She's playing hard to get. She wants you to chase her. Does she ever fall for a guy that chased het though? Has anyone had any success following that advice?
She wants you to chase her, but does it ever work?
She's playing hard to get. She wants you to chase her. Does she ever fall for a guy that chased het though? Has anyone had any success following that advice?
Chase to a POINT. Not chase if she starts dodging your texts/calls/asks out.
And how long does that usually take?
Chat her up, flirt, ask her out. Says no? No hard feelings, vamoose. Simple as.
The problem is that they usually totally dis me like they dont want to have anything to do with me and that I would get meetooed If I ever got close to them, then when I ignore them they often start to turn up again.
What? Where are you asking these girls out?
This is the kind of shitty women who have been around wherever Ive been
These aren't girls you have any actual kind of rapport with then, obviously.
When you chase a girl, the unspoken assumption is it's also a girl you at least have a chance with. If they want nothing to do with you and want to metoo you, then these are not girls who are playing hard to get. They legitimately don't like you.
Yes, but there narsicisst egos still make them come back time and time again without me having invited them.
"Come back time and time again" to what though? There's nothing there, there's nothing going on.
If a girl acknowledges you as an acquaintance or even just a guy who happens to be in the room, that doesn't mean she either is into you or pretending to be.
what do you mean with "they often start to turn up again"? what kind of interest are they showing?
the way you describe it is you're just coming up too hard on them being obnoxious and pushy, and when you pull back they feel more at ease.
you could just outright tell them you like them and want to know them better, if they say no then ignore them.
there's no way for you to know if they are just not interested or playing games, so there's no point in wasting time over it.
I dont know if you read a single word that I wrote in post 30141563? If you didnt then read and youre welcome back with more questions. If you did read it however I have no choice but to consider you just another gaslighting narcissist and I will not care of whatever your opinion is whatsoever.
lmao this fucking guy giving me an attitude
i did read but it sounds so ridiculous that i thought you had something more substantial for "turn up again" like them actually engaging with you in meaningful conversations or sending you messages and wanting to talk after rejecting you.
>Bitch turns up at gym start wirk out close to me, I just walk out and leave. At the night club, the bitch sees me dancing with some other women, she start dancing close to me with some other guy trying to make me jelous etc.
>girl comes to the gym and starts working out next to me
>IT MEANS SHE WANTS ME
>girl starts dancing next to me with her male friend
>IT MUST BE BECAUSE SHE'S TRYING TO MAKE ME JEALOUS
you're trying to convince yourself that they're doing all this for you, when they're just going about living their lives.
she already had a chance to go out with you and she rejected you, move on.
I'm sorry but I cant help your retardedness, and you wont prevent other people from discover it by gaslighting.
the only proof you have that this girl is into you is this
>Bitch turns up at gym start wirk out close to me, I just walk out and leave. At the night club, the bitch sees me dancing with some other women, she start dancing close to me with some other guy trying to make me jelous etc.
basically coming around you doing normal things over which sane people wouldn't give a second thought
you sound desperate
She was clearly flirting with me at the night club you retard moving across the dance floor just to stand one meter in front of me looking me in to the eyes smiling while dancing with another guy. But its not any point explaining it to a gas lighting narcissist who felt so threatened by me starting this thread because it reminds them that they have a walnut sized brain.
I'm kinda confused, when is a girl ever into you and having you chase her at the same time? I'm not sure I've ever seen this except in movies.
Like this: Girls starts to flirt with me, eyecontact, brushing het hair, toeflirting with me(her initiative not mine), pressing leg against mine etc. Then when I see her next day she doesnt look at me doesnt say hi Nothing. I send her a message, some time later: -Want to for a walk, this time this date? Her reply -No you can probably find someone else to have a walk with. Ok fick this bitch she is on my ignore list now and forever. Bitch turns up at gym start wirk out close to me, I just walk out and leave. At the night club, the bitch sees me dancing with some other women, she start dancing close to me with some other guy trying to make me jelous etc.
Idk man I would just start assuming they're not into me at that point. I've been led on before and thought I was getting signals but then would get turned down when I tried to take it further. So I just assume chicks like these are looking for attention or at the very least are ambivalent about their feelings, not worth the energy.
I'm so pissed off that it happens almost every time, except with fattest and ugliesy o es.
Anyone tried to just fuck her anyways? No matter what she says?
Yes. They like it. Shows manness
I don't go after girls who play games like that. It's treated me really well.
No, simps chase them while they chase chads