Thinking about cheating on my BF


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I started dating a guy in October, and by the end of Dec, we moved in together. Before this, I was married to an abusive guy and I have come to realize that my current BF is sort of my rebound after a bad relationship. Enter in his friend. My BF only has one friend, and I am getting tons of texts from him. The texts are getting more lewd, asking me questions about sexual things and body parts. I can't get mad because I know he is a jokster. He told me to come out with him, just as friends, but the alarm is going off in my head that he wants me to cheat with him.

I know this is so wrong but I cannot help it. I feel horrible for my BF because he's a great guy. I can't help how I feel.

  1. 3 days ago
    Anonymous
  2. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    Not sure if you want to fuck your bf's weird friend or not. If yes broke up with him first

  3. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    >The texts are getting more lewd, asking me questions about sexual things and body parts.
    post screens, we need to see the context to know what he's implying

  4. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    polyamory exists

    • 3 days ago
      Anonymous

      The only reason to "open up a relationship" is because you're already fucking someone on the side. It is incredibly unlikely that the relationship will be equal going forward

    • 3 days ago
      Anonymous

      And is a complete farce.

  5. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    Kill yourself for being a whore. Hope it's a LARP.

  6. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    Dunno if bait. Cheat on him and let him learn a valuable lesson about dating whores. Alternatively have some integrity and break up with him. Either way don't delude yourself.

  7. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    >I can't help how I feel.
    Take accountability. Commit or stop talking to both. Then move on. Don’t you dare let this slide. Think about his feelings.

  8. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    Break up with your BF first, you are already emotionally cheating on him. Second, the other guy probably just want to pump and dump you, don't even think long term with that kind of guy. I hope this post is LARP.

  9. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    >was married to an abusive guy

    Sounds like he was just treating you how you deserved.

  10. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    If you want to fuck the guy then fuck him, but have the basic decency to break up with your boyfriend first.

  11. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    just accept that he is a great guy and you are not a great girl, ezpz, break up first though to be respectful imo

  12. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    >I can't help how I feel.
    I would dump any woman on the spot who says this to me.
    Control of your emotions is the reason why you're conscious and sentient.
    If you refuse to do this, you're failing in your basic task as an intelligent being: That is to be a competent version of yourself.
    I offer you no advice; you are a cockroach. Not a human.

  13. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    OP is such a stupid cunt.
    You literally know its wrong.
    "I cant help it". You can if you do a decision.
    A firm no makes you more free than having multiple options.
    I think you BF doesnt deserve. Your BF also doesnt deserve friends that chat with the gf of his friend and even in a lewd part.
    As a good gf you should have straight up told him.
    Either commit to the relationship or break it up and do what you want you piece of shit.

  14. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    you are a miserable pathetic excuse for a woman. make sure you post again when this all inevitably blows up in your face so I can laugh at you.

  15. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    Break up with your BF asap. You know he's just a rebound and you want to cheat with his friend. Although you're still fucked up if you do hook up with his friend after the break up but at least you aren't a cheater.

  16. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    >I can't help how I feel.
    k, but how do you feel? You never said

    You might as well just do it, OP. In the end, you'll be doing your bf a favor by ridding him of a bad friend, and a bad girlfriend. Even if you decide not to go through with it, you should tell your bf about his snake of a "friend." Just make sure the texts leave no doubt about what he wanted, not just some vague as "well maybe he's just a jokester" bullshit

  17. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    Definitely bait.

  18. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    Tell the friend to back off. Stop thinking that your boyfriend is your rebound because that means he's temporary to you.

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