Settle for ugly woman with nice personality and lie to her about how pretty she is to keep her or die alone?
Settle for ugly woman with nice personality and lie to her about how pretty she is to keep her or die alone?
Settle for ugly woman with nice personality and lie to her about how pretty she is to keep her or die alone?
Settle for hot woman with rabid lunacy and lie to her about how sane she is to keep her or don't and get stabbed by her?
even the ugly ones get attention dude, just keeping it real. don't just assume they are nice
There are really nice ones but they are extremely rare and always ugly in my experience. Real talk here, I know it's a mean thing to say but for once let's be honest. The hot ones see you as an option, the ugly ones see you as a price.
tch. females are only nice when they get older and start to get treated like !young woman. even then its not guaranteed
this. ugly women are like ads for entry level jobs.
I'd rather die alone with nobody to take cae of me when I'm old and probably in an urn on my brother's mantle like some kind of trophy after my organs have been donated because the lady at the bmv signed me up as a donor without my permission when I'd really rather not have any part of me live on after death.
hey anon what the fuck that's awfully specific
The urn thing is a fear of mine. My older brother has his last husband in an urn. I also have strained relationships and don't trust anyone in my family to make end of life decisions for me that will live to see me old. I have no kids. I fucked an ugly fat chick once and it was horrible. Otherwise I'm a virgin. OP struck an oddly specific nerve.
>My older brother has his last husband in an urn
My older brother is the only family member of my generation that has been in charge of a funeral so far and they rick rolled everyone at the funeral service. I don't have much of a family and he's the only one that seems like he'll be around when I die if I don't find a wife. He's remarried so maybe my step neice and step nephews who are my brother in laws kids (my brother's second husband) will mature into being in charge of funerals.
Hey, that's my dream girlfriend. My dream girlfriend deserves a short and specific paragraph (minimum 5 sentences) to describe her.
Ideally, my girlfriend would have a homely face with anemic coloring, be skinnyfat, and have a slightly sour personality. I don't really want her to be particularly charming or lucky. She showers and goes to the dentist every six months but doesn't really take care of herself beyond that -- no daily makeup, limp hair, and regularly wears clothes that she's had for almost a decade (and when she does go shopping, she primarily shops at Old Navy and H&M). I don't care about her past relationships or how much sexual experience she's had, but I want her to be acutely aware of her attractiveness, or lack thereof. She doesn't need to work if she doesn't want to. I make enough money for the both of us. She does think that I find her beautiful though.
this is literally me i have never related to a post more i feel like im being stalked and this must be a targeted message
hiii anon >_< <3
we will all die anyways so whatever
fucking waste of time
just waitting for my death
you think im the loser? enjoy getting the perfect gf only to see her beauty fade away and lose her slowly like a decaying flower then die and never ever see her again, who's the loser now?
fuck off doomer ill enjoy life as much as i can
you can do that but your marriage will be miserable because you arent attracted to your wife and just see her as a vagina hole
I'm going to tell you right now, when you actually meet an "ugly" woman with a personality you really mesh well with, youre going to start noticing how pretty she actually is to you
its really the main thing undermining the blackpill but only once you experience it yourself you know what I'm talking about, a photograph doesnt even come close to capturing a womans charms, it could be as simple as they way her eyes crease when she laughs really hard, you just plain think about these things differently
and that said, finding some kind of meaning in a life you live intentionally alone is only as bad as you yourself make it, with 100% agency in every decision that affects you is not a bad way to live
I think youre undervaluing the position youre in with this question, if these are the only options available to you I would maybe try to be less serious about it, life is fun when its like exploring a cave, choosing which way to go based on whatever whim strikes you in the moment, maybe making a mental note to return and go the other way when youre not sure
>when you said cave explorer I thought of this
I'm sorry I cant help you with your homosexuality
maybe a therapist can dig up whatever memory of childhood abuse you buried and turned into gayness
if shes cute shes not a butterface, I'm serious, so much more is expressed from a woman as a person rather than a cold analytical analysis of her measurements
I've found an appreciation for bodytypes I never would have found attractive if they werent connected to a girl I went out with who was really fun to talk to
I mean suit yourself bpd whore, but people who want stable relationships have no problem with physical attraction being linked to emotional attraction
you wish. I just have standards.
>billie eyelash will prove I'm not a psychotic whore
lol
Why can't you have both physical and emotional attraction? It's rather demoralizing if my boyfriend initially thought I wasn't very attractive and only came to find me attractive after he grew to appreciate my personality. Sure, looks may fade with time and age, but I think most people would be sad to learn that their partner didn't find them physically attractive from the onset.
>I think most people would be sad to learn that their partner didn't find them physically attractive from the onset.
My dudette, that is literally what all men know we have in store for us. We know women won't find us physically attractive and we instead have to appeal to them by personality and by what kind of life we can offer them.
>Why can't you have both physical and emotional attraction?
you do, not finding someone initially attractive isnt the same as being physically repulsed by them
the way dudes brains work, if theyre not physically repulsive they are considered potentially attractive
maybe I'm just a particularly sentimental sob but I really base what I'm looking for on the physical traits of women who had personalities I have really enjoyed in the past, meaning any woman who shows interest in me could potentially sway my taste in physical traits
I mean it could be I'm autistic and this isnt as common as i think but I feel like from what I hear this is more or less how most attraction works, you see someone who doesnt offend you, and grow to love each other and youre kind of latched to that sort of phenotype because of the feelings you had then
>the way dudes brains work, if theyre not physically repulsive they are considered potentially attractive
Also this. Unless a woman's appearance actually makes me go "gross!" which is pretty rare and usually only happens when they're really, really fat, I'm pretty much always going to find her at least somewhat attractive. The vast, overwhelming majority of women I see in public, I would be happy to date if they had a personality compatible with mine.
You met a cute butterface, that's different. Ugly is ugly.
I would rather die alone than have my hypothetical boyfriend only find me attractive, because he's grown fond of my personality.
No you will settle for that exact guy and cheat on him and hate yourself for it. In the end you will forgive yourself.
You can't convince me that it's not more likely that he'd cheat on me.
I don't need to. You will see for yourself.
I was fixated on my boyfriend for many years before we got together, partly because I appreciated his moral integrity and humility, but also because I'm kind of autistic (well, not actually). Maybe you'd be right if it was anyone else, but not him. To be honest, it's a little difficult for me to accurately assess the virtue of my own character.
You have BPD and will likely die alone, as is the fate of every dumb whore with BPD. You will never know the love everyone else around you feels in their life. You will never feel fulfilled or happy. More time on this earth will only make you feel more cold and empty and lonely and worthless. Life will pass by and you will realize that you are nothing at all.
very few women are truly nice, dude. w/e, glhf
The problem is that personalities follow the same bell curve as looks. So homely women with the kind of personality men want are in high demand, just like hot women with shit personalities.
Depends. If she's east Asian, than yes.
>Settle for ugly woman with nice personality
Unless we're talking about extremely ugly, that's not settling, because personality > looks for me in a relationship.
I can't even imagine being around a woman I don't get along with, and I mean really along, for more than 5 min.