I started to go to a therapist for marital problems and depression and anxiety. The therapist was attractive and easy to open up to. My first session I opened up completely and told her I would fantasize about sleeping with other women and had cheated in the past. She gave me her number and said to text or call if I needed anything. Not long after she would frequently check in and see if I wanted to meet up outside of work to discuss what I was feeling. We met maybe 2-4 times and then she started to suggest she was attracted to me. I thought she was just saying this to build my confidence. When she said that she would like to try "exposure therapy" in the form of physical contact and suggestive talk with her so I could use it in my marriage I thought okay she might be into me. I shot my shot like a piece of shit and booked a hotel and invited her to meet me. She came and I kissed her and fooled around in the bed some before she left. The next year and 6 months we had sex and formed a type of relationship. We had sex in her office, at my home, in public (in a car), and basically anywhere we could. Our families got close going on family vacations spending the night at each other's home and having dinner. It got to a point to where she increasingly got me to lie to get me closer to her at one point suggesting we move into her home while we built a new home. She busted her husband going to an AMP and instead of getting mad suggested he could see other women if he wanted but she wanted to see me as she wanted it to be close to the person. We had one date and I went down on her while she was worried what her husband was up to with the woman downstairs. She rushed downstairs after I'd left and couldn't handle the though of her husband with another woman. After a week she broke down and confessed our affair to her husband and blew everything up.
Now I'm fucked up my wife is fucked up and we have no closure. Her husband won't let her speak with anyone I just want to ask her what happened and want her to apologize to my wife. I spoke with an attorney who said we have a good case and I have nude pictures of her. What does /adv/ think? I can't pull the trigger cause I legit love her.
This seems like an insane larp but so detalied too. Do u have any proof this is real lmao
All I have are her nudes but I can't post them or I would wind up getting sued/jailed for revenge porn. It's not a larp though I wish it fucking was.
sue? because YOU cheated? you're a moron
Please if a man in a position of power did this to a woman who was married he would get sued and publicly humiliated
>muh sue
>muh apologize
what kind of grown man makes excuses for his own mistakes? you fucked up. you couldn't control yourself. quit acting like a spoiled child, trying to deflect the blame. are you a man or not?
Clearly you are a woman.
>I shot my shot like a piece of shit and booked a hotel and invited her to meet me.
>knows he fucked up
>still pretends he was powerless
???
I mean… yeah. You sought help for a sex addiction only for your therapist to continually make sexual advances toward you and encourage you to do the OPPOSITE of what she was supposed to. She’s clearly psychotic, you don’t love her you got used by her.
>instead of getting mad suggested he could see other women if he wantes but she wanted to see me
>After a week she broke down and confessed our affair to our husband
...Am i insane or does that not add up at all. What??? She tells him prostitutes are cool as long as she can see you then """confesses""" shes been fucking you. And now he has issue with you talking to his wife he agreed could be a free agent...? The fuck??? Make some sense of that for me.
But anyway she doesnt love you or she would be in contact with you so go ahead and do it. Dont confuse love with obsession.
Asian Massage Parlor. They fuck people who come in for massages.
He was okay with the thought of her just starting to be intimate with me. She couldnt handle actually seeing him with another woman and she broke on her own or he did something to break her (after a huge argument he threatened to sleep with whoever he wanted if she was going to get mad about a prearranged woman who is also her friend). Her friend and him share an emotional connection and her selfishness wouldn't allow her to accept it.
Shameless self bump
What's the point of sueing? Did she do something bad? Yes. But should anyone care? You've cheated. She's cheated. Her husband cheated. I have no idea.
She was my therapist and caused the issue she was supposed to fix and has broke me. If I can't talk to her and will report her to the licensing bureau I figured might as well sue.
Do you gain anything by fucking her life up? Do you think she's a morally bankrupt person? Maybe sure, but yo'll throw a lot of time and money in the bin to harm a person to a potential disproportionate degree.
But maybe she deserves it, I don't think that's out of the question.
What if it was a israeli doctor?
I gain money and she will never do this to anyone again. The attorney charges nothing unless we win and is proportional to the amount I'm awarded. She's covered under insurance as well as the office she works in.
Sue
You are at fault and deserve the suffering of a ruined marriage, but she is a medical practitioner and violated all tenets of her fields conduct.
She committed a massive violation of her license and does not have the judgement to be practicing. She at the least evil needed to fire you as a patient before having an affair and even that is unethical
> If I can't talk to her
this is your actual complaint
you miss the whore and you want to keep fucking her
I have no intention of carrying on a relationship. I want to know what he did to force her to confess and want her to apologize to my wife. If she had done that I wouldn't even think of doing this.
sounds like retarded cope
what business of yours is it what he did with his own wife? see, you're still attached, you're still trying to make a claim on her
all this lame muh must apologize shit is just sour grapes
even if it's true, it's for a reason. men have authority over women. you let this woman do this to you? Please yourself, you did it because you wanted to
sue? apologize? you're lucky if your wife stays with you, just leave it at that. show remorse and let her go, she was never yours in the first place
you're lucky you're not in Pakistan, you would be dead
Also if this was a man therapist to a female I would be in handcuffs and viral already
Kek than it would be made into a movie about how the doc brought about a sexual awakening
Wtf is a therapist? Like a psychologist?
It's a licensed counselor that uses psychology to listen to the issues you have and offer therapeutic ways to help you. They aren't supposed to fuck you though.
This is a very weird situation, OP should probably talk to a lawyer. Is his life fucked? Undoubtedly. Can anyone here help him? I doubt it.
>Party and fuck chads in highschool
>Make the sub 5 guys lives miserable
>Suck professors dick to finish college
>Get a good job through connections with other whores and get a husband
>Hundreds of vulnerable people opening up to you in private sessions
>Milk the money out of them and pretend to care about their problems
>Sex the few easy and good looking ones
>Confess you are having an an affair because you want to leave with another man
Your future therapist everybody
Some of this is true but in this current context she is trying to stay with her husband
What happened with your wife?
We're trying to work things out. She became friends with her and is devastated and doesn't trust me right now. She never left the house and says she wants to stay together no matter what. She has been wanting to have sex constantly and communicate more than ever though.
Well that's good. In my opinion, suing the therapist would be a lame thing to do.
That's what in inclined to do but I feel like I'm going soft on her because she's a woman. The only reason I haven't done it yet is because I loved her. Although when I came in to pay my bill and get my patient notes she refused to speak with me I felt destroyed.
When the therapist came over to our house she would sleep on the sofa. When my wife fell asleep we would fuck. My wife said she wants to burn the sofa.
Sounds like a creative writing prompt LARP but on the off chance this is real ( it isn’t ) you should move on .
>tfw no sexy therapist
You should probably consult a lawyer if you're thinking about suing, I can't off the top of my head think about what the damages would be. Like if she's part of some sort of Professional Organization you could complain to that about her ethics, but therapist isn't usually a protected title. If she was a registered psychologist you could probably complain to some governing body. But they wouldn't issue a monetary judgment, they would simply restrict her practice or force her to take instruction about proper boundaries with patients. I don't know offhand what sort of tort she might have committed especially if the sexual intercourse was voluntary on your part and you booking a hotel sounds voluntary. Like if she had just started groping you in her office that's one thing but if she suggested you meet up outside of the office and you booked the hotel room it's pretty difficult for you to argue that she exercised her Voodoo Powers over you or something
Be honest with yourself and clarify what *you* want.
Do you actually want to get a divorce? There's no shame in getting one if that's what you want but if you are going to leave your marriage: do it for yourself and nobody else.
If you really want to stay married then your own wife deserves love and happiness as much as anybody else so you both need to be firmly committed to providing that for each other and, if you doubt that you can, trust that doubt.
If you have cheated on your wife before and you cheated on her with your therapist then you should seriously consider if marriage is right for you.
I don't think it is. The fact that you've said that you love your therapist in spite of wanting to be married (for what reason?) indicates that you may be polyamorous
you weren't wronged here. You need to take responsibility for your part in the adultery and ask for forgiveness
Why ask for forgiveness? When my wife blindsided me with divorce papers after she found out that I was cheating: I told her that she never had to forgive me. I didn't feel remorse for cheating so saying that felt more respectful to her.
I don't know if getting served divorce papers after CHEATING is being "blind sided". I sympathize that your dick blew up your life (again) but please take some responsibility.
What do you mean "take responsibility"? I thought I was covering my tracks well but she found out about it somehow. Oh well, I moved on to a new set of girlfriends and I'm more careful when I'm roaching.
what the fuck is an AMP, he went to an amplifier???? why????
Thank you all for the advice. I believe that I was led to a relationship when I came to get help and as a result not only am I more fucked up then when this began but also I am heartbroken. I will be pursuing legal action perhaps only to get her license revoked. My life may be ruined but I won't allow her to do this to anyone else. For all the people saying I fucked up take responsibility, I have. My friends and family know and I am trying to be the best husband I can be and am seeking therapy at a new office. I have taken steps to establish the trust I broke with my wife and may never get it back but she's worth fighting for.
Anon, sounds like you are being a bit ungrateful.
You got to fulfill a wild sexual journey. You made mistakes. She made mistakes. Everyone made mistakes. Stop trying to look for blood when frankly it seems like things are working in your favor.
Like I honestly have no idea what the big deal is. Sure, you may have emotional issues, but that's the trade-off of having illicit sex. At this point in your life, you should have known very well what you were getting into. But now you're only upset AFTER you fuck her? Your time to be upset and sue her was before. You're like the guy wanting his money back because his steak was undercooked AFTER eating it all.
Start meditating and letting go of your emotional problems, and you may see that you were gifted something very, very nice that most people could only dream of having.