I love this so much. When dysphoria was at its height in my relationship my ex cradled my head in her lap, patting it while I curled up and cried my body and soul. We broke up because she became increasingly emotionally unavailable, the long distance was getting to be too much, but I think about that a lot. We didn't get to be physically together a lot, and it was a lot more sexy time on top of each other when we were, I just wish I could be touched like that again.
My head on his chest while he's laying in bed, arm wrapped around me.
We're watching TV and I usually fall asleep since it's the only time I really properly feel relaxed and safe, is when I'm with him.
He'll ask me if I'm falling asleep, and I'll pretty much always tell him no, I'm just relaxing and enjoying his company
Then I wake up and it's morning, I fell asleep getting cuddled and clinging to his arm or chest.
It's the best sleep I ever get tbh
I don't anymore
What happened?
I don't trust people like that anymore
I understand the feeling, anon. :c
Fuck them, whoever it was.
i do NOT like to be cuddled
i wish i knew
i need my head gently held in someones lap and have them play with my hair...
that sounds great anon i love it when people ruffle my hair
I love this so much. When dysphoria was at its height in my relationship my ex cradled my head in her lap, patting it while I curled up and cried my body and soul. We broke up because she became increasingly emotionally unavailable, the long distance was getting to be too much, but I think about that a lot. We didn't get to be physically together a lot, and it was a lot more sexy time on top of each other when we were, I just wish I could be touched like that again.
what is cuddle?
nerver had it in my life
being spooned or laying on a guys chest
honestly its either leaning against eachother, me laying on the other persons lap, or their arms wrappes around me
My head on his chest while he's laying in bed, arm wrapped around me.
We're watching TV and I usually fall asleep since it's the only time I really properly feel relaxed and safe, is when I'm with him.
He'll ask me if I'm falling asleep, and I'll pretty much always tell him no, I'm just relaxing and enjoying his company
Then I wake up and it's morning, I fell asleep getting cuddled and clinging to his arm or chest.
It's the best sleep I ever get tbh
--I don't rlly like to be touched tbhhh.
Huddled up next to them with my head in their neck, trying to stay warm out in the cold.
with your head against my chest and our arms wrapped around each other
Like this I don't have someone to cuddle with but I will pretend :>
any way literally anything dear god 30 years have already probably been taken off my lifespan do to lack of intimate physical contact
being lonely is as bad for you as smoking 16 cigarettes a day.
this is actually scientifically true
it is, it can shorten your lifespan by up to 15 years.
does it actually decrease lifespan or is it just suicides bringing the avg down? like if I'm not gonna kms will I still live less?
i..im gonna have a very short life jfc
no clue, but regardless it'll be decreasing my lifespann
I haven't cuddled anyone.. ;_;
Back to back. I have too much pain to do other ways for very long.
cold day, in bed, my head resting on your chest and you play with my hair. your heart beating softly...
Also comfyyyy
I really want more cuddles. One of the finer pleasures in life.
be my autism steamroller baby
Sincerely
Somebody please hold me
im gonna cuddle rank 1