What are the signs that a female friend, who has a boyfriend, may be into you?

What are the signs that a female friend, who has a boyfriend, may be into you? The only context I will give is that my friends believe the behavior of her boyfriend to be anti-social and passive.
I'm very confused and want to see what you all think could be indicative of this.

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  1. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    This is just a general piece of advice that applies here but you should use throughout life.

    If a girl likes you, you'll know.
    If you're confused then she doesn't like you.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Ok I'll put it this way;
      Everything in my being is telling me that she like me but I can also feel that she is conflicted.
      I intend to just keep being friends with her but we have been together a lot recently.
      I like her a lot, by the way. Like a lot-a lot.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        she likes* me
        (not ESL I swear..)

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >not ESL
          Sure, Pedro

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Ok since I am a pussy who fears vulnerability this is what I do. When I think someone's into me I tell them that it seems like they are and tell them it's fine if they are and that I won't view them any differently and they usually confess. I try to keep my feelings extremely vague to the point where it is hinted that I'd be willing to go out with them but not enough as to wear I can't deny their suspisions and then gaslight them to think they're nuts afterwards.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      lmao not even close, every single time i was sure a girl liked me it turned out not to be the case

      • 10 months ago
        What if I post my throwaway?

        You weren't sure anon you just had wishful thinking and looked through a lens that made you think that was the case

  2. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >What are the signs that a female friend, who has a boyfriend, may be into you?
    If you ask her out and she says yes.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Why would I ask her out if she has a boyfriend?
      What if you’ve gone out multiple times already on what everyone else tells you “yeah that sounded like a date to me”
      Questions…

  3. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >What are the signs that a female friend, who has a boyfriend, may be into you?
    I flirt with her and tell her to show sexual interest in me and she does so.

  4. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    casually show her your dick. Find a reason to show it to her and ask if it looks good. I did this with my current GF and she sucked it on the spot. Felt good.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah that’s a wonderful idea, do this OP
      obvious /s

  5. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    While it is possible she may look to you as a friend for things she doesn't get from her bf, it is 100-1 that she does not think of you romantically.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >it is 100-1 that she does not think of you romantically.
      You worded this weirdly, please rephrase.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        It is extremely unlikely

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          another anon replying but i’m not sure about this actually. met my current gf after we became super close friends and realized she was caught in a rock and a hard place where she was falling for me but felt unhappy and stuck in her former relationship.
          i was kind of oblivious until i started developing feelings as well, one day we were hanging out and i kind of blurted it out and she drove home all quiet. thought i had fricked it all up but turns out that was the prompt she needed to break up with her bf. she talked to me about it a few days later and one month after that we were together. still are.
          after that i learned this kind of thing happens way more often than i thought. tread carefully OP, don’t frick up your friendship but i wouldn’t say “100-1 unlikely”

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      This, unfortunately. Focus on other women instead.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I would say it's more complicated than that.
      I've had a few women with BFs be attracted to me.
      Their attraction was very evident, i.e. wanting to spend time with me, blushing, bantering, flirting, light touching.
      There were no romantic interactions because they were all respectful of their relationship. However, a couple of them did admit they would have gone on a date with me if they were single.
      I believe people can have a high attraction to someone, but not act on it due to the situation they are in.

      Ok I'll put it this way;
      Everything in my being is telling me that she like me but I can also feel that she is conflicted.
      I intend to just keep being friends with her but we have been together a lot recently.
      I like her a lot, by the way. Like a lot-a lot.

      Listen, the number one thing I can tell you is that you are fricking up by being so concerned by how she feels.
      She could absolutely love you, but she is still in a relationship. That is the bottom line.
      Trying to bend her feelings or intrude on to their relationship for your own gratification will just hurt her. It will also make her less trustworthy to you in the long run.

      Let her feel attracted to you. Treat her the same way you always do.
      Do NOT try to escalate with her or take her out while she is dating someone else.
      If their relationship dissolves later and she really was into you then trust that she will remember you.
      If their relationship continues then you should be looking for love from someone who can return your feelings to you.

      TLDR; keep her on the backburner and focus on someone else.

  6. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I had a friend in high-school who had a bf, we would hang out everyday and have good times. Her and her bf broke up and she immediately texted me, that night we got together. Told me she liked me the entire time but she had a bf. Women are like this, so are men. She most likely has a crush on you, but has a bf and can't just leave him for you. But, don't ruin your friendship with her because you know she has a crush on you. Just continue being her friend if you wish, if you have a crush on her, maybe don't be friends because that might not be healthy for you. I know I hated hearing about her and her bf and knowing they were together.

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