Should I stop being me since a lot of women who pretend to be someone else and copying famous female influences have a higher chance to get a boyfriend
Should i stop being a femcel and become more feminine to find a boyfriend
Should I stop being me since a lot of women who pretend to be someone else and copying famous female influences have a higher chance to get a boyfriend
Do whatever you want
This is a classic homosexual falacy
>I'm shit, therefore myself
No, you can be yourself with shaved legs.
You can be yourself without being fat, and dirty, and dressed like a gypsy.
Rather than pretend to be defeated into copying someone else, start taking care of yourself and see how much better you'll feel every day.
Then a guy will meet you and think "she's a cute girl with her shit kinda together and she's pretty and I like talking to her" rather than "she's a fucking mess and disgusting" and you'll have a boyfriend
Basically this.
Yourself is also a creature that is adaptable and capable of growth. Grow in wise you find appealing.
Also true.
Honestly make sure to shower, brush teeth, shave, get healthy and maybe get a job or go to school.
You need to leave the house. That way you'll get a boyfriend without having to change your personality.
for real, i think being the one who approaches could work miracles for women
not just femcels but also stacys who filter for fake con artists by not approaching and end up with a warped view on men in general
Nope, still not getting a woman to fall in your autismo lap, incel. But keep trying.
are you retarded
you can get a boyfriend from breathing.
You shouldn't change your personality. You should always be authentic, thats really attractive.
However if you dress like a 16 year old boy then change that. Your personality won't take a hit if you start taking care of yourself.
You also don't need to wear dresses. Just wear moderately tight shirts and nice looking pants. Get a skincare routine (way more important for women than for men). Makeup isnt important.
The ugly boyish girls i've seen have a boyish haircut, wear oversized shirts and pants which cover all signs of breasts and the butt.
>Become more feminine
Literally just breathe dumbass, go up to a man, and ask him out.
What parts that are intrinsic to yourself do you think you'd have to change to find a boyfriend?
1) Post tits.
2) Men are far more desperate than women to be in a relationship assuming you're under 25. You literally just have to be present in more social situations. Unless you don't shower more than 3 times a week or are hideous you will find a boyfriend.
Become Eye candy
What ever your hobby or interest is keep it
Outwardly appearance is what get the boys hooked make sure you got ass they compliment yoga pants if I was a girl I’d be wearing yoga pants all day
It is not a matter of pretending to be someone else.
Package yourself to be the best possible version of yourself.
leave your home and men will start approaching you. the general female dating strategy is existing.
No, you should just workout and get to a healthy BMI.
Don't pretend to be someone you aren't, you will never find a lasting relationship that way. Just be yourself Femanon, I'm certain that someone will love you for you 🙂
Take care of yourself and be emotionally available, that's it.
I've been in several long-term relationships, but I'd still kill for a girl who—even if I had to encourage her every step of the way—would try to grow as a person, and who I could silently sit close to once in a while.
No, pretending to be someone you're not is a recipe for disaster. You can't keep up an act indefinitely.
Skill issue
>Should I stop being me
It’s a terrible idea to be inauthentic to get a boyfriend. You clearly are not ready for a relationship given how immature your thought process is. Give it another five years, bud. In the meantime, try to lose weight if you’re fat.
the real reason you can't find a boyfriend is because social media and dating apps destroyed the dating market balance and now even if you're not even on social media/dating apps you and women like you have a sense of inflated value that cannot be supplied because most men, in your eyes, are not good enough.
Good luck in your future though
Unless you are really unattractive or suffer from mental illness, you should just be unapolegetically you until you find someone who digs it. I don't know why "incels" claim to hate "normies" and "NPCs" while fixating on not being able to obtain or impress them..
Anon, there are thousands of anons on this very board who would love nothing more than to be your boyfriend.
Post your discord or what have you and you'll have several friend requests within the hour.
And as long as you regularly work out, brush your teeth every night and comb your hair every morning, you should have nothing to worry about in regards to how attractive you are.
Bee urself
Why are you a femcel? What are you looking for in a guy. Serious questions no judgement.
If you are a female, make a dating app profile, wait a day, then pick from the 99+ likes you received. Femcel is pure fantasy, you are just unintentionally shoving yourself into the role because you crave despair.