what causes people to be virgins at 30


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what causes people to be virgins at 30

  1. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    not having sex i presume

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      it's called being lgbt and repressing.

      have they done any studies on it?

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      >it's called being lgbt and repressing.
      Honestly me, spent too many years ashamed of myself

  2. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    its called being ugly and ethnic(?). LGBT community is mostly full of white privileged racists. im a 20 yo virgin and on track to be a 30 yo virgin.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      based

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        how is it based u homosexual im suffering from no intimacy. if ur talking ab racism kys.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      >LGBT community is mostly full of white privileged racists
      Maybe shitskins should try being themselves instead of repressing then

  3. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    we'll see if I manage to have sex in the next two years but I only got a vagina at 28

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      well that resets the odometer

  4. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    runescape

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      they keep making the game shittier to try to make me stop playing and have sex and other social connections but i'm not falling for it

  5. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    For the longest time I truly felt as if it was impossibe for anyone to ever love me, and it shaped all of my interactions with other people. I never made any efforts when it comes to dating, because why would you make an effort if you are unloveable? And even when women showed an interest in me, I interpreted all their actions to conform to my own belief that I couldn't be loved.

  6. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    idk i got dicked down at 29 thankfully

  7. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Serious mental illness and bad family situation. Some incels are ugly, every incel is mentally ill.

  8. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Obese since I was 12
    General feelings of worthlessness and unhealthy relationship with food as a security blanket keeping me fat because I feel like it's too late to change and then try to bury the despair in melted cheese
    Those feelings only increase and become more objectively true with every passing year I remain like this
    Can't tell if autistic or just so ashamed of being alive and inflicting my repulsive presence on people that I developed hyperfixations to distract myself in my solitude
    Unsupportive family (the only people I have) who demean and sabotage my attempts to better myself
    Actually worked up the confidence to just trust someone who told me they found me attractive, and started a relationship, and felt like everything was finally turning around and started being happier and having motivation, only for them to drop me because I was still too insecure. So now I'm extra guarded against that happening again and don't think I can ever be with someone until I've perfected my physical form beyond reproach

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      i wish i could hug you through the screen.
      everyone deserves to be loved, no matter what it seems like. i wish i had better answers but i'm in the midst of some personal shit myself, just know that you're not alone

  9. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I’m 28 and I’m a virgin.
    I’m not ugly but I sure am not ok mentally. Nothing horrible, nothing drastic - I’m just having a hard time opening up to people, and being an adult virgin is my biggest insecurity. I mean, I turned down sex with a guy once because I didn’t want to confess I’m a virgin. Which is very counterproductive.

    Oh, and being an insecure and passive lesbian doesn’t help.

  10. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Childhood trauma. I'm in therapy now and getting better.

  11. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    that's a cute cat

  12. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Ctrl+F "shy"
    >no results
    For me, it's just being too shy to even ask anyone out, much less anything further

  13. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    As a 25yo mtf virgin it's not hard. Like I just feel so gross and nasty and unwanted idk if i'll ever have sex I kinda see myself as ending up forever alone because I don't think I could ever believe another human wants me like that
    Kind of hurts w/that too when I'm legit actually ugly and overweight

  14. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    being a shut in neet afraid of change and unable to live

    • 3 months ago
      Delta

      same

  15. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    ugly, mentally unwell, poor, and repressing lgbt shit

  16. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have a fucked up cock and it makes me not want to even try. I also have too high standards for my own good. I'd rather be alone than in a relationship that wasn't exciting to me.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I have a fucked up cock
      kek how fucked? mine used to have a really bad scar (it looks completely normal nowadays i treated it) but still got it sucked for like an hour, and i got ass too. i used to think that was huge deal, but lots of men have actual mangled cocks from circumcision (with loss of function and everything) which wasn't my case.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Just pretty bad phimosis and I don't want to go under to get a circumcision.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          man phimosis isnt fucked up at all
          does it make you worried about penetrative sex?

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            like bad phimosis like if I get a throbbing erection it feels like my dickheads gonna fall off if my skin is pulled back bad

            • 3 months ago
              Anonymous

              That seems surgery worthy. Nta but I have phimosis too with only less than a centimeter on the head showing and sometimes I wonder if thats why I dont have any interest in topping.

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                yeah I'm just terrified of getting anesthetised and being the infinitely small percentage of people who never wake up. I don't like the idea of a machine have to do my breathing for me, to put it lightly. Maybe I'll get over the fear, but I'm not a young buck anymore and it's equally likely that it'll never happen.

  17. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Sex drive towards BDSM and fetishes with very little interest in sex and having someone in your face that's only interested in sex.

  18. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Being ugly and brown will definitely do it

  19. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Ugly + no confidence
    You never approach anyone and nobody ever approaches you, simple as

  20. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    nothing special, I'm not bad looking, I am gay, I just find the ideaof gay sex gross

  21. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    having no sexual interest in anyone until I learned I was lgbt and stop repressing.

  22. 3 months ago
    aynon

    because sex is boring and dumb

  23. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'll tell you if the answer changes in 9 years but for now it's having mental illness and repressing it, no fucking way I'm ever coming out as trans.

  24. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    not having a desire to fck with a stranger but with someone you love and not having that person

  25. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Idk but in 5 years that will be me.

  26. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    jokes on you I got raped at 9

  27. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 21, I've had four boyfriends, finally had the opportunity to have sex with the last one, I whipped it out and he started whining "wooow it's so big I don't know if I can do that."

    Guess I've still got time.

  28. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm still a virgin at 31
    I guess by being lgbt, living in a shitty 3 world country, having an avoidant personality, and a bit of CPTSD

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