What are the requirements for being loveable? >inb4 god loves you. God isnt really much for hugs.

What are the requirements for being loveable?

>inb4 god loves you
God isn’t really much for hugs.

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  1. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Being loveable isn't a one and done.
    It's constant moving goalposts because majority of humanity gets used to the "good" parts and only wants more

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Alright what things should I focus on then? Money?

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        What do you want out of the "love" experience?
        If it's hugs then yeah you can get that easily with enough money.
        If you're trying to fill that deeper void, sorry to say that isn't necessarily found in another human.

        You'll find that, in time, it's not being loved that feels good.
        It's loving

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah filling that deeper void I guess is one way to put it.

          So what your saying is that I should just focus on loving other people and be patient?

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            Don't take what I say to heart, test it out.
            Every time you are loved, it's like a 5 second feeling of satisfaction.

            But try to remember the times you were loving.
            It's lasting, it is the warmth one seeks.
            It's Divine, in my view.

            And if you're able to be loving 24/7, you win at life.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            Hmm, well I am in my opinion fairly cold as a person but I can try to be more loving.

            What do you think the best way to practice being more loving would be?

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            The way one phrases things inexplicably renders the narrative: by writing "I can try" rather than "I can be" may influence outcomes, depending on how much weight you give to words altering your trajectory.

            I would first try to search in your memories of moments where you were loving. And then transfer those emotions onto more items, items that you feel uncomfortable or disgusted by.
            But at first it's important to "open the gates" so to speak, by getting into the flow of loving

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            If one cannot find any memories of loving, then the next step is to find things or people you love.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            If one cannot find any memories of loving, then the next step is to find things or people you love.

            Alright so I will search my memories for the feeling of giving love then give this love to everyone I can even things I am disgusted by.

            Did I get that right?

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            That's the general idea. By finding love in all things, one will always be loving and in a deep peace.

            It's the classic dilemma of "you don't know what you got until it's gone" - you're proving this statement wrong, basically.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            I wouldn't immediately jump toward things you're disgusted by. You may be spending a good amount of time just maintaining that feeling of loving toward things you do love

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            I wouldn't immediately jump toward things you're disgusted by. You may be spending a good amount of time just maintaining that feeling of loving toward things you do love

            Sounds like sage advice, I will apply this as best I can. Thank you.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            You're welcome, if anything I'm thankful you are serving as a reminder
            I would love to see your progress if you commit to this. Maybe start a journal online somewhere. Keeping close to yourself is also smart though, your choice

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            [...]
            OP this is the best advice you'll get. Stop right here, because this anon gets it. You can't go searching for love as if it's a product on an Amazon page. And we're not saying you have to put out love in order to receive love bullshit either. You need to be content with being loving and giving to others. Even those who you think don't deserve it because in due time they'll realize the errors of their own ways. Whether it be a year from now or on their death bed. Try to find happiness in being loving and warm to others.

            Thank you both I will probably not make a journal since I prefer to keep to myself but I will practice what you told me.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            Okay, farewell and have fun

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            https://i.imgur.com/bXItzi2.jpg

            What are the requirements for being loveable?

            >inb4 god loves you
            God isn’t really much for hugs.

            OP this is the best advice you'll get. Stop right here, because this anon gets it. You can't go searching for love as if it's a product on an Amazon page. And we're not saying you have to put out love in order to receive love bullshit either. You need to be content with being loving and giving to others. Even those who you think don't deserve it because in due time they'll realize the errors of their own ways. Whether it be a year from now or on their death bed. Try to find happiness in being loving and warm to others.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            i strongly second this. have never been unhappy in life because loving has always simply been enough for me. being loved back is a plus. but nothing gives me the same joy as loving someone or something.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            i strongly second this. have never been unhappy in life because loving has always simply been enough for me. being loved back is a plus. but nothing gives me the same joy as loving someone or something.

            But I don't have a qt girlfriend to give all my love to.

  2. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    To be worthy of love you:
    -shouldn’t still be living with your parents past age 21
    -should have a full-time, stable job and career
    -should dress well and not be ugly
    -should have at least one serious relationship
    -should not be a virgin
    -should have close friends

    If you lack any of these, then you are not worthy of loving someone else and being loved back.

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