53 thoughts on “Subtle femininity

  1. Anonymous says:

    Threads that have a screenshot from a social media website as an OP image should get you an instant 3 day ban.

  2. Anonymous says:

    wondering this as well. I don’t like the look of total gays since I’m not camp at all but since I’m bi I always feel like I’d like to be more tastefully feminine. Other than being drawn to skinny jeans and pink shirts I’m not sure what else to do (though I try and style my hair, have some nice glasses and want to get my ears pierced at some point, & sometimes put on nail polish). Looking it up before and I’ve found really ugly dudes that aren’t feminine at all and just throw on women’s clothes, or come to the consensus that pulling off androgynous looks is hard and you’ve got to be very detailed with proportions, and that isn’t super helpful to get started.

    • Anonymous says:

      Nail polish is an instant red flag gay alert. If you want to be subtle, nail polish is the polar opposite of where you’re trying to be. Try bracelets or something instead. Don’t go over the top and wear women’s hebrewelry, or something brah tier like hecking pookah shells, but some colored string or a single charm can be subtle. Getting both ears pierced can also be a good way of signaling.

  3. Anonymous says:

    not exactly what you’re looking for but i’m "trans" and like pretty androgynous clothes.
    a tucked or fitted t-shirt with baggy pants with a high waist (i like joggers for this) gives you the appearance of bigger hips without actually wearing anything particularly feminine.

    cropped t-shirts and skinny jeans are very girly looking also while still being just a t-shirt and jeans.

        • Anonymous says:

          Don’t roleplay as me. I put "trans" in quotations for a reason.
          I take mones, present feminine. People consider me trans but I don’t give a heck about any of that. Identity, orientation, who cares.
          I dress how I like and heck who I like.

          The question was about dressing more feminine without leaving the androgyny part of the venn diagram.

          • Anonymous says:

            Also, on that note, get some cute short shorts to show off your skinny thighs. Like the shortest inseam men’s chino shorts you can find. Women’s shorts would again be too obviously feminine.

            Something wide legged and not too tight so you give an illusion of hips and butt, instead of just showing a huge cock bulge.

          • Anonymous says:

            Good for you, anon. I hope life treats you well.

            The concept of transgender is based on the cultural fallacy of gender roles. None of it hecking matters.

      • Anonymous says:

        have a nice day already. YWNBAW

        You identify but you aren’t, so in other words you’re just a gay

        all these people promoting rigid gender norms like they arent on a thread about dabbling in crossdressing. hilarious isnt it, IT’S OKAY YOU DONT HAVE TO BE SO INSECURE hahah WE LOVE YOU JUST BE A LITTLE KINDER

    • Anonymous says:

      change yr silhouette without wearing ‘female’ clothes

      is right, high waisted / wider pants make ur hips bigger / legs longer, and a cropped shirt makes ur bust bigger / torso smaller. tbh smth helpful 2do is look at how cartoons/art signify femininity, idont recall exactly where but i saw a post saying that when kids cartoons were asked to tone down sexuality the pixar mom shape was born– teeny tiny upper body, massive legs + ass. another thing u can do is wear really loose/revealing shirts with a tank top underneath (cropped tank better) to give the association of a bra / covering ur chest is associated w femininity. if u wanna go a little further u can wear maxi skirts (long ones), these arent very revealing and can pass as loose pants on first glance, but will make ur silhouette more fem.

      Also, on that note, get some cute short shorts to show off your skinny thighs. Like the shortest inseam men’s chino shorts you can find. Women’s shorts would again be too obviously feminine.

      Something wide legged and not too tight so you give an illusion of hips and butt, instead of just showing a huge cock bulge.

      also this tru, womens short shorts will not do anything to hide yr junk but mens shorts get almost as short and usually arent too risque. anything thats too tight / overtly sexual isnt that helpful for looking fem as it will just draw attention to the absence or lack of whatever is being sexualized (hips/ass, boobs, small shoulders etc) this is a problem ppl seem to run into when dressing fem, they get things that are designed to be sexual and then just draw attention to the dichotomy between themselves and a cis woman.
      the gist of it is noticing indicators of femininity that dont necessarily rely or depend on sexual dimorphism, and incorporate them in2 yr outfits. changing ur silhouette is more reliable than using specific articles of clothing to signify feminity

  4. Anonymous says:

    wear more "girly" colors and get better fitting clothes, grow your hair and kinda do the bare minimum that all girls do. Invest in a electric razor. Just please don’t transition that would be stupid ,more than u already are. also maybe get your eyebrows done

  5. Anonymous says:

    I bet those loose sleeveless shirts gymbros wear to show off their arms and chest would look really cute and slutty draped over a smooth skinny boybody.
    Size up so it looks like you "borrowed" it one morning

  6. Anonymous says:

    >How do you look very subtly more effeminate
    We used to call it grooming.
    Polishing is what I call it now.
    You just stare at yourself in the mirror looking for imperfections and then you find ways to eliminate them whether permanently or with makeup or other artifice.

  7. theonefag dontseeitself says:

    >How do you look very subtly more effeminate.
    be pretty like me.

    Moose (mousse)your hair
    A hint of eye mascara and lipstick
    all or one of these
    also put well chewed gum between your buttons and this will give you a bit of girly swish

  8. Anonymous says:

    Androgyny gets uncanny valley real quick, depending on the homophobia of your audience.
    Dial-it-in if they’re in a roof-tossing mood.

  9. Anonymous says:

    high waisted jeans
    slightly cropped tops that sit on your hips
    necklace
    paint your nails
    oversized top with short shorts

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