears casual clothes without much of a style of her own.
    You want her to have nerdy hobbies so it’ll be easier to connect with her as an individual. Best case scenario you both have the same hobbies or you can get her interested in your hobbies (easier if her hobbies are adjacent to yours) so you can do stuff together and actually be friends.
    She should be in STEM for the higher chance that she is intelligent and shares your interests and also so she is more familiar with masculine aligned patterns of thinking. STEM also means she’s less likely to be indoctrinated by liberal arts feminist bullshit.
    Should be tall, 5’6” is okay but 5’7”-5’8” is ideal because if you wife her she won’t bear you manlet children.

  5. Anonymous says:

    its crazy how the white boy meme is so true for these types. East coast things. My hispanic friend went to an ivy, was a genius(awards, internships and all that before college) , tall (6-3, 6’4 ish) and athletic and my other friend was a tall asian that fits the current trend of kpop looks, same scholarly stats as my other friend
    and still these nerd types would give attention to regular average or below average white guys. dont know how much it has changed since then but I heard it’s more easy for asian men nowadays

    • Anonymous says:

      desperate asian women (poor FOBs, or Flips or Viets) will go for pretty much any white guy

      the good quality Asian women though (clean/classy, American middle class or above), most of them require a man have either whiteboi family money (rich Chad, generational wealth, your dad is some hotshot CEO, etc.) or you better have some status/career success (you are well-known, doctor, business leader, or at least make a ton of money if you do some trivial field, etc.)

      • Anonymous says:

        The thing is they were literal random no name white guys not even attending college. Not sure why an asian women would pick that over an asian guy who is tall, handsome and successful. I think they have some sort of racial problems in their head like those black or brown /pol/cels who hate themselves.

        • Anonymous says:

          The average Asian male isnt “tall, handsome, and successful “ and the few who do fit that criteria are heckboys with awful personalities in many cases.

      • Anonymous says:

        The thing is they were literal random no name white guys not even attending college. Not sure why an asian women would pick that over an asian guy who is tall, handsome and successful. I think they have some sort of racial problems in their head like those black or brown /pol/cels who hate themselves.

        The average Asian male isnt “tall, handsome, and successful “ and the few who do fit that criteria are heckboys with awful personalities in many cases.

        And to clarify, when I say
        >The average Asian male isnt “tall, handsome, and successful “ and the few who do fit that criteria are heckboys with awful personalities in many cases.
        I mean that is true for every race. The average member of *any* race (White, Brown, Black, Asian, Hispanic) isn’t “tall, handsome, and successful.” So you are creating a false dichotomy. It isn’t Asian women choosing between 5/10 White guys vs 10/10 Asian guys. It’s Asian women choosing between a 5/10 White guy vs a 5/10 Asian guy. And since 5/10 White guys are 6/10 when compared to other races 5/10s by virtue of white skin + caucasoid facial features, it should be obvious *why* this phenomenon occurs. It should also be pointed out that westerners have a mentality like
        >Colorism = >:(
        >Heightism, Lookism, Classism = 😀
        While non-westerners are open about colorism and their preference for white and light skin.

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