This guy said he'll help me get a girlfriend and get laid. Should I be taking his advice?

This guy said he'll help me get a girlfriend and get laid.

Should I be taking his advice?

  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >reddit
    Go back

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      He introduced me to /r4r to meet girls. I have met girls through it, but they're all crazy.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >/r4r
        Whats that?

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Reddit Personals page, where people put up descriptions of themselves and what they're looking for, and fish for compliments.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I see listen to what he has to say but make your own mind up about it.

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don't care what you do but "isn't that not respecting her feelings" is some faggy shit and why you're single.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Damn, that's crazy, so I should just be inconsiderate instead?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        nah you shouldn't that will not lead to anywhere. you should just keep trying / improving your personality until you do very much feel like actually fucking that woman and then it will all come naturally. you're just too young and immature (regardless your age), but that's why you're on this planet. don't haste things off because it'll only hurt you in the long run. do not 'ignore' what she says and do '''respect her feelings''' but you can't just expect her to say ok come fuck me, you need to get it out of her or she'll make you wait forever. and women often say the complete opposite of what they actually want (men too..). so don't ignore what she says but do try to figure what it actually means. and oh yes if you were an alpha you'd be hitting on them sexually and they'd love it regardless of what they say to you now and they're probably sending nudes and sucking cocks while looking for emotional support from you but that's fine still don't hurry things off you're at this level of your development as a man. if it feels good to talk to her about the things you talk then do that.

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You’re both shit. Though he probably dumpster dives more than you’re willing so either lower your standards on the women you date or bend your principles on how to treat women.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How should I be treating women if you think my current principles on that are "shit"?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >how
        You’ve added women from personals with the intent to hit on them, and are doing the exact opposite of that to manipulate them into thinking you don’t intend to hit on the so you can spring it on them?

        >sounds like a lack of integrity to them and you.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You think that's why I added them?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If you want to meet girls for a reason other than to hit on them, places like that aren't correct

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              What are the correct places?

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >for a reason other than
              doesn't exist.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Cope

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    He is right, women who says not wanting sex are the needier ones, each and every time.
    In womenspeak "not want sex" its "need hard a gentleman chad".
    Youll get laid sooner than you expect.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Should I take the advice of a guy I met online?

    The answer is always "no" doesn't matter the advice or the guy

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >he said while posting on LULZ.org/adv

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Did I stutter?

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If someone giving you girl advice says 'women are bitches' - no. Don't take their advice. And stop listening to them in general.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Simp

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Women ARE bitches though. It's all about finding a bitch you can put up with.

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    well, he is right about the "don't flirt with me"

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Go to church. Stop getting groomed on discord

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You think getting groomed in a church is better?

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    He's trying to destroy you. If you get accused of rape or if you have a bastard child, do you think he'll help you? Give you money? Nope. He wants you to end up a lowlife.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You think OP will get accused of rape for... flirting over the internet?

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    OP, he's full of shit. And anyone ITT validating what he's saying is also misleading you. I don't know how old you or this guy is. I am 30 years old and soon to be married to a woman who treats me in ways I could never have imagined. Wonderful woman.

    Thing is, I used to fucking hate women. I considered them to operate predictably, much like your friend there. There was me, and then there was women. I was a special case who did not operate on emotion (I told myself), and all women were naive and narcissistically vapid and shallow. If they weren't sucking 10 cocks on purpose as whores, they were dimwitted and lacked self-awareness and got convinced to suck 10 cocks anyway.

    I convinced myself I had to outwit them, to exude confidence and indifference, to be above them in every facet: mentally, physically, emotionally. Then I could have my pick of any woman I wanted, right? After all I was decent looking and was well hung.

    Yeah, all of that is bullshit. All of that is the total opposite of true confidence. All of that is insecurity and bitterness masquerading as masculinity and boxing in 3,500,000 souls into a predictable archetype so as to excuse oneself of insecurity on top of excusing failures.

    This guy is that failure. Most men who talk that game of mindgames and changing who and what you are to score pussy are lying to you. They lie to you because they are in the throes of lying to themselves. If he were truly confident and dominant and totally not passive, he'd be telling you how to improve yourself for yourself. How to live with yourself and enjoy your own capabilities for YOURSELF.

    Women and getting your dick wet wouldn't be part of the equation. But for him, it is the equation. Wanna know why? Because he defines success and self-worthy using pussy as a metric. He does this because he is insecure. He does this because he is a failure.

    And failure loves company.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      All this wall of text and you didn't even give OP an advice on what he should do, because you were too busy whining and bitching about the guy in the OP lmao. Imagine being so passionately angry about some discord dude. Clearly you took it personally.
      Are you a woman?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I got no interest in telling him what he should do. He's the master of himself. What I am warning him of is people who tell him that he is incomplete unless he becomes something that he is not.

        >IMPROVIN'
        >LOOK AT ME, I'M IMPROVIN'
        >OOOOOO IMPROVIN'

        I fucking hate you

        You're exactly the type of cretin I'm describing. You're so used to letting other people define your worth for you that you're constrained to parroting fucking wojak in place of original thought. Grow up.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >IMPROVIN'
      >LOOK AT ME, I'M IMPROVIN'
      >OOOOOO IMPROVIN'

      I fucking hate you

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      cont.

      And don't think for a second there's a chance he holds any wisdom or misunderstood genius. Do not be swayed by his words. His self-worth is on the line for this guy, and it is entirely connected to his pathetic philosophy. He will always assert it as correct with no possibility of error because if he did, he would be at a loss as to why he is a loser.

      Think long and hard. And for once not with your cock this time, with your mind and gut. Why would you want to spend energy trying to be what's not within you? Why wear masks? Why play mindgames? Why use other people as a standard to measure your worth? Why be so low as to let not just others be the measurement, but vaginas of all things?

      Do you really think your life will be enriched by getting laid? That all of your life's ailments lifted and a wellspring of confidence and motivation erupted shooting you into some shortcut to permanent happiness or success? Because it doesn't. You will get hot and passionate with a broad for 15 - 20 minutes and you'll still feel empty only now you'll have more questions than answers.

      Do you REALLY want to put all of that exhaustive energy pretending and manipulating? You think it will earn you love and respect? It won't. You will feel more lonely than you do right now. And you won't know why. And it will eat at you until you break down.

      If you have to do any of that shit in order to be desired, or loved, or wanted, or respected then it's not worth it. You will be giving more than you get. And if you are happy that you at least got to bust a nut, then I don't know what to tell you other than you better hope this guy gives a fuck about you and has your back as a life long friend. (Spoiler: he won't).

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        > Do you really think your life will be enriched by getting laid? That all of your life's ailments lifted and a wellspring of confidence and motivation erupted shooting you into some shortcut to permanent happiness or success? Because it doesn't. You will get hot and passionate with a broad for 15 - 20 minutes and you'll still feel empty only now you'll have more questions than answers.

        I'm answering this specifically because it's literally identical to what people do when they suddenly come into money, and they start waxing philosophical about how it's all meaningless nihillism and blah blah blah. It's a privileged lens, the kind you ONLY get from massive abundance in something, to the point where it loses meaning to you. No fucking shit it doesn't matter to you any more, you can barely remember what it was like going without, and can't even put yourself into the shoes of someone who's been starved of intimacy.
        Yes, his life will unquestionably be enriched by getting laid. Because he probably hasn't been laid in YEARS, or ever, in some sad cases. Because while you got your share of fucks, Maybe this guy has a single digit lay count (not partner count- but can count on one times how many times he had sex EVER).
        It'd be different if you gave some actionable advice but the rest of this is just verbal masturbation and talking down to the poors, like geeze dude.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >iterally identical to what people do when they suddenly come into money, and they start waxing philosophical about how it's all meaningless nihillism and blah blah blah. It's a privileged lens,

          Ha, I'm actually broke as fuck dude. But I'm happy.

          >no fucking shit it doesnt matter to you any more
          >you cant even remember what it was like going without

          See what's happening there? Your stance requires me to be an archetype in your head, a lucky rich guy who lucked out and gets laid who doesn't know what it was like to be a loser. Read my first post. I know all too well of the poisonous bile I used to drink to soothe myself.

          No, I am not a rich player, I am not a dating guru, I am not anything particularly special. I am simply content and decided to squarely face the voice who was screeching that I was inadequate. My own mind. I got help, dude. I started to learn how to love myself before trying to get others to do it for me.

          Look at you dude. By the end of your post you're literally quantifying self contentment using digits. Fucking DIGITS of body count. As if the higher it is, the more happy with life you will be.

          You know fuck all. And I have the right to say it. I can say it because you are stuck to one side of the aisle. I have lived on both sides. And I am telling you and OP that you're half-blind, and it is you who gouges your own eye out.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Bro you don't know anything about me at all. You want to play archetypes, Look how you went straight to assuming my thought of you was some "lucky rich guy". None of that is relevant. What I AM saying is that you don't remember what it was like not getting laid, and got laid before it could negatively impact your psyche long term.
            All the self love in the universe won't make others love you, despite whatever world view you have in your head telling you that it's true. Human biases are a heck of a thing.
            > I have lived on both sides
            D to Doubt

            > quantifying self contentment using digits.
            Now that's a stretch. Why don't you give all your money away? I's just digits, after all. I'm sure your wife will be fine with that. Of course, we both know it's just a way of determining *value*; and I don't need to explain both money AND sexual desirability are just two different forms of value, surely.

            I don't know what sort of woman you'd be around with. Probably because you have been around a lot of women on the internet that make up like 2% of them, but that isn't every one of them.

            Those are gold diggers and they're looking for a sugar daddy.

            Not every girl likes being around them either.

            I think you should try dating a shy bookworm Gretchen who is a biochemistry student.

            There's only so many of these girls around and sadly, past my late 20s they just kind of disappeared. I dated a girl like this until 2018; we talked about getting married, I thought life was great, only to get ghosted. And when I finally recovered from it all, covid happened. Literally haven't had sex or been on a date in 5 years, have zero prospects, and tinder/online is a hellhole.
            Friends say I have a lot to offer a partner- I make them laugh; hell I work a remote job and can even travel pretty often; but there are just zero options in my life. Everyone is married or in an LTR and I just don't catch anyone's eye, it's rough.

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Dating women is a lot like catching a bird, you got to let it fly to you instead of chasing it or it'll fly off in fear and you allow that bird to fly wherever it wants out of free will.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Correct. And birds love branches. Stable branches. Branches that aren't brittle. Branches that aren't filled with self-doubt, self-loathing. Branches that don't let the winds of expectation or shame or the droplets from incels that piss in the wind to sway it this way and that way.

                No one likes insecurity. It's the ugliest trait on the planet.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Blackpilling me on incel shit.

                Bro, are you high?

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You got it opposite

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Bro, my friend who is overweight and has no job and no driver's license gets bitches everyday. I get the importance of lifting, but that doesn't mean that specifically that girls will like you because of your body and because of how much money you have. Another thing too is that having niche interests aren't all that bad. They make you you, a unique person. I get that I have read a shit ton of books and watched a lot of youtube stuff, but it reels me all the way back to when I was 14 years old over 13 years ago when I tried to ask a junior out in high school as a freshman how I could have instead of feeling inadequate, just accept myself as I am, being myself still. I'm 27 by the way.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                No, seriously. You got me wrong. I am agreeing with you. From your first post about birds to the idea that body/money flexing gets you women. I am on the same page. My post was a jab at incel mindset, not the other way around.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You know if I was a warning sign that told you not to touch an electric fence, you would get electrocuted.

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >D to Doubt

              You doubting that because you don't think it to be true? Or you don't want it to be true? Because if it is true, then it calls into question the thing you don't want to be questioned. Yourself.

              You and I have a lot more than common than you're willing to admit. If we had talked outside of this shitty medium about getting your entire world pulled out from under you from a black-hearted woman we trusted, we could speak a lot of life into each other's pain.

              I know what it means to invest hope in someone only to become emotionally homeless over night when the walls either closed in or spontaneously collapsed on me. Without pretense or pride, let me tell you:
              Trust me, brother. I know. You got your fucking heart torn out. And I won't mock or jeer at that. I'm sorry you went through that.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >become emotionally homeless over night
                Fuck man that's perfectly worded :
                Lol I'd share a drink with ya FWIW, you seem like a smart dude even if we don't see eye to eye. But I like those kinds of conversations, tend to grow from them. No hatred here, I'm glad you have a wife and such; forgive me for my anon bants from earlier and somewhat cruel barbs lol; I've got other things to do tonight but good luck out there bro.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Nothing to forgive mate. Your anon bants are your way of speaking your experience, as mine are to my own. I'd share a drink but I ditched the stuff, I'm an ex-alcohol lol

                You take it easy as well. I'll most likely re-read your replies and other replies. I'm an impulsive son of a bitch with ADHD who fires first, absorbs feedback later. I will take on board what you've said more thoroughly.

                I am only passionate because these 'losers' and love-starved anons who are embittered I verbally shadowboxed with in my rants? I look at them and I see who and what I was only a few years ago.

                And it is a very cold and very painful way to live. And I know that close to all of them have been thoroughly cut down to pieces by something or someone. Whether it's a narc parent who made them feel bad for feeling bad, or a pretty face concealing a psychological bed of knives who promised safety, only to finish the job with their soul and leave them for emotionally dead.

                I want nothing more than for anons who I painfully related to to share in the joys I have discovered. Because no one in life bothered to tell me that they were not on the outside, they were always there inside. Call it cliche, but as God as my witness it's the truth.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You're worse than them.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I am? Maybe in some areas, maybe not in others. But at least I am free when calling my strengths and flaws. At least I don't lie to myself and cover my tracks by assigning the blame for my shortcomings on women & sex (or lack of sex).
                At least I identified that the problem was not women, or even my warped perception of them (that's but a symptom of the disease). At least I identified where the poison came from that had fogged my sight and soured my tongue. From me. Better to be an honest prick than a self-deceiving prick.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Just improve yourself
                lmao

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >The concept of improving myself feels so unfamiliar and foreign to me I think it's mythical and comical and I am unable to know that the reason for that isn't because it's unreal, but because I am too much of a coward to claim it because I won't dare to understand or accept myself much less improve myself

                lmao

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Just improve yourself
                lmao

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Hahaha, you posted it. The incel's scripture. Thank God, now we went full circle. Keep that .png saved and read it over to yourself if it helps.

                Keep missing the key fact that the football player there woke up at the break of dawn every morning to go to the gym. To devise a strategy to eat right and train right. He wasn't born into a football team, he tried out.
                He didn't luck out by simply existing; he forged it out by choosing what he wanted to be and made his goals and then scored some goals.

                He dared to try, and invisible to your sad mind locked inside that skull of yours that's carrying that jaded indifferent face of yours dimly lit by the blue light of your device as you read this--he failed many times before no doubt. And he dared to try again. And again.
                He got that shot at life because he took the shots. Here's an image for you.

                You are a loser. Not because you don't get laid. You lose because you place yourself as a loser.
                You are a failure. Not because you aren't rich or make six figures or drive a nice car. You are a failure because you routinely betray yourself every single day. You didn't fail the pretty women. You failed yourself. You can stop this at any time. But unless you want to, you'll keep going.

                Recognize your misery for what it is. Your safety blanket of familiarity. And recognize your disdain for the successful. It's your fear of change and learned helplessness.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Just improve yourself
                lmao, don't you have more jock cock to suck somewhere?

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Honest question here: Do you think anyone can become a star football player just by "trying"?

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Yes. You need only three things:

                - Make your goals. (Your goals. Not what you feel should be your goals. But entirely yours with no affront of expectation from a single fucking soul but yourself)

                - Your deliberate steps. Not a single step can be put forward unless it's from your deliberate intention.

                - Allow yourself to fail. Wholly permit it and find the paradoxical balls to go as far as to celebrate your failings. It doesn't matter if you fall, so long as you have moved even a single centimeter closer, it is worthy of celebration.

                Make obtaining what you want your obsession, not losing/being unable to get what you want your obsession. You want to be a football player? Go for it. Not a single force should prevent you. It may delay you, but you get the final say. Just be sure that is what you truly intend to be. Otherwise, you won't. And if you don't know what it is you want, then that's your first battle to figure out.

                That is what success is. It's not the fucking women or the prestige or the money or the cars or the clout. Those are possible symptoms of success. What success is, is finding what you want without caring how it weighs up to what others are doing, and carrying out your steps towards it without bending a single knee.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You didn't answer my question.

                I'm asking you if the scrawny, 4'11" fuck who wasn't fed right as a kid and never was taughted to play sports by his dad and never allowed to play sports with his peers because they always made fun of him, could, just because he "trys" become a football star.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Yes. That scrawny 4'11" fuck who wasn't right as a kid and never was taught to play sports by his dad and was never allowed to play sports with his peers because they always made fun of him CAN become a football star.

                If he would only learn to understand what the word 'try' means. Not the dictionary definition of it, but the unspeakable lived experience of it.

                If you tell me you tried before, I will believe you on the spot. I know for a fact there have been many things you tried to do for yourself and you came against painful and humiliating roadblocks. It wasn't the trying that crippled you. It was believing others, and believing yourself, that you ought to stop trying that did it.

                That scrawny kid will remain scrawny so long as he believes that is all he will ever amount to. He will have no motivation to try because there exists no motivation. Either it was taken from him, or he forgot how to recognize it.

                Then either through hitting rock bottom or from being too exhausted to feel exhausted anymore, he goes so far fucking within and starts connecting the dots. He starts to realize who told him he would remain worthless and scrawny. And he chooses to stop fantasizing about killing himself, and instead, kill the inner voices and bondages that told him to kill himself to begin with. He identifies where and how he got stuck.

                And that scrawny kid eats. He trains. He grows. He raises the parts of himself his father neglected to, and he plays sports, even if it's solo practice, he does it non-stop and through building himself, it begins to show in his character. He meets friends on the same path. And then, he tries with a renewed conviction to never stop trying again. And he becomes that footballer. Whether it takes him 1 year, 5 years, or 10. He devotes the same obsession he had invested in self hatred into self-belief.

                If your post was alluding to you somewhat, then congratulations. You have identified. Now what are you going to do about it?

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Lmao, look up how many 4'11" footballers there are, anon.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Marcin Garuch
                Elton Jose Xavier Gomes
                Daniel Villalva
                Maximiliano Moralez
                Lorenzo Insigne
                Marco Verratti
                Mathieu Valbuena
                Joe Allen
                Alexis Sanchez
                Xherdan Shaqiri

                All manlets, all footballers. And look at that, scrawny little fucks as they were, here I am saying their names from halfway across the globe.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You fucking bad faith dumb fuck, you know what football we're talking about, the only one in the fucking image in the thread

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Yes! I'm glad you brought it up. I can get you a list just like that one for American football too. Question is, will you allow it to change your jaded heart that you've been baptizing in sheer poison these past few years?

                Or will you change the goalpost? Maybe point out how some of the players there are 5ft 1 inch and not 4ft 11 and resign from the discussion happy that you're so eager to sabotage yourself that you'll let 2 inches stand between you and success?

                Answer me that and I'll oblige. Otherwise I'll take my chance to go to sleep, throwing pearls before swine can really be exhausting

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Or will you change the goalpost?
                You're the one changing the goalposts. I gave you the number, now either deal with it or fuck off

                >Maybe point out how some of the players there are 5ft 1 inch and not 4ft 11 and resign from the discussion happy that you're so eager to sabotage yourself that you'll let 2 inches stand between you and success?
                There's a reason there are no 4'11" footballers and no amount of "Just improve yourself!" will change that

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Marcin Garuch
                5′ 0″
                >Elton Jose Xavier Gomes
                5′ 1″
                >Daniel Villalva
                5′ 1″
                >Maximiliano Moralez
                5′ 3″
                >Lorenzo Insigne
                5′ 4″
                >Marco Verratti
                5′ 5″
                >Mathieu Valbuena
                5′ 6″
                >Joe Allen
                5′ 6″
                >Alexis Sanchez
                5′ 6″
                >Xherdan Shaqiri
                5′ 7″

                None of these guys are 4'11"

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Maybe point out how some of the players there are 5ft 1 inch and not 4ft 11 and resign from the discussion happy that you're so eager to sabotage yourself that you'll let 2 inches stand between you and success?

                LMAO. Literally hit 'post' and saw the precise defeatist script unfold. Called it. Goodnight /adv/

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Oh, you can do it, look at these guys who are literally in a better position than you from the start (AND A POSITION YOU WILL NEVER PHYSICALLY REACH), they did it!

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I'm curious to hear how you think someone should go about something that is impossible? If anything, you should be giving footballer anon advice to find a new dream and just accept that the best he'll ever do is maybe play in some pick up games in his neighborhood.

                Sometimes dreams are impossible, no matter how much you might try or wish for them to not be.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Do you think anyone can become a star football player just by "trying"?
                Yes.

                Not trying by putting in the work.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Nice sex shaming a guy who's having trouble getting a basic and vital part of human life- Do you hate on people starving to death too and tell them they weren't worthy? And pass me with the "you don't need sex" beta cope argument- No intimacy, no moving onto better things in life. It's not just cruel, it's inhuman.
      You didn't give a single iota of actionable advice. Just "be yourself and the woman will come lol" in more words- Bro it don't work that way. It never worked that way. The women have ALWAYS been the arbiters of sexual selection, and OP's problem is he never got chosen. When you're dead last despite there being nothing wrong with you, and sometimes fit, wealthy, and attractive- Yeah no shit you're going to wonder what the fuck is going on, and why women keep passing you over. And if you want a real blackpill- chads have confidence because they got positive experiences at important times of their lives, instead of completely ignored, fucked over, or beaten down in some way like SO MANY have, because life isn't fair and sometimes it really is just luck.
      So how many men has your "perfect woman" fucked? Were you really her first choice, or were you just the one she decided to settle with? Are you sure she wouldn't lie to you, if she knew she could get away with it?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Ha, ironic that you're so hellbent on protecting your frail learned helplessness outlook on life that you'd start sounding like the same harpies you seethe about. An anon using the sex-shaming card. First time for everything I suppose.

        Take a good look at your own post. How all of the ugly neuroticism formed a paragraph of denial. Whittling it down to luck, reducing it down to other people (women) and life imposing his deck of cards to him. When you believe this, you give up your power to others. That is exactly what you have done. That is what I mean in my previous posts.

        You are a defeated man. And it wasn't even women who defeated you. You defeated yourself and don't have the balls to recognize the author of your own misery (you).

        You WANT happiness to be defined by sex. You WANT your self-worth to be set by the opinion of women. You NEED the hole in your heart to be pussy shaped. Even if you claim to be angered by them, you depend on them. You depend on them and your perceived misfortune with them because at least it means you don't have to confront the most broken mother fucker of them all: you.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          That is a lot of words but why don't you stop the verbose masturbation and refute my arguments. I'm not here to play semantic games with reframes like "pussy shaped hole in my heart" - That's just disgusting dude, like what the fuck are you even trying to get at.
          Women select men. A lot of men don't get selected. Today, even chads don't get selected, because the process is broken. There IS a luck factor involved, and it applies generally to your whole life. You don't have half the free will you think you do, and even your own thoughts are probably just regurgitation of what others have told you in the past- Are they even your own?
          Male happiness generally IS defined by sex, since once your biological urges are met, you can focus on greater things (see maslows chart I posted a few up the tree). All the stoic copium in the world won't change that biological fact, that if your animal needs aren't met you'll only be half the man you could be.

          Since it's so simple to you, you'll have no problem explaining to the class what you're actually offering OP?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >you'll have no problem explaining to the class what you're actually offering OP?

            Not my place. Because when this thread is archived, OP, myself, you and everyone here will go about their private lives. It won't matter.

            OP made a thread to ask if he should take that loser's advice. And I explained why the loser remains a loser. What OP takes from my posts or anyone else's post is his choice. That's up to him. I won't pretend that I have a damn thing to offer him to magically win a neurotic game of chase-the-pussy.

            Don't talk to me about luck either. You think it uncontrollable chance. I know it to be when preparation meets opportunity. You have not prepared or set your mind on a damn thing, because you're at war with your mind. And you have not got the spine to see about opportunity; you sabotage and declare it lost without ever trying.

            If OP is wise, he won't pivot his fate on what I or you could offer him. He will instead investigate what it is that he could offer himself.

            I'm simply here to remind him of this. And you are the crab trying to pull him into the bucket and disavow anyone who made it out as coping 'improovers' drunk on stoic copium.

            I hope you get well soon

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              > I won't pretend that I have a damn thing to offer him to magically win a neurotic game of chase-the-pussy.
              Finally something we both agree on.
              A lot of what you typed seemed to be stroking your own ego, So yes, a few verbal punches. But no hatred here bro, Ironically I wish you well as well. But saying "not my place" and offering nothing just leaves the glass empty. I'd like to see anons giving people results, not just words, you know?

              I'd actually suggest OP look at killyourinnerloser.com's get laid on tinder guide and work from there.

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    A girl like that doesn't like you for who you are.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Women don't like men for who they are, they like them for what they can provide,

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I don't know what sort of woman you'd be around with. Probably because you have been around a lot of women on the internet that make up like 2% of them, but that isn't every one of them.

        Those are gold diggers and they're looking for a sugar daddy.

        Not every girl likes being around them either.

        I think you should try dating a shy bookworm Gretchen who is a biochemistry student.

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This man has never felt the touch of a woman in his entire life

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous
  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Should I be taking his advice?
    You can try, see if it works and then assess if his advice was worth shit. Maybe these girls need some time to become comfortable around anyone before they consider escalating it romantically or sexually. That's not them being bitches and playing mind games though, some people just have emotional baggage that makes them behave like that. Dude sounds a bit jaded and bitter.

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